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[ - ] Has anyone had a negative experience with a nanny? I am afraid to leave my dc with one... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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so don't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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ITA, sort of -- I used daycare for the first few months. Felt much more comfortable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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I was you -- get a nanny cam. It will give you peace of mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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agree. I got one and love it. Got it at The Spy Shop on 34th street. They set it up. It stream video to my computer at work. Couldn't have gone back to work without it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:11 PM Flag
[ - ] is watermelon ok for my 7mo? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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no, he'll get sick [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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my baby likes it and has not gotten sick [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 08:21 AM Flag
[ - ] can I use wart remover while preg? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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I wouldn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Help us! db's (7 mo) new thing is waking up at 5:30am which could be tolerable IF he didn't wake at 3:30 for a feed. We've tried earlier bedtime, later bedtime, everything. I'm so pooped here. 54 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 05.28.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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CIO for the 3:30 feed. As for the wake-up time, it may just be how he's wired. My 19 mo still wakes at 5:30. We handle it by taking turns getting up with him while the other one sleeps. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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yeah, we're discussing ferberizing (which we swore we would never, hah) so that may be the deal. i'm very ready to drop the middle of the night bf.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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I did Ferber and waited until 13 mo. Please don't make the same mistake as me! It was such a relief to get him sleeping through the night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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you could have waited another couple of months and he would have slept much better w/o the need to make him cry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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I highly doubt that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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All the kids I know that were bad sleepers but were not CIOed started to sleep much better at around 18 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Well, then I guess you are an expert. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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That's what experience and learning makes you, no? An expert. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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LOL, whatever hater. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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Dude, who is the hater here? You guys are attacking me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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an expert ON YOUR OWN DC - not everyone else's [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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not everyone's. There is no such thing (even though many claim to be one). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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well you wrote "all the kids I know..." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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yes, the ones "I know". Exactly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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omg [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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ita. hes totally old enough to cio. when is bedtime now? you could also leave him be at 5:30 and see if he goes back to sleep. thats what we do. works most of the time at least till 6:30 or so (knock wood) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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his bedtime is 6:30-7:30. i know i need to get on this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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i was curious. my ds goes down between 7:30 and 7:45 so if he sleeps till 6:30 im more than satisfied, but if your db is sleeping from 6:30 to 5:30 its really the same thing. I just cant do 5:30 am. I just cant [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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oh, i know it. there's something about seeing that little red five on the clock that is so brutal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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so incrementally put him down a bit later each night (by 10 minutes or so) and see if it helps. Even if you don't want to do Ferber yet, there is a chapter that discusses early waking as a sleep issue that might have some solutions to your problem that won't include cio. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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yep, my 8 mo sleeps from about 6:30 - 5:30 and it seems nothing I do helps her sleep later in the am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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stop doing the 3:30 feed, first of all. Get that one resolved before worrying about the wake up time. Just go in and soothe, maybe offer water, but no food. He'll stop waking for it once he knows he's not getting anything good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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ok, arrgghhhh. how does one wean he night breastfeed? he goes bonkers if I don't whip it out.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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Let him cry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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cut down the time he's allowed to nurse. rock him until he's asleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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send DH in to soothe. Eventually you might just find it easier to CIO. We did, after trying lots of other things, and it was quick. He still loves us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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the kid is only 7 months old. let him have his feedings. You will get used to the wakings. I have three kids at home and none of them slept mostly through the night before they were around 1.5 years of age. By 2.5 they all slept like rocks at night. Take it day by day and have DH help you out at night! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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You're quite the martyr mom, huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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why would you call me that? I preferred that over letting my children cry to sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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Yeah, but getting used to the wakings for 1.5 years for each kid? That's crazy. A good nights sleep benefits you and the dc. A little cio never hurt anyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Why is that crazy? DH and I shared the responsibilities at night and we both got enough sleep. The kids didn't suffer at all because we soothed them back to sleep very quickly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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Obviously you don't work. I can't wake up multiple times at night for 1.5 years and still function. