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[ - ] I need to let HR know via e-mail that I'm expecting (I telecommute); what is the best way to phrase this? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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overthinking, have you already told boss? if so, Dear ___, as I previously discussed with blank, I am pregnant and due XXXX. Please let me if there any forms I need to submit or policies I need to be aware of over the coming months. Sincerely, employee [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:15 AM Flag
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My dh and I are expecting our 6th child in May. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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I would do it by a phone call. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone actually use a moses basket for baby to sleep in for a few months or are they mostly just for show? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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not really "safe" for sleeping use a bassinett, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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I had one for when i put baby down by me, but not for sleeping (maybe a nap) but you have to watch closely, not safe for sleeping read up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:15 AM Flag
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got it as a gift and I loved looking at it, but it was a depository for the clean laundry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:15 AM Flag
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ITA. It makes a great looking laundry basket. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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it did. I'm thinking of taking the lining out and using it for firewood this winter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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OP: thanks, as I suspected... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:26 AM Flag
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Both my dcs have slept for the first few months of life in a Moses basket but they could have gone straight into the crib. I liked being able to carry it around so the dcs could sleep wherever I was. I used the one with very thin lining which is not a suffocation hazard. I also only paid $30 new for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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My newborn was born 6 weeks early and is too small for a crib so the Moses basket is perfect. Got it at rightstart.com. $130 made by Picci. She is now 7 weeks old and is still in it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 03:19 AM Flag
[ - ] 5 weeks pregnant with number 4. Have not seen Doc yet obviously. The only thing is I feel pretty normal with minor and few bouts of nausea. With all three others I feel like I was already pretty sick by now with nausea. Should I be concerned? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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no, all pregnancies are different. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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Nope. At week six it kicks in with a vengence and you will wish you could have these five weeks back. GL> [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:19 AM Flag
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5 weeks would be really early for the nausea. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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i was fine with one and laid out on my back sick with the other. both are healthy happy loud boys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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I never had ms twice and have two healthy boys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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Congratulations! I am pregnant with my 4th as well! No nausea yet, but pretty soon.... I guess. Pew! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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Nausea kicked in at 6 weeks for me for both pregnancies. I think that 5 weeks is on the early side. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Taking 4 wk old dd to my parents' for a week. She loves to nap in her swing. Will I regret it if I don't take it with us? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:08 AM Flag
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get a take along swing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:08 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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don't bring the swing. parents will be all over that child any way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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good point [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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bring the swing and you'll at least know that you can use it if DB is having a rough time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:21 AM Flag
[ - ] where in manhattan can I get one of those humidifiers that looks like a pig or a frog - does anyone know? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:05 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:05 AM Flag
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op: anyplace with more locations? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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where are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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UES [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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i think BB&B carries those types of things. we got a Thomas one there last year. I hated it btw, it kept breaking and although they repalced it, by the 3rd time I just got a regular one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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we got ours there too. a frog. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:26 AM Flag
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target, or target.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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no can do, want it today [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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Target has them, as does Walgreens. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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Yup Walgreens has a Winnie the Pooh one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:26 AM Flag
[ - ] if you have a dd named either grace or claire... what is their middle name? can't come up with middles for either one 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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use claire & a family name [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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don't have any that sound good with it! can you think of anything that sounds good with this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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I like Claire Elizabeth, what about your maiden name, if you have one? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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claire elizabeth does sound cute!!! my maiden name is HIDEOUS lol!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:13 AM Flag
