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[ - ] Sleepaway camp pros and cons this summer? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Pro: kids can be with kids and feel free Con: camp will not look the same and may give your child anxiety / fear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:17 PM Flag
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Pro. Parents will stop posting about camp on UB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:21 PM Flag
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con: safety being a big unknown. pro: kids get to see friends, you have to weigh your own personal risk tolerance [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:27 PM Flag
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This. Our camp canceled but this was what we were thinking [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:46 AM Flag
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Pro: kids are in a controlled environment and can be free. Con: limit to on camp activities, risk of outbreak in camp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I have been listening to some Abraham Hicks podcasts recently, after a friend recommended. I find that all the advice makes a lot of sense, but it feels not so easy to practice at times. I am trying... was just wondering if anyone here is familiar with this and has any thoughts/feedback to share about your experience. Thank you. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:14 PM Flag
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What kind of person recommended the podcasts? I googled Abraham Hicks and got some loopy advice on vibrations... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:32 PM Flag
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Is this the law of attraction thing? Look up E-Squared by Pam Grout. It was a NYT bestseller a few years ago. It’s a much easier and more entertaining read. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:55 PM Flag
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op- thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:59 PM Flag
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I am a huge fan. There are a TON of videos on YouTube - if you can get over the cheesy look of them and listen to what she is saying, it is a very useful way of framing the world and how to achieve exactly what you want in life. And feel really good doing it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:39 PM Flag
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op- thanks, if you are still watching, is it working for you? Some concepts seem simple but in reality so difficult to get in the vortex... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 10:53 PM Flag
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It works when I'm focused on it! Which is hard, as you point out. It's a practice like anything else. But yes, when I'm dialed in to it, I get along great with my family, my business hums along, money comes in the door, and I feel great. Meditation in the morning is really key for me to "get out ahead of it", as AH says. Stick with it - you'll be incredibly glad you did! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.20, 06:04 PM Flag
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This whole thread reads like a PR pitch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.07.20, 06:06 PM Flag
[ - ] any gastro mom? Other MD who might know? I have often had minor stomach issues (some cramping, gas, etc) have done multiple tests (last colonoscopy was in Nov) all is good, my doc believes it is bouts of IBS, primarily because I am extremely sensitive and I realize stress could be a factor at times. I am 50, eat well, exercise, no junk and started to avoid certain healthy foods that trigger some issues (ice cream/milk/cabbage/beans etc) after doing great even during quarantine, almost 2 weeks ago I started dealing w a lot of gas. Upon waking up, and in the evening mostly. But also at other times throughout the day. I eat and then almost immediately have an urge to go to the bathroom (in the morning) have had complete bm, but sometimes twice in a few hrs and then again once after dinner... I know it is not terrible, but it does bother me and I don't understand what I need to change... Do not want to go see a doctor right now. I just hope this too will pass on its own. Yes, I have been dealing with stress lately on top of general pandemic. Maybe this is one of the causes. Thanks for any advice. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:10 PM Flag
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I'd recommend an elimintation diet (one thing at a time). It's annoying but as someone who did that and figured it out after years of sporadic gastro misery, feeling better all the time now is worth it! Hope you feel better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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op- thank you. It is really bothersome... had a very simple breakfast and then a slice of toast w some almond butter and now have mild cramps again. Will try the elimination diet - had done a similar thing a few years ago but did not help. I need to be patient... thanks again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:02 PM Flag
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also, go get every possible test if you haven't. it's fine to go to the doctor now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:50 PM Flag
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by that I mean bloodwork^ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:51 PM Flag
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Wow, this is me exactly except I am 41. I too eat very healthy and exercise, mostly follow a whole foods diet a la Nutrition Facts. But since last year I have had gastro issues including uncomfortable flatulence, frequent BM. I started to keep a food diary and have found certain things cause gastro issues for me: most dairy, beans, cauliflower, broccoli,cabbage. It is unfortunate because like you say, these things are quite healthy foods, but I don't like the discomfort they cause. My solution has been to eat these things earlier in the day as our digestive tract really slows down at the end of the day. I am also eating smaller amounts of these, and trying to get my gut bacteria used to digesting these things, and hopefully in the future I can eat more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 12:30 AM Flag
[ - ] What is an appropriate gift for a virtual bar/bat mitzvah? Check ok? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:10 PM Flag
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Check is preferred, most likely [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:16 PM Flag
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What is your relation to the bar/bat mitzvah? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:24 PM Flag
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Child's parent is a friend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:27 PM Flag
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or - check for a multiple of 18. $108 or $180, or even 360 depending on how close and how rich you are. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:29 PM Flag
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Very helpful; thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:30 PM Flag
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Check is perfect, in multiples of 18 at whatever level you'd be comfortable. People here will say it has to be hundreds of dollars, but it really doesn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know anything about Valatie, NY? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:58 PM Flag
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Never heard of it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:05 PM Flag
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Driven through. Kinderhook is gorgeous little town, Hudson also. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:12 PM Flag
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Very small, very insular. Pretty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:39 PM Flag
[ - ] Possible to get flowers delivered to Yonkers tomorrow? (Not in city so do not know how commerce is working). If so, does anyone have suggestions for a florist? TY. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:23 PM Flag