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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Sorry, but I am a working mom with a working DH. We just sat it out. The first months with #1 were really hard but then our bodies got used to it. By the time #2 and #3 came to this world we were able to live with minimum sleep. The human body is capable of a lot of things but most are not willing to go through the "training process". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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Some of us don't have dh's that can help with night time responsibilities. Continuous sleep is good for all parties. I think expecting 1.5 years of not enough sleep per child is a bit crazy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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call it what you will. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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ITA. I was anti-CIO and after I did it, I think it's magic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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op: here's my (our) deal. ds is a fussy baby, better now than he was, but still sensitive. is cio going to put him over the edge? = ) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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No. I think it actually HELPED my kid. I swear he was calmer after CIO than before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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My 5.5 mo was colicky for 6 mos. She's finally not crying and dh is ready to Ferber - I have the same fear as you - will it make her cry all the time again?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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I dont think that will be the result. you should do what you think will be best for you in the end. I WOH full time and neither of us wanted to be up at night with ds even tho we love him. so we knew we had to do whatever we could to get him sleeping thru the night [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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you wont know unless you try. every kid is different. in my case I learned it would only take a few minutes of crying and was well worth it. I also learned my ds almost has to cry a little to blow off steam and get to sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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The amount of CIO (little or not) depends on the child, though. Some kids don't respond to CIO at all, some need more than a little. If your kid really only needs a little but of crying you don't really have a problem at your hands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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np - this is your choice, but it's not necessary is what most of us are trying to tell OP - you don't win points for nursing your 3 kids during the night until 1.5 - and fwiw no ped recs this [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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Huh? Nursing is not the only way to soothe a baby back to sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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no ped recommends what? Going in and soothe your kid back to sleep at night until she is physically able to soothe herself? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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no ped recommends night feeding after a certian age. at that point its just a crutch and you are doing more of a disservice not having already taught db the tools to soothe herself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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"disservice"? My kids got weaned from night feedings when they were weaned of the breast (between 10 and 14 months). No harm done with that. Btw, all peds, eh? Not the ones I am in touch with. The ones that give me bollocks advise like that will not retain my children as patients. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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you can still bf your kids at that age and not have them waking at night to feed. They eat plenty during the day unless youre starving them. thats just plain too old to wake at night to feed. But you do what you want and Ill do what I want. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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you don't get it, do you? You do not have to teach your child to self-soothe. They do this all by themselves as soon as they are mature enough. If you are in a hurry, of course, you don't have to wait that long and force them to so. I do not do that to my kids. That's me. Obviously, you think differently, so let your kids cry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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actually, I do get it. You dont have to teach your kids lots of things that they will eventually learn on their own, but you do anyway. that is just silly. if you can help them learn this skill earlier, why woudlnt you. so, actually - my kid doesnt cry. And he sleeps, too and that is the point [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
[ - ] is it realistic for me to think that i can nurse during the day and all night but that db will take a bottle (of breastmilk) from dh once a day so he can have some bonding time with her? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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only unrealistic if you don't try it. Stick with it even if db doesn't like it (although mine never had problems going between breast and bottle). Make it a habit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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you can do it, just wait a few weeks to make sure nursing is going well before doing the transition. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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My dw works PT nights. I bottle fed each of our kids milk she pumped. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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start it as soon as you can. my dd 6 mo doesn't like a bottle because i never tried until about 4 months. she would rather have solids and nothing in between than a bottle! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
[ - ] we want to take our dbs to the beach this summer thinking the hamptons or fire island? any recs on places to stay that are not crazy expensive. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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we've only done daytrips. train or car to patchogue, ferry to watch hill. wonderful day out on fire island. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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it'll be very expensive if you mean all summer...but if you're just looking for a long weekend you'll be ok [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
