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[ - ] Admit it: Who is going to watch the New 90210? (* and when are they coming out with 10023?) 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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That is my postal code Lincoln Square! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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Who would want to watch 10023?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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Me! That's my Zip code. All the hedge fund mommies, etc... would make for an interesting show I have toyed with the idea in my head. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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me. and if they were going to do another it would obviously be 10021 - its just as well known of a zipcode (and Im pretty sure it outranks 10023) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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yes, but it also just got very tiny [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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youre right - I forgot about that. you might have a point there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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wait - what happened? What is the zone for 10023?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:39 AM Flag
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10023 is the same [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:39 AM Flag
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I am! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:14 AM Flag
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Nope, but looking forward to the new Heroes season. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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Sexist, awful, dumb show. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:29 PM Flag
[ - ] We're looking for a social worker for our 5 yo DS. He has always had separation anxiety that has interferred with him having any fun.He refuses to take any classes unless we are allowed to participate with him. He's even nervous if we're sitting on the sidelines. He has cried every single morning for the past 2.5 years when we bring him to preschool and then pre-K. We spoke with his teachers and his day camp director & they agreed he would benefit from some counseling. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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i took my ds too see a child psych bc he had separation anxiety. play therapy really helped him. he was only 3 1/2 at the time. not at 5 not really an issue anymore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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you want someone who has expertise in play therapy, not "counseling" per se - signed, social worker child and family therapist mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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Ah! Thanks. I'm still confused by all of terms. We are in touch with social worker at his day camp. She's researching some options for us within our health insurance plan. So I want a child therapist with expertise in play therapy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:31 AM Flag
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yes. and, usually, a good child therapist will incorporate family sessions into their work, since young children exist within the system of their family and are dependent on it. anxiety issues in particular tend to respond best to integrated play/family treatment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:36 AM Flag
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Hi - can anyone recommend a book on sep anxiety? My daughter is 4 and has such a hard time separating from me - of course is find with my husband and nanny! ugh! Want any help i can get - its so upsetting and preventing her from participating in so much fun stuff! Should i push her? Help! :) Thanks in advance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.26.08, 02:50 PM Flag
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I would be homeschooling. No way in hell would I subject my child for 2.5 straight years to something so obviously painful for him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.26.08, 02:55 PM Flag
[ - ] Need to potty train almost 3 year old boy by the end of august. I would like to just get it done this weekend. He likes to wear Thomas briefs and pees on the potty but wont poop. HELP!!! We have to get this done for a variety of reasons. Please don't tell me to wait until he is ready - because he is ready. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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Is he afraid to poop in the toilet? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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not so much afraid. just wont do it. he likes sitting n the potty in general and we can get him to grunt a make poop sound, but he never poops. I feel like if we can just get past this hump he'd be potty trained [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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Have you tried letting him go in a diaper while sitting on the potty? Just put the diaper under him but don't close the tabs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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watch him carefully and race him to the potty when you see him getting started to poop. after he goes the first time be crazy with praise and take him to buy a toy. if you absolutely have to have this done, be prepared for lots of accidents, which is okay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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We have tried to do this but he will hold it for days if he know we are watching him - or he sneaks away and then does it. We are prepared for accidents and have had many already and I can remain calm about it - but I am frustrated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:02 AM Flag
[ - ] I wonder how often elisabeth hasselcrack feels like an idiot? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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less than you should, probably [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 02:00 AM Flag
[ - ] I am really just irritated with my 2yr old. He is driving me nuts. I feel bad about it, but I am not enjoying him. My 8mo on the other hand is a dream. I am hoping this is just because pre-school is out for the summer and I have had no break from him and he has had no break from me. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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that could definitely do it. 3yo dd's camp ends this week and i am dreading august (even though i work part time!). could you get dh or someone else to give you a little break? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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sure, but I find myself getting irritated about how rude and "inconsiderate" he can be and then I am like, hold on, he is just two. My expectations just get too high for a toddler sometimes - I know this, but some of the stuff he does still P!sses me off. Mostly he doesn't respect personal space with anyone or anything, I have been trying to teach him this but them he does it because he knows it bothers me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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i am the same way. i also have major personal space issues and dd pokes her nose into everything everywhere. but they are just kids and we just have to try our best to remember that - and sometimes i don't remember it in time and get upset which is totally normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:35 AM Flag
