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Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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[ - ] Tennis moms where do you shop for whites online? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:09 PM Flag
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Haven't shopped on line but pre-pandemic I believe Modell's and also Lululemon had tennis whites. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:27 PM Flag
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Tenniswarehouse.com because they ship super-fast and have good deals on past-season stuff. I also like their demos-by-mail. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:18 PM Flag
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I just bought some stuff from there - not too expensive, decent selection [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:40 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Are montauk beaches closed to non residents? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:09 PM Flag
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I only ready about Southampton town Beaches not being accessible to non residents. I have heard nothing about East Hampton town. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:12 PM Flag
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Kirk Park Beach is free to everyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:16 PM Flag
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They can't effectively close the beaches, so no. But you can't park and the Jitney would be iffy this weekend (imho) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:19 PM Flag
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beaches are open. lifeguards are out etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 02:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Tips to make the most of your meals so you are not cooking everyday? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:02 PM Flag
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Bbq extra so there are leftovers for an extra day or two [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:02 PM Flag
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Make a pot of soup or stew weekly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:03 PM Flag
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Too hot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:35 PM Flag
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Turkey chili done in the crock pot won’t heat up the kitchen and freezes well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 11:30 AM Flag
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Cook in bulk and freeze half so on lazy days you can relax and defrost. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:03 PM Flag
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Boil a dozen eggs and pack as a snack, add to a meal for extra protein, or make into a salad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:04 PM Flag
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I like stuff I can make into soup the next day. Chicken fajitas turn into chicken fajita soup. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:10 PM Flag
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delivery? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:39 PM Flag
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grilled chicken can easily be repurposed for another meal. Once a week, dinner is "clean out the fridge." We don't all eat the same thing that night because I don't ever have that much of any one item left over. certain foods freeze well (chili, lasagna) so make double and freeze half. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:39 PM Flag
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We do semi-cooking, e.g., buy fresh pasta and add sautéed veggies and sauce, or get some prepared food at Fairway or something, or get a pizza crust at the farmer's market and put stuff on it. DH and I both are working long hours and DC is a teen, we don't have time for a big production, some nights when it's really bad we just have cereal and DC has some hot dogs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:52 PM Flag
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DH grills up a bunch of stuff - chicken, steak, salmon burgers, sausages. And then I only have to make a couple sides. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:57 PM Flag
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I always make double rice and make "clean out the fridge" fried rice the next day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:03 PM Flag
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Cook in large batches and freeze. I also serve the same thing twice, different side or salad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Etiquette Question Hello Everyone I posted the below on another forum. No one seemed to get the point I am trying to make about etiquette. I am interested in what people think about the below situation. I of course am working from home during this time like so many others. I live with my sister, my mom and niece (who has asthma). I live in Long Island in a large house with a pool. A co-worker who I am close to (I'll call him S) had to come to LI for some reason and asked if he could stop by and visit me, he also planned on visiting other co workers on his day trip. He stopped by, we talked outside at a distance in my yard, we both wore masks, I gave him a tour of my garden. He left to visit another co-worker I will call C. The next day C messages me on Slack offering to visit me at my house where we will "work from home together". This request annoyed me, S who I am quite close to doesn't understand why this also annoyed me, he says he did rave about my house and showed C a video of my pool. Am I being unreasonable to be upset at both S and C. Also C has a general "it's your job to entertain me" vibe. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:02 PM Flag
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Why did you let him come over? Let this be the last time you ever have him over to begin with? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:06 PM Flag
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I misread. Forget about S. Do it invite C! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:07 PM Flag
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Do not invite C. You have no obligation to her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:07 PM Flag
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I find his behavior gaudy. Why was he recording your home? Why did you let him over? You have no obligation to C [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:09 PM Flag
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Describe to us what S is like. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:13 PM Flag
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OP: Gay, married and in his 50s [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:15 PM Flag
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I just think it's a bit of an overreaction to be upset. I think you can just acknowledge to yourself that you know the type of person S is, so you shouldn't be surprised. You watched him video your garden, so you knew he was excited by it. Maybe you knew he was going to C next, so it's not a reach that he might share it. All you have to do in this scenario is say 'Oh, C, yeah, we're are still following social distancing rules and not having people over.' That's it. She keeps pushing, just repeat. There doesn't have to be any drama here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:19 PM Flag
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I had no idea he took a video, have no memory of him doing this. He certainly didn't say he was [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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Wth. Ok, maybe take a break from S. That's a weird thing to do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:51 PM Flag
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No, I'd be annoyed. So much jerk behavior in such a short story. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:19 PM Flag
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All three of them sound irritating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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You must be in a really casual industry. I work in finance and can't imagine that gall. Say no, your family doesn't want guests, end of story. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:03 PM Flag
