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[ - ] Best bottle since I'm throwing out the bpa avents? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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glass evenflo [ Reply | More
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cheap and totally safe [ Reply | More
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what does that mean. ohh got it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] We will most likely be moving to Plainview, NY area within the next year or so. What preschools are good there? I heard about Miss Sue's, but when I checked them out, it seemed to me like the type of NYC private school I can't wait to escape...with the 1 year in advance sign up too! Any others anyone would recommend? And is Miss Sue's really that terrific anyway? TIA 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.16.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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op - are you watching this? I live in Plainview, and would be happy to help you out. I'll watch post and check back later/tomorrow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 04:04 PM Flag
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Thanks! I think we will move to Plainview itself, so I'm interested in preschools for my DS (he'd be 4 at the time). I'm looking for a nice program, but not too intense (it's preschool for crying out loud). Any suggestions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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I don't know if you are Jewish (we are), but our DS is happy at the JCC. It is laid back, and a nice place to meet other families. Some Plainview families send their dcs to Midway Jewish Center, which is in Syosset. It is a much smaller program, but also well regarded. Miss Sues, is the most $$$, and not my scene at all either. If you are not Jewish, I'm not too much help, but there is a co-op program that is supposed to be good on Southern Parkway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:40 AM Flag
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let me know if I can be of any more help. i also have a great broker if you need! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Although I knew that the duplicate offer letter would be coming in the regular mail today, my heart still skipped a beat when I saw it in my mailbox. I was fearing that they were taking away dc's spot at Anderson or that Saturday was just a dream and dc didn;t really get Anderson. Phew, I am so glad this is over, I was becoming paranoid. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.16.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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When we got dd's 99% score back in April, DH and I were so surprised that we thought there had been some mistake, and that the DOE would be contacting us to say that the 99% was just an error! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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Would you please stop already with the Anderson Anderson Anderson. It's not the Holy Grail. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:27 PM Flag
[ - ] REC's please. I need a gift for a friend who is adopting another dc. The dc will be around 20mo when she gets dc. Her oldest dc is 9yr old so she most likely doesn't have much saved. What could I get? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:31 PM Flag
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developmental toys [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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toy kitchen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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np: I like this idea. or a little ride-on toy. (Do they live in an apt? or a house in the burbs?) What about a carseat? (Not sure what kind of budget you're talking about...) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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op: they live in an apt in NYC and my budget is like $50 but I could go in on a more $$ gift with someone. I do like the kitchen idea. Perfect age for it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:40 PM Flag
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Doll stroller, play food, legos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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op: thanks everyone. Good ideas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Real estate-ish question: MIL is understandably upset. Is having money issues and is trying to sell her apt on UES. We know she loves the place and doesn't want to move, but are torn on whether or not we should pay off her mortgage so she can stay, or watching her sell it, have more cash, and so on... Is it the time to hold an apt, or the time to get rid of one ? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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bad time to sell, if she can wait a couple of years. prices will go even lower throughout the next year or so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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Thank you... she is in a bit of mental frenzy. She hates indecision and now I feel she is just saying "I'm selling" so she doesn't have to think abou tit again... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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yeah, get her out of the crisis first. then decide [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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thanks... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:39 PM Flag
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np: Might even be more than a few years. Depending on how much other money she has, MIL might be smarter to sell now with big (but not huge) profit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:42 PM Flag
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Don't sell right now. If you can swing it, help her out. Wait until the dust settles. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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thank you. we no longer live in NY and are hearing diff things from diff people. our acct here said that it would be an OK investment for us at this time while also helping her out - if she accepts the help... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:40 PM Flag
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Is dh an only child? I would be really cautious about all the family stuff that can go along with a relationship like this. (Hate to be a buzz killer just, btdt.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:00 PM Flag
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no DH has two sisters... one able to help but I don't know how much and a younger without the ability to help financially... I assume everyting would be handled "legally" with regard to us paying off the mortgage and the family is very open and there are no divisions or jealousies that would get weird (Famouslast words)... It's really a matter right now of what makes the most sense for the economics of it and to give her peace of mind... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:05 PM Flag
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But what about when you start paying it off now then X years from now, when she passes away, and the apt goes to the estate? And you guys want your "investment" to pay off/pay back. If you guys can afford to gift her the money, then do that. Otherwise maybe "buy" it from her and rent it back to her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:10 PM Flag
