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[ - ] Can someone please give me the name of the pill that has no estrogen? Am breastfeeding and my MD's office asked me which pill I want to be on so they can call in the script. TIA! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 06.04.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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I don't know, but I have been using Nuva ring (which I think has a combination of hormones) & still bf'ing, no issues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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The mini pill? Don't know the brand name, sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:57 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm organizing a good friend's bday dinner. She originally told me she only wanted three other couples. I ran some other names by her and she said "no" to them. So, then her DH got involved and the group got bigger. Today the bday girl told me that she told a friend she was suprised I hadn't called her yet b/c she was supposed to be invited. Only - she had specifically told me she did NOT want to invite this friend. Which means I have to call this person who is VERY sensitive and act like it was my mistake. Any ideas on how to phrase it so I don't look like a jerk? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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You are a nice friend. I would make the birthday girl call this other woman herself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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i am oh so tempted to tell this person that i thought the bday girl was calling her. kind of make her take the fall without letting the woman know she was not originally on the list. i just don't need this woman on my bad side and it's easy to get there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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Sounds fine to me. You shouldn't have to make enemies over this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:55 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone take premesis while pg? having pretty bad all-day sickness in first trimester, heard this helps. plus, when i take my prenatal, the nausea is way worse. anyone have this experience? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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I took kids gummi vites because I couldn't tolerate prenatals. Tried premesis but it didn't help my morning sickness and cost quite a bit more than the kids vitamins, so I switched back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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not me, but I know women who swear by Zofran. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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i took 1/2 a b-12 and 1/2 a unisom... it worked like acharm for whatever reason. i was told by a retired OB [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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my good friend whose an OB told me B-12 and Unisom too! Also, take prenatal at night and if that's still bad, just take a Folic Acid until nausea gets better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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what is the dosage for the b-12? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:14 PM Flag
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that is the the only thing that worked for me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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op: did you take that at night? isn't unisom a sleep aid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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It is a sleep aid, but it was magic for me. I can't say I felt more sleepy that I did before the unisom as a preg. woman, but the nausea stopped and I have healthy happy DC... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:20 PM Flag
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^^ I did not take it at night... when I woke up actually [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:21 PM Flag
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this is the formulation of an old anti-nausea pregnacny medicine called Bendectin which was pulled from the market amidst frivolous law suits. Worked like a charm for my mom who was incredibly sick while pregnant with all four of us. I have also heard b12 and benadryl as a similar home gronw formulation. The old OBs all know about this "miracle" drug. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:36 PM Flag
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this ties well into the post about high c-section rates in NYC... it's malpractice ladies, and our bodies are the ones that pay the most... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:37 PM Flag
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np: And at the same time, I'm a DES daughter. And the thalidomide disaster. Etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:39 PM Flag
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not the same thing at all... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:41 PM Flag
[ - ] FIL said that he can't believe how thin our kids are when my DH is overweight (as is his whole family) and MIL replied that it's because "their mother is such a terrible cook." not sure which comment bothers me more now that I look back on it in horror. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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wow. they sound lovely. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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OMG. I'm sorry. Yuck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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she sounds like the mom on "Everybody Loves Raymond"... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Why are in-laws so wretched? Mine are pretty terrible, too. Did your MIL actually say that to your face or did you hear it second hand? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Because you haven't developed the filters for other peoples' families like you have for your own. Granted, my mom is a psycho. We leave after visiting her and my dw will say, "Can you believe she said X?" I look at her like, "huh?" I didn't even notice it. I just don't process it. The same is true when we visit her family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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not only in front of me but also the kids and DH (who already is insecure enough about his weight) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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That stinks... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:36 PM Flag
[ - ] DD's birthday party is on 6/14--I haven't heard from 7 or the people invited. is it too soon to send an email asking if they are coming? I need to buy party things this weekend. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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what was your rsvp date? you should wait until then [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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When did you send out the invites? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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I sent the invotes out a month before, because I know weekends book up fast this time of year. I stupidly forgot to put an rsvp date. stupid. I was thinking I would give people until Friday, that's a week before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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I think it's ok to send a 'light' email asking if they know yet if they are coming. Usually if people don't reply right away they forget to reply altogether. Unless, of course, they are waiting to find out if they are free (don't have to work, stuff like that). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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if they've been out a month and you don't have an rsvp date, it's fine to start calling now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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send out an email saying whoops! forgot to ask for an rsvp - are you coming? but fwiw, i hate getting invites a month before a party. it's a kid's party - it's not the social event of the season, you know? it shouldn't be considered this huge deal, imo. also - it is so typical that people don't rsvp to kid's parties at all so plan your party favors and things accordingly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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well, I'm having it at a playspace, so i need a headcount. I don't consider it the social event of the season, I just want a response. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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but if it's a place that routinely holds bday parties, they will be used to the number being flexible. it's just how it works [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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so it's ok to not rsvp? and i should make a dozen of everything just in case? whatever, I'm sending out an email. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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np: quite frankly, if you can't afford to make a few extra of whatever your favor is, then you are just showing off anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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it's not the moeny, it's the annoyance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 03:11 PM Flag
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np- expect not to hear from a few- I sent ut 17 invites and only got 7 back- had to cancel. People are rude (I am in NYC) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 03:40 PM Flag
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I gotta say that I disagree. I think it's kinda rude not to send out invites ahead of time. My SIL used to wait until the last minute to tell us when she was having my neice's birthday parties and then was shocked when half of us couldn't come. My policy is first come, first served (unless it's something really big). If I made plans with friends, I'm not going to blow them off because my SIL can't get it together. She has since learned... And I also think it's rude not to RSVP. If you don't care about getting them then don't ask, but if there's a reponse request on the invite it's polite to reply. How hard is it to make a quick call/send an email? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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or: i, too, think it's rude not to rsvp but i've learned not to expect it. and, quite frankly, no matter how early i receive a bday party invite, i will change my rsvp if something more important comes up. i just think people are way too wrapped up in their 3 y.o.'s parties these days. i make sure my party favors are something i can use somehow and have extras. it just shouldn't be that big of a deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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uhm, those parties are supposed to be about the kids. Don't tell me your kid really prefers something you think is more fun over his friend's birthday party (which you already RSVPed and probably told him about already) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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if it is at a place that charges per child -you are rude to cancel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 03:56 PM Flag
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that may be you. My experience is that if you do not announce the party at least a month ahead many people will not be able to make it. This year we did it right and almost all kids will come. Last year we scrambled and only half the kids made it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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OP: thanks for getting it. I sent out my email, and I've all ready had 4 replies, "oops, i meant to call and say we were coming..." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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Flag day? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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Send an email. I'm used to receiving up to three emails regarding party attendance; I find them enjoyable to read. My social group is notoriously bad at sending RSVP responses, so I myself also tend to send out as many emails as I please. It never affects the turn-out and I usually have a pretty good idea of how many people to expect. Really, though, if someone is too lazy to RSVP then either don't invite them next time. If they ask why explain, "You didn't RSVP last time so I thought you wouldn't want to come to this one, either." And then laugh, with an evil glittering of your eyes, and flap your cape and fly away! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 01:27 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know a good OT on the Upper West Side who accepts Board of Ed? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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Making milestones, on bway and 58th [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:54 PM Flag
[ - ] how do you plan a bris? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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hire the mohl, invite some friends, call a caterer, and then hide in the bedroom... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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not doing it at the house. either at synagogue or at a club. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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it's good to get it out of your own home. we did ours (2 ds's ) at friends' homes... i hid in their bedrooms. it was tough for me... one rabbi / mohl was pissed that i wouldn't participate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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what did they want you to do? every time i think of what they will be doing to my son i tear up. how am i supposed to participate???? im freaking out about it. i will need valium. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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i didn't take a valium, but I knew ithad to be done and I just trusted that it would be ok. I did slather them in Emla cream before and then I hid. as soon as it was over they were brought to me and i nursed them... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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^^ they wanted me to stand there and participate in prayers and just show that I was also proud and joyful at the covenant... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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General Topics 01.21.09, 05:24 PM Flag
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I had my mother in law do most of it. It's the father's obligation, so he had to find the mohel, plan with the rabbi, etc. I knew I would be too much of a wreck to plan for a "party" 8 days pp. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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op - i felt the same way. but the ceremony was actually beautiful and ds did not make a peep. we are in nyc and used bris doctor - woman ped. she was fabulous and is all about pain free. ds had sugar cube and wine. he was very happy - i had wine too. it was at our apt and very intimate - it was also my 1st bris [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 05:38 PM Flag
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ok, enough spam. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 05:38 PM Flag
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spam? what does that mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 05:57 PM Flag
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trying to sell product/service on this website. too many capitals, E.D> [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 05:58 PM Flag
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used capitals to emphasize a point... not trying to sell anything. What am I selling? Only thing I have to show for it is our son's foreskin. someone just emailed me about that comment cause we just had a bris recently... she said to check out this comment on this website, thats why I commented... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 06:04 PM Flag
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just checked some other posts and comments... saw lots of capitals! I'm new to this posting thing now that i'm up nights with a newborn. didnt know the no capital letters rule you spoke about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 06:07 PM Flag
