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[ - ] Bunk Beds - Any suggestions where to buy? Anything to avoid? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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We got a loft set with 2 twin beds from Vermont Precision Furniture, I think and my son LOVES it. They're online [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
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Approx price? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
[ - ] SAHM's--do you get any weekends off during the year? Either DH takes the kids away for the weekend or you go somewhere by yourself or with girlfriends? Just curious what everyone's set up is. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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no. frankly i dont want time "off" i just need some me time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:07 AM Flag
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OP: I guess that's what I meant--"me" time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
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^^i would like it more if dh was more ambitious to take ds out to park once in a while by himself or do some more daddy and zach time just the two of them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
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Not more than 2 hours a week to go off and leave dh in charge of the kids. 99% of the time this is fine but occasionally I feel totally drained. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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i agree. dh's dont understand how draining it can be [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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lol. My dh does know how draining it is and that is why he only ever does 2hrs a week! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:15 AM Flag
[ - ] Any mom's on that went to an RE to get preg on? Took a year to get preg and m/c at 13 weeks. Been TTC over a year and we now have an appt with an RE. What can I expect on the first visit? Been through 3 failed IUI's with ob/gyn. Since I got preg on my own am I still looking at IVF? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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Hi, you did IUI with Ob/Gyn? Where do you live? I went to an RE in NYC first couple months are diagnostic work up, checking blood levels, I had an HSG, then a hysterosonogram. Also had DH checked. Were you taking any ovulation stimulating drugs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:47 PM Flag
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Went to RE @ BIMC. Took medical history and ordered a bunch of blood tests. Plus gave us a schedule to come in for additional tests. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:57 PM Flag
[ - ] speaking of cribs. i just bought new crib set for db#2 from pottery barn kids. a bit pricey, love the look and quality. anyone have experience with their kids furniture? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:58 AM Flag
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It's crap. You'd be better off with something from JC Penny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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np. I heard (on UB so it might not be true) that JCPenny and PBK furniture is actually made by the same company. Often the same item can be bought at either store. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:05 AM Flag
[ - ] This may sound crazy but...how do you approach parent/teacher conferences? Should I smile and be friendly with the teacher (like meeting a potential new friend) or more business like and matter-of-fact? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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You're overthinking this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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friendly, polite. I'm only business-like and matter-of-fact with my mother-in-law. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:01 AM Flag
[ - ] for those of you who work PT, how did you find your job? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.22.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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negotiated for less hours at the job I had [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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Ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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fewer! not less [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:07 AM Flag
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me too. have done 2 days, then 3, now 4. hope to never do 5 days. lost 20% of pay with each day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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I work for myself. Clients are former colleagues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone here had success with getting their dh to be more ambitious / maximize his career drive? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:56 AM Flag
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personally I have found career drive innate (either the guys I dated had it and were focused in other areas of their lives as well, or they totally didn't care) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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np: agree. My DH was clearly just born an achiever. From things his MIL says it sounds like he was exactly like this at 3--it's just he can drive and has a wider vocab now. You marry the guy you marry and you work with who he is. If you're the ambitious one then maybe you need to be out there working and have him be the at-home parent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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. . . and there's a downside/upside to both ways. I have a very high standard of living because my DH is driven & chose a career that suits his abilities. But he works a lot more than any of us would like and we have stress because of that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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Nope. And I've realized it was disrespectful of me to keep trying. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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I think it's disrespectful of him not to do more to better our standard of living [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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Why don't you handle that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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how bad is it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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Both of us are now on WW to lose weight which I think will give DH a confidence boost. He uses his weight as an excuse not to look for a better position. I wish I could do more like a big kick in the ass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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Indirectly. DH took it upon himself to better his career and make himself more marketable. When asked, or I feel the need to, I advise. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
[ - ] I think I just decided that I want to be a SAHM. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.22.08, 10:50 AM Flag
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It's really fine to be a SAHM you know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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me too, but don't have that luxury [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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op: I don't think I do either...sigh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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do you have a child? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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op: yes - can you be a SAHM without having kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:54 AM Flag