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I wouldn’t read too much into it. Sounds like S thought you had a pretty pool and took a pictures and showed C when he visited with them. C is probably bored and thought it’d be nice change-up to work at your place since you have a nice home. That said, I understand your issue with boundaries and coworkers. It’s so weird right now with everyone working from home. The familiarity and privacy thing gets blurred. This particular instance/request from C is easy to shut down firmly yet politely. I might explain to S why it bothered me but it might be too subtle for others to understand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:18 PM Flag
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You can be annoyed at C for being a schnorrer, but S didn't really do anything wrong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:29 PM Flag
[ - ] hold on a second--am I to understand that MS and HS in NYC do not have tracking? That's crazy. Kids are at different levels and need to learn at different levels. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:00 PM Flag
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Some do - like Baruch and Wagner have an SP program that is screened for incoming 6th graders, but kids can move in/out of in 7th and 8th based on grades and performance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:02 PM Flag
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If they get rid of screened schools, won't this go away too? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:37 PM Flag
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It would definitely at the point of entry... not sure if they will still keep the programs and have kids move around into them once admitted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:49 PM Flag
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There is no trackigg by in elementary school either. But in highschool some take AP classes and others don’t so that separates some kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:14 PM Flag
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And some will take physics while others more basic science [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:14 PM Flag
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This is why G&T is coveted. Most of us don't think our kids are geniuses who need to be working 2 grades ahead... district G&T programs especially are simply more like the top track of a school that has tracking system. Would totally have stayed in our local Gen Ed if we could have that kind of option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:33 PM Flag
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Same [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:37 PM Flag
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THIS! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:58 PM Flag
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Or: We did g&t and they go back with all kids for middle school it was not worth the commute and dealing with crazy parents who thought their snowflake was soooo special [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:55 PM Flag
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what do you mean by tracking in elementary school? When I was a kid, we had different reading groups and my kid still has that. Sometimes different math groups too. They definitely downplay it but they do. I only realized that given remote schooling and me seeing more of what they do in school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:54 PM Flag
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I also had no idea. Apparently, in other parts of the country, they follow the Renzuli model - pulling kids up when they need it, but on a temporary basis (perhaps limited by time or by lesson) - so I am told by educators in other states. I grew up in another state and we still had tracking through the early 2000s! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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That method seems great as well - just SOMETHING to give the lower performing kids extra help, and the accelerated kids more enrichment. The current method teaches to the middle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:34 PM Flag
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many have some. my kid's SHS had two math tracks and some kids tested ahead in spanish. taking AP's or not was also a kid of track [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:30 PM Flag
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^^and MS had tracking in math and science. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:36 PM Flag
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My son's screened hs in nyc has 3 math tracks. Wonder how it will work to just get rid of that--especially if kids are at all different levels in math coming in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:38 PM Flag
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Depends on the school. RKA (combined MS/HS in Riverdale) has tracking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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there's a version of it at IS318 in Brooklyn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:31 PM Flag
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tracking sucks - most times it's used solely to separate out children of color. huge problem at an elementary school in my area. just flat out segregation and the administration is 100% racist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:33 PM Flag
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Some schools do a modified version. One MS I toured had a period every day allocated for "Small group work" which is working in math or ELA with kids at your level, be it advanced or needed extra help. Another school calls it "Advancement". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:00 PM Flag
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No, it was eliminated because it was regarded as racist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:00 PM Flag
[ - ] What is for dinner? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:54 PM Flag
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For the family-Belle and Evans chicken burger with a side salad made from those store bought salad kits [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:55 PM Flag
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IDK but my new downstairs neighbors are from Thailand and they're cooking right now and it smells amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:56 PM Flag
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Chicken katsu curry (but I bake the cutlets, not fry) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:58 PM Flag
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I had to look up a recipe, sound delicious. Thanks for the idea. If you have a recipe, share please! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:01 PM Flag
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Lentil soup I made the other day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:01 PM Flag
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rosemary focaccia, taleggio, olives, salami, grapes, olive tapenade [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:02 PM Flag
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Rotisserie chicken, rice pilaf, green beans. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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stir fry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:14 PM Flag
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Nothing, it's a fasting day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:19 PM Flag
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Sautéed zucchini tossed with ziti, ricotta and fresh basil [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:23 PM Flag
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sweet potato kale farro salad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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Can you post a recipe for this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:38 PM Flag
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https://food52.com/recipes/19937-farro-with-roasted-sweet-potato-kale-and-pomegranate-seeds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:44 PM Flag
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Hamburger stew [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:06 PM Flag
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Pizza with prosciutto and olives. Salad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:01 PM Flag
[ - ] What suit brand does your DH wear? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:54 PM Flag
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He has "a" suit. No idea where from. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:57 PM Flag
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+1 but I know his is from Hugo Boss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:01 PM Flag
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Men's Warehouse - Joseph Abood? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:05 PM Flag
