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[ - ] DD (5 yo) just froze and refused to go on stage during tap rehearsal for her upcoming recital. She loves dance but clearly is fearful of performing in front of an audience. Do I encourage her to go to the dress rehearsal and performance, or let her out of it and try again when she’s older? wwyd? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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I would encourage and praise as much as possible but not force her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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Encourage her and talk to her teacher - they have dealt with stage fright before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
[ - ] How long did it take for pain to go away with nursing your first? (I've seen two lactation consultants who told me latch was perfect btw.) 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Once the cracks were healed it was fine. Have you checked for thrush? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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It does take a while to settle into it and I had a friend who never found it comfortable and gave up. If you are also pumping check that the pump isn't making you sore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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np: I had thrush and a staph infection at the same time. The staph infection wasn't diagnosed for a while (because it was assumed I only had thrush). Are you in the NYC area? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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op: i'm not in nyc, but thanks for the tip [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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GL. (I asked about NYC because if you were near here, I'd give you someone to call). If it doesn't get better soon, ask your OB about possible other problems (such as staph). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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were you nervous about passing staph to DC? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 12:57 PM Flag
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What treatment are you using for the thrush? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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10 days of diflucan and db is on nystatin. i'm also eating lots of yogurt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 04:16 PM Flag
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even when you're doing everything properly and there is no thrush, it's toe-curling pain while the nipples toughen. Don't worry, but grit your teeth until it passes... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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If you do it correctly, your nipples don't have to be "toghen". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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it's just the term used for getting them accustomed to the constant sucking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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6 wks for first, 8-10 wks for 2d. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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wow, longer for the second, that's interesting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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both my nipples got infected @ 4 days , got an antibiotic to clear it up and it took @ 2 weeks for pain to go away. I can honestly tell you I got to a place where he could suck forever and it didn't bother me at all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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op: it's odd because it doesn't hurt when she sucks, it hurts after she's finished [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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wow, you should get checked. It might be an infection. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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well i have some cracks and i think the air hitting them just makes it hurt. being treated for thrush but if it's not better soon i'll see dr about it. thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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I would use a wet washcloth every time before I would nurse. It would clear away the cracks and then it was an easier transition to nurse. Hang in there it does clear up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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warm washcloth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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yeah i would soak the nipples and then it made it easier when I would nurse [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:43 PM Flag
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Try soaking your nipples in some salt water after nursing for a minute or two. I had the worst scabs for two weeks and the soaks healed everything up in about 2 days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 10:21 AM Flag
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I have vasospasm (Raynaud's), so it didn't go away until several months after I stopped nursing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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Try consultan Maire Clements if in NYC. It did not hurt with the techn. she used and my insurance covered it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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Yes -- i used her too. it's not supposed to hurt! If it does, or ou're getting discouraged at all, call Maire. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.23.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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Warm wash cloth before, put cream on after and stuff a green cabbage leave into your bra. It sounds insane but it helps, keep the cabbage in the fridge so it is cool. I also used the hair dryer sometimes after to dry them. I used to dip the nipples in salt water or use olive oil or the nursing cream and let them also air dry... I felt like a complete moron ... Try and avoid the pump, keep the baby on the breast as much as possible. Get a good chair, sit straight, get a boppy, don't move the breast to baby other way around etc. GL ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.11.08, 12:55 PM Flag
[ - ] Help with dinner suggestions for dh and I. Sadly I am a trained chef, but have completely lost appetite since pregnancy 18mo) and am still nursing... don't know if it is from being so tired all the time, but cannot for the life of me get into food... poor Dh... easy suggestions? tia 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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Jacket potatoes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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thank you... anyone else? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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We are having turkey breast, asparagus and bowtie pasta. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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thanks - do you just roast the breast? I cna't even bear food shopping pathetically... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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we're having whole wheat pasta with fresh basil, oven roasted cherry tomatoes, and a dash of truffle oil... grated parm on top... green salad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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np: That sounds good! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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Yum! Everyone ok with so little protein? (I would be.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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np: I buy that protein-enhanced pasta to pretend it's enough :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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Yeah, we eat too much protein anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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Thank you ! After a few months in Italy, I learned that it is amazing what simplicity can do... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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Chicken paillards topped with mixed mushrooms that have been sauteed with garlic, olive oil, butter, pinch of nutmeg and splash of cognac. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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quiche [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] c'mon, nobody has any idea about my photo question? can I copy a single photo out of a slide show that was given to me on disk (not kodak) 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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I have no idea. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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well, thanks for answering anyway! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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what software is it running on. The answer is most likely yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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thanks - I'm running it on quicktime player [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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if you go into the d drive (or what ever that drive is on your computer, can you see the individual files? Change the view to snap shot, scroll through and find the one you want. Click on it once, then hit file/save. Select the directory you want. Easy breazy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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no, I don't think so. I think the whole thing is just one file. I'll check, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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shoot, it's saved as a movie. oh well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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Right click on the photo you want to copy and see what choices you have. If there's a "save image" you might be able to save it to your hard drive. Also look at the disk directory and see what's there -- if it's a *.wmv file I don't think you can pull out a single image. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Next week I am going to have a noes job, a chin job, a shoulder job and have excess fat drained from my butt. 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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Shoulder job? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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With what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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I am not sure exactly how they do it. But I have choosen relaly nice new shoulders [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Bone grafts? Lipo? I simply cannot understand how they do this, and how couldn't you if you are having the surgery? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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They move bone around and reconfigure muscles and suck out fat to reshape my shoulders. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Why am I a moron? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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Well, it's sad that you are doing all this surgery to try to feel better about yourself. But you'd be a moron if you didn't ask for details on how the surgery would be done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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^^And they don't "drain" the fat - they scrape and suck it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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Well I need a new butt. I am not a fan of what it looks like now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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is there any person over the age of - say - 38 that likes the look of their butt ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Well, compared to a chin job, it's not much, but I found it brutal afterward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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while you're under, ask that they give the eyes like a cat and a cleft in your chin... go all out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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np: Everyone I know who had a chin job with their nose job looks like Jay Leno now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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right... I should also suggest cheek implants too... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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I have never EVER heard of a shoulder job and I read every crappy mag out there and watch all the discovery health stuff and all that... I think you are BS'ing about that... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Fake! You can't move muscles around but I love posts that get everybody going! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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An OR above: I had muscles moved when I needed abdominal reconstruction. But it seems like an awful lot to do for better shoulders. Glad it's fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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Damn ! I fell for this one ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone here get into MTW, regardless of if you took the spot? If so, why do you think you got in? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.16.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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got accepted. declined in favor of another school, though. How did my kid get into MTW? No clue. We are unconnected. It might have been pure luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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I'm talking more about how you answered the questions. DO you think you or dc offered anything special that made you stand out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I assume we just BSed our way through those questions like everybody else. We were enthusiastic and showed interest in their social sciences approach and made the most positive out of the large class size. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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I'm blanking. What is MTW? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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Midtown West [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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We did. No connections. Read something a while back that made me believe it was because dh is in a big $ field. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:07 PM Flag
[ - ] Wow, so not all 98s got into ps 116? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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OOps meant for schools. Will repost there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
[ - ] what do you think of this dress. I would wear it to a black tie sat night wedding next month. http://www.bcbg.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2891771&cp=2769162.2768981&page=2&parentPage=family 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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belt in middle of draping is strange. the bcbg has gone down a lot in quality last few years. seams not done well, lots of hanging threads, materials not as nice irl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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super elegant. though i agree that belt in middle is odd, has a sort of ice skating or gymnastics costyume feel to it. but not so bad really. i like it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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the belt comes off. I was thinking about removing it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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not that thrilled with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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so any suggestions of where i could look in this general price range - up to about $700. I really don't feel like spending too much time looking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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i love nordstrom.com, though sometimes their dresses are a little bridesmaidy. thread is good. lord and taylor has good dresses. I like the bloomingdales in soho. rebecca taylor [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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ah, I just saw your post saying that the belt comes off. If it does, then it's not so bad ... as long as you have the body to pull it off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
[ - ] is it possible to go to a bank and get a certified check charged to an amex card? buying our first home, and closing costs will be $25-30k....by the time we close we will have enough, but would love to get the points on amex to buy a washer/dryer. anyone btdt? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.16.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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this is exactly why I wished my co-op would accept CC for monthly maint. payments. I would be rolling in the CC points but they don't :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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that sucks. just trying to be creative...i can't believe how expensive buying a condo is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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that's because the banks charge the merchants fees for the "priviledge" of accepting credit cards and the co-op doesn't want to pay those fees. with a Certified check, the bank is certifying that there is enough money in the account to guarantee payment (the check cannot bounce) - they aren't going to certify that you have a big enough credit line to cover the payment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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Possibly but I’m sure you would be charged a much higher rate (i.e 29%) for a cash advance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
