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[ - ] Any great suggestions for after show dinner in midtown? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:54 PM Flag
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Joe Allen is always good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:59 PM Flag
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Joe Allen is always good. [ Reply | More
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Thank you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:49 PM Flag
[ - ] HELP ME DO THE FOOD MATH PLEase: Going to a family style restaurant with 8 people total: 4 adults, 4 seven yr olds. Menu states that each dish feeds 3 adults. How much should we order? (2 pastas, 1 meat, 1 veg? or is everyone getting just 2 bites of these dishes? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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I would get 2 dishes for the 7 year olds and 3 for the adults. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:45 PM Flag
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but since they are picky kids, i wanted to get 2 pasts- one with butter, one with a light tomato sauce, but also have some chicken and veggies on the table. everyone will share. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:50 PM Flag
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It's impossible to say without knowing how much they think an adult eats. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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Give us the web address of the restaurant so we can look at the menu [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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dont want to out myself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:51 PM Flag
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its basic tho: spaghetti marinana that serves 3, chicken parmesean that serves 3.etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:52 PM Flag
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oh please [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:08 PM Flag
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OFCOL, you think you are the only table of 8 with a 4/4 split between kids and adults going to Carmines or Tonys DiNapoli this week? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:10 PM Flag
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Lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:48 PM Flag
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eyeroll [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:15 PM Flag
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This is the most annoying post of the day and it's only 11 am. 2 meat, 1 salad, 2 pasta (one pretty plain) would be a basic order. Work up or down depending on the actual audience. An adult could be a social xray who will have a lettuce leaf and 12 glasses of wine or a bear of a guy who can knock off a pound of pasta waiting for the turkey on Thanksgiving. So, you know, read the rooom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:54 PM Flag
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op: social x-ray! ily. adults are a mix. 1 big eater, 1 average, 2 that pick. considering getting 2 of the same meat dish so theres enough to go around. a dish for 3 split between 8 people means everyone gets 1 bite. you hear me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 PM Flag
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So, back to "read the room" or even just ask if people would prefer to have "enough" of one thing or a few bites of a few things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:00 PM Flag
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this mom thinks we'll all know who she is if she mentions the name of a restaurant where none of us live. logic doesn't seem to be her strong suit [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:09 PM Flag
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Trudat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:17 PM Flag
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you're an idiot. we all know this site reaches every city. By witholding info, it prevents you from being outed. You verey well may live in the city with this restaurant, so why name it? Simpleton [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 07:29 PM Flag
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I can't imagine stressing about this. Order what you want. If it's not enough order more. Have you ever been outside? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:15 PM Flag
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Op: who’s is stressing? UB is a quick place to ask a few moms a question and get immediate feedback. It’s helpful [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 09:33 PM Flag
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The wait staff will help you with that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:19 PM Flag
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This^. The wait staff can tell you how many people each dish will feed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:48 PM Flag
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You really needed to crowdsource the order? And think it will work when no one here knows the people or restaurant? Just ask the waitstaff when you order, this is not difficult. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:19 PM Flag
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the name of the restaurant wont assist anyone. She stated that each dish feeds 3 adults. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 07:30 PM Flag
[ - ] What is your least favorite household chore to do or to clean? 43 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:39 PM Flag
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Vacuuming carpets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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Get a roomba [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:27 PM Flag
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Cleaning my blinds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:42 PM Flag
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I have 30 windows in the house and really Hated doing them until I figured out the perfect way to clean them. It’s not like it’s my favorite thing to do now but I have to admit my blinds are squeaky clean and that gives me incentive to clean them more often so it is not a long daunting task. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:57 PM Flag
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You found the secret and you won’t share? I will never have blinds because of how dirty they get. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:14 PM Flag
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Ha ha sorry. I posted, clicked watch and went out. Basically I purchased Lysol wipes with one side that scrubs. Shut the blinds, use the scrubbing side and wipe well as it was a wall. You need to push the blinds to the window a bit to gain stability. I divide each blind in three sections and use one wipe with each (they come dripping wet). I use a forth wipe to give a final clean to wipe any excess I missed. The key is to keep them closed and pushed up against the window for leverage. I was not cheap with wipes. I went through many packs but was so worth it. I have to admit I was proud of myself And even DH noticed, score! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:58 PM Flag
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roller shades only in my house, and for this reason. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:46 PM Flag
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I’m thinking of going this way. My mom had a company pick them up. Clean them. And bring them back! I would kill for this service [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 12:14 AM Flag
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I hate going into this one area of my house. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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Is it cluttered? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:57 PM Flag
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It's the area where my teens are. There's guaranteed always something to completely disgust me so I just pretend it's not there. It's the kind of area where no matter how many times you clean the floor, it always feels sticky. Bleh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:05 PM Flag
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Bathroom-toilet area. ugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:53 PM Flag
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I find that the more often I clean it, the less I have to deep clean it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:57 PM Flag