[ - ] My nanny annoys the bejezus out of me, but getting a new nanny will take so much effort... 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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what annoys you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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She's loud, she doesn't listen but just starts talking as soon as you start responding to her, she's constantly complaining that she doesn't feel good, her life is filled with such drama that I've stopped asking her how her weekend was... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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do you trust her with db? do you have a tough relationship? i think you should start looking... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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Yes, I've started looking. I think she takes good care of DB, and I have guilt about firing her b/c her financial situation is really bad, but I WAH, so it's hard for me to have a nanny around that I find so irritating. Yes, our relationship is tough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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oh... how annoying. may ask how you found her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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Nanny agency. I would NOT recommend using one. Expensive and they just send anyone to interview with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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did you pay upfront or upon placement? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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Upon placement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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how expensive - am considering using because I have very VERY specific criteria [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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NP -- an agency won't help. Seriously. they will send you lots of people who don't actually meet your criteria. there is an on-line agency you might try. They are much more "upfront" than the others I found. www.nycnannyfinder.com I think it's called. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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just curious. what are your criteria? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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bilingual (english and spanish), older (40s or 50s), prefer a south american to someone from pr or dominican republic and legal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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unless there is an agency that specializes in south americans, an agency won't be able to help you. I would post ads in spanish language newspapers that are read by people from the south american countries, or call the embassies from those countries and see if they have job boards for people from their countries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 06:19 AM Flag
[ - ] Have you ever gone to the movies with your db? An early show? Maybe during the week at an off time? Any suggestions? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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People who bring their dbs to adult movies annoy me. The kid will cry -- he's a baby. Get a sitter or rent a movie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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ita - also think it's inappropriate for dc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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Take it easy. It was a question not an invitation for you to vent your pet peeves. Sheesh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Only to parent friendly shows. They are hard to find but it is possible. The one I went to had a changing table and diaper bin at the back of the cinema. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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Some theatres have "Mom" days where babies are welcome. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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sure. go to the first show, mid-week and not when the movie just comes out. I have been the only one in the theater on occasion. otherwise, see if they are running any of the baby-friendly programs any more. check out the sunshine cinema on houston, regal cinemas in bpc and the theater on 86th adn Thrid that is not amc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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Well, whaddya know? A helpful answer!! I didn't think it was possible anymore, but lookey here. Thank you, kind woman. Thank you very much!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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thanks, for asking... I was wondering the same thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 03:05 PM Flag
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Please report back if you find any good leads! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 03:06 PM Flag
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OP: Yay! Rattle & Reel at Sunshine is still going on. http://www.landmarktheatres.com/Market/NewYork/NewYork_frameset.htm Thank you for the suggestion!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 04:17 PM Flag
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ita with this. though I read some sketchy thing in ny post about a nanny who got robbed at gunpoint in theatre during day mid week (though with a 5 yo, not a db). sounded sketchy though (more nanny than safety) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 03:49 PM Flag
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Yikes! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.29.08, 04:10 PM Flag
[ - ] If your 5 mo old does not eat solids how many ounces does he/she have? how often? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 05.28.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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my 5 mo was having 5 bottles a day about 6 oz each for 4 of them, but always a big one for the last bottle, like 8-9 oz [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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how many hours in btw in bottle? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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5 bottles a day - 5 oz each. She's 14 lbs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:40 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anybody ever purchased a FastPass for the Big Apple BBQ Block Party in Madison Square Park? Is it worth it? Or are there so many FastPass holders that the wait was still unbearable? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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I can't imagine that working with a New York crowd. Yeah, it works in Orlando, but I would really not want to make a bunch of big, hungry, bbq-craving people angry cuz I bought myself a ticket to the front of the line. just sayin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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From what I understand there is a special line for pass holders. It's not like cutting in line. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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still... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:46 PM Flag
