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[ - ] I have 3 gamers at home, they are 15 and 17. The 17 y.o does have sedentary part time work. I turn off the screens but they kind of hang around waiting me out. My new idea is to get them fitness trackers and set an amount to complete each day. We are in the suburbs with a pool, bikes and dogs to walk so it is not lack of opportunity. All are thin but this sitting around seems so unhealthy. What do you think? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:17 PM Flag
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My 18 yo is sitting around so much that he's been eating less because his calorie need has decreased. He's also happy and healthy, and tends to be underweight. I'm not micromanaging screen time, he's been through anxiety and significant depression so happy is equal to healthy for us right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:27 PM Flag
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^^In other words, he's a gamer, it makes him happy, I accept that. We pushed him to go outside last weekend and the sight of so many in masks triggered a panic attack, not worth it. If your kids are older teens and gamers, and they are happy, and are doing their part in walking the dog, not sure what the problem is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:28 PM Flag
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the dog was just an example of their possabilities for exercise but no they don't walk him. I am not sure that it is healthy for anyone to sit inside all day, mentally or physically. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:32 PM Flag
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Do you think that is a good long term solution. My son sufffers from anxiety and also wants to be on the game all day. I don’t think it is healthy at all and I do not think avoiding things that cause anxiety work in the long run. I do not mean this as a criticism at all. NP [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:35 PM Flag
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My dh suffers from depression and anxiety and his parents allowed their kids to not do anything and watch tv and play games. His sister still has issues and his parents support her and her family. My dh has learned to cope through diet, exercise but I am not sure avoiding stressors really works. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:40 PM Flag
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When you have had a kid be suicidal, your priorities shift. What is healthy for my kid might not work for you, but yes, for my DC we need to be more protective and limit the stressors. For example, he's going to a very nurturing college next year as we all knew that a pressure-cooker school could literally be dangerous. He can deal with most things given time and support, but he's been inside for over a month, a sudden exposure to a very different and frankly scary context wasn't our best move so we're not pushing for more right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:45 PM Flag
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wow that sounds so tough, but my kids are not having any big issues and I feel that too much screen time could lead to problems [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:51 PM Flag
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My son is younger and I did not mean to insult you at all. My dh feels that avoiding stressors made his depression worse and he was suicidal as well. I am concerned for my kids. I just was curious if you worry about his coping in the future. I am sorry if my post upset you. It was not intended. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:03 PM Flag
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I would do that. Kids need to exercise. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:11 PM Flag
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How did you get through the depression? I have a very unhappy 13 yr. old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Who would you recommend as one of the best kindergarten admissions consultants in NYC? Thank you! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:56 PM Flag
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You don't really need one. The application process is pretty straightforward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:49 PM Flag
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Agreed. Join Parents League and save your money - you pay under $300 and can have as many advising appointments as your heart desires. Have your HOS read your essays for you, if you are really worried about that aspect. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:15 PM Flag
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Thank you so much! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Is there a way to get a coupon code for Crate and Barrel to order a sectional or is my only option for discount to wait until the upholstery sale in August? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:52 PM Flag
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Google "Crate and Barrel coupon code" and look on coupon sites like RetailMeNot - involves a little trial and error. Even easier, add the Honey app as a browser extension to Chrome (on your laptop or desktop - don't think it's available for mobile) and it automatically scans every available coupon code at checkout. Of course, there are often caveats at furniture stores that coupons don't apply to upholstery, but worth a try. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:56 PM Flag
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Interior designer friends will have a designer code [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:00 PM Flag
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I think 15% off unless they buy lots. Can be larger percentage [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:01 PM Flag
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If you’re buying a lot, talking to a salesperson will help you. They offered the discount even though our designer wasn’t on their list. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:29 PM Flag
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Check their credit card offer. Last February we got 15% off for signing up for their credit card. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Any OB/GYN moms on? For the first 3 years I had my IUD (Mirena) in, I had pretty much no periods and no PMS symptoms at all. The past few months I've had a light flow and mild PMS symptoms (acne, mood changes, etc). Does this indicate that my IUD is becoming less effective, or is it normal for this to fluctuate over time? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:44 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:52 PM Flag
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Women's health NP - normal to fluctuate. Mirena is currently FDA approved for 5 years but all the research says effective for 7 (and has been used in Europe for that duration for awhile) so definitely no need to replace after 3 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:59 PM Flag
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Women's health NP - normal to fluctuate. Mirena is currently FDA approved for 5 years but all the research says effective for 7 (and has been used in Europe for that duration for awhile) so definitely no need to replace after 3 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Debating if I should renew my NY Times home delivery. I used to get daily, then changed to weekends, which I loved since I normally read online during the commute during the week so didn't need a hard copy. Loved the weekend delivery to peruse at my leisure. With address change during temporary COVID relocation my delivery got screwed up so now debating if I need home delivery or just do online access. Does anyone still get a paper delivered? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:41 PM Flag