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I just can't, ha ha. I have to wear a mask, gloves up to my elbows etc (not really but I wish I could). 1 bathroom so it's used very very often. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 PM Flag
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Base molding is a pain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 PM Flag
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Me too, literally! Luckily DD is always saving up money for some bit of foolishness or other, so she's on the hunt for extra chores. She does every baseboard in the apartment for two bucks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:21 PM Flag
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seconding, also any elaborate trim on cabinets, furniture, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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It’s over doors in the house have six panels and dust collects at the bottom of the panel and because it’s not clean cut the shaker style, it’s more time consuming. Now I wish we had simpler doors [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 PM Flag
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Polishing silver. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:01 PM Flag
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Jewelry or flatware? If it’s flatware, kudos to you! I think there’s tons of people out there who don’t use their silverware and it just tarnishes in the chest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:03 PM Flag
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I’ve got some silver plate - if it tarnishes too badly, you can’t bring it back. I can never remember what’s sterling and what’s silver plate, so I end up just polishing it all. Would gladly outsource if I could. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 PM Flag
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Everything can be outsourced. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:20 PM Flag
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Posted this before on an identical question a while ago: keeping the tiles clean in my 1930s bathroom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:12 PM Flag
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Identical question? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:59 PM Flag
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I can't even keep the tiles clean in my 1985 bathroom. I've given up trying. I figure if it gets really bad DH will approve my dream of a new bathroom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:28 PM Flag
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I bought a water pik that attaches to the shower head from Amazon. I never anticipated that in addition to saving me a lot of money on dental health care, it's also made cleaning tile, under nails, and so on much easier and kind of fun! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:45 AM Flag
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Dealing with dirty dishes (rinsing, scrubbing amd loading the dishwasher). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:49 PM Flag
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^ the least terrible chore for me Is folding laundry, because it’s already clean. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:51 PM Flag
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same! I use gloves but still get grossed out. Same feeling with dirty bathrooms. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:45 AM Flag
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Dusting. We live on the second floor on a busy street, and I could dust and spray/wipe surfaces every day. The grime that blows in is unbelievable. I miss living on the 38th floor! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:30 PM Flag
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Blech. Get a good air system and limit opening the windows. Your family is breathing all that nastiness in to their lungs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:35 PM Flag
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oven [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:22 PM Flag
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this too. I don't know how to clean the bottom of my oven and it's a self cleaning oven and I tried those oven sprays too :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:45 AM Flag
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Just because it's what I do most often -- pick up things and put them away. Why can none of my kids and DH put anything away? I wish I could just snap my fingers and everything would be where it's supposed to be. No clutter! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:37 PM Flag
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When I shifted to putting their stuff into the rubbish bin they suddenly improved [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:46 AM Flag
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I don't mind actually cleaning things but I hate dealing with clutter and trying to figure out where things go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 09:26 PM Flag
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Taking out the garbage at the beach house. I’m not sure why. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 01:19 AM Flag
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Cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, vacuuming, laundry, I hate it all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:03 AM Flag
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me too. what to do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:46 AM Flag
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OR above. DH handles laundry, I'm giving my 9 and 12 yo more and more chores (mixed results),i have a cleaning person 1x a month, I have a roomba which does an ok but not great job of vacuuming, i have 10 healthy meals delivered every week, and I sometimes have groceries delivered instead of going into the store. And my standards aren't super high. But still I feel like it is all too much. I very much resent anything that I consider "drudgery" or "woman's work." And the older I get (I'm in my late 40s), the more I feel like I want to spend my time on things I enjoy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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Mopping. I don't feel like Swiffers actually clean but mopping is terrible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 12:40 PM Flag
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Yard work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else following this Caroline Calloway mess? It's so goddamned riveting. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:35 PM Flag
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Really? I find it boring. It's people in media getting all lathered up about someone who is conning people by being fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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Yes, but if you are a very shallow person, like I am, it's entertaining drama. It's like being back in middle school for a while, but with no skin in the game [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 PM Flag
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Sure I get that. I follow the Kardashians b/c I find it to be weird. But this person seems so shallow and full of nothing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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I think what I might be getting out of it is a big shot of "thank the fuck lord I am not in my twenties anymore" ... that kind of navel gazing and self-importance is just mind boggling. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:54 PM Flag
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True. She just seems so pathetic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:59 PM Flag
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https://www.reddit.com/r/blogsnark/comments/cynvwx/caroline_calloway_9298/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:50 PM Flag
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I had never heard of her, just googled. I don't understand why people are interested in her. She's clearly personality disordered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:02 PM Flag
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op. It seems like it. I never heard of her until last month but I admit that now I'm caught up in it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Recommendations for a tailor/seamstress on the Upper West Side? I need straps shortened on a lacy sleeveless dress so I don't want to bring it somewhere that only really does hemming, etc, but I also don't want to go somewhere fancy and expensive. Having trouble finding in-between options. TIA. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:11 PM Flag