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This place has two reviews from 3 weeks ago - seems like they're delivering. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:44 PM Flag
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https://www.beautifulbloomsofyonkers.com/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:44 PM Flag
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TY! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:26 PM Flag
[ - ] My DS8 is going through an eating phase. He doesn’t eat much in terms of variety or portion size but he’s always hungry. Moms who have been there, what suggestions do you have? He would happily and easily eat a block of cheese, 3 apples, a half gallon of milk and a bag of Cheetos if I let him. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:04 PM Flag
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If he weight is fine, I would let him be. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:19 PM Flag
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Just make sure he's getting a balanced diet: boys that age can eat truly frightening amounts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:20 PM Flag
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He's getting ready to go on a growth spurt. Just cut out most of the Cheetos from your example and he'll be fine. My boys all did that--they'd kind of chunk up, then grow taller and leaner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:25 PM Flag
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I hope so. His little brother is catching up. Little brother is a great eater though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:28 PM Flag
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This is my experience too. We have certain snacks that kids can grab any time, as long as they also eat their meals, mostly fruit and nuts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:37 PM Flag
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What kind of snacks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:44 PM Flag
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I'm not sure what you are asking. Sounds like he is getting ready for a growth spurt. Other than the cheetos, I don't see the issue with those foods. When my kids were at those stages, I would make sure the fridge was full of foods they could easily eat. One of mine could eat chicken cutlets like nobody's business, so I would make a huge batch (like 4 pounds) on Sunday so he could easily grab a few out of the fridge whenever he wanted. My DD loved mac & cheese so I would make a huge tray and leave that in the fridge. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:36 PM Flag
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I always made enough of dinner for dinner and "2nd dinner" about 2 hours later. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:24 PM Flag
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Kids go through phases like that right before they grow. Let him eat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:35 PM Flag
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just make sure it's all healthy. would he eat like carrots and hummus or similar? don't let him eat tons of fattening foods or junk food. my dd ate like crazy until puberty. would out eat me at dinner starting at 3 years old and then say she was still hungry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:53 PM Flag
[ - ] WWYD? Picked out a few personal items for DH niece and nephew respective college and HS graduations and now writing the checks. Have done high school based on past amount, but how much should we do for college? TIA. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:49 PM Flag
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I would do $500-1000 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:58 PM Flag
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do you mind sharing your HHI (as this will blow DH's mind)? Also, would you still do it if you know that there is no way the SIL/BIL will be able to do same for your DCs (as in will they feel pressure to reciprocate when they can't afford if we do that)? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:15 PM Flag
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Of course you should do what you feel comfortable doing. If $100-200 makes more sense then that’s what you should do. It’s a little silly asking on UB when HHI varies so much. If you want to lessen the pressure later on for your SIL/BIL then do less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:24 PM Flag
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I know it is a little silly, but seeing the range is very helpful. DH and I grew up in very different backgrounds. I came from less and tend to be more generous. Vice versa for him. He sometimes listens to UB feedback LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:26 PM Flag
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What’s your hhi? That would help [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:31 PM Flag
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450K [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:31 PM Flag
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It’s interesting that those that came from less sometimes are more generous bc they know what it’s like to not have much so the money would go far vs the ones who came from more find it weird to be giving money. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:00 PM Flag
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If you think it will cause issues, just give $200-$500. $1000 for a college graduation is really quite high. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:28 PM Flag
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Np. I would prob do $1000. We still have 2 years till niece that age. Hhi $300. I know my niece need it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:29 PM Flag
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And I would expect $0 for my kids since their hhi is half ours [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:30 PM Flag
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Oh should clarify. - I would do this for highschool graduation to help pay college / get stuff for dorm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:33 PM Flag
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I would do $150 for HS and $500 for college. I would never give a gift trying to guess what someone is going to think about it or how they will respond to it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:33 PM Flag
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I hear ya. DK how you grew up, but I know the pressure my parents felt as they were the least well off between the two different families - well tied in one and the other sibling hated my father and the other sister for being born, so there were never any gifts from her. I normally do not consider but this is family and we hope to be entwined till our last days. The relationship has not always been a good one and the SIL made comments about generous gifts we made nearl 2 years ago. P.S. I was only asking for college as we have precedent for the HS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:30 PM Flag
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I understand, but it's a slippery slope that no one can accurately account for. I had a friend tell me to stop buying her gifts because she couldn't afford to reciprocate and she felt bad. I understood, but I felt bad not being able to celebrate her events. I couldn't even take her out for a drink because she felt bad about not reciprocating on my birthday. DH's family must write down every gift ever given to them so they can exactly match it. However, there isn't always an exact match (e.g., 10 years have passed or that person has 4 kids vs. 1, etc.) So, there are ALWAYS hurt feelings and someone being offended. You can't win, so don't play the game. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:20 PM Flag
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The numbers given thus far are insane. I would give $50 - 100. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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^^^HHI $380K in Jersey City for reference. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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haha, same. But I grew up poor, and I actually don't think I got any gifts for anything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:18 PM Flag