[ - ] just took the bottle away from my 15 month old ds a few days ago and he has completely refused to take any milk from a cup. He drinks water from a cup beautifully. Once he tastes the milk though, he pushes the cup away. I feel terrible because he keeps asking for his "bot bot" and is very frustrated. I stopped based on my peds STRONG recommendation. However, I am worried because he is in the 5th percentile for weight and he is not a big eater. Any advice?? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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if i were you, i'd fire my ped and give in to my child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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the fact that your son is in the 5th percentile and your ped still insists on chucking the bottle is WEIRD. you have a SICK pediatrician. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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np: Being in the 5th percentile is fine, there's nothing wrong with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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nnp: ita, as long as there is no significant weight change. maybe he's just a small kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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a small kid who really wants his "bot bot"...why take this away at such a young age? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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well, we don't know the full story here, do we? maybe the kid isn't making sounds and the ped is worried about speech development or something. I'm stretching, I know... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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my son has been in the 75th - 90th percentile since birth (he's by no means fat, either), and our ped never "strongly" recommended giving up the bottle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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So? It doesn't mean your kid is any healthier than OP's. Or that OP's ped is wrong. Frankly, I would ignore the ped because I tend to do what feels right for my kid when it isn't immediately endangering him. But that doesn't mean my ped is SICK. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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op--no he is very verbal-lots of single words and jargons constantly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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i don't get why it's ok to nurse a child as long as you want but it's so evil to use a bottle past 12 months. i always nursed my kids and they all weaned (my choice) by 13 - 14 months but my ped. never said it was necessary. is bottle feeding really that much harder on the teeth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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I would like to know this too. Anyone have any ideas? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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op--ped says it is bad on the teeth and can impact on speech. 5th percentile is fine as he is a small little guy but has been gaining weight consistently. As a mother, though, I feel horrible that I am taking it away. Most friends I know who were bottle feeding took it away at 12 months, si I am actually late!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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Give a bottle but try making the holes in the bottle slightly larger each day or so until you have a BIG hole. Also ave you tried giving it in a straw cup? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
[ - ] DH who is having an affair here. Any questions? 60 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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I need sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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do you love your wife? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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Yes, but I need more sex than she is giving me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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You are a coward and a pathetic excuse for a husband. Any questions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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I am not a coward and I love my wife and 3 sons. I really love them. I just have needs sexually and my wife isn't fulfilling them. My wife is content with sex once or twice a week and that doesn't wrok for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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np: You pathetic motherfucker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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First may I say, maybe you don't work for her if you know what I mean! And secondly, no, you don't REALLY love your wife. If you really loved her, you would go to therapy, compromise somehow, and if really necessary, get a divorce! I feel sick thinking about how blase you are... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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I do love her. I always buy her nice gifts and am thoughtful fo her and support her favorite charity. I always call her and I love spending time with her and cuddling wtih her. My wife is teh love of my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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this cannot be OP writing this drivel... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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OP: I wrote that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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oh. my. god. you are in total denial. I feel very very badly for your wife for making the decision to marry you and have children with you. You sound incredibly self centered and selfish... do you really think those things make up for the fact that you cheat on her?!? What planet are you on? I wish I knew her, bc I would tell her in a heartbeat... poor thing... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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I really do care about my wife and I really love her and I would do anythign for her. I mean this is only a way to satisfy my sexual needs. Nothing more and nothing less. If I didn't love her than I wouldn't do what I do for my wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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That's just your guilt talking. You know that you are wrong, so you are making it up to her in a way that you hope will appease her and not blow your cover. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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I don't really feel guilty anymore. I really disconect hte sex with any feeling. To me it's just a physical activity that means getting naked and being in a bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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I am sure she would't see it the same way. it's called wacking off. And have you ever questioned why your wife doesn't want more sex with you? Perhaps she has someone on the side because she isn't attracted to you? Or you are no longer attentive to her needs in bed? Or she is just plain tired with three sons? Or her Charity fills a need you cannot?? I fyou really really loved her like you say, you would try to work it out with HER - not some cheap floozy who would actually "let you buy her clothes" Puleeze! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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would we surprised to see who you're having the affair with ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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Probably not, she's 25. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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np: Ugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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she knows you're married and all that ? did she have any second thoughts ? what do you give her ? She can get sex with anywhere... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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She knows I am married. I buy her nice dinners. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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so... you buy the girl a steak and a martini (or sushi or whatever) and she gives you sex... That's it ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Right now she doesn't want to have a relationship, so this works for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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np: LOL. The things men will believe. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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seriously - Fast forward to FATAL ATTRACTION! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Maybe. But in my case, I'm married to my booty call (he wasn't married, but he bought my line about not wanting a relationship - we laugh about how stupid he was now). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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OR - similar dit to what dh and I had and we laugh about it too!But the fact that he is married throws in a new dimension... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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Absolutely. But hysterical that this idiot thinks a blowjob in a lobby won't turn into the once or twice a week once the little golddigger gets her way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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np: yes she does [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Now, if tomorrow your wife was hanging from the chandeliers and was like a horny teenager again, would you stopthe affair, or are you now addicted to the "thrill" of it ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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I am not sure to be honest. I mean the sex with my mistress is really good. But if my wife got into sex a lot nad it was like it was early on, then I'd be tempted to stop it with my mistress. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I'm more creeped out that you call her your "mistress"... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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What am I supposed to call her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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your whore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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girlfriend... mistress is very creepy... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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girlfriend would imply love or some sort of dating thing and all this is sex. I mean yes we have nice dinners and stuff and I did take her to teh opera, but in reality that's so she feels good pre sex nad I am hungary anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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fakety fake fake fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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Does your wife know? How do you get away with it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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I have to work late sometimes and her apartment is near work. So it all works out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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how did you meet her and who made the first move ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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We work together and she started flirting with me more and more and then one day I asked her to dinner and I walked her back to her place and she gave me a BJ in a corner of the lobby of her building, then we went upstairs for more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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classy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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Now I don't believe you... you had me going for a while, but now I'm pulling the fish hook out of my cheek... bj in the lobby. Where does she live ? In an SRO ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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There is a tucked in corner of her lobby where the mailboxes are and it was late and she gave it to me there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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She gave you a bj in the lobby? Classy girl... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I really need one of those. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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I need one of those. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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what will you do when your wife finds out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I don't think she will find out. I haven't thought about it, but probably dump my mistress and work it out with my wife. Try to rebuild her trust and remind her that I really love her. See what I have with my mistress is not love, it's more of just plain and simple sex. It's only sex and not love. I really find her annoying sometimes in reality. It's only sex, love is for my wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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Humans are not naturally monogamous, but it's a deal we make... You're just dishonest and can't live up to a contract... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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You need to tell dw right now. If everything you have been saying before is true then she should understand. If she doesn't, then you will nedd to work it all out. Don't wait for her to find out; be a man and tell her now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.09, 06:48 PM Flag
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What happens if she decides to want more? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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I told her she won't get more. Maybe I'll buy her some clothes or something, but I told her that my wife comes first and she comes second. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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clothes seems fair... that should probably calm her down... good thinking... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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I also figure I can send her and her friends on a nice vacation if needed. I do know some guys I cna introduce her to if she wants to see someone younger as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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you really are full of crap. fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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But your wife isn't coming first is she! Your mistress will want more than you are offering her at the moment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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What if the mistress got preg? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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There's a lot of buying of things in your relationships, isn't there? "Nice gifts" is what you use to describe your love of your wife, clothes and dinner for the girlfriend. Is your wife this shallow? Do you think that if she knew what you were doing she would feel your "love"? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Under what circumstances did you give your first BJ? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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details are fuzzy but it sucked and he fell asleep immediately - did nothing for me. i was not pleased. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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How old were each of you? Why did you give it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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i was out of college - he was at least 5 - 6 yrs older than me. i'd never done it and he begged me to. i know i was completely sober b/c i kept thinking how i wished i'd had a few beers. i also never did it again until i met my dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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had you had sex before that? why so long before a bj? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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v. long term boyfriend and i only had sex - never did oral. not sure why - it didn't come up, really. this guy was only the 2nd or maybe 3rd guy i slept with. i think oral is much more personal than intercourse - much more intimate. curious - why all the questions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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I got suckered into doing it. Blech. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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"Dr. Freud, your slip is showing." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:55 PM Flag
[ - ] how long can the power be off and the food still be OK in the fridge? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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It depends on the food and how hot it is outside. Things like milk and mayo I wouldn't give more than 24 hours, but most veges will hold up a lot longer than that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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