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i seem to go in one to two month intervals like this with my 3 yo, i get mad because things could be so good and she just gets so difficult some times. this will pass [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:01 AM Flag
[ - ] i just ate a 12 foot subway. gross 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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that must be hard on the digestion. Which line? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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what kind? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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italian bmt. with mayo and v&o. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Please tell us about Trinity. We are thinking about applying Dalton because I heard theirart and other curriculums are very strong. I don't know much about Trinity. Please share what you like(dislike) about the school. We will of course tour them in fall but want to have some input. DC is very bright, loves art. looking for school which will fit. Thanks. 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.22.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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just apply and see if your dd gets in. Odds are she won't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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OP: Yes, I think we will apply. But want to feel out the school. We want to apply only a few. DC will be in K at G&T school and if doesn't get in DC will stay where it is I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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people who go out of their way to avoid giving their dc's gender have no hope of getting into Trinity. Or Dalton. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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DC is an "it"? I don't think Trinity will accept any its. Only human children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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If dc is already at a K, why apply out before even knowing whether you're happy at the school or not? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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Because it's PUBLIC, and its mother's friends might look down on her for sending DC to public. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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She has to apply this fall. I'd say why is she applying so narrowly b/c if she hates it she will have fewer options. If she loves it she can always pull applications. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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I bet this is the embarassed Anderson mom who posted a while back. That's why she won't identify gender. This mom is only concerned about impressing her friends. That's why she is only looking at TT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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Op just wants to keep her options open, nothing wrong with that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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But only two TTs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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OP: I am not A mom. We are not super rich family. $$$ is our concern. We can probably afford but not confortably. Our FC was H and A but DC was not accepted. Fall birthday. DC is boy. It is not big deal for me to tell you gender. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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If $$$ is a concern, why not give the G&T a try for a year or two? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:23 AM Flag
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np: why are you guys jumping on her. she wants to keep her option open. i also have a fall dc and only wanted H or A. child did not get in so i decided to leave her in prek and apply out from there. if she had placed into LL or 116 i still would have applied to a few tt and possibly switched. nothing wrong with only willing to switch to TT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:27 AM Flag
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Because dc is in a kindergarten at a school. Why not let dc settle into the school? It's like people whose dc gets into a "3rd tier" school for K and start applying to TTs again immediately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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and usually never get in [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:31 AM Flag
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^^^IOW, see if dc is happy at the school and that the school is good for dc first. Otherwise, it's more like applying just for the name value of TT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:33 AM Flag
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Because K is the big entry point. If we waited a year or 2, there won't be enough spot and harder to get in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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I toured lots of school last fall, Trinity included. It's an excellent fairly traditional school. A little formal. Big on building solid skills in the early years. My sense is they have a very good idea of the skill level of each child. I did not seem like a creative school to me at all. Nice music program (but very traditional). If you have a very arty dc, might not be the best fit. Virtually no spots for anyone after siblings and legacies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:01 AM Flag
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Considered "TT". Very hot right now, mostly because it's impossible to get into, thereby increasing its desirability status to "wildly popular". Of all the schools we toured, probably the one that had the most elitist feel, but then of course, that's probably part of their allure for many. If you do want to apply, you have to submit the application either the day or the day after it's available online and preferably by hand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:35 AM Flag
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np; even though they're in UWS, got the very WASPY feel to them. Kinda traditional. Don't be crushed if dc doesn't get in. Trinity gets most of their smart kids for High School (huge expansion) anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 02:39 PM Flag
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Like: strong sib policy (but if your dc is non sib, almost impossible to get in) which means sib doesn't need very high ERB. People seem gentle. They don't stress competition and college placement. Indoor pool Dislike: too, too, too quiet. All the kids (even K and 1st graders) were super duper quiet. Won't be right for some kids. Aging/old teachers/staff. During the tour, one of the teachers said something strange but reflects the 50's values. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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I toured and for the hell of it, applied. It felt very conformist to me, like they had an idea of what kids should be like and they would mold the kids to fit that idea. And it wasn't my idea. there were first grade compositions about the vacations the kids took - St. Moritz, Rome, Paris, Bali, etc. Other privates would pick a different topic. All that said, it seemed well run. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:03 PM Flag
