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[ - ] NYC has 0 (zero) Covid cases yesterday as far as I can tell? Why would schools be closed this fall? 1 person can always get sick from something or die in car crash, but we still drive cars 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:54 PM Flag
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Because asstards from the other infected states will come here and not quarantine and BoOM. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:56 PM Flag
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Ehhh. That Horace Greeley graduation situation certainly didn’t help. NY is going to see more of that attitude and behavior and then BoOM, uptick. And to top it off I heard they’re refusing to participate in the contact tracing. Rich people, they’re just like everyone else. Asstards. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:27 PM Flag
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Where do you see 0 cases? I thought it was hovering around 1%. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:58 PM Flag
[ - ] Just had a big birthday and thanks to the pandemic I ended up getting a bunch of cash from family since we couldn’t celebrate and people weren’t feeling inspired for gifts. I want to get a nice, higher end crossbody bag that works for day and night, any suggestions? Budget is flexible. I am 40, dress pretty casual and like classic pieces with a bit of an edge. It’s hard only shopping online which is why I want recs 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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I have a few Chanel wallets on a chain that I really like, but they are very tight for daytime. The Hermes Evelyne is good for daytime but a bit too casual for night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:44 PM Flag
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https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/judith-leiber-couture-pepperoni-pizza-clutch-bag-prod223210138?utm_source=google_shopping&adpos=&scid=scplpsku187780573&sc_intid=sku187780573&ecid=NMCS__GooglePLA&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI18T22YKv6gIVD4rICh0qvAegEAQYDiABEgKFmPD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds ... the shape is classic daytime, and the jewels elevate it for night [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:48 PM Flag
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So elegant! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:00 PM Flag
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Thanks for the laugh! I saw a pepperoni-pizza pool float and though that was silly, but this takes the cake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:01 PM Flag
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:) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:05 PM Flag
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Loewe Gate crossbody? I prefer brands without big logos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you tell a guy you’re dating if he used a term of endearment that you don’t like? He calls me sweetie which seems old fashioned to me and I’ve never liked it but also not sure if it’s worth saying anything and how I would without being harsh. WWYD? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:27 PM Flag
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'Hey honey, this is a small thing, but I was hoping you could change up 'sweetie' for another term of endearment. How do you feel about _____?' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:33 PM Flag
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Okay good idea that’s not bad. Is it just me who feels this way with sweetie. Do other people like it? In general I’m not a big terms of endearment person [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:34 PM Flag
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OR: I've always thought it sounded condescending even when the person delivering it probably didn't have that intent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:36 PM Flag
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he sounds really nice when he says it I just don’t like the word but I don’t have a good substitute either. I might just not be into terms of endearment. It seems a little nuts to make an issue out of this when it’s my preference [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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OR: Disagree. Flip it. If you were calling him a term that you thought was innocuous and it made him cringe internally - wouldn't you want to know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:39 PM Flag
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I prefer "sweetie", Hate "babe". I'm completely charmed when women friends refer to me as "dear." That feels very old fashioned. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:19 PM Flag
[ - ] New UB Moms invented by Covid: Cannonball Pool Party Mom. Anyone else? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:24 PM Flag
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Nap Dress Mom!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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Couple of ED Moms on today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:35 PM Flag
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I don't wanna pay my rent mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:39 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:55 PM Flag
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New Puppy Mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:40 PM Flag
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?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:55 PM Flag
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No- the dad brought home a puppy when were in the worst of it in NYC. She claimed she told him she did want it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:02 PM Flag
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Chicken Little Mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 06:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you take your kids to a kid birthday party in an nyc playground this afternoon? My friend invited everyone and I'm a bit hesitant about going...having major anxiety. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:10 PM Flag
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I would give them masks and bring hand sanitizer. I think outdoors and moving around a lot is okay, especially with masks on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:14 PM Flag
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Masks, sanitizer, and to the extent possible keep your social distancing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:14 PM Flag
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Masks and sanitizer. You can always make an excuse of why you have to leave if people are getting too close and/or aren't wearing masks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:15 PM Flag