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Is your Nordstrom open yet? I would even check at the Men's one if the seamstress can take the dress. THEy will do a great job and charge a fair price. You don't have to have bought the clothes there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:23 PM Flag
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I highly recommend "Anthony The Tailor From Italy" at 101 W 74th St (upstairs). Great, great professional. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:38 PM Flag
[ - ] What to bring to someone in the hospital, who just had surgery to remove cancer, other than flowers? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:46 PM Flag
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Ask them if you can pick them up a coffee, shake, slurpee, big diet coke. Get one for yourself and you can enjoy your drinks together for about the time a visit like this should last. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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(Obviously not if they are NPO) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:48 PM Flag
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Diet coke and cancer, hmmm... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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I drink diet coke every day. No cancer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:07 PM Flag
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smh Are you 70? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:30 PM Flag
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I was your friend a few weeks ago. I felt so rotten while I was in hospital I didn’t want to see anyone. When I was released I was most grateful t9 those friends who brought me food or did my laundry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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She asked me to come. So thinking I should [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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A candy bar and potato chips. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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No, just no. Find some small thing she really likes, no greasy or super sugary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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no sugar or bad food for cancer patients. jeez! as a cancer patient myself, I would say real food - fruit or nuts as snacks are fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:43 PM Flag
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you often can't bring flowers anyway. I brought some magazines, ask what they might want to drink, walk with them in the halls a little if their doctor said they could. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:57 PM Flag
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This or a really short, light reading book. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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definitely food. maybe a nice tart or a couple of small pastries they like? Something that doesnt need to be hot or cold and isnt messy. Maybe a couple of magazines, like The New Yorker, etc. Something to read. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:44 PM Flag
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absolutely no sugar for cancer patients. sugar is terrible for cancer. no no no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:44 PM Flag
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some snacks or some good moisturizer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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Cashmere socks, soft cuddle blanket. Sleep mask, nice hand lotion, Chanel Lip moisturizer. No food, after cancer surgery I couldn’t eat for weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:58 PM Flag
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+1 to everything, especially the lip balm because your mouth is very dry after surgery/intubation. I would include cotton socks instead of cashmere, though. I hated the socks that the hospital gave me because they were too hot, and cashmere gives me an allergic reaction. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:21 PM Flag
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no lotions, just food. I had cancer surgery and was starving. I couldn't wait to get home to eat a real mell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:44 PM Flag
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This is the best list. I also appreciated slippers with good tread on bottom. I might add dry shampoo if the person is in for a little while [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 01:53 AM Flag
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chicken / matzo ball soup. cheese blitzes with sour cream. soft in texture jewish food basically. go to zabars [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:35 PM Flag
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that soup idea sounds good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:45 PM Flag
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My friend gave my mom a little llama-shaped planter with a succulent in it. Mom really liked it and she has it on the windowsill at home now. Food gifts will depend on what kind of surgery, how they're feeling and if they're on a special diet. My mom enjoyed getting care packages of mints/gum, wet wipes, and lotion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone seen Slavo’s snow show? Good for a 9 and 11yo? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:33 PM Flag
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I saw it years ago, I think it would be great for kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:34 PM Flag
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too old [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Trying to plan a trip for end of September, Friday night to Tuesday, DH, myself and two teens from NYC. Where would you go? Can stay in US or go abroad, just need reasonable flights - not too long or too expensive. Suggestions? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:24 PM Flag
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Where have you been? What do you like yo do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:30 PM Flag
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I've been to many places, so hard to list. Looking for mellow fun for the family. Really flexible. I don't like camping, it needs to be a place that is easy to travel - quick flight (under 5 hours), nice hotels and plenty to do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:32 PM Flag
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Ain’t Too Proud (a musical about the Temptations) is great fun for a girls’s afternoon/night out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:49 PM Flag
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Oops, wrong thread! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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Quebec City. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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OP: loved it, been recently [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:55 PM Flag
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Portland Maine is fun [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:00 PM Flag
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Oh yeah? what do you recommend there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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NP but Portland Maine mom here: late September a gorgeous time here (possibly early for leaf color but starting.) In Portland proper Old Port fun and easy to walk around, usually a busy time of year for tourist industry so check local paper for festivals/music etc. It's such a good food town these days so read up on that (Bon Appetit had a big piece on this within the last year.) Near Portland Cape Elizabeth has beautiful beaches (Kettle Cove my personal favorite), Portland Head Light also in Cape Eliz is a big landmark and the Bite Into Maine food truck you'll find in the park has THE BEST lobster rolls ever ($$ but amazing, they win lots of awards.) If you like kayaking/paddleboarding it's usually still warm enough that you can rent ones at various locations, trip to Freeport to the LLBean mothership is kind of a fun morning and Wolfes Neck State Park nearby has a lovely easy walk along the coast, take a ferry to Peaks Island and rent bikes to explore a bit, further up the coast the Boothbay Botanical Gardens are quite stunning....plenty to keep you busy for a long weekend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:02 PM Flag