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Brooks Brothers, Hickey Freeman [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:09 PM Flag
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Brooks bro’s [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:15 PM Flag
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Hugo Boss or their cheaper sub-brand Hugo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:17 PM Flag
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Hugo Boss, Theory, Zegna and a few bespoke. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:20 PM Flag
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brooks. about four times a year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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Same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:53 PM Flag
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Polo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:30 PM Flag
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Custom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:43 PM Flag
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Suitsupply is the brand everyone wears at my bulge bracket investment bank in NYC. It's semi custom / bespoke with stylish fit & tailoring and top materials, but direct to consumer at affordable prices. Suitsupply $350 is nicer than $1K suits you would get at nice stores. Suitsupply $1K gets nicer quality than $3K Italian. Full fused, fine fabrics, good cut, etc. Might not work for out of shape guys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:46 PM Flag
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boss [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:16 PM Flag
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Mohan’s Custom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:35 PM Flag
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Brioni [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:44 PM Flag
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He has one suit for weddings, one for funerals and I can't remember either brand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 10:02 PM Flag
[ - ] NYCDOE teacher here- just confirmed: "Blended learning" model next fall (in person and remote). Specifics still TBD re: every other day, week, etc. 46 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:19 PM Flag
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Will teachers email able to work from home? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:25 PM Flag
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be able to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:26 PM Flag
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Still uncertain as to whether staff will be in and out, or in full-time. My principal just said that those with documented health issues should begin preparing paperwork to do so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:29 PM Flag
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so a teacher with diabetes wouldnt return to the classroom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:47 PM Flag
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yeah really. My husband is a doctor and is being asked to write excuse notes by all his patients. Some of them are a bit far out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:55 PM Flag
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Tell your husband that my office gave us 2 weeks to get a doctor's note so to expect panicked requests. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:39 PM Flag
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do you know how many people are just obese / diabetic / heart problems and now at incredible risk? You don't know the half of it. This is the majority of his patient population. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:04 PM Flag
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I don't know what health considerations would be exempt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:00 PM Flag
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see above - resulting from obesity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:04 PM Flag
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I'm not obese and have hypertension. I think I'm at risk but oddly don't think of myself as such. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 06:04 PM Flag
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Any idea when they are going to make an announcement? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:33 PM Flag
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Soon. Principal called an emergency meeting with us at 2 today because she didn't want us to hear on the news or from someone else. That said, maybe they'll wait until the plan is more fleshed out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:51 PM Flag
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Elementary? MS? HS? All? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:38 PM Flag
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I'm just relieved there is going to be SOME kind of in person learning happening. Sucks because we have two kids and have no choice but to commute by subway to/from school, so not sure if our risk is lessened in any way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:38 PM Flag
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Our principal reported this at a family meeting, but said any family that is not comfortable sending a child to school will have the option of 100% remote learning. No one will be required to go in person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:42 PM Flag
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Same--each kid has nearly 50 minutes on 2 trains. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:40 PM Flag
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Works for me because I have 2 MS but for parents of small kids this will be an absolute nightmare. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:41 PM Flag
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I just hope it's not half days. That would be a joke for working parents especially. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:45 PM Flag
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OP- half days weren’t one of the options being considered in the PPT [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:53 PM Flag
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Okay good! Seems like it would defeat the purpose. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:58 PM Flag
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Confirmed, or just proposed? Our principal shared that there were 4 models of blended learning being weighed, but there has still been no official mandate from the Governor about whether we will be cleared to open. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:47 PM Flag
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how can they possibly guarantee that. It's up to DeBlas and ultimately Cuomo on a county by county basis. I fear that there will be an uptick as the rules loosen. The summer will be very telling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:51 PM Flag
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I posted the same above... the DOE supposedly came up with four different models of blended learning for fall, but all scenarios are based on the clearance to go back at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:57 PM Flag
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So did everyone else. Doesn't mean squat. We are at a private school that told us they will start early, I don't believe it at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:05 PM Flag
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yes, but honest;y, if there IS no uptick from the huge crowded gatherings at protests then i will actually feel like my child is somewhat safe at school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:59 PM Flag
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confirmed I what way? and by whom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:58 PM Flag
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OP- our principal just announced it to us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:16 PM Flag
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can you please share any details you learned? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:21 PM Flag
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Saw a PPT from central. 3 models- every other day, every other week, or one of the above with a 3rd grouping of students learning remotely FT (i assume this is for immunocompromised). Our school is due to get a specific report tomorrow based on our population and building of how many people can be in the building and in each room at once. There was a lot of concern regarding ICT classes and paras but nothing resolved. No movement in schools- to cafeteria, recess, cluster classes. We didn't get any answers about staff schedules but seems like we'll be in FT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:30 PM Flag