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My DH is a great son and also a smart guy... I assume (and will be sure) that if we pay the mortgage or do something like that our accountant and attorney would handle the legal aspects of that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:21 PM Flag
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I'm worried more about what happens between your dh and his sibs. A situation like this with my grandmother, which made perfect sense to my mom and dad and was nothing but generous on my folks' part turned siblings against each other. Had somebody before hand said, "Hey, if we dont' do this -- she's gonna loose the house." I think the aftermath would have been avoided. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 06:12 AM Flag
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ita. don't sell now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:44 PM Flag
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Make the choice based solely on what is best for you/DH and your MIL. You are not real estate investors and cannot hope to market time the sale of this apartment. I am curious however how you intend to invest in this apt.? Will your MIL be paying you rent? Would she move out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:20 PM Flag
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I htink she will ive there as she does today and pay the maint. fees monthly and we will pay off the remainder of the mortgage and co-own the apt with her... Sort of take the mortgage off her plate and "invest" in the apt in such that eventually it will appreciate in value when the time comes to sell it... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:22 PM Flag
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Well that is very generous of you and your DH. That sounds like a great reason to buy the apt. regardless of the 1 or 2 percentage points on either side of your investment [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:32 PM Flag
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My DH is the son every mom wants... although he never became a doctor ! I think if it gives her piece of mind and we can afford to do it (which is not 100% settled by above mentioned accountant) it's a no brainer... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:35 PM Flag
[ - ] I asked FIL to call before he comes over to see DB and he's MAD at me about that. WTF is wrong with him? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:31 PM Flag
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I think that this would be the best way to handle it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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he needs to DEAL WITH IT. I always ask anyone to give me a heads up before coming over. I want to be dressed and not half naked [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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op: this is exactly why i need him to call first [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 04:26 PM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone get a 1st grade G&T placement? If so, can you list stats? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.16.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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PS9 1st Grade [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:45 PM Flag
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Congrats! Can you share the score? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:49 PM Flag
[ - ] What's a good web site for NYC apartment rentals? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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craigslist. or nyt9imes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:28 PM Flag
[ - ] I need a baby gift for a baby boy with no registry. Has an older sister so basics covered. Something fun. $50-60. What would you want? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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HABA toys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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yeah, totally nice toys and classy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:28 PM Flag
[ - ] great. my head's peeling, and ds was just playing w/my hair. now i realize he was picking out the sunburn. yuck 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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yeah, dandruff shampoo might help. but that's funny, like sort of primitive of him to pick at your hair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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i know, but it's disgusting. i guess he's getting the nits :). you think dandruff shampoo would help? i guess this is the same thing. i feel like that character from breakfast club when she shakes her hair over the paper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:25 PM Flag
[ - ] DS #2 is only a week old and i feel so much more mellow with him than with #1. I'm actually truly enjoying motherhood whereas before I've always been conflicted. It's as if I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop. Could it be that #2 and I are more compatible or that I'm just older and wiser? I even want to buy a minivan. What's happening to me!!! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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Congrats and I am not sure I can help, but BOY is this good to know... I LOVE my dd, but found it very nerveracking and difficult and scary for the first 6 months... good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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older and wider, i think. and thanks for posting this, makes me feel better about prospect of 2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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tee hee. wider. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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op: glad to be of service. btw, #2 was a total accident and i was pretty nervous that i would be as tense as i was with #1. the lack of sleep shocked my system with #1 and it's so much easier to handle this time around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:30 PM Flag
[ - ] Just overheard two people talking about a man I know (friend of DH and his kids play with my kids) and they were being unkind... very unkind and gloating... The man is a very well known man in the community (owns the NFL team) and is all-around a good guy. I said nothing and feel like a shit. Would you have butted-in and told them what was what ? I do pride myself on being honest and "moral", but I said nothing... 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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why would you butt in? bad on them for gossiping but what do you care? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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It just made me angry to hear how pleased they sounded denigrating him... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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you can't change people. it wasn't about you and actually wasn't even about the guy they were talking about. try to let it go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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Why would you butt in? If you were involved in the conversation it would be one thing, but you were not. THey obviously see him in a different light than you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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I was angry because of the gloating, but his wife was nearby as were three of his kids... it was a big gathering and they were saying "I wonder if so-and-so is here ?" "I hope not. he should be busy handling X and Y" and so on and so on... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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np: sounds more like they were dissing his business decisions than his actual character. totally normal for someone like that to get a lot of criticism. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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I suppose you are right... it was just uninformed chatter. people love to shit on people who are successful, I guess... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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...you sound super self righteous. Eavesdropping isn't very polite either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:19 PM Flag