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Iceland [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:47 PM Flag
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Not enough time, I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:06 PM Flag
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Mexico City. Dd and her friend had a blast going there. There is a hipster area of town, some nice museums and if you speak Spanish (or your kids) it's a nice way to keep up with the language . Food was good. Outdoor market. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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I was going to suggest Mexico City as well! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:41 PM Flag
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Toronto. NY Mag has a nice spread about Toronto and places to eat and see. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:00 PM Flag
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Bermuda [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:22 PM Flag
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how about San Juan or Miami? or, New Orleans, Mexico City, or San Diego? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:46 PM Flag
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Santa Fe [ Reply | More
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San Antonio/Austin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Girls trip to NYC in Nov. Ideas for shows, comedy clubs, off broadway stuff, day spa, fun dinner restaurants? Everyone has been there so no sightseeing necessary. Maybe off the beaten trail art museum... shopping? Thank you Manhattan Moms! 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:17 PM Flag
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Why only Manhattan moms? This Bronx mom recommends the Tenement Museum (make advance reservations) or the Rubin Museum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:21 PM Flag
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Thanks, Bronx Mom! Appreciate it! [ Reply | More
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Loved the Tenement Museum! Suburban Philadelphia Mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:38 PM Flag
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Oh please. You know no one cares to hear from the bronx. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:52 PM Flag
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What part of flyover are you from? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:15 PM Flag
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Wtf? You're an imbecile. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:50 PM Flag
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Aire, McKittrick Hotel, brunch at the Roxy, ride bikes along the Hudson River From 34 to the battery, shopping along 9th street from 1st ave to Tompkins sq, stroll around TSquare, get a cocktail somewhere in the east village or butter lane cupcakes, dinner at city winter on the water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:31 PM Flag
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Ain’t Too Proud on Broadway. Lots of fun! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:50 PM Flag
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Sleep No More is great (at the McKittrick). Burlesque in Brooklyn (Company XIV is great). Bushwick art murals and walking around. Dinner somewhere in Bushwick. Shows: Come from Away, Hadestown are both great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:51 PM Flag
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There is burlesque at the McKittrick on Fridays [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:04 PM Flag
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Oh, didn't know that. I live nearby, thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 PM Flag
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It's kind of a revolving cast too, so you can bring out of towners a few times over a year or so and not feel like you have seen the same thing over and over. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:16 PM Flag
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Neat. I also like the rooftop bar that's set up like a ski chalet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:42 PM Flag
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That guy is making a killing. Total stoner dude from Buffalo burbs. Hilarious and charming if you like 'em like that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 12:46 AM Flag
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Head out to Queens if the weather is nice - Socrates Park, the Noguchi, MOMA Qns, then wander around one of the great food neighborhoods to find something for lunch. Get mani pedis while you are out there, the prices and service tends to be much better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:04 PM Flag
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+1 Astoria is nice. Astoria Park or waterfront of Queens is nice b/c you get a good view of Manhattan. There are still some good Greek restaurants out there (if you have a car it's a little easier). Titan Food market and another one (name escapes me). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:08 PM Flag
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Maybe see if you can get tickets to a TV show taping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:16 PM Flag
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I highly recommend the shibui spa at the greenwhich hotel. Beautiful and lovely pool. And you can have dinner at locanda verde, the Italian restaurant at the hotel. It’s a bit overhyped, but cool atmosphere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:11 PM Flag
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Cloisters museum and a walk around Ft Tryon park, coffee or lunch in New Leaf Cafe (in the park) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:24 PM Flag
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In November? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:39 PM Flag
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NP NYC is wonderful in the autumn! What's wrong? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 12:35 PM Flag
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do one day and night in Williamsburg - Domino Park, shopping + galleries, Hotel Delmano for a cocktail (it's not a hotel, it's a bar), D.O.C. Wine Bar for dinner (great food and wine) and the Wythe Hotel or Hoxton's for drinks after. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:48 PM Flag
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You've probably been to upscale-type day spas, but consider reserving one of the Asian storefront-type spas for an hour or two. Excellent massages. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 12:27 PM Flag
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Stay out of Times Square & the theater district if you've already been. Have you walked across the Brooklyn Bridge? Great walk, but bring an extra layer for November. Have you taken the Q train? You can go all the way to Coney Island. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 01:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Dear friends just moved into a new home. I would like to bring a gift. Suggestions? I will bring my friends favorite bottle of wine but I’d like to get them something else too. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:01 PM Flag
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A nice vase maybe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:04 PM Flag
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No do not give gifts for the home. Tastes are so different. I've thrown away so many things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:52 PM Flag
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Bring her favorite wine plus a few more bottles of exotic wines. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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Do you know her color scheme? Nice towels for her guest bath. Dish towels or placemats/napkins for her kitchen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:18 PM Flag
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What about a small plant? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:39 PM Flag
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I get nice doormat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:18 PM Flag