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I took the $1/week online option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:46 PM Flag
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op: I see that. Hard to pass on that bargain, Ill do it! THanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:16 PM Flag
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doesn't it go up after a certain time though? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:40 PM Flag
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we do but my husband really likes having the actual paper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:08 PM Flag
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Honestly, it just creates more trash/recylclables that build up in our home.... go with online edition. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:23 PM Flag
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Ugh. I bought their online offer and it never worked on my iPhone. I think it’s the fault of google pay. Hope you don’t have the same issue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:30 PM Flag
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We get two papers and have online subscriptions to others. I need a paper in the morning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:17 PM Flag
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I get NYT Sunday only. I read the news on Sunday and the rest throughout the week, and look at daily news online. Will get a physical paper as long as they keep making them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:00 PM Flag
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I switched to online. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:29 AM Flag
[ - ] How did the boys' K-8th schools fare this year with exmissions? Was it easier with all that's going on? Lots of wl movement? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:33 PM Flag
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Didn't you post this yesterday? They said boarding school admissions went well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:43 PM Flag
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OP: It's my first post. Didn't see yesterday's post. I really, really would want my dc to stay in the City so curious to get more color on exmissions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:50 PM Flag
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If you really want your DC to stay in the city, take the option to go to a K-12 if you have one. I think this advice is pretty universal. Lots of competition for 9th grade slots at city schools and I only see this getting worse in the future with budget cuts and impact of DeBlasio administration on public schools. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Can I use dandelion greens in place of spinach/kale in a Tuscan bean soup or are they too bitter? Have never tasted them. Thx 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:31 PM Flag
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Yes! Theyre more bitter but will still be delicious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:58 PM Flag
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i would do chard before dandelion greens. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:08 PM Flag
[ - ] I feel like 'school is not childcare' is the ultimate uber privileged urbanbaby gaslighting. Like - yes it is. It is school, but it is also childcare. 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:28 PM Flag
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ITA! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:33 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:53 PM Flag
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Exactly. The guarantee of public education is a universal truth for us as Americans, and for our generation and our parents' generation (and even our grandparents' generation in most cases), we have never known a time when kids age 5-18 didn't have a place to go for 6-ish hours a day. Many of us planned our families and budgets around this universal truth. Sure, we have both paid and subsidized aftercare (and sometimes before-care) to fill in the gaps for working parents, but even those programs are structured around the universal truth that kids are cared for by the state for the bulk of the day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:36 PM Flag
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Very well said. Most families now require both parents to work. School and camp are essential to that balance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:42 PM Flag
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+100000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:45 PM Flag
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Of course, but I equate school to education, not a place just to house kids for the day. But there’s a public health crisis that prevents gathering - how can you ignore that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:31 PM Flag
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As someone who is privileged to be able to work from home and supervise my kids who are remote learning, who has been strictly quarantining and yes, wiping down my freaking groceries, trust me - I'm absolutely NOT ignoring that. But how can you ignore that we have a massive crisis for the majority of families who don't have the same privilege? Including your nannies' and housekeepers' families. Families of "non essential" hourly workers who are barely getting by as it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:02 PM Flag
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So they can open childcare centers with food for those kids. Other kids stay home to relieve crowding. But if you open school when the virus is still hot, you’re basically forcing everyone to be exposed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:14 PM Flag
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"Childcare centers with food" sounds well and good, and might have been a stop-gap for essential/healthcare workers in the lockdown, but as we're into phases 2, 3 and 4 you're talking literally hundreds of thousands of children (disproportionately more in poorer neighborhoods). These centers aren't necessarily equipped for all of those kids to do remote learning at their different/respective schools (especially younger kids who we all know need more hands-on help with remote learning), so they basically don't get ZERO education? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:05 PM Flag
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*basically get zero, or don't get any - ignore the double negative [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:06 PM Flag
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Everyone is doing the best they can, but I still don’t see how opening schools (aka requiring attendance from all children) is a good idea IF COVID is still a big problem. Maybe there will be a period of no school for anyone? But I don’t see how forcing everyone to go to school is going to help the situation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:35 PM Flag
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Are you in the city or the burbs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:33 PM Flag
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yes exactly! that is how society is set up. if people dont like it they should support higher taxes and social services so there could be free child care / after care like in scandenavia. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:33 PM Flag