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In your situation, I would do $100-250. We have 1mm HHI and don't plan on giving anything (to either side), other than a card or email. I'm Chinese-American and DH is a WASP. It wasn't customary for my family to give $ for milestones, my parents would do a hefty contribution to help siblings buy a house or whatever. In DH's family (MC-UMC), they do cards/emails, no cash for any milestones. With our siblings (who have younger kids), we've contributed to downpayments (DH's sister asked and we matched that amount for all other siblings). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:30 PM Flag
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^^ our nieces and nephews are younger than ours, and our plan is to not give gifts for milestones but give $ to our siblings when their kids go off to college to help with tuition. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:30 PM Flag
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I give $100 for HS and $150 for college [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:29 PM Flag
[ - ] sorry for a dumb question but I don't know much about real estate. What does it mean if a coop building has a land lease until 2070? Bad idea to buy? I know coops are usually tricky and not sure what to look for. Also maintenance seems expensive at almost 2800. Thanks 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:40 PM Flag
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Who ever owns the land leases it to building for a fee that they can raise. Most building own the land they sit on. I have seen several land lease buildings near churches that prob once had a school and now get income from the apartment building on their land [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:45 PM Flag
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Higher mortgage interest,, because it's riskier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:46 PM Flag
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Broker mom: A land-lease building means that the co-op doesn't own the land under its building. Instead, there is a rental agreement with the owner of the land. The devil is in the details of that rental agreement; what are the built-in resets? What happens when that agreement expires in 2070? Land leases sometimes make sense (a lot of Battery Park City I think is okay) but they're generally situations to avoid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:46 PM Flag
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op- thank you for this explanation. I saw a one bedroom in Beekman, in a nice building and very good price (under 400K) but again, very high maintenance and the land lease deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:05 PM Flag
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it's priced well because of the land lease. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:33 PM Flag
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agree, OP, think of Hong Kong - 1999 seemed so far away. 2070 might be in your family's life time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:17 PM Flag
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It's bad for resale, so you are probably looking at a discounted price taking the land lease into account. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:47 PM Flag
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This! There are a few buildings in midtown east where the prices dropped big time to reflect the higher rent on the land lease. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:01 PM Flag
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op- thank you everyone. We were thinking of buying for dd, who has been renting for 3 years. The price is good, but I guess we really need to look at details. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:06 PM Flag
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Google the Excelsior, just one of the buildings where things got bad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:12 PM Flag
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Maintenance on any land lease building is going to be astronomical compared to similar buildings because the co-op has to pay rent on the land. But if $2800 sounds expensive to you, I'm guessing you are looking into studios or 1-brs? Both are so, so hard to resell (studios especially). I would continue to have her rent until she is ready for a 2 br. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:53 PM Flag
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op- thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Finance Moms - is the market ever going to crash? I have been saving some cash hoping to invest in the market. Missed the crash in March, and its been going up nonstop ever since. Is it time to invest now, before the market goes to the moon? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:55 PM Flag
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No one can time the market. No one. Put your money in in tranches and invest LT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:56 PM Flag
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I don’t know but one thing i do know is that you‘ll never catch the high and never the low. So just invest when it’s right for you and with a long term horizon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:57 PM Flag
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This. [ Reply | More
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If it was possible to predict market crashes, wouldn't the crash already be priced into the current market prices? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:59 PM Flag
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You could average in over the next few months. Remember with stocks, you are investing for a long period of time. Pretend you are investing and then forgetting about it for a while... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:03 PM Flag
[ - ] We bought a used RV years ago and had a great trip this past week. It was a stretch to get this thing. I was just remembering when my then 13yo ds, said we bought an RV even though we drive this old car? Clearly questioning our judgement. I responded that over the next few years he will be working on creating the kind of life he wants, I would rather have an RV then a newer car if that is my choice. Do you think that is reasonable or selfish? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Are you seriously asking if it was selfish not to buy a new car? You bought a vehicle either way, what is the real difference here? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:15 PM Flag
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No, its not serious, just conversational. Both vehicles serve very different functions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:17 PM Flag
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How is that selfish? I don't have a lot of money and choose to take one vacation (not lavish) with dcs each year and pay for a club sport for them rather than buy a new car (for example). These are normal life choices - how you choose to budget/spend is your choice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:35 PM Flag
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At 13 kids place value on different things. To him, owning a nicer car has higher value/importance right now. It's not that complicated, and people grow and evolve. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:48 PM Flag
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This! I also would have wanted a new cat age 13. At 40, I'm fine with the 13yo one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:15 PM Flag
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^^car, even though we got a cat exactly at 13 too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:23 PM Flag
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Hell, some 40 year old women are the same with handbags lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:31 PM Flag