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I think you got it. Conformist came to mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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np: I agree with it being too quiet. felt strange and we worried our ds would be stifled, and or have problems there. I like the HS however, and could see that for ds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:59 PM Flag
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OP:Above 2 posters mentioned "too quiet". What does it mean? Also do they value art9or artistic DCs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 04:52 PM Flag
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too quiet means that the kids are not really encouraged to be kids. they are the kids you see walking down the street with a bland look on their faces, staring off into space, holding the nannies hand. as for art, there are plenty of opportunities to make art; however, creativity is not encouraged. more formal instruction (ie, everyone instructed on how to paint a still life, etc.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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I've seen about 4-5 classes at Trinity and it was just very, very quiet. Everyone sitting down by their desks or by activity table and not talking. In one middle school class, some questions were asked by students but still very quiet. The teachers speak very softly. I think they value softspokenness and quiet. One must whisper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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In my mind, Trinity and Dalton are pretty polar opposite. Trinity is quite traditional, Dalton is progressive. We had an in at Trinity but chose Dalton because it was a better fit for a creative, out of the box, DC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 06:50 PM Flag
[ - ] Is Roosevelt a good hospital? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.22.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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depends on what for [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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Delivery [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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birthing center is fab [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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i delivered there 2x, had good exp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 06:14 PM Flag
[ - ] 3 yo dd has been potty trained for 6 months, she has had an occasional accident, but lately has started a few times a day, she knows what she's doing and it's almost like she just doesn't care. how do i deal with this? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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give her a towel to clean up, ask her to change her clothes, stay completely calm, and ignore as best you can. My 3 yo has had episodes where she gives up the potty entirely, though she has been pt'd for more than a year. It only lasts a couple of days, and then she'll go back to using the potty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:40 AM Flag
[ - ] i need help my husband of 7 years cheated he was realy honest and sorry i claim to had forgive him but inside i was so angry last night i fought with him woke him out of a dead sleep and said hurtfull hurtfull words he left lastnight and will not answer my phone calls when i went to his job he said he was done with me and that he dosint wanna talk to me again ever please some one help i have no wear to go and no one to talk to 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Los Angeles 07.22.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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what did you say? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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what did you say. his actions are much much much worse than any words [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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i said i hated him that i wish he was dead he might have some std and how i hope he did [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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i'm not sure which one, but one of you is crazy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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i know i know i am so hurt, he tried to work it out and i just made it worst [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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you guys need therapy, stat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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those are words. he did it. your anger is understandable. do you have kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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yes a baby boy he will be two in september [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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ya but he is so mad at me he wouldint go to therapy i think it maybe over between us anyone ever been trew this????or something similar [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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get an attorney [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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your prob better off without him. get a lawyer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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i have no wear els to live [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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yes you do, he left. call an attorney. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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he pays for all the bills i have only a small part time job and no i have no one to watch the baby when i go to work iam soooooo devestaded [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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get an attorney. you have rights. he cheated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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i call fake post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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i just wanted to talk to someone who could tell me it happend to them too and the managed to make it trew [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Thinking of moving full-time to Great Barrington. Any thoughts/advice? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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I know a family who did this from NYC a few years ago. Both have careers that don't require them to be in a city. They're very happy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:56 AM Flag
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Thanks,so great to hear. Do you know if they're using pubic or private schools? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:58 AM Flag
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Private [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:00 AM Flag