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On the contrary, "school is childcare" is the ultimate uber privileged gaslighting. Compulsory, fully-funded public education is a recent phenomena and something only possible in a rich, privileged society. If we've turned into people incapable of taking care of our own children for a few months, then the fault is not in our stars, but in ourselves. Now, granted, the government should do more to account for the new fiscal reality. But that's it. If the money is sorted and we can't care for our own children, then what the hell are we even doing? Under that logic, we're not even mothers, the government is and we're the cool aunt who sees them when the government isn't taking care of them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:43 PM Flag
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totally disagree. the US has FAR fewer social services than most developed countries and NO developed countries do not have universal cost free school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:45 PM Flag
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Please, you KNOW this isn't the UB shamers' POV or train of thought [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:53 PM Flag
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The money is NOT sorted. This is the deal capitalism has offered - be a worker bee so you can afford to live in this country, and in order to incentivize you to create future worker bees, capitalism will pay to educate them for a significant portion of your working hours. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:56 PM Flag
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Under that logic, you should build your own road to drive your car.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:58 PM Flag
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Right. What a ridiculous argument. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:17 PM Flag
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Oh please, you are deliberately ignoring the point: and being unnecessarily nasty/jerky just to shame people for no reason. Obviously the issue is that it is very hard to take care of young children AND work full time at the same exact time. That's why we need child care, not because parents are somehow incompetent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:32 PM Flag
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this is a ridiculous comment, im sorry. most families are dual income. "were not even mothers"? what does this even mean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:35 PM Flag
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Trolls be trolling [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:41 PM Flag
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Actually, every single employer in US centers worker expectations around the assumption that there will be childcare provided by the state. So, if we cannot count on childcare provided by the state, it is only reasonable that all employers change their expectations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:10 PM Flag
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THIS! Why is no one expecting employers to be flexible? Everyone’s just fixated on school opening. And FWIW, I was the OP of that comment, and meant no gaslighting. I see school as compulsory education for kids, not as a glorified daycare. THAT is what I meant. Of course people need childcare - I wouldn’t be surprised if they open daycare-type places for kids who need it. But opening schools it totally different. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:36 PM Flag
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It’s funny because I am on a FB page for teachers and they all get insulted when teachers are seen as babysitters or childcare. Than, they will complain when there is talk about a hybrid next year because who is going to watch their kids. Schools are childcare. It is a fact for most people. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:44 PM Flag
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Safety is safety. Whether school is childcare or not doesn't change that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:52 PM Flag
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Do you think children are safer at home? Many are not. I would think that more kids are being hurt at home than would be affected by covid. No child in my school has covid am I have dealt with several kids who wanted to kill themselves, a girl who was raped and countless starving kids that I had to bring groceries for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:05 PM Flag
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This is very sad, but opening schools and requiring the whole system to attend makes no sense. There can (and maybe should) be daycare-type places open for all school-age kids then who can’t stay home during the day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:33 PM Flag
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So by your logic, the poor kids get covid and the wealthy kids stay home? Working class kids get covid and kids with sahms stay safe. People need to realize the complexity of this. It is not just safe and unsafe in terms of the virus. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:45 PM Flag
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So you’re saying schools should open so that everyone gets COVID? The kids that CAN stay home (for whatever reason - doesn’t mean it’s because their parents are working!) do so to relieve the crowding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Looking for online ISEE or SSAT tutoring for my two DCs applying to 3rd and 6th grade privates. Also, any recommendations on which test to take (seems everybody accepts both)? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:46 PM Flag
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I think only ISEE for those levels. I don't know anyone who took the SSAT for those grades. Some take SSAT for 9th grade entry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:50 PM Flag
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ISEE is better for math-y kids. We've used Advantage Prep for HS level, but they are insanely expensive and we used them only for one area since my kid was especially weak in that area. Most tutoring places can do online even if they meet in person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:46 AM Flag
[ - ] Just got into town. Can I go for a run without a mask these days? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:29 PM Flag
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I would say about 50% of runners aren't wearing masks, especially if you are out early when there are fewer people around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:34 PM Flag
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Thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:36 PM Flag
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At least have one with you. I wear a bandana around my neck and pull it up whenever I'm near someone else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:46 PM Flag
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+1. I can't run with a mask on, but I have it around my neck and if need be I can pull it up for 30 sec. Otherwise, I avoid people as much as possible. For several weeks, I got on the streets a lot, but it's getting harder now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:32 PM Flag
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Agree with this. This is what I do. I always make sure to give a large berth of at least six feet (but even then I get yelled at occasionally for not wearing the mask properly depending on where I am running) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:05 PM Flag
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Six feet is not good enough. Runners expel air more powerfully than normal breathing. Wear your mask. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:53 PM Flag
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First, I said at least six feet. Secondly, pretty much every reputable source out there has said that you are not going to catch COVID from someone running past you for one second if you are six feet or more apart. Do your research. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:59 PM Flag