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Do what you are comfortable with. If you aren't comfortable - don't go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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+1 You don't need to explain or justify to anyone. You're the one who needs to put your head on the pillow at night knowing you tried your best to do the right thing for your family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:24 PM Flag
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I think it's shitty for people to have a party in a playground right now. They're basically coordinating a large group to arrive all at the same time (who wouldn't have normally have been there at that time), making it even more difficult for everyone else to properly socially distance. Space and time is limited for a lot of people. I'd be pissed if the one hour I was able to break away from work to take my kids out for much needed exercise was thwarted because of some big group. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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This. Do it on a patch of lawn and think of activities where kids can be spread out, like kicking a soccer ball [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:37 PM Flag
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Also, I know nobody ever does this, but you're technically supposed to get an NYC Parks Permit for any organized group gathering. The city is not currently issuing these now, so clearly they don't want people doing this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:44 PM Flag
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You don't need a permit for under 50 people. I'm inviting 4 kids to my DD's birthday in the playground in two weeks and already looked into it. Also, depending on teh number of kids, I don't see anything wrong with me having a party there because my DD and the friends we are inviting would usually be at the playground just about every day anyway, so it's not actually bringing in "more" kids to the playground. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 08:22 PM Flag
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"From the smallest birthday party to the largest concert, special events take place every day in New York City parks. If you want to have any activity in a City park with more than 20 people, or where you would like to reserve a specific area within a park, you need to apply for a special event permit." And I don't think that meeting up with 4 kids is what OP is talking about when she said, "My friend invited everyone." Four kids and their guardians is just like an outdoor playdate, not taking up massive space. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 08:29 PM Flag
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Well I looked up having it at Washington Market Park on their website and it said a permit was only needed for more than 50 people, so I don't know if there are different rules for different parks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.20, 12:08 AM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:08 PM Flag
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No but that’s more because I want everyone to go the F away and it’s hot AF out today [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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Yeah, it's brutally hot today [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Who actually prefers the COV quarantine life? Describe your situation before and after.. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:56 PM Flag
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Me. I will say, I do not have DCs yet, which I think makes a big difference. Pre-COVID, I would walk with DH to his office and get on an M1 to mine. I work in a very loud, open floor plan office. Headcount has grown 30% since I started and we don't have a single inch more of office space- they just keep moving desks closer and closer. There are never enough conference rooms, so I have been forced to take many calls on the dirty floor of our service elevator vestibule. I would leave work around 7 and get home around 7:30. I have MS, and the commute really takes a lot of my energy, so after I got home, I would feed the dogs and then sit on the couch alone and read until DH got home around 10 or 11. Now, I have SO much more energy- I can sleep later and I don't have to use all that energy to commute. I get to hang with my dogs all day. I get to eat dinner with DH 7 days a week. I don't waste mental energy on what I am wearing or how my hair/makeup looks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:07 PM Flag
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LOL! This is like an advertisement for birth control. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:15 PM Flag
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+1 sounds so lovely... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:19 PM Flag
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:) We know it won't last forever. We know we want kids one day. But we have looked at each other frequently during this quarantine and said "I am so glad we don't have a baby right now..." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:46 PM Flag
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You sound like an utterly self-involved Millennial. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:21 PM Flag
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Np: How did you get that from this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:27 PM Flag
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WTF?! She sounds grateful and self-aware. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:00 PM Flag
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I can see how it would be nice as a DINK. DIWK -- not so much! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:30 PM Flag
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OR: I bet! Most of my friends/colleagues have babies/toddlers- those who were able to take their nannies with them to their country/beach houses are enjoying it, my SAHM friends are enjoying it, but my friends who work FT and haven't had their nannies in are starting to lose their minds, and understandably so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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I really enjoy not feeling pressured to attend things and am liking being well rested. Am realizing how tired and overcommitted I was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:20 PM Flag
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I don't prefer the entire package, but there are aspects that are nice. I am hardly ever able to visit my family because it's difficult for me to take so much leave from work. Now, I'm able to work remotely while visiting my parents (don't worry, I did so safely). I was worried about after school care for my kids--that's obviously not an issue anymore. It's just nice to have flexibility to be at home. I just don't like the lack of flexibility to be outside of home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:22 PM Flag
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Me. We all had to lead pretty insane lives for work and school. DH and I are not traveling anymore. DCs are teens and are quite self sufficient. We work from home and spend a few hours in the PM as a family and then get back to our individual evening priorities. Also working out almost everyday. I could do this forever! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:29 PM Flag
