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06.04.08, 13:26 PM New York City
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So DH's friend from college is divorcing - said her DH was Bi but she thinks he is actually gay. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.04.08, 01:26 PM Flag
 

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The sea-bands helped me a bit, though you get odd looks for the '80's wrist bands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Thanks. That's terrific. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Oops. Meant to reply to something else. Stupid computer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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Are they bisexual wrist bands? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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I don't know if I believe in bisexuality - I think you are one or the other and maybe play around sometimes with the other team. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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Sigh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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agreed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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baloney...it's a continuum. just like you can have an "effeminate" man who is straight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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You're confusing gender presentation with sexual orientation. Separate (although often interrelated) things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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If you "play around" with same sex partners then you're probably bi. There is love, sex, love & sex, hate & sex, and all manner in between. I've hated men I've had sex with. I've romantically loved women I haven't had sex with. I've had sex with both men and women, then been indifferent to them. So, you know. Do you believe in fairies? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 01:18 AM Flag
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I believe you probably lean more towards one way than the other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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I really find it confusing when people say they don't "believe" in other people's sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is about hard-wiring, if you will. What gets you wet or hard. Identity is a whole different thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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Agreed. If a man enjoys sex with both men and women than he is bi. I think where the problem lies is that a bi man in a straight relationship is less likely to be able to act on his desire to be with men whereas a bi man in a straight relationship may have a lot more leeway in being with women. Plus, once a man has been in a gay relationship, people see him as gay. Whereas a woman who has been in a gay relationship is not seen that way necessarily - think Anne Heche. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:29 PM Flag
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beautiful mispost [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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Apparently men are never really bisexual for real - either gay or straight, and bi usually means gay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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that is what my therapist told me as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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what does this mean? A gay guy only loves men, no? A straight guy only loves women. A bi guy is able to love both. How can a bi mean he is gay only? He is both. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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I think ppl a generally wired one way or a nother. But that doesn't mean they don't in some cases enjoy both but their sexual identity is eithe homo or hetero [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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and then there are the men and women who have no problems switching around which is not just because they are fooling around. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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np: I think debates about this kind of topic are 90% about vocabulary. Only 10% about content. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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eh, I don't think you have any idea what you are talking about [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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there was some really lame research that confirmed this not long ago... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.04.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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I've discovered all guys are a little bit gay if you blindfold them and pay a male prostitute to perform oral sex on them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 01:16 AM Flag
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Right which means - you can be sexually aroused by either sex, but, emotionally - who do you feel for? I think this is where a man is gay or straight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.08, 08:28 AM Flag
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