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+1000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:10 PM Flag
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Of course. People are over the top [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:46 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:41 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:25 PM Flag
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I've posted a few times how I feel about my "muzzle," but I wear it when I run: it's a courtesy thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:04 PM Flag
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I can’t run with a mask. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:04 PM Flag
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I wouldn't run with a mask. Could be dangerous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:29 PM Flag
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Getting sick, or making someone else sick, is considerably worse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:08 PM Flag
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If you live in my neighborhood, I will be very annoyed if I see you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:46 PM Flag
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+1. Either wear a mask, or don't go running. It's a terrible form of exercise anyway, bad for your joints. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:10 AM Flag
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I went for a walk yesterday without a mask. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:48 PM Flag
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I thought you were talking about the school. I was going to say, nobody gets into town!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:01 PM Flag
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Me too!! LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:37 PM Flag
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Me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:45 PM Flag
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NO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:06 PM Flag
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Nobody gets into Town ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:50 PM Flag
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If you stay in the street--don't run on the sidewalk/paths/with others without one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:24 PM Flag
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Update: I went running with a mask on but pulled down. Hardly encountered anyone. About 50% of people were wearing masks and 20% of runners. Most had them pulled down when not running right by someone. I put it up whenever I thought I might get near anyone (about 4 times). No one looked sideways at me. Not too bad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:00 PM Flag
[ - ] How is on street parking in NYC? Posted below. I know alternate side is suspended for another ten days - just trying to figure out how it is on the streets. TIA. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:29 PM Flag
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Supposedly everyone's gone but it doesn't seem like it. Rented a car yesterday, searched for a spot for an hour before throwing in the towel and parking in a lot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:13 PM Flag
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Bad- people are spacing out cars so fewer spots available. DH has had to search for two hours at a time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:36 PM Flag
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Varies so much by neighborhood ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Returning to city today for med appointments for DC and me. Will be there through weekend. What do I need to know/do? We have been sheltering in place for nearly 3 months with only me going to grocery store every 2 weeks. Masks, yes? Anything else? How is the OSP parking? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:09 PM Flag
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It's fine here. What else do you need to know? Most people are wearing masks even when outdoors and socially distanced. No idea about parking- alternate side suspended - that's all the information I can give you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:16 PM Flag
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Do people wear masks whenever they leave apartments? Do people wear gloves? What are elevator protocols in building? Have people done anything for their building staff? Questions along those parameters. Finally, I sense a certain pique in your response and wonder why bother to respond if you find these questions irritating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:27 PM Flag
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Masks are required in common areas of buildings so yes, people wear them upon leaving their apartment. Gloves really haven't proven to be effective so most people just hit the elevator buttons with their keys or elbows. Each building has their own guidelines about how many people can use the elevator at once.I personally let it pass by if it stops and the occupant is elderly. My building only allows three people in at a time; others may be different. I wasn't irritated by your question - just had no idea what else you were looking to find out. My last line was meant to be about parking - I don't have a car- so that's all the info I have about parking on the streets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:32 PM Flag
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NP: If you live in a large elevator building, I'm assuming your building management, coop or condo board has communicated what your particular building's protocol is? From what I've seen, it varies building by building. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:07 PM Flag
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We live in a rental building and left right before the lockdown. The building only communicates any issue by posting signs in and next to elevators. Yes, gathering it varies by building. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 02:18 PM Flag
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Unless you are a jerk and don't care about putting others at risk, yes, you wear a mask. Your apt. building will have a protocol, and you should have heard from them by now, if you have not then ask them, what applies in my building has nothing to do with your building. Parking varies by area, UWS has mostly been fine throughout. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:36 PM Flag
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np -- it's really nice to do something for staff - I feel so bad for them, they have had it really rough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:19 PM Flag
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So, you didn't ask the exact questions for which you you wanted answers, and then you interpereted irritation where there was none, and then you insulted the answerer. It must be exhausting to be a person who has to deal with you on a daily basis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:17 PM Flag
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perhaps i could have been more specific, but i think asking about masks and anything else is fairly comprehensive and some people answered with those parameters. guessing not so exhausting as former team mates tell me I was there best boss or ask if i will continue in a mentorship role with them. BYDY. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 02:16 PM Flag
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I thought alternate side parking was re-started--- you should double check this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:33 PM Flag