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+1 This is almost exactly our life too. It's like we didn't realized how ridiculous our lifestyle was until we had to slow it down. Best spring and summer I've had in years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:51 PM Flag
[ - ] DH hasn't done a damn dish in months. Last night he must have had a change of heart and decided to start with ... soaking our cast iron skillet in dishsoap and water overnight. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:50 PM Flag
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You're not supposed to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:53 PM Flag
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You’re not really supposed to wash them at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:55 PM Flag
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How do you clean it after you use it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:58 PM Flag
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Chainmail or salt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:06 PM Flag
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Thank you. Live and learn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:09 PM Flag
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NO you're not supposed to. Cast iron is seasoned. Dish soap basically dissolves the hard-earned seasoning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:06 PM Flag
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HA! Oh my GOD. It's a running joke in our house, threatening to use dish soap on my cast iron. Nevermind OVERNIGHT. I'd kill him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:05 PM Flag
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It actually looks like the pan might be rusting? After 1 night? Is that possible? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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yes indeed iron oxidizes quickly when exposed to air and humidity [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 08:32 PM Flag
[ - ] I signed ds up for a 2 week science course on zoom. He’s really enjoying it, but seeing how well the class is conducted makes me really resentful of the ‘online learning’ he got from his elementary school - one hour of zoom per week and 20 minute daily assignments cribbed from scholastic w minimal feedback. I know nothing is going to change, but how do I get over these feelings? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:23 PM Flag
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I think it means that if you want quality remote instruction, you have to pay for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:28 PM Flag
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Has anyone had luck getting zoom tutors? Where is the best place to ask? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:50 PM Flag
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Can you describe more why it is good? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:56 PM Flag
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CTD course at northwestern - there’s robust discussion, the kids are smart and asking interesting questions, the teacher is fun but firm, they’re using a college level textbook which actually challenges him, they do experiments together (supplies were mailed to us a month ago), they have homework which is interesting and which gets reviewed, and he really looks forward to it...it’s hands down awesome. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:09 PM Flag
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They are using a college textbook in elementary school?! Wow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:13 PM Flag
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NP I agree but textbooks aren't always considered good things these days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:15 PM Flag
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What grade? Would you mind specifying what class? I have a rising 5th grader who would probably love a class like this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:00 PM Flag
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It’s northwestern’s CTD solstice aerospace course... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:46 PM Flag
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Is this Hollingworth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:12 PM Flag
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My kids are doing hollingworth and it starts next week. They appear to have a lot of thought into planning their online offering and my kids are looking forward to it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:16 PM Flag
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Think about how much you are paying for it? I assume dc goes to public school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 06:25 PM Flag
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Women on here love to slam paying for remote learning at private, but my dd at private had a much better distance learning curriculum than my ds at a public. You get what you pay for. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:40 PM Flag
[ - ] There's clearly a push from teachers on these (and other) boards about their safety being at risk to return in person. But there seems to be a lack of effort from UFT to say, "we weren't at our best during initial remote learning, but here's how we're going to promise live instruction, better communication to parents, clearer guidelines for grading..." Its just - let us stay home and make full salaries because its not safe for us to return to work. I actually agree that its not safe, but its not any less safe than a multitude of other jobs that are better in person. They just seem unwilling to make ANY concessions. Am I missing something? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.02.20, 03:20 PM Flag
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That’s what I don’t get... teaching *isnt* a job that can be done well remotely. And I’m not sure why teaching is held up as a special class separate from all the other jobs which can’t be done remotely... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:25 PM Flag
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DH is a teacher. Neither of us has issues with him going back in person. Also, even if RL is improved, there are a ton of issues that cannot be addressed. For large groups of students, it just won't work. Young kids, kids in adverse home environments, kids with special needs. Sure if the whole city is closed, we have no other choice, but if retail stores are open, schools should be open. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:45 PM Flag
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THIS THIS THIS. Teaching is not a job that can be done from home. End of story. If you can't deal with that, find another profession. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:51 PM Flag
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This is exactly why I am anti-teachers union. I have no problem with them demanding safety, but they're basically demanding a paid one-year vacation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:55 PM Flag