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First step - have a son [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 06:15 PM Flag
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I have a beautiful baby boy. unfortunately he doesnt sleep much so I'm up all night. He was circumcised by Dr. Diamond and I'm very happy with the results. He used the sugar water and wine and numbed the peepee with some cream. Baby didn't cry. I don't remember much more about the bris. I was in a fog at the time but I hear that's normal. The whole idea is scary. But the Bris went well and I can't complain. The mohel was a good guy. I got his name from a friend and loved him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 01.21.09, 06:39 PM Flag
[ - ] One more try - does anyone know what the SHSH uniform policy is for boys? I see some photos with polo shirts, others with neckties? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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polo shirts. maybe they wear a tie one day a week for practice in upper grades. maybe the parents are partial to ties on their "little men" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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guessing it's the polos/khakis on most days and ties on chapel/assembly days. That's how Town is, for example. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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they have chapel daily. doubt it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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Right, but at least in the old days (back when there were nuns teaching and everything) only once a week did chapel look anything like a religious ceremony. The other days it was just a short assembly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 04:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Strange list: http://74.54.115.114/node/1035 Writer picked top 6 private (has only 2 UB TTs) 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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They don't say it is their top 6. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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not strange -- it's a range of schools. Doesn't say these are THE top 6. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Hi all. Does anyone remember me?, I'm the one who drove her dear friend to detox about 3 weeks ago. She stopped by my house the day after getting out of detox (NOT the same as rehab - she was in detox for 5 days only) and I smelled alcohol on her breath. Confronted her about it and she said she hadn't been drinking. I didn't believe her but she swore up & down, even saying she was hurt that I had thought that - so, finally, I was like "if you say you're not lying then, ok, I believe you." She started going to an out-patient rehab, daily, as well as doing an additional AA meeting every day. She told everyone, including her therapist and the folks in her AA meetings, that she was sober and had "x" amount of days. Guess what? She just called to tell me she started drinking as soon as she got home from detox (3 weeks ago) and had been lying to everyone since then. I am SO proud of her for telling the truth, finally, because I - at least - KNEW (although it was nothing I could prove) she had started drinking again. Just goes to prove the saying: "How can you tell when an alcoholic is lying? - Because their lips are moving." Her sobriety (or lack thereof) is HER CHOICE but d*mn it, just don't f*cking lie to me, you know??! 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Expect her to lie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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Ditto. It's part of the disease of alcoholism. Signed, mom with 18+ years sober. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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OP: Yup, I know. It sucks though. She was downright angry for me, 3 weeks ago, for telling her I smelled alcohol on breath and asking if she had been drinking. She sat there, for weeks, and lied - with a poker face - to me and our other dear friend (the friend that drove her up to detox with me). I'm happy she's finally telling the truth (because I knew, in my heart, she was lying all along) but, d*mn, I'll NEVER be able to trust her again, will I? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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When she gets and stays sober for an extended period of time, yes, you will. But not until then. Until then, you have to know that - at any given moment - you are talking to two people within her. One wants to get sober and healthy. The other wants to do and say anything to get you off her back so she can get to the alcohol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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OP: thanks - the thing about her is that she'll tell anyone who'll listen that she DOESN'T want to be sober - but, when I was on the phone with her just now, I asked her if she was sober and she said, "yes, in this minute." I asked her if she WANTED to be sober and she said, "yes, in this minute I do." So - who knows?, it's a process and perhaps one day she'll be able to (honestly) say, "Hi, My name is Jane and I'm an alcoholic. And I have 3 years." ?? Time will tell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Miracles *do* happen. I'm one ;-) You do sound like a great friend. I wish you and her the best. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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OP: thanks again. And great for you for staying sober for 18+ years! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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One "minute" at a time (at least at first...)! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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That's tough. How are you managing to keep a relationship with her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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OP: well, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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^^ oops, sorry - Well, I'm just there for her. I listened to her tell me she had started drinking, just out of the detox gate and had lied about it - and just listened, you know? Her dh is out of town so I told her if she felt like she needed/wanted a meeting tonight I'd watch her two daughters for her. What else can I do? Her sobriety is out of my control. She's still my friend and I still love her. I just hate the lies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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You sound like an amazing friend. Best of luck to both of you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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OP: thanks so much. It's hard. I love her (and her family) so much. I just want her to be healthy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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of course. what do you think? you should be respectful but honest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
[ - ] So DH's friend from college is divorcing - said her DH was Bi but she thinks he is actually gay. 26 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.04.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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The sea-bands helped me a bit, though you get odd looks for the '80's wrist bands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Thanks. That's terrific. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Oops. Meant to reply to something else. Stupid computer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Are they bisexual wrist bands? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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I don't know if I believe in bisexuality - I think you are one or the other and maybe play around sometimes with the other team. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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Sigh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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agreed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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baloney...it's a continuum. just like you can have an "effeminate" man who is straight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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You're confusing gender presentation with sexual orientation. Separate (although often interrelated) things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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If you "play around" with same sex partners then you're probably bi. There is love, sex, love & sex, hate & sex, and all manner in between. I've hated men I've had sex with. I've romantically loved women I haven't had sex with. I've had sex with both men and women, then been indifferent to them. So, you know. Do you believe in fairies? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 01:18 AM Flag