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You’re the parent and you make the decisions. Of course it’s not selfish. Plus you can sell the rv once you’re done using it and probably get what you paid for it. Win win. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:27 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone taken spironolactone and had constipation as a side effect? My doctor said that isn't a side effect and i haven't seen anything about it online either, but I've noticed a pretty direct correlation. Feeling hopeless about finding a solution for my acne - spiro doesn't even work so well for me, antibiotics haven't worked, and I use a topical but I don't see a big difference from it and get dryness/flakiness. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:52 PM Flag
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Have you tried accutane? It was like a miracle for my DD's acne, and she'd tried everything else [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:40 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:46 PM Flag
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OP: I came close a couple times, but don't think my acne is bad enough. It's persistent, but it's not big, cystic pimples. Not sure if the potential side effects are worth it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:51 PM Flag
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Daughter is on spiro two years post accutane (it worked, but acne returned). It took several months before she had success on spiro, but it is now working well. No constipation. None of the monthly hassle (blood draws, etc.) of accutane. Much less expensive, as well. [ Reply | More
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No, it did give me stomach troubles at first and than was fine. I would give it some time. I take it for PCOS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:36 PM Flag
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Spiro has been great for my adult acne - but I had to up the dosage to 75 mg to really see consistent results. I wasn't aware of constipation - it is supposed to be a diuretic. I can't live without it - and very cheap prescription! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Isn't it odd that the george floyd and the police officer worked together for years? Does anyone know more about that? 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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agree, I can't help but wonder if there is a larger back story. Obviously he didn't deserve to die and the officer was totally unjustified in his actions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:45 PM Flag
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Yes still murder, but wth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:47 PM Flag
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Also, I have been wondering why four patrol officers showed up for a $20 counterfeit complaint... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:01 PM Flag
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I think he was intoxicated and acting strangely according to the store clerk, maybe they thought it would be difficult to arrest him? Plus he was known to these police officers. who knows. [ Reply | More
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Exactly- there is more to the story; granted, the officer is in the wrong- no denying that but I can't help wonder what else are we are not being told. The media's narrative is singular... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:33 PM Flag
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he could have said he screwed my mom last night as well as allegedly passed a $20 counterfeit bill AND HE STILL DOES NOT DESERVE TO DIE. One can only wonder if Chauvin radioed, "Oh, I've got this call." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:52 PM Flag
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THIS! I don't care if he allegedly murdered 50 people - absolutely no cop has the right to KILL a man upon arrest. [ Reply | More
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Interestingly, the store owner is now paying for a memorial service for George Floyd [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:37 PM Flag
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how must he feel? his call, then the customer is dead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:52 PM Flag
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He didn't call his employee did and then saw what they were doing and called the police ON the police as she was hysterical crying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:44 PM Flag
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I have been drunk plenty in public as are 100K plus college students. Never excuse for an execution. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:56 PM Flag
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This! Imagine 4 patrol cars for a white drunk student who maybe passed a counterfeit bill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:02 PM Flag
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According to the coroner's report, he was intoxicated with fentanyl at the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:48 PM Flag
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So are half the people in middle America. Why are white men in Ohio who are high on fentanyl not murdered by cops? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:56 PM Flag
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THIS! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 12:37 AM Flag
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I read they worked security at the same club, but not at the same times. Minneapolis is a small city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:45 PM Flag
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Chauvin was security, Floyd was a bouncer. They wouldn't have worked next to each other. Their boss said they may or may not have known each other in passing, but they didn't work together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:25 PM Flag
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No it isn't odd. Co workers kill co-workers all the time. Friends kill friends all the time. Husband kill wives all the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:56 PM Flag
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but they usually if not always have motive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:02 PM Flag
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This, which could turn a Murder 3 into Murder 1. Unfortunately, I think they weren't "coworkers" - just employed at different times by the same employer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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have also been wondering about this, makes it even weirder he used so much force when he knew the guy. wonder if there is some sketchy backstory. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:27 PM Flag
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doubtful. chauvin had a history of being a violent policeman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:58 PM Flag
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yes. that is the sketchy backstory, and its not about the victim. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:14 PM Flag
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I heard an interview with the manager (owner?) of the club. She said they worked different shifts and didn't think they knew each other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 12:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you feel safe flying right now, in the US? If you already went somewhere in the past month or weeks, what precautions did you take, are airlines doing their part? Thanks. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:32 PM Flag
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I would only fly right now if I absolutely had to - like seeing a dying relative or something along those lines. I would not fly to take a vacation or even go to a summer home. I would drive if anything. Nothing about the virus has changed but I recognize that we can't stay inside forever. Planning on being careful until there isnt another option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:35 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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op- thank you. I feel the same and dh thinks it is totally safe to get on a plane for a 2hr trip... I want to stay put - or drive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:41 PM Flag