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So what do the kids do for the 1/2 school year they are home? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 06:05 PM Flag
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OP- this is confusing to me too. Because if we as teachers are also supposed to be conducting the online learning, our workload is doubled. One administrator at my school said she believed there are going to be cameras and the kids at home would be following along in real time. She has a tendency to speak without knowing though, and this seems like it would be a technological impossibility for the DOE. It also just wouldn't work at all considering how dependant most of my (elementary) teaching is on interaction, shared responsibilities, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.20, 12:11 AM Flag
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The use of the word "confirmed" is super misleading. There MAY be blended learning, there MAY be a late or rolling start date, there MAY be split schedules. Nothing is decided. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:28 PM Flag
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We were told split schedules and september start. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:31 PM Flag
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IF NYC reaches Phase 4 though, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:38 PM Flag
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No mention of the phases, but perhaps that’s the presumption. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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school is listed as being in the last phase. not sure if that was 3 or 4 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:01 PM Flag
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It's 4. Ugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:32 PM Flag
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of course it will be blended - because some people won't be able to go back even if it's open fulltime and so they need to incorporate remote into it. It doesn't mean that fulltime school won't happen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:31 PM Flag
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OP- We were told definitively that fulltime school will not happen. Just passing along what I heard. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:32 PM Flag
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Thank you! That's what I thought but nice to know. I have been worried about the commute for my hs kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:40 PM Flag
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no surprise. they would have to double the number of classrooms and teachers. public schools in NYC have 30 kids in a class, easily [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:01 PM Flag
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OP- update: UFT just (6:54) sent an email saying the same thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 11:05 PM Flag
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Let's be clear--this is the HOPE. I'm still skeptical it will actually happen--the logistics are so difficult. I still expect all remote in the fall. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 04:53 PM Flag
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OP- I agree that it could crash and burn and not end up happening, but I did want to relay that it was stated definitively to us (ie. not as a "hope.") [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 05:09 PM Flag
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at pta meeting at citywide g&t this morning said max capacity in building is 50% so sounds like blended to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 06:35 PM Flag
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Isn't the real problem moving all these kids to school? Many take school buses, many the subway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 06:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Help me navigate a situation tactfully? We had a wonderful housecleaner who left us for a big company cleaning gig last winter. She referred us to a new cleaner who is sweet and totally adequate, but not as good. Then Covid hit. We have been paying this cleaner at 50% as cleaning is her only income. She still hasn't returned, presumably because she's not comfortable. Today I just got a text from cleaner 1 who says the job she left us for ended up not being a good fit, and would we be a reference for her for housecleaning work? I would LOVE for her to come back. They obviously know each other as cleaner 1 referred cleaner 2 to us, though I don't think they're close. If cleaner 1 agrees to come back to work for us, how would you tactfully tell cleaner 2 you don't need her to come back, which also means you're no longer paying her? Is this wrong of me? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:35 PM Flag
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I don't think you need to give some big excuse. You can tell her that you no longer need her services as of whatever date you choose and thank her for her time. Add that you would be a reference for her if needed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:49 PM Flag
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This. You paid her over the break, which is more than a lot of other people didn't. You don't owe her a lifetime of employment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:32 PM Flag
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Cleaner 2: "Hi, we hope you and your family are well. Due to a new situation in our family, we will no longer be needing your cleaning services. We appreciate your time and work. Wishing you the best!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:11 PM Flag
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Do what's right for your family, outer order inner calm, I could not handle a mediocre housekeeper [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:56 PM Flag
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Do you know for a fact that cleaner 1 wants to come work for you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else having behavior issues with your son the longer they are out of school? My son is 10, almost 11, and will argue with me any chance he gets. Lately, it's been over the inappropriate videos he finds on YouTube. Since camps are closed I worry this is only going to get worse. 34 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.11.20, 05:31 PM Flag
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My ten year old has been working his way through the Simpsons. It's led to some innapropriate comments (espeically about drinking, lots of drunk jokes in the Simposons) but in gereral he's become a more pleasant person during the shutdown. Dh and I have really focused on manors and appropraite behavior with our kids since we are with them all the time to reinforce it now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:34 PM Flag
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OP: I wish my son were into The Simpsons. He's very hot and cold about it, but I think it's a good show to like since it has universal appeal. All he wants to do is make makeshift drums and talk in a voice that makes him sound dumb. He learned it from a YouTube show we have since banned. But every day is just an exercise in pushing boundaries -- and we go out and move around every day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:38 PM Flag
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The Simpsons is worse that you would think especially since it's on Disney plus. I thought it would be fine and at this point it would be hard to backpeddle on it but DS has talked ALOT of excessive drinking and other inappropirate things since he sarted watching. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:26 PM Flag
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My 10 year old DS has been an angel... it's my 7 year old DD who is a freaking nightmare (defiant, disrespectful, punishments don't work), and is only getting worse! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:37 PM Flag
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OP: Maybe it's kids in general. We decamped out to Greenwich because I thought it would be nice for him to have a yard and lots of space to scooter, etc. And he likes the yard and our evening walks, but during the day, if he doesn't have a Zoom call, it's drumming and searching for videos. I had a local high school kid come by on Sunday to hang out, but DS thinks he is too old. He wants to meet other fifth/sixth graders. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:42 PM Flag