[ - ] did you negotiate to have closing costs paid by seller? if so, where did you purchase and when? trying to get an idea if i got screwed.. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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It's illegal in NJ, though our agent said people sometimes pretend there are issues with the house as a way to get around it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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why illegal? That is odd [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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Not sure, it was something that came up with one of the houses we looked at. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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interesting. Damn nanny state always up in my business! ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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you'll be singing a different tune when you are the seller [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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no. I just will make a deal that benefits me and the buyer. I am an adult and perfectly capable of reading fine print. I don't need some beaurocrat making sure I'm not hurting myself thank you very much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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Really not that common in NY and surrounding burbs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:31 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you think about open relationships? Should parents have open relationships if they want 'em? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Whatever floats your boat. Not for me though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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they could but they should be VERY discrete about them. Unhealthy for a child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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Do you think it's bad for the kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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I think that 99% of people are unable to handle an open relationship and it is a bad idea. If you think you and DH are both in the 1% secure enough to do it though, go for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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np: I know several couples who have done this. Ended poorly for 3 out of 4 of them - but I think in the cases where it didn't go well, one of the partners wasn't into it as much as the other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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but that is probably almost always true. No 2 people are completely compatible about anything, much less about an open relationship! One is almost always going to do it for the other one nad then feel jealous and resentful [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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The couple I know where it works actually freaks me out. They don't hide their lovers from each other or their children (who are still young). I've been to a party where they were each with their lover, all hanging out together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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I don't think that even a tiny fraction of people who say they'd be up for it could handle it. I'm a single person, and a pretty sexual person, and even I find non-committed sex a huge complication so I sort of can't imagine it ever not hurting the kids in some tangential way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:43 PM Flag
[ - ] tips for making fish tacos? have tilapia filets, tortillas. I also have some cilantro, avocado. What do I do with these ingredients?! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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bring them over to my house! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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throw out the cilantro. yuck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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dude! You can't make fish tacos with cilantro! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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no? I thought I'd use it as some sort of pesto-y kind of thing when I cooked the fish? I have lettuce, too to put in the taco. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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just sprinkle it on top with the lettuce and tomatoes etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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That would be the perfect addition - I'd saute the filets with a little olive oil and salt/pepper. Top with fresh avocado, tomato, cilantro and a dab of mayo mixed with cayenne pepper. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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epicurious.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:32 PM Flag
[ - ] Moms with 3 or 4 kids...how is it? Did you plan it that way? Do you sah? do you have help? tia. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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three dcs. yes. i woh p/t. (was a sah last year). i have cleaning help every other week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
[ - ] I once wrote on UB (on the old site - sigh :( )that my dh didn't like bj's. Someone wrote back that dh is gay. I shared this revelation with dh this weekend and he laughed. He pointed out that if he was gay, he would most likely love bj's - hence the use of gay men's glory holes in the bathroom. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:22 PM Flag
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sigh. There are always some stupid women on here who want to say that preferences for certain sex acts define gayness. The only relevant question is, do you want to do those things with a man, or a woman? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:25 PM Flag
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you i love. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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he's as dumb as the person who posted that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:25 PM Flag
[ - ] So describe a hemmorhoid to me. 34 weeks pg and there seems to be something bulbous growing out of my bunghole. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:20 PM Flag
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that would be my description. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:20 PM Flag
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either that or she ate something really freaky [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:23 PM Flag
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So it is a smooth thing? I had this idea that hemmorhoids grew on top of the skin (not out the hole) and that it would be rough, rather than smooth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:25 PM Flag
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np mine felt like my thumb was sticking out of there (minus the thumbnail of course) yep - smooth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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wow, thanks. i should have come here first. why did i even bother calling my doc just so he could laugh at me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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LOL! We are a veritable fount of information around here! ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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GL with that. I wonder if they ever go away?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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yup, that's a hemrroid. If you run super hot water on it in the shower - spread your ass cheeks and do it...that will help deflate it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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ouch! That sounds painful [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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Thanks. Wow - 'deflate' that totally describes the way it feels - inflated! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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it won't stay that way forever -- but its annoying while it does. the hot water thing will hurt a little, but its worth it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.28.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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