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suspended until June 21 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:35 PM Flag
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The way this was announced has become something of a joke/meme, as BdB/the city juxtaposed this little nugget alongside the conversation of police reform. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have experience moving children in MS? I have a moody 12 yr old going into 7th grade and I am totally over NYC and ready to move but I worry about impact to her 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:42 AM Flag
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hard to move in the middle of middle school but some districts go to 6th grade [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:54 AM Flag
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To Hunter, does that count? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:38 AM Flag
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My DC started 7th at hunter last year and loves it. I can not compare to privates but it is a fantastic school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:58 AM Flag
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I think op is talking about moving out of nyc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:00 PM Flag
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but when you move to hunter in 7th the vast majority of the class is also starting at the school that year (and even with that its a rocky transition for many kids). its different from moving where you will be one a few new kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:06 PM Flag
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I doubt you need to bring HCHS here as I'm sure you know what OP meant, being a parent of a Hunter student. Please. Same to the one above. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:31 PM Flag
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if you mean moving to a suburb, some have middle school that start at 7th grade. Edgemont, in Scarsdale, is one, and they stay on campus through 12th. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:01 PM Flag
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My daughter’s bf moved for middle school and she had no issues and she is a quirky kid. I think it is a it harder now without camp and socializing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:48 PM Flag
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We tend to get a few new kids each year and all have friends. People in my burb go out of their way for new kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:49 PM Flag
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what burb? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 02:15 AM Flag
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Yes I am thinking to burb, should we move next year when she is in 8th grade or wait for 9th grade to start HS in a new town etc... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:37 PM Flag
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It is fine whenever you move. There have been no issues with older kids in my town. It is harder for parents because there is more opportunity to meet people with little kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:48 PM Flag
[ - ] waiting to hear on college for my DD. Has anyone heard anything official recently? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:14 AM Flag
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on the Fall semester! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:15 AM Flag
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Are you waiting for waitlist admission? Or whether they will be in person or online? There's this list from the Chronicle: https://www.chronicle.com/article/Here-s-a-List-of-Colleges-/248626?cid=wcontentgrid_hp_1b [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:38 AM Flag
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Most schools have statements on their websites or have sent the kids e-mails, maybe start there. Other than that there is no "official" thing to hear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:39 PM Flag
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Schools all seem to be on their own timeline for when they announce and what their plan is. My dd's school has told us that the academic calendar has been officially modified but info on campus life not released until beginning of July. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:01 PM Flag
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no and we are in the same boat. The school has said they are starting on their normal time, but they haven't said what campus life will look like, and we are waiting for that to decide if DS will take a gap year. His plan has already been approved by the school, and he has until July 15th to decide, which is good, but it's still very stressful not knowing yet. He wants to go, but not if there are going to be so many restrictions that making friends is too difficult. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:30 PM Flag
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residential colleges are like cruise ships [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Have we named the hysterical parent that thinks school should be closed until there is a vaccine? Please post your suggestion. Personally she sounds like a Sherry 71 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:41 AM Flag
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Lori [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:48 AM Flag
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LILA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:53 AM Flag
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Hysterical Helen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:00 AM Flag
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Ha ha I work with a Helen and she is hysterical [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:10 AM Flag
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For that reason I vote this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:12 AM Flag
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Hysterical Helen is a winner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:13 AM Flag
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Yes, let's go with Hysterical Helen. I know a bunch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:14 AM Flag
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i like that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 10:42 AM Flag
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Yes this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:12 AM Flag
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I also worked with a Helen who was a nightmare!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:57 PM Flag
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Sally [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:11 AM Flag
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Ours is a Lina [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:47 AM Flag
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Christy on UES Mommas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:47 AM Flag
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This x1000000. She’s a psycho. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:38 PM Flag
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She’s the UES Covid Police [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:12 PM Flag
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Hahahaha I don’t know how she has the time to find every relevant post and add her missive. EVERY. SINGLE. POST. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:23 PM Flag
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My friends call her “Covid Christy” [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 09:13 PM Flag