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I have two boys, I always found girls names much easier. I always liked the name Claire, also Charlotte Claire. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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Agreed. Signed, mom of triplet boys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:17 AM Flag
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Grace Anne [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:14 AM Flag
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I think you need something with three or more sylables. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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Grace Ilana. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Any recs for which Kettler trike we should get? DS is turning 2 and in laws want to get him one. They all look the same to me... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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don't know about the specific kettler brand but i'd get one with pedals and the removable bar that allows parents to push the child before s/he grows into the pedals. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:05 AM Flag
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that's the problem, almost all of them come like that. Do you know what the differences are? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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i don't - i'm sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:08 AM Flag
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thanks for your input! :o) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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The ones with plastic wheel are cheaper than the ones with pneumatic tyres. The steering lock is a good feature so that the front wheel can be locked in a straight line when being pushed. The ones with the s-shaped frames can accommodate a second seat if you have another dc. You can tell we've been through this. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:18 AM Flag
[ - ] I don't understand people. I was on here earlier complaining about all the moms crashing dd's party to see the American Girl movie tomorrow. Talked to two different moms and realize that before they received the invite, they had planned on a mom/daughter outing to see the movie and they feel like they'd be missing out on some bonding if they don't see the movies with their dds. It's a movie. I did not intend to infringe upon their family time. I'm wishing they'd RSVPed no. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:00 AM Flag
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ITA, but what can you do [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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op: nothing. just come on ub and bitch about it. need to get it all out so i can smile and be a fabulous hostess tomorrow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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You have to suck it up, People should not go if they are not invited, now it is not a party but a mommy and me outing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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I think it is sweet and nothing wrong with some extra hands at the party handing out cake etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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You're right. That sucks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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Hopefully you aren't paying for all of them! I hope your dd has a great time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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You're right, plus it is not like it is difficult to see a movie - it won't leave the theatre after one day. Sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:28 AM Flag
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I recently attended a b-day party with dd to a show. I asked if the mom needed help and offered to pay for my ticket so I could go with dd. It was wonderful. Iloved ebing there with dd and enjoyed all the girls at the party. It'll still be about your dd and everyone will have great memories. Relax and have fun. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:32 AM Flag
[ - ] When did your db first smile? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:59 AM Flag
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5 weeks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:06 AM Flag
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7weeks 3days [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:26 AM Flag
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6 wks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had a D&C? What is the recovery process like? How do you feel after you have it??? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Preschool/Kids 07.01.08, 09:57 AM Flag
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crampy, but not a huge deal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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tired, a little crampy, sad/emotional. Had some wine at night, felt better after that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:21 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone had a D&C? What is the recovery process like? How do you feel after you have it??? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:56 AM Flag
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I had one. It's not a walk in the park, I can tell you that. I am sorry if you are facing one. The d&c was worse than the recovery. My doc sedated me but it was a twilight sedation so I was up for the whole thing and then got sick from the sedative. Once I got past that and got home, it was like having an especially difficult period. The emotional stuff, before and after, was worse than the physical pain and discomfort. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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i had one 3 months ago at 8 weeks pg. the worst is knowing you have to have one. the procedule was a sinch. i was done in 15 min and the knocked me totally out. recovery was no problem - just had like a long, heavy period. like i said, the emotional toll is the worst. i didn't get my priod for 8+ weeks the first time and then 10 weeks later i was pg again. i am now 9 weeks pg! good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:36 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 4 months pregnant, at work and hungry. would like to stay away from carbs, but when i have a salad, i am hungry in 2-3 hours, and I end up eating sweet and salty snacks. what should i order for lunch today? tia 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.01.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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something with some carbs and protein. you are growing a baby, you need carbs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:00 AM Flag
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You need to eat carbs when you are pg. Just eat whole wheat toast with your salad. And make sure you eat enough protein. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:08 AM Flag
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Umm eat a burger and a salad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:13 AM Flag
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a cheeseburger! and fries.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:22 AM Flag
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salad with a big piece of wild yummy salmon ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:14 AM Flag