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My friend is a neat freak. I bought her a basket of Method cleaning products from target. I know this is a pretty friend specific gift, we are both pretty practical and dislike clutter. She doesn’t need another tray or picture frame. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Please help with a gift idea for a newborn boy who has an older sister. Budget - up to $100 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:38 PM Flag
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How close are you with the mom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:56 PM Flag
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work colleague [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:03 PM Flag
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Mid sized llbean tote that zips w babies name monogrammed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:32 PM Flag
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Nice, any other ideas with baby name on it? step stool type? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:56 PM Flag
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a nice outfit that they can wear at 9 mo- a yr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:46 PM Flag
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Pottery barn has great hooded towels that can be personalized. Get one or two baby sized and one for older sibling. I have done this and families thrilled. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:15 PM Flag
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these are great [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.10.19, 06:04 PM Flag
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Personalized step stool, collection of board books, outfit, classic teddy bear [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:19 PM Flag
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Great personalized step stool is excellent. Many things like blankets and books will be duplicates because he has a big sister. Maybe a brio train set to grow into? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 02:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Recommendations for places to go hiking w elementary aged kids within an hour from Lower Manhattan, please. TIA 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:31 PM Flag
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The Thain family forest in the New York Botanical Garden in the Bronx [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:33 PM Flag
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https://www.nybg.org/garden/forest/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:33 PM Flag
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or Inwood Hill Park [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:35 PM Flag
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Palisades Park in NJ. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:06 PM Flag
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Harriman State Park in Tarrytown [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 08:47 PM Flag
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Forest Hill Park in Queens or High Rock Park in Staten Island. for Queens, you have to go to Eddy's Sweet Shop for ice cream. It's old and has great flavors and toppings. https://www.yelp.com/biz/eddies-sweet-shop-forest-hills-2 Recommend the marshmallow topping. And if you go to Staten Island, go to Joe & Pat's for Pizza - https://www.joeandpatsny.com It's my favorite old school pizza by far. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:53 PM Flag
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There is a good loop at Van Cortland Park. But fall weelend mornings and early afternoons can be tough because it is used for cross country races. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:55 PM Flag
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North Woods in Central Park [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 12:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Asking for my husband... My husband has a child with previous marriage. He does everything right, he makes the calls, he tries to see her as much as he can, he pays the child support on time, he sends the gifts.... But his ex wife hold back important information about the childs well being, location, travels, schooling, ect... basically everything. He isnt told until way after the fact if at all (for SOME things). Trying to get the ex to answer his calls or facetimes is a fight. Is there some kind of legal thing we can do ? I personally have never been divorced and I have only had one child with my husband so all this is foreign to me. I just feel sad bc hes just so amazing and they just dont allow him to be a dad. Thanks for the info! 30 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:42 AM Flag
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^^ OP: someone posted this on FB.. I will post any reply on that post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:43 AM Flag
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Well right there then you know that second wife has bad intentions. Who posts something private like this on FB? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:09 PM Flag
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+ 1. Tell her to get out of her DH and his ex’s business. Most likely she is ow and really wants to piss off ex and destroy little kids life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:16 PM Flag
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Post a link to the thread [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:09 PM Flag
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Why did he agree to the custody arrangement that allows this? He could have had 50:50 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:45 AM Flag
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He probably had joint legal custody. Rare not to have it. It is not ok what the mom is doing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:15 PM Flag
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If he had wanted shared physician custody, none of this would be happening. He wanted mom to do all of the work and be his liaison to the school and everything else. She is apparently saying f that. OP doesn’t suggest she is denying any visitation. Merely that the dad sees the DC “as much as he can” and sends gifts. Doesn’t sound like he even has regular visitation and may have even moved away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:43 PM Flag
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So what? Just because you don’t have 50/50 physical doesn’t mean your legal rights are taken away. If the mother doesn’t work for example may be a better schedule. I’m sorry. I’m a single mom and I prefer that to when I had 50/50. I don’t keep my ex out of the loop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:55 PM Flag
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No. If you are not an involved parent, it’s unreasonable to expect your ex to treat you like a spouse with a job that makes it hard for you to be around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 PM Flag
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Break the law if you want. Not having 50/50 physical custody is something that works for many people. If you limit access to your kids and their lives to aboatent that has joint legal you are breaking the lawyers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:32 PM Flag
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What? If the mom was breaking the law, OP surely would have mentioned that. It’s pretty clear that the dad is absentee and looking to blame the mom. The post reads as though the dad no longer lives near the mom and DC so can’t physically go to the school himself or see the DC on a regular schedule. However, OP boxed herself in by pretending to post on someone else’s behalf so can’t reapond to provide info. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:49 PM Flag
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Not responding to FaceTime. Joint legal custody men’s making decisions about health care and education. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:25 PM Flag
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np: These aren't "breaking the law". They are breaking a contract. Massive difference. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:29 PM Flag
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It is more serious that that because a judge hasn’t to sign off on this. Custody agreements aren’t a simple contract. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:02 PM Flag
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You aren’t familiar with custody agreements. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:26 PM Flag
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NP: this - this person has no idea how custody works in NYS - I fought hard for 50.50 court wanted to give me 20/80 - after $150K in legal bills and 5 years my ex agreed to 30.70 and it ended. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:23 PM Flag