[ - ] 3yo dd has started this thing where she throws up if she is upset. mostly she throws up when she doesn't want to take medicine but we were away in the country last weekend and she developed a fear of bugs and threw up when a fly landed on her. i think she's just a sensitive kid with an overdeveloped gag reflex and will outgrow it but my sister just sent me an email saying this doesn't sound normal. wdyt? is it normal and is my sister just annoying? or should i really be concerned? 16 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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sounds normal to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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thanks. that's what i thought but sis was making me second-guess myself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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My ds 2.7yo gags easily and I asked ped she said it was not a cause for concern. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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thank you. i was (and am) the same way and so i think its partly genetic. plus, my sister can be a little passive-aggressive and i think is just being a pain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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my little sister (around 4-5)used to throw up when she was upset...she was a drama queen. i only got a bit concerned when it happend often bc i feared she would not be able to control it (like a bulimic) but she out grew it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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op: thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:16 AM Flag
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my nephew used to throw up ALL the time when he was a baby/toddler whenever he was upset. my dds never did this and in fact, have rarely thrown up in their lives (only had a few stomach bugs) which is a good thing because i hate it. whatever, i thought it was so weird that my nephew did this all the time but one day i asked the ped. who said exactly the same thing as you did about the gag reflex. after a few yrs. my nephew outgrew it and is your average 10 y.o. who only will throw up if, indeed, he is sick. so, i'm sure it's no need to worry. it isn't the most pleasant, but there is light at the end of the tunnel (imo.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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thanks to all of you. i was more worried about the psychological aspect but i think she's just a sensitive kid who worries a lot - and now, is worried about throwing up itself - and combined with the gag reflex, this is what we end up with. oh well... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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try not to make a big deal out of it- a friend had a 2yo who did what your dd is doing and she ended up making her dc have an eating disorder by making a big deal out of it. Had to go to feeding school, years of therapy. Ignore and dd will outgrow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:37 AM Flag
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she definitely doesn't have issues with eating and eating never makes her throw up (except for taking medicine). so i'm not really worried about it resulting in an eating disorder - more concerned that she doesn't have another way to deal with minor things like a fly landing on her! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:53 AM Flag
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try to redirect if you can, but otherwise it is likely a phase [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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how would i do this? i had been trying to tell her to calm down, would hold her hands, look her in the eye and breathe slowly and that sometimes gets her to do the same. but her new thing is to yell as she's crying, "i can't calm down! i can't calm down!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:58 AM Flag
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My oldest (6 y.o.) throws up very easily. When he gets very tired he'll just throw up and then fall asleep. It freaks other people out but we're used to it and the ped isn't worried. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:36 AM Flag
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thanks. it seems that some kids just throw up easily. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:53 AM Flag
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Well, he is an anxious kid, has trouble slowing down or being alone (to rest in the afternoon, for example) and isn't very direct w/ his feelings. Couple that w/ a quick gag reflex and it doesn't surprise me. Fortunately he has good aim when he barfs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:55 AM Flag
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yup, mine is anxious too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:57 AM Flag
[ - ] would you be upset if you found out dh looked at playby.com. we have been living apart for apx a year by choice - temporary job situation. he'll be back soon. found out he looks at this. when we're together we have a great physical relationship. i thought he'd never look at sites like that. should i not say anything now and if it continues when we're living together then say something. thanks 47 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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this is really no big deal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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I'd be a bit miffed inside but I know that it is totally normal for men to look at porn/playboy, especially when they can't be near their wives. I wouldn't say anything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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i it continues when we're living together again, would you say anything [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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not unless it becomes a problem. I know my dh occaasionally looks at porn. I just look the other way. its not an issue and doesn't affect our sex life or relationship [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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no, all men look at porn and they've been doing it since they were 12, this has nothing to do with your sex life with him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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makes me fell like im not good enought [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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no, it is because no matter how much you want to have sex with dh it probably isn't enough for him. For men there is much more of a biological need to get off [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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No, all people need sex. It is also normal for men and women to look at porn together as a form of foreplay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:00 PM Flag
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you are [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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hello? all guys look at porn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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why. i don't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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that's what I said [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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why do they need to do this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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It is also normal for women to look at porn [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:59 AM Flag
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imagine how you would feel if he was looking at gay sites [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:28 AM Flag
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i feel like its a form of cheating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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i agree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:28 AM Flag