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Well as a labor union I don't think it's within the UFT's scope to make improvements to the remote learning instruction; that falls on the DOE (though the UFT has to agree to certain stipulations). As a teacher and UFT member, I will add that I don't think UFT and "teachers" are necessarily synonymous. It's not as if anybody has ever actually consulted with me or my colleagues and asked how I feel about XYZ scenarios for next year. In our most recent chapter meeting, a lot of the conversation was about updating our technology for next year which I believe would improve remote instruction for students. For the most part (pre and post covid), our asks are along those lines, tools that will improve our practice and effectively improve instruction for students. On a school level, we haven't had any conversations about next year's arrangement except to review and unpack the information coming from above. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:14 PM Flag
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Wasn't it the UFT that refused to allow principals to require teachers to do live/Zoom teaching? Unbelievable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:17 PM Flag
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Yes, but as I mentioned it's not as if me or my coworkers are actually being consulted about these decisions, so to suggest "teachers" want or don't want something is misleading. I also think there's way too much emphasis on this board about live vs asynchronous instruction which is really short-sighted. It's a complex approach that requires a lot of nuance. Ultimately I don't believe it's what makes or breaks decent online instruction and again, it's not as if my personal views are being shared with the UFT head honchos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:31 PM Flag
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Don't act like all teachers have zero input. While they might not be asking YOU personally, of course there are teachers driving these demands. Don't be obtuse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:42 PM Flag
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My point is that whomever those teachers are, they are distant enough from the majority of us to not be representative of us as a group. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:57 PM Flag
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What a remarkable position you’re in. You seem to have no control over your entire professional experience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 10:30 PM Flag
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That's what union labor is. Yes, you're part of an organization that advocates on your behalf but you don't get to negotiate raises with your boss, determine your own schedule, or broker parental leave policies. We have to clock in and out; there is very little flexibility. Personally, I prefer this way of working, but it sounds like you would not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.20, 03:24 PM Flag
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You elect the union leaders. There's a big difference between "Hey Jim, I'd like you to tackle parental paid leave" and "Hey leadership, we need to ask everyone to rise to the occasion and perform at an adult level of remote working or we're going to go down in flames." [ Reply | More
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My point is that whomever those teachers are, they are distant enough from the majority of us to not be representative of us as a group. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:57 PM Flag
[ - ] So that’s the verdict - 50%- everyone happy? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:04 PM Flag
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50% of what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:50 PM Flag
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no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:51 PM Flag
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Too vague. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:52 PM Flag
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50% of my toes are happy right now in my sandals, but the rest are feeling squished and unloved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:59 PM Flag
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Capacity in the public schools I mean [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:15 PM Flag
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Is this what BDB said? 50/50 remote/in person? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:20 PM Flag
[ - ] Just had my first hearing test (I'm 50+). Conductivity issues in right ear (going back for more tests next week). Anyone have this issue? Did you have to have surgery? tia 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:52 PM Flag
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I’m sure it’s not what you want to hear but hearing loss might mean brain tumors. Something blocking the ear canal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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What’s wrong with you? That’s not even accurate that a brain tumor would block an ear canal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:24 PM Flag
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Thanks -- I did google causes and they mentioned benign tumors. I guess it could be malignant too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:48 PM Flag
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I’m an audiologist! Did they say a “conductive hearing loss” in right ear? Then definitely not a brain tumor, do not listen to that poster! Could be fluid or a problem with eardrum or middle ear bones [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:23 PM Flag
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Love you! Yes -- that's what they said (I think -- I have trouble hearing, you know :)). I'm seeing a middle ear specialist (why do I think of the Hobbit?). I'll post an update. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:49 PM Flag
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Conductive hearing losses are often treatable. If not, a hearing aid is an easy fix as opposed to using a hearing aid with a sensorineural loss which can be trickier [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:01 PM Flag
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Good to know! I feel better now (less panicked). You have done your official good deed of the day! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 07:06 PM Flag
[ - ] I know I have been gaining weight during SIP, but I've mostly been wearing long, flowy dresses and haven't noticed. Today I'm wearing knit sweater shorts and a loose sweatshirt and I am APPALLED at myself. How can I lose weight quickly? 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:31 PM Flag
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Prolon fast. it is 5 days and you can lose 7 lbs and then it puts you on the right path to eat better foods [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:34 PM Flag