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Troll post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 09:51 AM Flag
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OP: I love Hysterical Helen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:13 AM Flag
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I think it's about the dumbest thing I've ever heard. As is this post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:39 AM Flag
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We're still using the word Hysterical to describe women in 2020? No thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:16 AM Flag
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HM - good point. At least we've gotten away from "sinister" at weddings. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:23 AM Flag
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Excellent point. How about Crazy Helen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:28 AM Flag
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This is not better. You are seriously a troll. Who wants to label women this way? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:28 PM Flag
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NP: Can we also stop angrily calling everyone a "troll" and flagging posts, instead of educating people? I'm personally trying to be more conscious of using ableist language, and recognizing that words like "crazy" and "insane" are insulting to those with mental health issues. I'm 46, educated and JUST now learning this for myself. It's so ingrained in our popular culture and vernacular. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:01 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:14 PM Flag
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I'm not opposed to educating people - especially around thoughtful language use, although a poster determined to find a mean label for women who are concerned about COVID is not likely to be amenable to the teaching you offer. But I am opposed to not finding SOME way of flagging a post like this, which is so incredibly mean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:37 PM Flag
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agree. stop labeling women with insulting nicknames and grow up! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:48 PM Flag
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Do you mean "spinster?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:28 PM Flag
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That really does not sound like HM. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:43 PM Flag
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HM - no, sinister. The derivation is from the latin word for "left," because left-handed people were evil and right-handed people were "dextrous". Spinster is archaic even by my terms. Stay healthy, everyone! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:07 PM Flag
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I read this as "Stay wealthy, everyone!" And I thought, how UB... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:36 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:14 PM Flag
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And sinister is still used to describe heraldry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 03:08 AM Flag
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Forsooth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 03:30 AM Flag
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Seriously? You guys are letting a woman be reduced to a stereotype bc she’s more concerned than many? Grow up. Live and let live. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:35 PM Flag
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Live and let live is the advice that should be given to Hysterical Helens. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:10 PM Flag
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i totally agree. This post is disgusting. How about responding directly to the poster who offended you by saying she didnt want school to open by explaining why you felt differently.‘ NO, its easier to make up a nickname“, Trump-style“, to try ‘and humiliate them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:47 PM Flag
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Do you think men have conversations like this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:38 PM Flag
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Why is it a she? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:42 PM Flag
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Exactly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:48 PM Flag
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My DH is this person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:02 PM Flag
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Freakout Fred and Francine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:57 PM Flag
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oh, just so clever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:39 AM Flag
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This naming thing really should stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:08 PM Flag
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it's so ugly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:46 PM Flag
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Panicky Peter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:13 PM Flag
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Come on, cut it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:45 PM Flag
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Have we named the nasty woman who creates posts like this one? Suggestions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:46 PM Flag
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Zip it, Christy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:07 PM Flag
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Bitchy Betty? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:39 AM Flag
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This is like current version Cabbage Patch Doll name 3.0 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:51 PM Flag
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How about PP Paranoid parent, gender neutral [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:18 PM Flag
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I dont know what poster you are referring to, but you mustr have been "mean girl" in school. You are WAY too invested in shaming some anonymous mother who has a lot of anxiety about her kid/s getting sick. Take a look in the mirror at why you are so hateful towards other women. Consider that you would NEVER make this post if you yourself werent anonymous because you would be exposed as hateful, petty and cruel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:45 PM Flag
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FYI, there is a parent who thinks we should alll stay home until there is a vaccine. Some of us have to go back to work. I don't have the luxury to wait for a vaccine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:04 PM Flag
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I can see that, but unless that random poster is the head of the DOE, why are you debating them as if their needs and wants will affect you in any way? Instead of creating an insulting nickname, it would be more worthwhile to explain why you feel differently. Have an actual intelligent debate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:38 PM Flag
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well said [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:34 AM Flag
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This post is why i left this site. I just came back today since i had a lull in my day. I'm disgusted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:49 PM Flag