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How old is dc? Can he reach out to her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:03 PM Flag
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He should receive all the mailings from the school that the mother gets. That’s one issue that should be easily rectified. I would also think he could get some requirement for regular communication w the child via a court order. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:28 PM Flag
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this is good advice. he should also join the PTA and ask the PTA secretary to send all info to him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:55 PM Flag
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Post a link to UB. That person seem like trying to blow up her DH’s relationship with ex why post something like this on FB ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:34 PM Flag
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THIS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:09 PM Flag
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It’s not necessarily mother’s job to update dad. He should be in contact with school, medical providers, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:47 PM Flag
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That seems really impractical (doctor is supposed to return two sets of calls and speak to two different parents separately? Good luck) - but nevertheless the custody agreement should detail how this is meant to work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:08 PM Flag
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This. Whether impractical or not, custodial parent not responsible for being admin to the one who isn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:08 PM Flag
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He needs to have a lawyer write a letter to the principal of the child's school and to the child's pediatrician saying he has a right to receive all records and communications and be included on all decisions, invited to all conferences, etc. Then he should follow up with a friendly phone call or email to the teacher and doctor's office staff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:08 PM Flag
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Sounds like there's no official custody arrangement. Do they live in the same city? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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They have a custody arrangement and whatever he signed, they are both legally obligated to comply with. If she isn't, he knows his legal options. Tell him to call his attorney. The reason he isn't is that you are believing the limited perspective you're seeing. I'd love to hear the mother's side of this... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:08 PM Flag
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Just to shed light from the other POV-- i live alone with my daughter. Her dad is a very good dad but sometimes he really gets on my case about something I didn't tell him and it was something I considered minor and he considered major. An example-- a little campout overnight at her school. They were sleeping there that night in tents. It just slipped my mind to tell him until the day of, and it made him really mad. So, my suggestion (which might be beside the point): Maybe they need to really spell out the things she needs to communicate with him, and also how facetime will work. My two cents, good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:55 PM Flag
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as someone said above, there's nothing stopping the Dad from providing his email to the school, PTA, class parent, etc.. so he gets all the school notifications. I was in a position at dc's elementary school where a divorced dad reached out to me to get info, and I was happy to provide it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:56 PM Flag
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np- I suspect this is the case as well. Ex-h may be shifting all responsibility for legwork/updates on mom. He is creating more work for her. He can do it himself. All schools, doctors, etc. will directly notify of events if he requests. It is not the responsibility of an ex to take care of other parent's calendar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.08.19, 11:05 AM Flag
[ - ] I’m 32 & dating a 54 yo. He seems to like me but doesn’t text everyday. Is that related to his age? Or is he not that into me? dating 4 months. 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:41 AM Flag
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Why date an old man who isn’t nice to you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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Why date an old man who isn’t nice to you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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He could just be busy. I'm not a big texter for reasons other than making plans. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:45 AM Flag
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He's too old for you, period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:46 AM Flag
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Hi, I'm the 30 year old who was wondering about dating a 48 yo. I went out with him and the age difference felt like A LOT even though he was attractive and in shape. What do you see in this guy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 AM Flag
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hopefully he has something major to offer you!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 AM Flag
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I'm 56 and can't imagine being with anyone in their 30's. I'd be too much of a fuddy dud. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:59 AM Flag
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well, my dh is younger than me and he was similar in that he didn't like to be in touch when we weren't together. may just tell him you need to touch base with him more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 AM Flag
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Could be age. I'm 53 and wouldn't text anyone every day. I use texting to communicate information when necessary -- not to chat. If people who are dating text all day, what do you talk about when you're together? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:33 AM Flag
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I’m 50 and sometime my 58 year old DH seems too old. Find someone younger! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:39 AM Flag
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OR: The age difference may ultimately be a problem. I'm just saying that his not wanting to text idle chit-chat isn't abuse or a sign of dislike. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:03 AM Flag
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Yes texting everyday seems excessive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:25 AM Flag
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Why are you dating an old man?!? I'm 45 and feel like my 50 year old husband of 15 years is too old for me-- [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:44 AM Flag
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that's crazy. you're both old bags at this point. 45/50, no difference there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:47 AM Flag
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Thanks (56yo here) lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:53 PM Flag
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Lol. 56 too. While I agree with your '45/50 is little difference' premise, I take exception to the old bag thing. I hope you'll be 56 someday. Talk to me then about whether you feel like an old bag. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:58 PM Flag
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lol. PP- I'm joking sort of about our ages-- we both feel old. I can NOT imagine being 32 and doing a 54 year old. she was a daddy or $ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:03 PM Flag
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That is a major difference in age and life experience. You must be after his money. There is no other reason. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:13 AM Flag