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I think for a two hour trip you will be fine. Planes are not full (no middle row) and everyone has to wear a mask. Don't take your mask off, don't touch your face, don't eat or drink. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:22 PM Flag
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NP: Totally stupid question - but is the middle row thing even for people who live together, including parents/kids, or is that spacing literal/specific, for the benefit of people in front of/behind the rows? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:33 PM Flag
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op- but I heard that at security they make you remove the mask... sounds stressful that you have to bring more than one mask w you. Also, when you put your bags on belt, at security, do they now disinfect bins etc? I was OCD clean before this when traveling, so now even more so. But running out of wipes :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:00 PM Flag
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Why would you have to bring more than one mask? Can't you just put it around your chin? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:12 PM Flag
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op- I read that you are not supposed to do this... apparently the mask would no be safe anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:40 PM Flag
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I mean - you're already in an airport, it's not like you're performing surgery or anything. The purpose of masks is to prevent droplets leaving your nose and mouth from going into someone else's nose and mouth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:50 PM Flag
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Same. And would also be more comfortable in a hotel for one night than on a plane if the distance wasn't doable in a day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:15 PM Flag
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flew from PBI to LGA in early May, and will fly from LGA to DEN in early July. Wear masks, social distance at airports, avoid bathrooms and any surfaces at airports, pack own food (and get only bottled water on plane), wipe down all plane surfaces upon entry, take earliest flights and fewest connections possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:49 PM Flag
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op- posted a reply above, what worries me is that A) so hard to not go to bathroom (especially if I drink) I always try to avoid bathroom on plane but may need to go before boarding and this seems an issue now. B) can't find any more wipes, and even before Covid I would sanitize all surfaces on plane (w dh making fun of me) now that I really want to even more, not sure how if I'm out of wipes. Thanks for your feedback. Did you have to take mask off and then on again? This is also an issue - I guess security check will make ppl remove their mask? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:03 PM Flag
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you lift your mask for 3 seconds when you check in with your ID at security, then you put it back down. you go to the bathroom as soon as you get on the plane (that is when it is the cleanest) and you bring purell (make your own if you can't find it to buy) and use it before and after the bathroom visit. don't drink anything if it makes you pee more... it's only a short time. use your purell on a clean tissue to wipe down things on the plane. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:58 PM Flag
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Our family had to take a 4 hour flight in mid-May. Not many people on the plane (and no, they put families together in a row of three) if you want space you could buy tickets separately. We wore masks wiped stuff down. Sprayed bags with disinfectant on arriving and wore dickies jumpsuits over very light clothes. took them off. We seem to be ok. But I'm not super careful about this. Respectfully careful, but not super careful. I never wipe the groceries packages for example. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:38 PM Flag
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op- thanks for your feedback. What are dickies suits? I was actually thinking of wearing one of those disposable suits nurses wear, but not sure I'd look ridiculous... also could not find any for sale. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:42 PM Flag
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We wore these: https://www.amazon.com/Dickies-Cotton-Coverall-2X-Regular/dp/B00B6EB4GS/ref=sr_1_5?dchild=1&keywords=dickies+coveralls&qid=1591217016&sr=8-5 (my kid had another brand in the smallest men's size. I wanted breathable cotton) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:45 PM Flag
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op- Thanks! These look great. Is it only men sizes? What size did you get for yourself? I am 5 4 and average build, guessing if it is a bit loose should still be Ok. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:04 PM Flag
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I got my daughter this one in a size 36. It is a little heavier than the Dickies though. I think she really needed a size 34. She is 5'3" and slim. But I put it a hot wash and dryer and it was ok. Hers was a jaunty red and it was pretty cute. https://www.amazon.com/Red-Kap-Zip-Front-Cotton-Coverall/dp/B005DDYVL8/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=red+kap+cotton+overall&qid=1591219744&s=apparel&sr=1-1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:29 PM Flag
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It also had an extra button that closed off the neck. And all the pockets on both brands were super handy for traveling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:30 PM Flag
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You will look crazy wearing this, but if it makes you feel better... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:32 PM Flag
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I am telling you. There will be people on your plain in hazmats (or at least there were on ours with visors and those gas mask looking masks. You won't look crazy. We thought it was kind of fun. But also my sister was picking us up and we wanted to reduce the risk of contaminating her car. Who knows if it helped but it's exactly 15 days later and we are all fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:28 PM Flag
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We flew as a family of 3 last month and took normal precautions. I could not imagine us all wearing jumpsuits over our clothing. We wore masks, brought our own food, wiped down the area around our seats. I used the bathroom in the airport, and washed my hands after. We took connecting flights out and back, plus Ubers on each side, and are all fine. Flights themselves were at least 80% full and there were numerous people not wearing masks in the airport. One AA gate attendant had a mask on, but below her nose, which I thought was completely ridiculous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:31 PM Flag
[ - ] I feel like Svitlana Flom needs to be raked across the coals more. She didn't get as much media attention as Amy Cooper because of the shift in protest coverage. But you can't talk about BLM and racial injustice without exposing these daily aggressions and acts of privilege. 46 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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What are the chances she wasn't a prostitute or escort? Zero. Google Gary Flom pics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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I mean, he's not repulsive. I'd go with golddigger before escort tho. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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+1. Party girl is more appropriate term for that type of woman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:33 PM Flag
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Well now you're invoking ethnic stereotypes so... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:19 PM Flag