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I'm still in the city, in an apt with no outdoor space, and we work full time so can't take the kids outside for any stretches until work/school is done... but I know the biggest thing that's missing for my (normally very athletic) kids is just straight-up "play." Like physical running around, rough-housing, role-playing, etc. We take them out to the park and they can run and play catch a bit there - but it is all so supervised and structured. There is no time or space for them to just be careless, destructive, skin a knee, etc. You've definitely got the space and opportunity in the burbs, but I get your kid's reluctance to go all in if he doesn't have a same-age playmate to play with. When school is out, would you be open to hosting a friend for a week or so? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:18 PM Flag
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OP: Yes, def plan on having kids over. Even trying to scope some out now, locally. Sadly, the Greenwich beaches are not allowing guests until further notice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:21 PM Flag
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Are they checking papers for kids? If you're a homeowner, how would they know if you have 3 kids or 2? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:39 PM Flag
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OP: The process to get a Greenwich beach pass is NO JOKE. I had to send them my new lease, a bank statement that has my address and my son's birth certificate. There is a bar code on the passes to make sure you are legit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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Wow. I mean, I totally get restricting to residents (and not bringing in other adults or entire families...) but what if you are caring for a relative or friend's kid temporarily or something? Would hope there would be some give there, given the taxes you pay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:55 PM Flag
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OP: You can get a nanny pass, and usually you can get a day pass for guests, but those are restricted for the time being due to Covid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:57 PM Flag
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In Greenwich you must have a beach pass. They are only given to residents for this exact reason. Yes, they check your car and you would be foolish to try to bypass them. Greenwich beaches are for residents. Not renters or visitors. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:49 PM Flag
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Going to be tough as you don't live or go to school in Greenwich. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:47 PM Flag
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OP: We signed a year long lease. Our passes are en route to us. :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:52 PM Flag
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My 7 year old has been a disrespectful nightmare too. We will get through this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:46 PM Flag
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OP: Ha! Yes! Maybe we should just bring all our rude children to my house and they can spend the day sassing each other and chasing each other around with Nerf guns. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:53 PM Flag
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I'm appalled at her behavior, and at how badly we have failed. We've been in a 1,000sf apartment together 23 hours a day (the other hour we're together outside) for 14 weeks. There is literally no punishment or reward system that works under these circumstances with her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:14 PM Flag
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My 9 year old has had some real moments for sure. His default tone now is complete rudeness. I think he is just absolutely miserable being separated from his friends and sports. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:11 PM Flag
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OP: Yes! I think sitting around and staring at Zoom all day is really hard on a kid. My son LOVED the goofy, after school sports that he took. He made real friends there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:14 PM Flag
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This how my 12 yo is. I have to think its the same reasoning. We also left the city to give our DCs some more space and a pool, so he is without his friends and spring soccer was ruined. My 10 yo DD has been happier since we found her a barn to ride at. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:39 PM Flag
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We are in the city and not seeing friends or playing soccer, so def let your kid know he is much better off!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:50 PM Flag
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^if he is blaming you in a way for separating him from those things, that is. Nobody is doing it here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:51 PM Flag
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He is just mad at the world for being seperated from everything. He is a very social kid, and this is difficult for him, just as it is for many other kids. He has been playing FIFA online with his friends, most have also scattered out of the city. My DH has been kicking the ball around with him daily, and he has been teaching him how to surf. I think we are all just ready for some semblance of normalcy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:08 PM Flag
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I know it's all relative (and that I have advantages that others don't as well), but my kid would KILL to have a yard to play in and get to surf. Hang in there! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 09:10 PM Flag
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Yep. Making a 16yo boy socially distance from his girlfriend has been a nightmare. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:44 PM Flag
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np: Oh Dear :) - [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:52 PM Flag
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Oh man :-( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:24 PM Flag
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OP: What if you just indulged him and let him see the GF? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:43 PM Flag
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My 13 year old gives me much more attitude. He needs his social outlets and I can't provide them as mom. I feel for all these kids - they are losing a year of their childhood to be carefree - [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:53 PM Flag
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OP: Can anyone recommend some good books to read about raising boys? I need ALL the help I can get these day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:44 PM Flag
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ditto. it's almost like i could write each of your posts in the thread. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.20, 09:06 PM Flag
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its been hard but trying to empathize very much with the child always keeping in mind how hard this is for them..the isolation, distance learning, etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:48 PM Flag
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we are having this issue. it's making us cry. we don't know what to do. lots of cursing and yelling by 10 year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.20, 09:04 PM Flag
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some of the westchester camps are open - they are going to be a lifesaver to get the kids outside. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.20, 09:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Where will you reside during retirement? 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:28 PM Flag
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We've lived lots of places but have settled down to raise our family in a small town outside Burlington, VT. Our house is old and lovely (built in 1810), but I'm not sure I would want to maintain it in my retirement, especially with the kids gone. Maybe we'll get a condo in Burlington proper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:36 PM Flag
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We're thinking of Burlington, too! I want to be in a college town, blue state, near skiing/lake, a good hospital and airport. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:43 PM Flag
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Where we are now, unless we get a better apartment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:38 PM Flag