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cobb salad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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LOVE Cobb salad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:05 AM Flag
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Crazy maybe- but keep a jar of peanut or almond butter or tahini at work; pack celery/carrots/multigrain pretzels to bring. Little feedings of carb/protein will really help. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:51 AM Flag
[ - ] do you believe the "you can tell if you are having a boy or girl by their heart rate" theory? If so do they say that the faster it is is a boy or girl? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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I only believe the sonographer who tells you she is looking at a penis or vulva. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:00 AM Flag
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Ha! And even that can be unreliable! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:02 AM Flag
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faster is supposed to mean girl. i don't remember what constitutes faster or slower - i think 150 or higher is girl? you can google it. type wives tales heart rate or something. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:04 AM Flag
[ - ] my mother and i have had two giant fights over the last month. the previous fight happened last friday. the gist of the fights have been her telling me what i have done wrong as a mother to my two year old and calling me names. on friday, i really lost my cool with her and the conversation did not end well. today she called and left a message on my voicemail that she has to go in to the hospital to have a d&c because she has been taking hormones for menopause and having some problems. i am not sure what my reaction is supposed to be. i feel (and i may be cold hearted) that she is telling me this now to make me feel bad. how would you handle it? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.01.08, 09:51 AM Flag
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Call her back, tell her you're sorry she has to go through this and ask if there's anything you can do. EVEN IF YOU DO NOT BELIEVE HER. Hopefully you'll get the answering machine. Easiest thing to do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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op: i do believe that she is having the d&c, but i think she has known about it for a while and wonder why she is just now telling me the day of. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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np because she wants to give you two a chance to make up-- easy for you to express concern (and for her to feel loved and respected) without either one of you admitting you were wrong before-- just call her and be nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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ITA. It is better to err on the side of being nice than play into the temptation of "fighting fire with fire". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 11:04 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm on bedrest for two months and need to find a nanny for 3.5 y/o and 9 m/o during this time. I'm concerned that I woon't be able to find someone for such a short time or that if I do find someone they may leave before they two months is out if they find a permanent job. Any thoughts? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:51 AM Flag
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We found our amazing babysitters on Craigslist. We were very specific about what we were looking for. We got lots of replies, some from crazies, but we whittled it down and met the people, checked their references, and it has all worked out so well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:52 AM Flag
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For how long did they work for you? I only need them for two months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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Ours are ongoing but irregular. We said on our ad we were looking for someone we could call on an ad-hoc basis and could not offer regular stints, so there were no demands for minimum hours etc. We said we pay $12 per hour. It's anonymous so why don't you just draft an ad saying exactly what you want, for how long, for how much, and see what comes back? Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:56 AM Flag
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The same happened to my friend and she found someone through an emergency childcare service which is based in brooklyn but also does manhattan. they have a group of babysitters who you can hire for a few days/weeks/months and my friend was very pleased with how it all worked out. try to look it up on google, if you can't find it, let me know and i'll ask my friend. i'll watch the post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:14 AM Flag
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Where do you live? Mine is awesome and my dc is in camp much of the summer. I'd love a share for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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nyc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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perfect timing - - look for a college student needing a summer job. try postig on craigslist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:22 AM Flag
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since it's summer, i'd think college student or just graduated without a per job yet would be a good fit. 4nannies.com had TONS of listings this spring of recent grads. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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Could you contact Barnard College. They have a babysitting service and may have a college girl who wants the job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:32 AM Flag
[ - ] What is a G&T??? I always thought it meant Gin & Tonic. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:47 AM Flag
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It does. That's why people like talking about it so much. NY is full of alchies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:48 AM Flag
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Gited & Talented [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:48 AM Flag
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OP: Aahh - the penny drops. Thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:50 AM Flag
[ - ] RE Moms - Anyone know if the new increase regarding the break poiint for jumbo mortgage was actually put in place. What is the max size for a conforming loan. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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yes it was. it varies by state -- check out the fannie or freddie website. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 10:19 AM Flag
[ - ] How much eye contact does your 5 wk old make with you? I feel like mine hardly knows who I am and looks at me but doesn't hold the gaze or anything... 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:43 AM Flag
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Babes only get 20/20 vision at six months of age - you are probably just a blur to her/ him still. Don't worry about it - any day now, you will start getting your first real smiles. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:44 AM Flag
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I don't feel like we're anywhere near that. Does it happen out of the blue? This is my 2nd but I don't remember [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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