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Gross! Just eat regular food, but less of it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:52 PM Flag
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This. I stopped drinking wine every night and try to stick to 1200 cals a day and have lost 8 lbs since June 1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:22 PM Flag
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Same! And good for you! I stopped drinking on May 5th, started watching the calories and have lost 15 so far. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.20, 02:09 PM Flag
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tried that for months and couldn't do it . this worked . why gross? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.05.20, 01:20 AM Flag
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I have an ED, but I would recommend diet and exercise. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:35 PM Flag
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^^on a more helpful note, I assume you're eating in? Don't buy desserts and sweets, you can control what food is in your house; it's all about control. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:38 PM Flag
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This. And also meal prep really helps, just like you would if you were prepping for a busy week at the office, etc. I went nuts at first with the bounty of groceries we were keeping on hand (and making kids breakfast and lunch every day, in addition to our usual dinners). But I've been planning my personal meals for the day in advance now which helps me not overeat. Also stopped snacking except for a piece of fruit in the afternoon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:29 PM Flag
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OP: I've been doing that my whole life! We don't even really have snacks in the house except chips and salsa (DH eats them, I do not), low fat cheese sticks, and seaweed snacks. And for the most part, I only eat twice a day. I do drink a lot, and when I cut back, I lost 8 lbs in like a week, but it's come back even with cutting back. I have my thyroid tested monthly (not related to this)- my TSH is the lowest it's ever been, but still in normal range. I am distraught. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:57 PM Flag
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Which ED? Any tips and tricks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:15 PM Flag
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The thought of food makes me slightly nauseous, and I don't mind feeling hungry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:35 PM Flag
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^^also I lose my appetite when stressed, and I've been quite stressed lately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:36 PM Flag
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I wish I were like this. I am constantly nauseous, but an empty stomach makes it worse. The only things that make me feel better are simple carbs- plain pasta, rice, soft bread. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:48 PM Flag
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I sort of "weaned" myself off bread; perhaps something like vegetables so that you won't have an empty stomach? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:57 PM Flag
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That's not a bad idea. I used to get those veggie trays from Citarella every week. I should start that again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:08 PM Flag
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in same boat -- just started back on track -- whole foods, no crap, just being reasonable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:36 PM Flag
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Knit sweater shorts? Those probably only look good on something 5'10 and 120 pounds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:53 PM Flag
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*someone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:53 PM Flag
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op: It's these, but in the oatmeal color https://www.jcrew.com/ca/p/womens_category/shorts/3inch/drawstring-sweater-short/AM934?color_name=black [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:13 PM Flag
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Cute! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:18 PM Flag
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Thanks! I really liked them. I was very, very skinny as a kid/teen. I started gaining weight in my 20s-30s. Depending on where in the US you live, you would have said I was either "average" or "thin" (solidly a size 6). Now I think I might actually be medically overweight? (5'7, 155 lbs) and I'm just not used to dressing for this body. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:37 PM Flag
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Aw you're not that bad! Just start getting out more and delete all snacks from the house. You can do it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:57 PM Flag
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Thanks :) I'm not a huge snacker at home (I am in the office), but I definitely need to teetotal for a few weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:17 PM Flag
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that's not considered overweight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:38 PM Flag
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It's like right on the cusp on the BMI chart. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:47 PM Flag
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those have a 2 inch inseam!!! They are not going to flatter ANYONE over the age of 18. You aren't overweight, you've just aged...so have we all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:13 PM Flag
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That's a relief. I haven't really worn shorts since I was 18, so I guess I just expected to see that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:30 PM Flag
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this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:21 PM Flag
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I have decided to try alternate day fasting (ADF). I joined a facebook group and have been lurking in there watching people post their results. It seems like it would be a good option to work around socializing and stuff. I have 35 to lose. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:04 PM Flag
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I feel like I could fast on alternate days. I will look it up! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:14 PM Flag
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PP - bear in mind that your breath will smell bad and it's also bad for your teeth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:45 PM Flag
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The only thing that works for me is to have a real scorched earth fight with DH. Can't eat a thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:19 PM Flag