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it is cheating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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it isn't and maybe it is what keeps him from straying in real life [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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It doesn't matter at all - whether or not you reside in the same residence [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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are you saying its ok for him to look at these sites regardless? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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Yes, that is what I am saying. It is natural and there is nothing wrong with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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so you would not feel jealous at all. why are we wives not enought [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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we are enough. women seem to associate porn with their own sex lives. this is a completely different thing all together and has nothing to do with actual sex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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wow you're really secure or are you a man [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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i'm not a man, but i can't fathom why women get upset when their dh's look at slutty naked women that don't really exist in their lives. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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because i will never look like that and im jealous [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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i get that, but porn stars are not the type nice dh's marry and have children with and love. you can't have it all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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ok. but even though id never do it, its got me thinking of getting brest enlargement surgery [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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oh dear! i really doubt your dh needs you to have big boobs, he's just looking at the others for fun! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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so its wrong to ask him to stop? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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yes and he won't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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Hear hear!! Nice that somebody on here talks sense! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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Why not appreciate that he loves the female body? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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agreed and he often tells me he wants picutures of me. but (even though I would never do it) it has me thinking of getting a brest enlargement - even though i never would [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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I think this is your issue. You feel insecure but you really should not. I think in this day and age, porn is much more mainstream and very easy to access. It is not like before where he would have to search it out in some nasty store. You and DH are not living together full time and it makes sense. It is a much better solution than cheating. I think you should relax. I know it is hard to do but it really isn't about you. DOnt worry!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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i agree that it is not big deal, unless is becomes a complusion, involves underage kids etc. most, if not all, men watch porn at some point or another. my cable bill was through the roof when i was pg bc all i did was sleep the first 3 months and dh watched porn while i was sleeping. I also agree that it usually has nothing to do with a couples sex life, but do believe that some men and women expect their sex life to be like porn. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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does he know that you knew he did this while you were pg. it didn't bother you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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so, not a big deal, find something else to worry about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:18 PM Flag
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I don't see how *anyone* could "expect their sex life to be like porn." If my sex life were like porn, I would be having sex with lots of men who are extremely well endowed,in addition to having several lesbian relationships with women who have huge breasts. The men would be pizza delivery guys, who drop off the pizza and immediately decide to have sex with me, they would also be police officers who arrest me, take me to a cell and have wild sex with me in the cell, and neighbors who come over to borrow something, but who are ready to drop their pants in an instant. And of course I would be wildly moaning in ecstacy through it all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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lol... and looking very serious, and never climaxing in a normal way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:28 PM Flag
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better that than engaging with a real person, imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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Yes, pornography is a good way to generate fantasies and enjoy your sexuality (whether you are male or female) and live out things that you would never REALLY want to do. Hubby doesn't want a balloon chested woman any more than you want the same sort of artificiality in a guy. Porn is a normal part of many people's sex lives. Ask him if you can look at the site with him and see what each of you finds sexy. Playboy.com is probably pretty tame! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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All sentient men like porn. Just accept that as a law of nature. Any man who says otherwise is lying. And Playboy -- that's like porn for high school boys. It doesn't get any tamer. Be thankful your DH doesn't have a taste for the really nasty porn that's out there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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ugh! Everyone should stop telling her that there is only one answer to this. It all depends on what the people in the relationship are comfortable with. Each couple needs to decide what is okay with them. One answer is not meant for all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 05:03 PM Flag
[ - ] what gives? - 2 wks late, big, sore tender breasts, a bit of what i thought was implantation spotting a wk ago, feeling really tired and queazy, but 2 neg pg tests this am?? left message for gyn this am. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.22.08, 08:11 AM Flag
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How old are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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What you thought was implantation spotting could have been just a very light period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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you want to be pg but aren't :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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