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No idea to be honest. It seems presumptive to even think about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:40 PM Flag
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I’m 42 and know we will be in FL. Either Boca area or Sarasota [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:50 PM Flag
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Nova Scotia, I hope. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:55 PM Flag
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my rotation is south Florida, Manhattan, and Colorado. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:57 PM Flag
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I'd like to split time 50/50 somehow... how will you afford having 3 places, or will you do a short-term rental somewhere? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:44 PM Flag
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I've had the places for awhile, lucky enough to be able to afford to maintain. FL timing is Nov-May, Manhattan in May/June and Sept/Oct, and Colorado during the heat of the summer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:05 PM Flag
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I'm with you but swap out the Berkshires with Colorado - I'm an East Coaster to the bone. I'm not sure if I'll keep my current apartment in Manhattan - will probably downsize that and get a nice lake house in Otis MA with property attached so DH and I can share an art studio. My whole extended elders are in South Florida so I'm assuming I'll get a condo next to them too - but a small one. God willing - one nice international trip a year. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:55 PM Flag
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chicago maybe? we're city people and NYC is getting too expensive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:00 PM Flag
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I'd love to stay in NYC if it's not too expensive. I want to be one of those old ladies on the UWS who goes to lectures and shows, maintains a community garden, and volunteers in her spare time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:02 PM Flag
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yes! this is my dream retirement [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:08 PM Flag
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mine too! Sadly my husband dreams of Florida, I fear we'll be arguing about this until we die. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:24 PM Flag
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That is so sweet! I hope we will see you around the neighborhood. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:11 PM Flag
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Totally this. My mom is in her mid-80s, and lives in the mid-80s, has been in her small apt. for 50+ years and will never leave, I'm planning something similar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:35 PM Flag
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NYC is a great place to be retired. You can take the bus anywhere and there are TONS of free readings, music, art. My aunt really enjoyed living in NYC in her later years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:37 PM Flag
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absolutely. you don't have to worry about driving (an issue for a lot of elderly), you stay active just by walking around and getting groceries, there's lots of events to go to to stay mentally active, and you naturally downsize by the size of your apt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:47 PM Flag
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Yep! My mom lives in a doorman building and they do everything for her, she can walk to doctors appointments, etc. Very civilized. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:54 PM Flag
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the reason most dont stay is the cost of living. Nice areas of NYC are unaffordable to many. If you have an apt paid off, most just want to sell it and live off the profit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:04 PM Flag
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We will remain part time in nyc, part time in Eastern LI and part time in Europe. Both my parents and in-laws built vacation homes in Europe so we will be able to stay there for an extended time as we choose fit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:17 PM Flag
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We moved to an over 55 condo community in NH near the MA border. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:27 PM Flag
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Hi neighbor! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 04:18 AM Flag
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Buffalo will be beautiful by the time I retire. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:36 PM Flag
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Looking at BC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:48 PM Flag
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Where? Vancouver? It’s lovely [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:51 PM Flag
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So damn expensive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 10:20 PM Flag
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Interesting that only one poster is considering living overseas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:52 PM Flag
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Languedoc, Rhone Valley or Provence for the summer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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I think we'll have a permanent residence in FL, and then rent houses elsewhere 4-6 months out of the year, for a year at a time. We also have EU citizenship, so that's another strong possibility. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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^rent for a month at a time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:08 PM Flag
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Manhattan. Ideally with a second home in the Berkshires. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:54 PM Flag
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Las Vegas if it's not gone due to climate change [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:35 PM Flag
[ - ] What southern towns are worth a weekend trip? (Flight ) 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:28 PM Flag
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Savannah [ Reply | More
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Charleston [ Reply | More
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Nashville [ Reply | More
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New Orleans [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:34 PM Flag
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Miami [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:35 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you do or not do during this pandemic to maximize your energy levels? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:21 PM Flag
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Excessive carbs make me sluggish. High lean protein, fruits/vegetable, small portion of complex carbs each meal helps me from feeling tired afterward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:23 PM Flag
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Little to no alcohol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:24 PM Flag
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I gave up drinking. I can't believe how much better I sleep and have way more energy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:50 PM Flag
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Maintaining a consistent sleep/wake time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:24 PM Flag
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Excecising. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:25 PM Flag
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Exercising [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:25 PM Flag
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Lifting a few weights even if for a few minutes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:25 PM Flag
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Go out for a walk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:25 PM Flag
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Napping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:30 PM Flag
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How long though? I heard 1.5hrs is optimal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:32 PM Flag
