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06.16.08, 13:46 PM General Topics
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DH who is having an affair here. Any questions? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.16.08, 01:46 PM Flag
 

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why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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I need sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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do you love your wife? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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Yes, but I need more sex than she is giving me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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You are a coward and a pathetic excuse for a husband. Any questions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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I am not a coward and I love my wife and 3 sons. I really love them. I just have needs sexually and my wife isn't fulfilling them. My wife is content with sex once or twice a week and that doesn't wrok for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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np: You pathetic motherfucker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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First may I say, maybe you don't work for her if you know what I mean! And secondly, no, you don't REALLY love your wife. If you really loved her, you would go to therapy, compromise somehow, and if really necessary, get a divorce! I feel sick thinking about how blase you are... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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I do love her. I always buy her nice gifts and am thoughtful fo her and support her favorite charity. I always call her and I love spending time with her and cuddling wtih her. My wife is teh love of my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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this cannot be OP writing this drivel... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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OP: I wrote that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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oh. my. god. you are in total denial. I feel very very badly for your wife for making the decision to marry you and have children with you. You sound incredibly self centered and selfish... do you really think those things make up for the fact that you cheat on her?!? What planet are you on? I wish I knew her, bc I would tell her in a heartbeat... poor thing... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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I really do care about my wife and I really love her and I would do anythign for her. I mean this is only a way to satisfy my sexual needs. Nothing more and nothing less. If I didn't love her than I wouldn't do what I do for my wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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That's just your guilt talking. You know that you are wrong, so you are making it up to her in a way that you hope will appease her and not blow your cover. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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I don't really feel guilty anymore. I really disconect hte sex with any feeling. To me it's just a physical activity that means getting naked and being in a bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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I am sure she would't see it the same way. it's called wacking off. And have you ever questioned why your wife doesn't want more sex with you? Perhaps she has someone on the side because she isn't attracted to you? Or you are no longer attentive to her needs in bed? Or she is just plain tired with three sons? Or her Charity fills a need you cannot?? I fyou really really loved her like you say, you would try to work it out with HER - not some cheap floozy who would actually "let you buy her clothes" Puleeze! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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would we surprised to see who you're having the affair with ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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Probably not, she's 25. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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np: Ugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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she knows you're married and all that ? did she have any second thoughts ? what do you give her ? She can get sex with anywhere... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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She knows I am married. I buy her nice dinners. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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so... you buy the girl a steak and a martini (or sushi or whatever) and she gives you sex... That's it ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Right now she doesn't want to have a relationship, so this works for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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np: LOL. The things men will believe. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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seriously - Fast forward to FATAL ATTRACTION! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Maybe. But in my case, I'm married to my booty call (he wasn't married, but he bought my line about not wanting a relationship - we laugh about how stupid he was now). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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OR - similar dit to what dh and I had and we laugh about it too!But the fact that he is married throws in a new dimension... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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Absolutely. But hysterical that this idiot thinks a blowjob in a lobby won't turn into the once or twice a week once the little golddigger gets her way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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np: yes she does [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Now, if tomorrow your wife was hanging from the chandeliers and was like a horny teenager again, would you stopthe affair, or are you now addicted to the "thrill" of it ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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I am not sure to be honest. I mean the sex with my mistress is really good. But if my wife got into sex a lot nad it was like it was early on, then I'd be tempted to stop it with my mistress. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I'm more creeped out that you call her your "mistress"... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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What am I supposed to call her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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your whore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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girlfriend... mistress is very creepy... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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girlfriend would imply love or some sort of dating thing and all this is sex. I mean yes we have nice dinners and stuff and I did take her to teh opera, but in reality that's so she feels good pre sex nad I am hungary anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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fakety fake fake fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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Does your wife know? How do you get away with it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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I have to work late sometimes and her apartment is near work. So it all works out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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how did you meet her and who made the first move ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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We work together and she started flirting with me more and more and then one day I asked her to dinner and I walked her back to her place and she gave me a BJ in a corner of the lobby of her building, then we went upstairs for more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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classy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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Now I don't believe you... you had me going for a while, but now I'm pulling the fish hook out of my cheek... bj in the lobby. Where does she live ? In an SRO ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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There is a tucked in corner of her lobby where the mailboxes are and it was late and she gave it to me there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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She gave you a bj in the lobby? Classy girl... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I really need one of those. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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I need one of those. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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what will you do when your wife finds out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I don't think she will find out. I haven't thought about it, but probably dump my mistress and work it out with my wife. Try to rebuild her trust and remind her that I really love her. See what I have with my mistress is not love, it's more of just plain and simple sex. It's only sex and not love. I really find her annoying sometimes in reality. It's only sex, love is for my wife. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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Humans are not naturally monogamous, but it's a deal we make... You're just dishonest and can't live up to a contract... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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You need to tell dw right now. If everything you have been saying before is true then she should understand. If she doesn't, then you will nedd to work it all out. Don't wait for her to find out; be a man and tell her now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.17.09, 06:48 PM Flag
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What happens if she decides to want more? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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I told her she won't get more. Maybe I'll buy her some clothes or something, but I told her that my wife comes first and she comes second. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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clothes seems fair... that should probably calm her down... good thinking... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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I also figure I can send her and her friends on a nice vacation if needed. I do know some guys I cna introduce her to if she wants to see someone younger as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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you really are full of crap. fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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But your wife isn't coming first is she! Your mistress will want more than you are offering her at the moment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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What if the mistress got preg? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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There's a lot of buying of things in your relationships, isn't there? "Nice gifts" is what you use to describe your love of your wife, clothes and dinner for the girlfriend. Is your wife this shallow? Do you think that if she knew what you were doing she would feel your "love"? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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