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then that's a good place to start [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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Good for you - do it, you will be so glad, even if you have to make do with less stuff [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 01:49 AM Flag
[ - ] Is Wall-E too scary for a 3 and a 5 year old girl? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.22.08, 10:50 AM Flag
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no, but they might not enjoy it very much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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Is there anything out that they would enjoy? Supposed to rain Wed/Thurs so thinking of a movie. The American Girl one is probably too old for them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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Don't think scary, just above their heads. Took my 4.5 and 6yos boys. They liked it, but did not get the scary environmental message. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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My 7 yo niece was totally bored by it. It isn't scary but I can't imagine a 3 and 5 yo enjoying it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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scared my 5yo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:13 AM Flag
[ - ] What summer homework do TT assign? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:43 AM Flag
[ - ] I know you all aren't going to believe me...but my therapist (a divorced, very attractive woman in her 40s) is, I realize suddenly, interested in my husband. I have told her every horrible thought and complaint about him. Anyone think this is possible? Or do you just not believe me? 41 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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^^ I have also, obviously, told her great things about him. She knows things about me I wouldn't tell my best friend... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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How do you know? What happened to have you "realize" this? Are you being a little paranoid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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i don't think i am paranoid. i just know. it took me awhile to realize it. she knows it is wrong because she keeps telling me to stop talking about him (she also knows i am good at reading people) - but he is why i need therapy. i need someone to bitch to so i can go home and be sweet. I made the mistake of showing her a picture of him, too. i can't explain it. i am getting a new therapist. i feel as though she sees me as the problem, that she wishes she could save him from me. she has even suggested that i go see his therapist and he come see her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:46 AM Flag
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maybe she should date his therapist. Seriously, you sound a little on the paranoid side. I think that is one of the things that you should be working on in therapy. Your suspicions sound loopy but by sharing them with her, you might be able to open a dialogue about your problems with trust, etc. Then you might actually get something out of therapy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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i've been in therapy for a long, long time and have had a number of different therapist (changing with moves) and did not have such problems with them. i know what i know... do you really think everything is so clean and simple? i am not saying she will act on it. i can tell though that she is biased and just wrong about a lot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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ittttta. OP, I don't know you or your situation or your therapist, but assuming that your therapist has the hots for your dh (based presumably on a photo of him, though you didn't answer below the question about whether or not she's met him, so maybe she has) as a way of excusing why she doesn't like you is really something you need to work on. With your therapist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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anything is possible. why do you think this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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anything is possible but more likely that you feel this way either because of your own issues with marriage or she's trying to point out the good in your dh to save your marraige [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:44 AM Flag
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i am not interested in trashing the marriage. and i tell her plenty of good things about him and bad things about myself. i can't explain it - it is the bias of our sessions. she sees me in a light that is unfair. i chalk it up to feminine competition. i am shocked by it - but i cannot explain it any other way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:47 AM Flag
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^^^ i'm okay with it. it's crazy! - even a little funny. i'm shocked but uncomfortable enough to find someone else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:48 AM Flag
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has she ever met him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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I'm sorry, but I don't think this is possible. I mean, anything is possible, but this seems highly unlikely. You should find a new therapist if you think this therapy is not going well, but what will happen if the new therapist "sides" with your husband too? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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i'm not saying that she isn't struggling against it. i'm just saying that she is only capable of understanding people in terms of stereotypes. i have been stereotypes. my dh has (as someone who needs someone "better" - have you not met women who are like this? c'mon!). my mom, my brothers and sisters. she is just not GOOD at what she does. i cannot be with someone who can only see me in a neg light. it is my wakeup call that therapists are people, too, and to proceed with caution until you really get to know one well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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and a therapist should not constantly be siding against you. i mean constantly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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if she is a really good therapist and you are having these feelings then why not tell her how you are feeling and see what she says and how she reacts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:08 AM Flag
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she's not a good therapist. i'm cutting my losses and quitting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:09 AM Flag
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maybe that is for the best. but if it were me I'd be curious if i was right and I'd put it to her anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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and then i would report back to ub because that is a juicy topic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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What makes you think she is interested in him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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see above. Ladies of UB beware - therapists are all too human!!! make sure you get a good feel for the person before unloading. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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You? Are crazy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:18 AM Flag