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Eat healthy, drink only Fri and Sat nights, go out for a long walk every day. Honestly, I have lost weight and feel better than I did pre-covid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:33 PM Flag
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Exercising [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:07 PM Flag
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^oh and I don't drink alcohol - secret of my success ita makes a huge difference in life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:07 PM Flag
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Peloton helps me stay mentally and physically sane [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:57 PM Flag
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exercise, abstaining from alcohol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:15 PM Flag
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exercise and eat well. walks outside help a lot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:36 PM Flag
[ - ] DD is turning 18 and I want to get her something special and that she'll have for years to come. My parents got her diamond earrings, so that's out. Budget is around $1500. She's starting college in the fall so I was thinking of something like an LV Neverfull, but maybe that's silly? Any suggestions? 23 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:54 PM Flag
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Any clue what she wants? We got our dd a Mac laptop. My parents got me a nice bike when I went to college, it was what I really wanted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:02 PM Flag
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She hasn't given us many good ideas...a pair of shoes (which I would probably buy her anyway as I know she'll need clothes for college). I mentioned the LV and she said she'd think about it; thought it might be too flashy for her. But then she said maybe a Goyard is more "under the radar" (not sure, but I'll take her word for it). But I can't figure out how to buy it online. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:23 PM Flag
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^OP. A computer is good suggestion. Hers is getting old, so she'll probably need a new one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:24 PM Flag
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New computer--if going to college, she'll need it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:41 PM Flag
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Lol, Goyard is not under the radar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:40 PM Flag
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OP--that's what I thought! She said that everyone knows LV, but not everyone knows Goyard. Honestly, I think the LV looks and feels more durable and high quality. I'm kind of leaning toward that because I honestly think you can always use a great tote for school, work, running errands, etc. Plus, while it may be NOKD on UB, I like LV. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:45 PM Flag
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I agree LV looks more durable, but she may wear it our after a few years. A different piece of jewelry? Bracelet? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:07 PM Flag
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I got a typewriter! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:28 PM Flag
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Me too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:58 PM Flag
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I bought myself a nice bike in college and I still have it. I've paid way more for repairs/tune up than the bike was worth at this point. My kids and I have been really into bike rides duirng COVID and everytime I time I get one it I think about how much I love that bike. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:32 PM Flag
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Tell her you'll pay for spring break. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:08 PM Flag
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Usually I love the idea of experiences, but in this case, I want to get her something she'll have and can use for years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:27 PM Flag
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do kids still wear watches? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:30 PM Flag
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I asked her; she said some do, but she doesn't. I would have loved to get her a nice watch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:34 PM Flag
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Pre-Covid I would have said a nice set of luggage items like Briggs&Riley or Rimowa [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:31 PM Flag
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That's a good idea... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:33 PM Flag
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I got a luggage set and a big Laura Ashley weekend bag. I used the suitcase set for years. I still use my weekend bag 25+ years later. I think a 2 or 3 piece set of suitcases or soft luggage would be nice. The world will travel again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:40 PM Flag
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We're getting DS a gaming laptop, he has wanted one for a while and it's way more than we would ever normally get him (he doesn't ask for much). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:41 PM Flag
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Quality set of luggage, new laptop, luxury handbag that is not flashy, jewelry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:49 PM Flag
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OP. What do you think is a luxury tote that wouldn't be too flashy for a college student? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:58 PM Flag
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I like Prada leather tote bags and also Tod's which is a little less expensive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.15.20, 11:53 PM Flag
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A nice Longines watch is right in this price range and will last for years to come. If she does not already have a sizable metal watch it may help her to feel more confident in college and for job interviews, etc. Bags are subject to wear and tear so I would not get one for this particular occasion since you mention you want it to last for a long time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:12 PM Flag
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no 18 yo wants a Neverfull. I would get her a good computer for college. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:56 PM Flag
[ - ] I would really like a republican mayor in NYC and a democratic president. One can only dream 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:49 PM Flag
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I'm interested in Yang for mayor but I don't think he'll ultimately go for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:50 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:57 PM Flag
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Oh, he would be good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:29 PM Flag
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That would be awesome. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:51 PM Flag
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good call, that would be a dream [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 08:02 PM Flag
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Nope. Dems all the way. [ Reply | More
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cuz they've done such a great job in the past. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:58 PM Flag
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Have republicans? Bloomberg doesn't count. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:00 PM Flag
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This [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 06:52 PM Flag
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I would really like a smart mayor and president for a change. Someone like Bloomberg, Bill Gates, the Clintons. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.12.20, 03:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Will someone help me interpret this statement from the California State University System? Are they saying they are test-optional or test-blind? "This temporary change of admission requirements will also apply to impacted CSU campuses and programs. Campuses and programs designated as impacted may utilize higher “a-g" GPA thresholds for applicants, as well as identify supplemental criteria and their relative weights, in making admission decisions. However, in no case will standardized test scores be utilized in making admissions decisions for applicants during the 2021-2022 academic year." 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:40 PM Flag
