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09.07.19, 02:41 AM General Topics
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I’m 32 & dating a 54 yo. He seems to like me but doesn’t text everyday. Is that related to his age? Or is he not that into me? dating 4 months. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 09.07.19, 02:41 AM Flag
 

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Why date an old man who isn’t nice to you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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Why date an old man who isn’t nice to you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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He could just be busy. I'm not a big texter for reasons other than making plans. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:45 AM Flag
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He's too old for you, period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:46 AM Flag
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Hi, I'm the 30 year old who was wondering about dating a 48 yo. I went out with him and the age difference felt like A LOT even though he was attractive and in shape. What do you see in this guy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 AM Flag
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hopefully he has something major to offer you!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:58 AM Flag
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I'm 56 and can't imagine being with anyone in their 30's. I'd be too much of a fuddy dud. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:59 AM Flag
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well, my dh is younger than me and he was similar in that he didn't like to be in touch when we weren't together. may just tell him you need to touch base with him more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:06 AM Flag
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Could be age. I'm 53 and wouldn't text anyone every day. I use texting to communicate information when necessary -- not to chat. If people who are dating text all day, what do you talk about when you're together? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:33 AM Flag
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I’m 50 and sometime my 58 year old DH seems too old. Find someone younger! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:39 AM Flag
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OR: The age difference may ultimately be a problem. I'm just saying that his not wanting to text idle chit-chat isn't abuse or a sign of dislike. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 05:03 AM Flag
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Yes texting everyday seems excessive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:25 AM Flag
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Why are you dating an old man?!? I'm 45 and feel like my 50 year old husband of 15 years is too old for me-- [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:44 AM Flag
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that's crazy. you're both old bags at this point. 45/50, no difference there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:47 AM Flag
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Thanks (56yo here) lol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:53 PM Flag
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Lol. 56 too. While I agree with your '45/50 is little difference' premise, I take exception to the old bag thing. I hope you'll be 56 someday. Talk to me then about whether you feel like an old bag. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:58 PM Flag
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lol. PP- I'm joking sort of about our ages-- we both feel old. I can NOT imagine being 32 and doing a 54 year old. she was a daddy or $ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:03 PM Flag
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That is a major difference in age and life experience. You must be after his money. There is no other reason. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 04:13 AM Flag
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But, you know, there's nothing actually wrong with that. People have been marrying for economic reasons since the beginning of time. Money makes up for a lot of things, but so does being someone who made that money - who had ambition and became successful by age 54 with the means to share a life that has a good chance not to be stressed, at least not by finances. If he has money and she knows it, he wants her to know it because he knows that's part of his package. So relax a little. I married for money. The world did not end. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 10:47 AM Flag
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Some of us are fiercely independent and are ambitious and successful. By marrying men for money you are supporting the patriarchal system that overall keeps women down. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 01:54 PM Flag
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Fierce independence and ambition won't get everyone a high salary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:11 PM Flag
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Money isn’t everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:32 PM Flag
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I'm not a texter, why are you so needy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 12:14 PM Flag
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np: I think this is really generational and also personality driven. Some people see texting as another entire communication channel, a way to connect, vs. the brief exchange of info. They don't sound like a match. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:11 PM Flag
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you are chasing an old man. you are WASTING your last few eligible years. you'll look back at this time with major regret. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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meaning, when its over in 2 years, there wont really be any single men your age left. you'll be stuck with the older ones who are divorced, etc. if you want a partner for life, you better get moving. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 02:49 PM Flag
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And now we got advice from the mom who last dated in the 60s. Thanks grandma! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:12 PM Flag
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go ahead and waste your time. Every woman has a few amazing single friends nearing 40 that never married, and NOT by choice. By then, theres no one even left to set them up with. If i were 25 i would roll my eyes at this...but Im 49. Ive seen it, and it sucks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.09.19, 07:32 PM Flag
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Are you exclusive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.07.19, 03:01 PM Flag
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