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And you? Are dumb. Whatever.have you ever been in therapy? do you have no clue what it is like? they are people, too! but it is easy to forget.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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^^ my dad was a shrink so me, and all the members of my family have been in therapy for a long time. it's something we do to keep even keel. but it's full of holes and imperfection. like anything. like life. see everything in black and white at your own peril... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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it's really weird that you, after all of your years in therapy, are now just figuring out that therapists are "people." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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good therapists are better at staying professional 100% (meaning not "people") [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:38 AM Flag
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but you really haven't described anything unprofessional that she has done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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i do not want to go into detail here. i reaaly domn't understand name-callers. you really don't know anything about it but you are so quick to call me names? what if I was really crazy or nutso? do you think it is helpful to call a crazy person names? i think that says more about you...there is something wrong with gratuitously cruel people... i am not hurt. not at all. I think you are all a goddamn riot. but if i was crazy, you would not be helping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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Right? No one even seems to be pointing out that she hasn't even met your husband. What does she do, start masturbating when you talk about him. Seriously lady, you are looney tunes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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good thing you are in therapy b/c you sound like nutso. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:37 AM Flag
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i feel sorry for the angry hags like yiou that hang around ub. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:39 AM Flag
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You clearly have a problem accepting criticism, evidenced by the fact that your therapist is "interested" in your husband because she doesn't always agree with you. I'm interested in him, too, I'm interested in knowing why he puts up with your insanity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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black and white. there is is again. incapable of understanding nuances. i am not saying she is ALWAYS interested in him. it is there sometimes - flashes of it. he is good looking, rich, etc. she is not going to act on it. she does not side with him. she does not even remember what i tell her properly. she just gets it all wrong too many times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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^^^ she is way too biased. not good at what she does. is that so hard to believe. you have heard of bad lawyers, bad doctors...but there is no such thing as a bad therapist? please. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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you may be right but you have not described anything that she's said or done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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The best thing to do is dump her ASAP. Why should you spend your valuable time, and pay good money to get all tied up in knots with this person who is not even part of your life? If you must have therapy, go to a person who has a behavioral focus, just talk about the here and now, and for goodness sake, don't show any pics of your dh to the new therapist. DOn't tell her how much he earns either. MIL had an affair with her psychoanalyst back in the 60s when dh was little, he was trying to get her to leave dh's dad for him, she was the source of the $$$, she was 10 yrs younger than her dh, and I suppose she looked like a good catch. Just remember your therapist is human, and some of the most messed up people out there are the therapists. That is what drew them into the profession. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 07:13 PM Flag
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guess what: i believe you. switch therapits! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 06:03 AM Flag
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I believe you too, although even if I didn't, I would still tell you to switch therapists because your current one is obviously not helping you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 06:23 AM Flag
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The reason people think your post sounds crazy is because you are saying that your therapist is interested in your dh, whom apparently she has never even met. Is that possible? It is entirely possible that she is siding with him and thinks you are the problem in which case you should find another therapist, but still not sure why you are focused on the perception that she is interested in him. That seems like a weird conclusion to draw just based on a feeling. She is crazy if she is really interested in someone she's never met. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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therapists are people, too. NObody is a saint. I'd say go with your instincts [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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I disagree that she is 'crazy if she is really interested in someone she's never met'... she knows everything you've told her about yourself, your family and your DH. I used to know a woman whom had moved from LA on a separation agreement. She confided in me about everything; and I was too young to respond (23) so I just listened. Well, by the time I was finished listening 8 months later... and heard all the ins and outs... knew her very well, what I disliked or agreed with and how I would have acted in similar circumstances... I met him. I liked him very much. And I dated him. 13 years later we are married with children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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Do you trust your husband? If you two are okay in that department I would talk to him about your feeling. He may tell you to dump her. You may find out more about him. You may find new respect (or the opposite) once you confide in him... As well, if you are afraid he would go that direction with another woman you should also talk with him about your thoughts. The candid conversation could settle your anxieties and help you to make some important decisions that would ultimately dissolve some of your unsettled feelings so that you may move forward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 11:12 AM Flag
[ - ] Curious Cdn mom here... It sounds like the vast majority of NYC kids go through the private school system. (Not so up here). Just wondering, what are the "ball-park" $$ for a year's tuition? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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Are you kidding? There are one million children in NYC public schools. Maybe 50,000 in private schools. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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OP: Really? Then why do posters here only seem to talk about private? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:31 AM Flag
[ - ] 2yo will not fall asleep at night and awakens screaming in the middle of the night. i've tried everything. and she was always a great sleeper as a baby, never had to do cio. what do i do? this has been going on for months, ped is no help 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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What do you do ie bed time routine and when he wakes up at night? Are you 'rewarding' her with attention/cuddles etc that make it worth her waking up? Is she teething? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:52 AM Flag