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NP: OP didn't do that... she invoked ageism, if anything. YOU'RE the one who made the Russian hooker association. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:28 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:34 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:36 PM Flag
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OP: I'm white and calling out my own "kind" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:39 PM Flag
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No thanks, I welcome these conversations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:46 PM Flag
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Svitlana is a very wealthy white Ukrainian woman, not Asian, so... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:53 PM Flag
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Yes, she got buried by the rest of the news going on. I also felt that the response to her was different than Amy Cooper - I saw people trying to defend her for some reason, whereas Amy Cooper was universally loathed. I don't know if it was because her target was a woman vs a man? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:42 PM Flag
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Or maybe because she's a socialite and has restaurants in the Hamptons? But you're right - the way police treat black men is specifically what AC was counting on/weaponizing in her call to the police, which made it especially abhorrent. SF was more arrogantly racist overall with the "you don't belong here" garbage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:00 PM Flag
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There was the dog factor too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:39 PM Flag
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Oh yes, reddit went nuts that AC was choking the dog! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:47 PM Flag
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Her case got buried because it wasn't a very obvious and undeniable case of racism and could have just being another media bait. Smoking isn't legal everywhere in NYC, there are rules. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 06:26 AM Flag
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Here is an example of people trying to defend here. Did you miss the part where she claimed a black woman was threatening her and her children? Or are you just trying to get another conversation about race flagged and deleted? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 11:14 AM Flag
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It was very obvious. She confronted a woman sitting on a bench because it was "her" neighborhood and she didn't feel like she belonged there. Whether or not she was smoking a cigarette or weed or vaping is irrelevant as people do it all over the city. I see white hipsters smoking all over and I've never seen one questioned as to whether they "belong" in a neighborhood. She then claimed her and her children were being threatened when it is very obvious that she was not remotely feeling physically threatened. She wasn't even paying attention to her kids. Her behavior was bullying and abhorrent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 03:07 PM Flag
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I have since seen more videos and she's pretty much just as bad as Cooper was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:49 PM Flag
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oh man - i just saw the one video, and it was pretty awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:01 PM Flag
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She is quite awful. Called 3 times and asked the woman to accompany her to the police station. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:04 PM Flag
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Link? What’s the story? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:00 PM Flag
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Google her name and you'll get lots of links. Wealthy UWS socialite saw a black woman (who may or may not have been smoking pot) sitting on a public bench, and called the police on her. She escalated it that the woman was threatening her and her kids (but the black woman was recording the whole thing). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:07 PM Flag
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See, in legal terms "may or may not have been smoking pot" would be a very important fact to prove together with another info on whether smoking was allowed in that specific location. Some buildings only allow smoking in specifically designated locations. Anyone smoking outside of these locations is a fair game for security personnel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 06:22 AM Flag
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not for cops, though, and its also not a threat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 11:57 AM Flag
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Right, for security. Not emergency services during a citywide health crisis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:30 PM Flag
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Ok Prosecutor Dad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:38 PM Flag
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I looked her up. She’s only 34? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:37 PM Flag
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Right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:44 PM Flag
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I thought she was a “fabulous fifty” [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:01 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:16 PM Flag
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Lol. I'm in my fifties--her skin is too nice to be in her 50s. That said, I think she's a terrible human being nonetheless. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:30 PM Flag
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Lol. And hugely pregnant? That'd be worth a video all on its own. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:55 PM Flag
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She doesn’t scream youthful 34. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 03:01 AM Flag
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The article made it sound like pot smoking was involved and that's why it's difficult to make this into a clear cut case for racism. People do get pissed at other people who smoke pot or even cigarettes in public places. If the woman accused was actually smoking and it was illegal to smoke in that specific location, let's just say I wouldn't be the lawyer taking that case, too hard to prove. But your imagery of pregnant woman being dragged through burning coals more, OP, is certainly interesting in its own way.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 06:19 AM Flag
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Pregnancy doesn’t grant sainthood. We’ve all btdt... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:15 PM Flag
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You don't call fucking 911 for something that is "punishable by fine" - especially during a pandemic [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:29 PM Flag
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+1. Call three times and claim the woman s threatening her and her kids. Also, it's controversial what do do about pot - even the cops don't care, my building reeks, people smoke in the park too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:40 PM Flag
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It's a figure of speech [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:49 PM Flag
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Come on. When was the last time you called the cops on someone smoking weed in NYC and told them you were being threatened? Stop making lame excuses for her. She was racist and a bully and to me it's obvious she wanted that little alcove area to herself so she could chill alone with her kids and let them roam on their scooters. If you don't think that's what she was really doing you're deluded. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 03:09 PM Flag
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This! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 03:16 PM Flag