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But, you know, there's nothing actually wrong with that. People have been marrying for economic reasons since the beginning of time. Money makes up for a lot of things, but so does being someone who made that money - who had ambition and became successful by age 54 with the means to share a life that has a good chance not to be stressed, at least not by finances. If he has money and she knows it, he wants her to know it because he knows that's part of his package. So relax a little. I married for money. The world did not end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:47 AM Flag
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Some of us are fiercely independent and are ambitious and successful. By marrying men for money you are supporting the patriarchal system that overall keeps women down. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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Fierce independence and ambition won't get everyone a high salary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:11 PM Flag
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Money isn’t everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:32 PM Flag
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I'm not a texter, why are you so needy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:14 PM Flag
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np: I think this is really generational and also personality driven. Some people see texting as another entire communication channel, a way to connect, vs. the brief exchange of info. They don't sound like a match. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:11 PM Flag
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you are chasing an old man. you are WASTING your last few eligible years. you'll look back at this time with major regret. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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meaning, when its over in 2 years, there wont really be any single men your age left. you'll be stuck with the older ones who are divorced, etc. if you want a partner for life, you better get moving. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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And now we got advice from the mom who last dated in the 60s. Thanks grandma! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:12 PM Flag
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go ahead and waste your time. Every woman has a few amazing single friends nearing 40 that never married, and NOT by choice. By then, theres no one even left to set them up with. If i were 25 i would roll my eyes at this...but Im 49. Ive seen it, and it sucks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 07:32 PM Flag
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Are you exclusive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:01 PM Flag
[ - ] If you had nice quality cabinets that were a pecan colored wood, would you paint them? Thinking of painting them white. I have black granite counters and floors and stainless appliances. I have some furniture in my living room and bedroom that is similar in color to cabinets. But maybe white paint would be cleaner? 33 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:37 AM Flag
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:39 AM Flag
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Thanks. I feel like pecan isn’t that dated. They are fairly basic with some simple crown molding at the top. If they were cherry or oak or even a dark wood maybe I’d paint. The pecan color seems less dated. Even though they are 17 years old! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:34 AM Flag
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I would love the white with black counters and floors [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:41 AM Flag
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Op: the thought of changing is sort of exciting as well, it is really the only thing I can do that won’t cost a fortune. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:35 AM Flag
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I like white and black. Will be fresher and more modern. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:59 AM Flag
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What style are the cabinets? I would not paint flat or Shaker style but would probably paint any sort of raised panel. I would be more likely to price out a new countertop and knobs/pulls. I like this look: https://www.thertastore.com/rta-blog/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/4-4-17_RTA1-Pecan_Shaker20170403-4-qetenf.jpg [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:45 AM Flag
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That look is very blah. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:05 AM Flag
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So is painted white cabinets and black granite (and I love white cabinets). I think the problem here is the granite. Something light and honed would be fresher. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:07 AM Flag
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Way too expensive. To change the floor I would have to remove all cabinets. Can’t change counters if I can’t change floor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:27 PM Flag
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Why can't you change counters without changing the floor? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:28 PM Flag
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Because the floor is black granite. Why would I have a black floor and different counter? It is a small kitchen. having three different materials is too much. If the floor were the same as the rest of the apartment it wouldn’t matter so much. I started out wanting to change the floor and counters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:37 PM Flag
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You can go ahead and paint the cabinets but I think the real problem is the black granite floor. Is it shiny? Could you have it etched or honed? And yes, three materials is fine. That's what most people have. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:58 PM Flag
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It is shiny and I hate it. Three materials in a small kitchen that opens into my foyer seems like too much for me. I will redo it all one day but today is not that day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:02 PM Flag
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What is honed? Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:06 PM Flag
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Ok, so I personally would focus on saving up for the floor. You hate it and nothing will ever look good to you as long as you have to look at that floor. Do you want it to be the same material as the foyer? And I am struggling to understand why you would have to remove the cabinets to redo the floor. Do you mean that you would have to move an island? What is your long-term goal for the space? Would you be willing to try peel-and-stick tiles or a floor mat? Painting cabinets is a big step, even if cheap, and I wouldn't make that my first fix. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:28 PM Flag
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My contractor said it had to be waterproofed. I live in a condo. So many strict regulations. I am doing a total bathroom Reno right now as bathroom is original from 1930. Kitchen was updated 16 years ago so it isn’t as necessary. Things in the city are massively expensive and I’m not up for dumping too much money into removing a floor on a tiny kitchen. One day I will redo everything in the kitchen but today is not that day. Maybe I will look into honing. The shininess is what I hate the most. Could I home the floor and leave the counters shiny? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:02 PM Flag
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Honed is a soft matte finish. On black granite it kind of looks like soapstone. You can have polished granite honed in place. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:30 PM Flag
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That is so ugly. Nothing terribly wrong with black granite. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:28 PM Flag
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Different strokes. I think recessed panel dark wood cabinets and shiny black granite sounds pretty horrific. I'd be happy with the kitchen in the link but would change what op is describing asap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:33 PM Flag
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Op: the cabinets are not dark wood. They are not dated cherry or anything. My pulls are not dated looking at all. I have all stainless. If wood and black don’t look good together then painting cabinets white is what modernizes it the ost. I’ve been looking at magazines and there are tons of black and white kitchen stuff. Itbis a look that never goes out of style. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:04 PM Flag