[ - ] bf just broke up with me. it was the second time in our relationship. i told him to NEVER EVER call me again, as I would never trust that he would not do it again. i said this is the second time he did it and there would not be a third. I am very sad about it though. any chance i will ever hear from him again? pathetic i know. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.22.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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for your sake, I hope not. move on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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you don't want to, remember? take the "kick me" sign off your back and move on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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i know. i will not take him back, i just can't believe he did it and part of me hopes he will regret it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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why do you want to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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lol. you told him to NEVER EVER call you again, and you want to know if there is any chance you will? btw bf and I broke up after an argument on a weekend, and I called him on Wednesday, demanding to know why he hadn't called. He said, "I thought we broke up." I said, "I can't believe you're willing to just leave it like that. We need to talk." We set up a meeting and arranged a visitation schedule, where we saw each other every other weekend. long story short, we'll soon be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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problem was, i did set up that meeting where he told me he thinks the break up was best for the both of us, even though i told him i didn't. so i wish the same was true. i love your story btw and the visitation schedule :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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sounds like you need to let it go. distract yourself but also let yourself mourn the loss [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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i will, and i have no choice. just feels terrible. i feel very rejected right now. particularly because last week he told me he wanted to marry me and have children with me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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ugh. He sounds like a heart breaker. Maybe he scared himself, but don't let him play your heart like a yo-yo. If he wants back in, he's going to have to prove he's really serious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:05 AM Flag
[ - ] I had a job interview last week that felt like it went great - got great feedback during the interview, they even were talking salary and benefits, and then promised I'd hear back very, very soon. It's been 4 days, and now I've heard that they interviewed other people as well. The suspense is killing me! I really, really want and need this job. I'm in a dead-end situation currently and there is almost nothing else available out there right now for me. I've sent thank you notes to the main managerials that I met. Any advice on how not to obsess about this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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always negotiate the job first and delay the salary discussion until you know they only want you. otherwise they use salary needs/wishes against you. If you really want the job, I'd put together a little report or letter outlining areas where your specific expertise will concretely help them. areas where the other candidates lack experience (because this job is meant for you!). gl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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op: one guy tried to get me to say what I was looking for, and I just brushed it off and said that the range they gave me was fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:49 AM Flag
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Its out of your hands, Try to think about something else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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give it more time. they need to do their due diligence to hire the right person, even if they loved you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I already have an appt next week for a pap smear, should I let the office know that I just had a positive EPT or tell them when I get there? I'm afraid they'll make me wait until 10wks like they did with my last pregnancy and I want to see that heartbeat now. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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will you be able to hear heart beat? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:28 AM Flag
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Probably not, but I should be able to see it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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if you aren't that far along you may not be able to see the heartbeat yet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:29 AM Flag
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I should be 7-8wks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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np. by my dates at 7wks they couldn't see a heartbeat - GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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I would phone so that you get the appropriate appointment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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I do have the appropiate appt for my pap smear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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Will they still do that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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Why wouldn't they? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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Don't know I was just asking. Can't remember getting smears done during any of my pgs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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If you want a sonogram you don't have the appropriate appt, sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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if you have an appointment for a pap, i doubt they'll do the sonogram [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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Oh well I guess I'll have to back later for the sonogram. I should of had this sonogram back in March. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:44 AM Flag
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huh? you weren't pg then [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:45 AM Flag
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Sorry I meant the PAP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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just tell them when you get there that there is chance you may be preggos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:45 AM Flag
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i'm sure they will not do the pap smear. and of course you have to tell them you are pregnant. and, i think at 7-8 weeks you might hear the heartbeat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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i was 6-7 weeks pg w/ #2 when they did ultrasound and i heard and saw the heartbeat and yes they can do a pap then as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:54 AM Flag
[ - ] Did your boobs "normalize" while bfing? I am so huge rt now @ 1 month, will they go down before I am done? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.22.08, 10:22 AM Flag
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Yes and your dh will cry real tears. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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OP-when? when? I am 38J now, it is not fun. I'm not skinny but I still think I look ready to tip over. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 10:26 AM Flag
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It took me around 6mos when db wasn't nursing so much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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yes, unfortunately at about 4 months, they shrank back to almost normal (still bfing, btw) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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