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Maybe it didn't get as much attention because the woman who was recording ROASTED her so well on her own..."If Bozo was a person it would be you." I don't need to remember Svitlana Flom's name, she is just Bozo to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:25 PM Flag
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yes, that woman is amazing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 01:28 PM Flag
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Agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 06:02 PM Flag
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I think it’s because Svitlana is pretty and was calm and cool while Amy was raving and abusing her poor dog. But Svitlana May be worse because she wasn’t scared or acting from unhinged emotion. She was behaving as if it were her god given right to have the black woman removed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 03:10 PM Flag
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Absolutely! Telling the woman to go with her to the police station reminded me so much of my Soviet time teachers telling me to go the principal's office for some wrongdoing. The conviction in her voice of being right and expecting to punish the other person was so jarring. I haven't been spoken to like this in a long time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 06:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Some advice on starting over please: I am 51, have wanted to come back to NYC since I had to leave the city 5 yrs ago. But now it does not seem a feasible option. Where would you look on the east coast? A place where I'd be able to find a job, maybe not as expensive as NYC, safe, inclusive, where possibly I can move around without having to drive all the time... and (even though it's never easy) I may be able to make some friends. Recently divorced and not sure where I could start, it's scary at this age. I just know for a fact I do not want to stay where I am now (because of the mentality, lack of culture, weather and no ties). Thanks for any honest advice. I ask here because apart from NYC and maybe a bit D.C. I don't know a lot of other places/states too well. For example how is Philadelphia? Or Boston? Thank you. 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:10 PM Flag
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You are not divorced, though you post about the idea of divorcing constantly. You post constantly about the same couple of situations. Even a casual reader of this site like me can recognize your story. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:13 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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op- thanks for your feedback. I am divorced and have probably posted before but not constantly - although not immediately I will try to move by next spring. So I am doing some research. My kids are in college, west coast, and not a part of the country I would move to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:27 PM Flag
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Ok, I recognize too. Aren't you from Western Europe? I would just let ds finish HS where you are, and move back home. It doesn't sound like the U.S. in general is the best place for you. I'm an immigrant too, and if I couldn't live in NYC comfortably, I would leave to go back home (which luckily is a great option)! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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op- Thanks, but not same person. My kids are in college. I agree that NYC is crazy expensive and this is another reason why I decided to look at other places. But would like to stay on the east coast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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^ I could probably afford a one bedroom apt (buy) in NYC, but the other expenses add up. So I would look into it a year from now, depending on how things look and hoping maybe real estate prices go down a bit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:45 PM Flag
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I don't know why you need to buy, and what kind of job are you looking for? As an immigrant, I think that NYC is still the best choice (friendships, culture). Other places seem too edgy or closed off. The beauty about vrbo/airbnb/homeaway is that you can sample different neighborhoods and cities. You would probably qualify for a number of middle-income Mitchell Lama co-ops and rentals, I would start the minute you have an NYC address. And there are many areas of Manhattan/Brooklyn/Queens/Bronx I would consider. If you don't need a full-service doorman building, and you are open to a smaller co-op, 1 br doesn't have to cost the earth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:50 PM Flag
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I don't know why you need to buy, and what kind of job are you looking for? As an immigrant, I think that NYC is still the best choice (friendships, culture). Other places seem too edgy or closed off. The beauty about vrbo/airbnb/homeaway is that you can sample different neighborhoods and cities. You would probably qualify for a number of middle-income Mitchell Lama co-ops and rentals, I would start the minute you have an NYC address. And there are many areas of Manhattan/Brooklyn/Queens/Bronx I would consider. If you don't need a full-service doorman building, and you are open to a smaller co-op, 1 br doesn't have to cost the earth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:50 PM Flag
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^^ also look for HDFC units in prime areas. https://streeteasy.com/building/114-east-98-street-new_york/2r [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:52 PM Flag
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There seem to be a lot of listings like this on UES. https://streeteasy.com/building/420-east-72-street-new_york/8d [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:53 PM Flag
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Fewer picking on UES. But stuff like this. https://streeteasy.com/building/46-west-65-street-new_york/5d [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:54 PM Flag
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UWS, I meant. If you don't have to financially support your dcs, make a budget. 1br co-op in the 500k range, with ~1200 maintenance (assume 5% increase yearly). Can you bring in at least 30k annually, pay 500k cash for a co-op? Always good to make income as you can bump up your SS income after 65. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:56 PM Flag
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op- thank you for this. I am not a good planner financially, but this all makes a lot of sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:42 PM Flag
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Fewer picking on UES. But stuff like this. https://streeteasy.com/building/46-west-65-street-new_york/5d [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:54 PM Flag
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op- thank you, great listing. Although a bit worried about renovations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:58 PM Flag
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np -- so cute! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:54 PM Flag
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I'be lived in Boston for a few years. It's not appreciably cheaper and it's not an easy place to make friends. Sorry not very encouraging, but this was my experience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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op- it helps, thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:42 PM Flag
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If you mean northeast, it's all pretty expensive unless you go into Maine. There are lots of inexpensive east coast areas in the south. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:56 PM Flag
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NH too, although it's a lot more conservative than any of the other places OP mentioned. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:16 PM Flag
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Philly or Jersey City - walkable, friendly, a bit more affordable [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:51 PM Flag