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A lot of us are also disgusted and are speaking up. So I'd like to welcome you to come back and help us make this place better! But if you don't have it in you, I get it, it's so draining. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:05 PM Flag
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This site will never change, so i usually go to Youbemom. You can down-vote rude posts like this, so they become hidden. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:40 PM Flag
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Interesting, I have only checked that site out once or twice and it seemed even wilder than here. Maybe I should give is another chance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:00 PM Flag
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people down-vote posts quickly and you can delete your own posts as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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NP: Events that are currently happening now are disgusting, not anonymous posts that make fun of an unreasonable and aggressive post. FYI, the mom that is being referred to I believe is the one that said we all could be the guinea pigs and she will come out when the coast is clear. This entitled parent has the luxury of staying home and does not consider that I am losing money by not hitting the road with my sales job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:10 PM Flag
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That random poster was sharing her opinion which has no bearing on any actual school policy-making. You are taking your anger about this difficult and stressful time out on an anonymous person by name-calling. You point out that you dont have the luxury of keeping your child home when you feel its unsafe, because you need to earn a living. You are not alone with that issue. But you might have another luxury: the luxury of having a healthy child, or a healthy partner who wont be at high-risk if your child returns to school. We are all parents here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 07:45 PM Flag
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There are many perspectives to consider. Thank you for pointing that out. I think a lot of people, perhaps in stress, don't stop to consider that there are so many variables to balance out. I feel like this site has taken on a more sensitive tone, and I noticed it on our school mom site recently too. Sounds like it's about time. That being said, I don't think it's mean to give nicknames here, as long as the person isn't made fun of. Some people go by their nickname, like "ER mom" or "Ob/gyn resident". Maybe she can be "cov-vax mom" instead of assigning judgement to the name. Fyi I don't know the threads you are referring to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:24 PM Flag
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You have a very easy life if you are disgusted by this silliness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:14 PM Flag
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You have a very weak brain if you find these names funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:41 AM Flag
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There are so many like this these days. It's so sad. I always assume they're political posters pretending to be moms, just like many of the "leave New York because it's a dump" or "I can't stand this another day, I just have to be out for my mental health" posters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 08:38 PM Flag
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That poster is most likely a teacher. Most teachers would want schools to remain online. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 09:36 PM Flag
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Cathy Catastrophe. or Cathy Catastrophizer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 10:02 PM Flag
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Boy, it's just so nice of you to post this and to try to come up with a nickname. And boy oh boy, are there some clever ones. Like, Sherry is just so funny. And, Lori, oh my. And I can't even imagine who came up with Hysterical Helen. Seriously, I think maybe it was a playwright or something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:37 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD: I found out through the grapevine that one of my coworkers complained to HR about her workload, how stressed she is, and how responsive our management has been to her concerns about workload, and overly aggressive timelines. A few days later, HR sets up a call with me for 30 minutes about "employee engagement" and asks about if this job is what I expected, if the workload is what I expected, if I feel supported by upper management, etc,. I didn't throw anyone under the bus but I felt like she was looking for it. I did say the workload is quite a bit. During the same period, another coworker quit and apparently gave HR an earful about what she thought about our company on her way out. Recently upper management started extending deadlines. Do you think something happened? Should I let someone know this has all been happening behind the scenes between HR and junior employees? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:13 AM Flag
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What in the world are you talking about?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:15 AM Flag
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Keep your mouth shut. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:19 AM Flag
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^with HR, your manager, and most importantly with the chatty minis in your department. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:20 AM Flag
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Explain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:21 AM Flag
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what do you think you get out of talking about any of it to anyone? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:23 AM Flag
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So I actually let my boss know HR set up a call with me. I'm afraid if HR gives senior management an earful that they will think I did a ton of badmouthing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:26 AM Flag
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If you badmouthed sr management at a meeting HR set up or on your own, it won't make much difference to them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:28 AM Flag
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I didn't bad mouth senior management! I just said work load is high. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:29 AM Flag
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Explain that to your boss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:12 AM Flag
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I'd mind my own business. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:21 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:22 AM Flag
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What good can come of it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:24 AM Flag
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I feel like I am missing something. It sounds to me like HR is making these calls because senior management asked them to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:54 AM Flag
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This! HR isn't randomly colluding with junior employees... that's not how it works. HR is there to protect THE COMPANY. Whatever they are doing is at the behest of management. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 05:45 AM Flag