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Sounds like the CA GPA is what matters and that you can submit test scores but they won't be the decisive factor. [ Reply | More
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What worries me is that "in no case will standardized test scores be utilized in making admissions decisions." I was hoping a strong score would help DC stand out from students who don't submit at all. I knew it wasn't going to affect the eligibility index score. [ Reply | More
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That is test-blind [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Need to purchase a new blazer for middle school-aged DS. What brand do most boys wear at this age? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:28 PM Flag
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My 5ht grader likes Zara. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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+1 this is a good choice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:31 PM Flag
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H&M [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:32 PM Flag
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+ good cut and cheap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:34 PM Flag
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If he's thin, consider Uniqlo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:37 PM Flag
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I really struggled to find my 7th grader a blazer this winter. We ended up getting some Calvin Klein and Michael Kors that were a decent fit. DS is 5'6" and 96 lbs--size 12 was absurdly short and he was swimming in the size 14. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:40 PM Flag
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Serious question where are they going to wear a blazer anytime soon? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:05 PM Flag
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GAP was large and boxy on my DS. I'd look at Nordstrom Rack. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:31 PM Flag
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Go to Brooks Brothers or Vineyard Vines. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:51 PM Flag
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depends on your price point. Zara/Uniqulo for less expensive, Crew Cuts for mid-range, Brooks Brothers/Vinyard Vines for high end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] Fatigue. Have you experienced being tired more than usual due to the pandemic? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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Yes. I think I'm sleeping for crap at night. I just started on melatonin gummies two nights ago and I'm happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:23 PM Flag
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How about sleeping well at night and still waking sluggish? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:24 PM Flag
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me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:58 PM Flag
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yes. I am so used to getting up and going somewhere: drop kids at school, go to work, go to work out class on weekend mornings. Now I am just home and bored and lethargic [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:27 PM Flag
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Op-I am like this and worry if something is wrong with me. I have not gained weight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:28 PM Flag
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same, but I think I am just the type of person who needs to get up and go. if I don't, I get bored and depressed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:37 PM Flag
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Op-you sound like me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:51 PM Flag
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Make it a habit go for a walk. I have to take the dog out, so I have to be ready by 8am. I still shower and apply simple make-up just as before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:31 PM Flag
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A dog would help. but w out a real reason, it is hard for me to motivate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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I sometimes walk and catch up wit a friend or with a podcast. Make it your special time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:40 PM Flag
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Yes but it's partly because my sleep has been TERRIBLE. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:34 PM Flag
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I did initially but I started working out fairly hard most days and I am a lot more energetic now. I'm also cutting down on my wine consumption, which got out of control really fast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:36 PM Flag
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Yes, but I'm also bored, stressed and depressed. I'm also cold most of the time, probably due to weight loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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"Yes, but I'm also bored, stressed and depressed." Hello, Me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:42 PM Flag
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Me too! All of the above and cold. I have lost 8lbs these past 3 months... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:59 PM Flag
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this accurately describes 2020. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:59 PM Flag
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Hey, with other people feeling the same I feel a bit better, thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:38 PM Flag
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I think staring at screens for longer than usual is fatiguing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:04 PM Flag
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Never thought about thet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:08 PM Flag
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That [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:08 PM Flag
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I think it is making us more irritated too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:17 PM Flag
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I miss my crazy schedule [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Hiring a nanny from care.com - any advice? First DC. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:21 PM Flag
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Don't. Are you in the City? Join a Moms FB group and get someone personally recommended. Anyone can sign up on Care.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:44 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:11 PM Flag
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I hired “the best” nanny recommended by a good friend. And she took my children shoplifting. My suggestions: check multiple references, make a contract that clearly states responsibilities and vacation days and pay structure, pay on the books, drop in often and at different times, trust your instincts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:14 PM Flag
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+ get a nest or other camera [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:48 PM Flag
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we found our nanny on care.com and shes still with us 4 years later [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:48 PM Flag
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I did and she is a dream. Over-ask (be very specific about what you are looking for) in your initial post - you will get hundreds of responses. If you are planning to be on the books, make sure to put that up front. I did a background check and spoke to four references. Google the references to make sure they are real (not just friends of the person). We also did a two week trial period while I was home. I would come and go during the day during the trial period. I also had family members drop in unexpectedly to see how they felt about her. We did do a nanny cam, but we told her about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 04:56 PM Flag
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Super helpful, thank you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 05:19 PM Flag
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