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I agree, but it's blah in large part because of the boring backsplash (i.e. white walls). With a cool tile or some stone as a backsplash, it would look much better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:02 PM Flag
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It’s awful and the floors look terrible with the cabinets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:12 PM Flag
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The over the counter sink mount is still dated isn’t it? I noticed that in this picture. This looks like a bad garden apartment renovation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:14 PM Flag
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Cabinets are recessed panels, like this. This isn’t exactly the color, I like mine better, but close. The cabinets are solid wood including the boxes. http://www.kraftmaid.com/square-recessed-panel-veneer-2ng6-square-praline-suede/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:12 PM Flag
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White cabinets show every drip, dirt, oil, etc. Same stuff that gets on all cabinets but it really shows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:31 PM Flag
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I have white cabinets and dark green (almost black) granite countertops with travertine floors and backsplash. I love it. I think it’s a classic look. Op, what’s your floor and backsplash look like? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:42 PM Flag
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No backsplash and the floor is black granite tiles. I hate it but apparently to change the floor I have to remove the cabinets because it had to be waterproofed. Not up for spending that much now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:03 PM Flag
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The white phase will pass and then you will be left with painted wood. That is difficult to keep clean. I would leave the cabinets and focus on countertop. Are your floors and countertops really the same material and color? I can’t quite picture that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:51 PM Flag
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Counter is absolute granite. Floors are black granite tiles. It is a tiny kitchen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 PM Flag
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The wood isn’t the problem but steel/black granite is a very dark/masculine theme. I’d get two large light colored kitchen mats and wood butchers block to brighten the space. Teal or burnt orange accents (tea towels/teapot/cookware). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:39 PM Flag
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Thanks. I don’t thin I can have two mats. This is a small city kitchen. Like 7x8. I also don’t like leaving pots etc out. Because it is small it gets cluttered. One of the reasons I didn’t do a backsplash is there just isn’t a ton of space, and with a toaster on one side of range and a mixer on the other there isn’t that much of the backsplash area showing. and I hav a big hood for venting over my viking range. I do have some teal accents and a wood cutting board and a wooden bowl on the counter next to the sink. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:10 PM Flag
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White is always in for kitchens. And white is usually painted wood. What else would it be? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:09 PM Flag
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Lol. White has been "in" for decades! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 06:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it possible that an actor on broadway was making eye contact with me, or are they blinded by the lights and it just appears that way? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:04 AM Flag
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They're trained to make eye contact and engage with all of the crowd. Makes all of the audience feel like they're getting personal attention. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:10 AM Flag
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interesting! I assumed that it was a trick of the eye (lol) given the lights in their face. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:13 AM Flag
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You are either stunningly beautiful or just stupid or both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 07:24 AM Flag
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np why would you say this? I notice peole on stage making eye contact with someone in the audience all the tim [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:27 AM Flag
[ - ] I know you are supposed to send thank you after interviews but if you don’t, does it eliminate you from the pool of candidates? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:03 AM Flag
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Now that I’ve interviewed a bunch and seen what my colleagues say about candidates and seen the thank yous, yes. But I never did! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on this house? https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/71-Eastern-Point-Blvd-Gloucester-MA-01930/56043886_zpid/ 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:49 AM Flag
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Looks like something Fotis Doulos would build. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:56 AM Flag
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It is 100 years old though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:58 AM Flag
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on any given day, there is new money somewhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:06 AM Flag
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For comparision, here are his houses: http://www.foregroupinc.com/available-homes/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:02 AM Flag
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Looks the same to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:04 AM Flag
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Wow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:06 AM Flag
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No need to say “wow.” The interior of the old house was completely destroyed and looks like Fotis style. Nothing historical is left. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:17 AM Flag
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It's a little overstated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:11 AM Flag
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Can you imagine dusting all those concrete holes that the wine bottles are in? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:25 AM Flag
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I bet it’s haunted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:40 AM Flag
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It's too big, I would feel like I was in a hotel. Nine bedrooms? Maybe if you have 6 or more kids, I guess. I don't like the rocky shoreline; if I was paying that much, I would want a real beach. If someone gave me that house, I'd sell it right away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:41 AM Flag
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Lol gloucester has beautiful beaches. This is a stunning setting. And by Boston prices not bad for all the space. In Cambridge that place could be 20 million. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 11:51 AM Flag
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The interiors are sort of hideous, IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 AM Flag
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Looks like a place Barnabas Collins would live in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:59 AM Flag
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Good bones, some cheesy additions that need to be stripped away (can lights, mounted speakers) but overall better than most of the new build mcmansion junk posted here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:48 AM Flag
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Love to visit but wouldn’t want to live there or own it. It’s too close to the water. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:48 PM Flag
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FYI: It is commutable to Boston. (40 miles North of Boston.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:19 PM Flag
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