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Philly is pretty affordable, not easy to meet natives as they can be cliquey but there are always transplants looking for other friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:22 PM Flag
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That wasn't my experience, the natives welcomed me with open arms, but I was in my 20s, not 50s. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 11:38 PM Flag
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Philly suburbs are tough/ clicky. But there are lots of people in the city -- including older singles -- who are social and open to new friends. [ Reply | More
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op- thanks, I will def look at Philadelphia. Is the city safe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 10:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Any ideas for a 14 year old to do this summer? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:06 PM Flag
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Babysitting older elementary kids whose parents have to work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:08 PM Flag
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Good idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:47 PM Flag
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mothers helper type job [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:28 PM Flag
[ - ] So the white female YouTuber that “rehomed” her ChineseSN son apparently just gave him away to a family she liked? Why did I assume she had legally give up custody via a state authority and that he was in a vetted foster care home or in the process of being legally adopted. Apparently nothing was done legally and the local sheriff hasnt been able to locate him to confirm he is okay and no one knows the identity of the family he is supposedly with?? So a child with extreme special needs had been out of her sight and care for weeks w no folllow up? WTH 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:45 PM Flag
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Wow. I hope he’s ok, that sounds dangerous. And I wonder if this friend even exists. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:48 PM Flag
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OP here. I think the person exists. God I hope so. But I’m shocked that she would assess them herself especially for a high needs child. The situation is terrible. International adoptees can just fall through the cracks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:54 PM Flag
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They suck so fucking hard!!! I have nothing but utter contempt for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:58 PM Flag
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I can’t what is discussed it on social media. Something like that should have stayed private. Perception is reality and who knows what really goes on behind the scenes. Her ‘image/brand’ is shit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 05:59 PM Flag
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^I can’t believe [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Chicago entered Phase 3 today which means stores can reopen with precautions and restaurants can have outdoor dining. Offices are also allowed to reopen with capacity restrains. Funny...I have no desire to go shopping or out to eat. And I especially don't have any desire to go to the office. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:38 PM Flag
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Should capacity restraints be put on protestors too? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:45 PM Flag
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My Chicago office put returning (even on a limited basis) on hold - and that was before the protests.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:47 PM Flag
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OP: Mine wanted to have us going back two days a week starting next week. But then sent out an email saying they will update us during a call on Friday. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:56 PM Flag
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I’m hearing mid to end of June for those who want to go in, but no one is required to return at least until August. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:59 PM Flag
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I know, right? Who are these people who are excited to go mill about with strangers? Or who are so desperate for a hair cut? I miss some things but I cannot imagine going out in public, maskless, to just hang out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 03:54 PM Flag
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But look at all the protests or people at bars. Obviously, others are very comfortable being close to each other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:09 PM Flag
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Same here. I am also in the midwest but a smaller city. A lot of people eating out at restaurants... I have no desire to do so, or even get my hair colored at the salon (even though my roots look crazy) I am so tired of cooking, but thanks but no thanks - staying home as much as possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:12 PM Flag
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^with same here I meant that like OP I have no desire to do those things. Does no feel safe. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:12 PM Flag
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We can’t wait to eat out again. And travel. Without a mask. People like you wouldn’t want to leave home ever again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 04:54 PM Flag
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But why does it have to be Right Now! Why do you need to be the first ones back, when workers are scared and epidemiologists still don't know what's the riskiest behavior? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:17 PM Flag
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Who are "people like me?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:23 PM Flag
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People who can’t deal. I’m guessing real life causes you tremendous snxiety [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:33 PM Flag
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I think people who can't be still for 5 minutes are the ones with anxiety. You know what you do when your hair gets too long but there's a pandemic? You buy some banana clips and hair elastics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 08:33 PM Flag
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Srsly this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:16 PM Flag
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I’m the least anxious proton you could meet. Just doing feel the need to rush out for a meal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:28 PM Flag
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*person [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 09:28 PM Flag
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Same here. Or a haircut. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:17 PM Flag
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I live in an apartment building in nyc--neighbor on one side died from COVID; neighbor on the other side has been in the hospital with it for 3 weeks and we don't know if he will make it. I'm guessing you don't know anyone who has gotten really sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.20, 04:36 AM Flag
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Me too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 06:17 PM Flag
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I had to go out today. Party City was still curbside only, as was Meatheads. I stopped in Mariano's, and it was nuts, but so many places have been closing early that I think people rush in in the mornings in case there's trouble in the afternoon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 07:22 PM Flag
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Why so many places? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:17 PM Flag
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SAME [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.03.20, 10:16 PM Flag
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