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Thanks... I wasn't eavesdropping. If I had to strain to hear their conversation it wouldn't be audible to his wife or kids now would it / It was a big event and they were discussing the man in loud voices above the noise of the crowd and activity... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:24 PM Flag
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those calling the self-righteous card are so f-ing self-righteous about being self-righteous ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:25 PM Flag
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if someone was shitting on your DH and a friend overheard it, would you not want her to say something ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:30 PM Flag
[ - ] going rate for cleaning person? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
[ - ] cracked and bleeding nipples SUCK!! if i just pump for the next week or so, will i be screwing with my milk supply? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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ita - pumping also sucks in its own way. no one told me BFing would be so hard. it is way harder than the pg, the labor, anything else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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try lanolin... pure lanolin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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i've gone through a tube of this, my friend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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op: i hear ya. this is my second and i cried for three months with my first over bf-ing. I left the hospital this time around with a pump as insurance for the pain. Glad I did though bummed that I have to go through this again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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i don't know how long i'm going to make it nursing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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op: i'm going to power through b/c i know how good it can be down the road but for this ds, i've added in a formula feed in the middle of the night to save my nipples [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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np: I quit after 1 week of nursing and 2 weeks of pumping b/c I couldn't stand the pain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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have either of you met with a lactation consultant? I went into bf feeling as if I should inately know how to do this and thank god my dh called a consultant to come and help me. It hurts at the beginning but if you can hold it out for @ 3 weeks it gets so much better [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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or: yes, i've seen two. (i just posted below about thrush, etc.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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i had someone come to my house with #1 and then had three visits with the lac. consultant in the hospital this time around. I'll plan to go back again My boobs are huge and so are my nipples (which is helpful when ds has a bigger mouth) so I don't think he can fit a lot of it in his mouth to latch properly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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yeah, that's the worst. try vitamin e oil, it really helped mine heal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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can i just get that over the counter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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yes, any drugstore. or you can just buy capsules in the vitamin dept. and cut one open. you don't need much. it works well & fast [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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get a script for all purpose nipple ointment from your OB - miracle cream! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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or: i have this, it does help a lot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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How about saline water on them? This helped me. And I also felt that feeding while definitely hurt, also helps heal them somehow?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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http://www.kellymom.com/bf/concerns/mom/nipplehealing.html [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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I found pumping much less painful than nursing and it didn't hurt my supply. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:38 PM Flag
[ - ] Would your child's getting into Anderson change your mind about moving to the burbs? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.16.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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We were set to move to the burbs until we got dc's score, and knowing that she was guaranteed a great education (even if not A) helped us decide to stay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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How many children do you have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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Even if we had not gotten into Anderson, we would not have moved. But I will admit that the idea of trying to get into a good middle school scared me, and I had begun to toy with the idea of trying to get dd into private school for middle school and/or high school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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what is Anderson [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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They make windows, silly! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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Yes, it did. We are staying put for the next 9 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 03:29 PM Flag
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yes, we will be staying in nyc now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.16.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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