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I'm sure most people would be appalled at themselves in those shorts. They are FUG. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:39 PM Flag
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They remind me of the '60s, somehow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:44 PM Flag
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I haven't worn shorts since the Bush era, but wanted a pair I could wear at home during SIP. I obviously wasn't going to get a stiff fabric like denim or twill. My options for this endeavor were few. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:12 PM Flag
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You might consider rompers, the kind with short sleeves. Wearing one made of jersey right now - very comfortable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:16 PM Flag
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Are they easy to pee in? I drink so much water, I pee like every hour at least. I used to love my dressy jumpsuits for low-key cocktail parties, but ease of getting in and out is a must. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:19 PM Flag
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About as easy as getting in or out of a jumpsuit or overalls I guess, but make sure the floor is clean, you know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:39 PM Flag
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lol, yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:47 PM Flag
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LOFT - the 6 inch Riviera shorts. Soft and comfy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:14 PM Flag
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I'm the same, no shorts after Age 24. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 08:33 PM Flag
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Don't lose weight quickly - your body will just want to claw it back by slowing down your metabolism. You want to be stealthy about it. Do it slowly, even if it takes longer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 05:44 PM Flag
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Intermittent fasting and Keto diet a few weeks would work well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 09:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Could someone with an ADHD child recommend a chat group or website where I can ask questions? Struggling with pre and post-med challenges. Thank you! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:25 PM Flag
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Youbemom used to have a robust special needs subgroup [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:28 PM Flag
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THANK YOU! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:32 PM Flag
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You might want to check out the Parent Cafe of College Confidential (don't click on the "chance me" threads). They often discuss parenting issues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:04 PM Flag
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Anything on Reddit? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:04 PM Flag
[ - ] BdB just said 75% of the parents taking the return to school survey want kids to go back in fall. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:21 PM Flag
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The other 25% can be taught remotely by the 20% of teachers who can't go back in person. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:33 PM Flag
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I think in-person school can happen, but it is going to take a lot of creativity, flexibility, and extra resources (esp. transportation), all of which are sorely lacking in the DOE. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:51 PM Flag
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I'm holding out hope that HCHS can make it happen, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:29 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:44 PM Flag
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I think their big issue is transportation. Only a tiny percentage of kids live within walking distance (we are lucky to be among them). Parents I've spoken to in Queens & Brooklyn are very hesitant to put their kids onto subways for 2+ hours a day in September. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 04:23 PM Flag
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where did you see this?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:54 PM Flag
[ - ] I attended a condolence call / Zoom for a friend who lost a parent (not sure if to Covid or not). She’s quarantined with her family but not one of them was there while she had this call. I feel badly for her, or is that reading too much into it. If my DH at the least hadn’t been by my side, I would be very hurt. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:15 PM Flag
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You're reading too much into it. This was probably his chance to go to the bathroom or something. Let her talk alone with her friends, whatever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:17 PM Flag
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My DH would have assumed I wanted to have a little space and privacy to talk with my friends. He's super loving and supportive, but I guarantee he would not have attended a call of this nature unless I specifically asked. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:37 PM Flag
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This. My DH and I have been together roughly 23 hours a day for the past 16 weeks. I think a lot of couples can say the same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:23 PM Flag
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I think you are reading WAY too much into this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:36 PM Flag
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+1. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:09 PM Flag
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+2 everyone grieves differently. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:37 PM Flag
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I've lost both parents (not during Covid though) and if I were doing this type of call, I would definitely do it by myself, not with dh. He's already supportive and it just wouldn't be necessary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:38 PM Flag
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I agree that you are reading too much into this. Also, one thing I learned quickly after I married (we lost our moms within the first two years) is that everyone mourns differently. Give people space to mourn in their own way. I'm sure her DH is supportive, but maybe he was helping make arrangements, doing something else that was needed during that time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 02:38 PM Flag
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Maybe they were there, but not visible on the screen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.20, 03:41 PM Flag
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