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I believe you probably lean more towards one way than the other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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I really find it confusing when people say they don't "believe" in other people's sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is about hard-wiring, if you will. What gets you wet or hard. Identity is a whole different thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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Agreed. If a man enjoys sex with both men and women than he is bi. I think where the problem lies is that a bi man in a straight relationship is less likely to be able to act on his desire to be with men whereas a bi man in a straight relationship may have a lot more leeway in being with women. Plus, once a man has been in a gay relationship, people see him as gay. Whereas a woman who has been in a gay relationship is not seen that way necessarily - think Anne Heche. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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beautiful mispost [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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Apparently men are never really bisexual for real - either gay or straight, and bi usually means gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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that is what my therapist told me as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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what does this mean? A gay guy only loves men, no? A straight guy only loves women. A bi guy is able to love both. How can a bi mean he is gay only? He is both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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I think ppl a generally wired one way or a nother. But that doesn't mean they don't in some cases enjoy both but their sexual identity is eithe homo or hetero [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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and then there are the men and women who have no problems switching around which is not just because they are fooling around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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np: I think debates about this kind of topic are 90% about vocabulary. Only 10% about content. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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eh, I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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there was some really lame research that confirmed this not long ago... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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I've discovered all guys are a little bit gay if you blindfold them and pay a male prostitute to perform oral sex on them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 01:16 AM Flag
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Right which means - you can be sexually aroused by either sex, but, emotionally - who do you feel for? I think this is where a man is gay or straight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 08:28 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone set up a trust for their kids on top of the standard will? any good websites 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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we did this through our atty [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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we went to our accountant to help us with this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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What does a trust involve? cash they get on 21 bday? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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trusts can be very complex. not just cash they get when they turn 21. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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explain? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:02 PM Flag
[ - ] If you were wearing a bright, deep orange bridesmaids dress and were told to choose your own shoes, what shoes would you wear? Dress hits just below the knee. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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bronze [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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wow. really hard to picture this. and non-matching shoes just sounds like a nightmare too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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so weird they didn't even give you a color [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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running shoes... to escape a "Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown" type moment with the way I look right now... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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crazy me, I would be torn between ivory and declining [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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taupe? that non-color that isn't off-white but isn't brown either? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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^^and strappy so that they don't show up that much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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no no no.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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np: I was thinking this too- camel, I think it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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try LASM's site (http://lastylistmom.wordpress.com/)- the Prada shoes that she shows with the green Banana REp dress might give you an idea (if that's not your price range...) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:33 PM Flag
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gold or taupe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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ita gold [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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i think i would almost wear something like a pink. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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this could work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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thanks. i am a colorist, actually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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^^^^^^^^^^^^and i mean pink of the same tonal qualities, not anything paler. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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gold sandal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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Copper. -I'm a dh so I have no clue, but this place is so slow I'm answering shoe posts. Guess I should just get back to work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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gold [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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I have to know - do you like the dress? Is the color better than it sounds? Sorry, I'm no help with shoes. [ Reply | More
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