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I'm sure they will document your responses and your boss might use it to give you feedback etc - they work for the co so think hard about the msg you're projecting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 06:25 AM Flag
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Don't gossip. Ever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:16 AM Flag
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So, your company is actively listening to employee concerns and you think there is an issue with this? I know millennials get a lot of bad-mouthing, but I personally think it's great that they collectively call out and try to change workplace cultures. This whole idea of "well this is how it was when I rose through the ranks" doesn't mean it was the correct way to do things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:26 AM Flag
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+1000 I read the OP twice trying to figure out what the "problem" was supposed to be. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:40 AM Flag
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same! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:58 PM Flag
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+1 I don't get the mindset that people shouldn't try to change things for the better. Should everyone just be miserable forever just because you were at some point? Do you want your kids to be miserable? Life, technology, etc. has changed in the past 20-30 years, workplace cultures should too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:19 PM Flag
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x 2,000. Grew up in Europe, the work culture here is mind boggling. Long days, fewer vacation days, endless meetings, coming before your boss and leaving after them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:27 PM Flag
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Don't say anything even slightly controversial. Say only what you would day directly to your boss' face. Because HR WILL tell your boss everything you say. Theyre looming for complainers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Flying within the country about 4 hours. Is the air in plane considered high risk? Do not want to give up our vacation, we need. Desperately. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:12 AM Flag
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Go but make it worthwhile, I wouldn’t fly somewhere for a week or 2. Go for the whole summer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:21 AM Flag
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I would google this. a lot of articles. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:55 AM Flag
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I have little sympathy for your concerns about flying. You don’t have to travel on a plane to vacation. Vacation is a state of mind. You can unplug and rewind anywhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:57 AM Flag
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You can to some extent. But different places and different faces makes changing your state of mind easier. Waking up to the same place with all the things you know you should be getting done is not the same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:00 AM Flag
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Thanks. I didn't ask for sympathy, especially as you have zero idea about my situation plus already have the tickets. Asked for information. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:41 PM Flag
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You’re welcome. Enjoy your vacation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:06 PM Flag
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Most planes have hospital grade HEPA filters and have never been cleaner. Most airlines require masks and some blocking middle seats. Bring lots of hand santizer and wipe everything down. It’ll be fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 03:13 AM Flag
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I’m hearing the middle seat blocking goes out the window if they get the opportunity to fill the seat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:01 AM Flag
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np: depends on the airline and the date of your flight. try to get an early flight if you can, plane would be at its cleanest of the day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:10 AM Flag
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JetBlue and Delta have guaranteed open middle seat. Unless there is a family that wants to sit together, they assign seats at the gate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Private school moms- would you or anyone you know not pay tuition if school is completely remote in the fall? Is there any way to get out of school contract for “non-performance”? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:49 AM Flag
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i mean - that's the quandary on everyone's minds. but also kind of not fair to the school - tho for younger kids hard to see an alternative [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:55 AM Flag
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I am a mom of children who go to private school and a private school teacher. Pay your tuition. I will pay ours in full even if it is remote for a few extra months in the fall. Principals everywhere are fearful of parents not paying. Believe me schools are struggling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:16 AM Flag
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We wouldn’t pay tuition for remote learning so we pulled them ahead of the contract deadline. I think it’s dangerous game to consider not paying. Also check your contract carefully if you haven’t already. One of ours actually covered a pandemic scenario. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:33 AM Flag
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most schools are working with you during this uncertainty, at least the 2 privates my kids attend are. I paid deposits and signed contracts back when they were due in Jan/Feb. Since corona the schools have sent out emails saying to contact their COO if you are having payment issues and they will work with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:57 AM Flag
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Same here- our contract has a clause protecting them if school is remote, doesn’t start on time, happens on weekends, or there is a pandemic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:33 PM Flag
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Many private school families actually prefer that school be remote in the fall. They are comfortable in their vacation homes and do not want to return to NYC in the current state, nor do they want to deal with all the limitations that are proposed for in-person school. It's not worth it to them--they would just prefer to stay where they are and pay for remote learning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 12:58 PM Flag
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That seems crazy to me, as every kid and parent I know hates remote school. But I'm not a richie rich. I guess it's different if you can pay a tutor or something to sit with your kid every day to do his remote schooling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 02:22 PM Flag
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We have a summer house on the beach and I want to get back to normal. If I wanted to be in an area like this full time, we would have purchased a primary residence elsewhere and not nyc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 04:20 PM Flag
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Sure, don't pay. They won't come after you. Whether or not that is a good moral choice is another question. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 01:05 PM Flag
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