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[ - ] How much per hour would you pay a mother's helper / babysitter? Young teen, in my neighborhood. Most of the time I would be working at home or within 5 mins of home. My kids 8 & 10. We're in the 'burbs, if that matters. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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We have a mother's helper, pay her $8/hr when I'm home, $10/hr when I'm out. But I think for kids your age, you need someone more than just a few years older than them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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Thx. I figure I'll see how she does while I'm at home, will decide how to handle when or whether I go out to run errands, or evening stuff... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:13 PM Flag
[ - ] I met this great new friend the other day. I just sent her my customary e-mail warning her that she should not undress my DH, give my DH a BJ or attempt to engage my DH in sexual intercourse. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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have you had a friend do this to you before? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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you left it open for her to undress and get head from him though... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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DH would never do that to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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He might do it to her though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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that's so bad! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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Look, we just met yesterday and I like to wait at least a week or two before I share "my gift" with new DHs. I like them to really want me. That's why I first start with mailing my panties and then driving by the house topless. Leave me alone, OK ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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But he can do what he wants to her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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My DH knows that I would never tolerate that. I've already got an agreement in place wit him that covers all women. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:13 PM Flag
[ - ] we've been TTC #2 for 10 months and no luck. i'm 33. no advice, please, just some uplifting thoughts about why I shouldn't throw in the towel yet. TIA 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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You're way too young to throw in the towel! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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I had been ttc for a year, and it finally happened! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:15 PM Flag
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We tried for 3 years (starting at age 29) and had just had our first appointment with an infertility specialist when we found out we were pregnant. I think I was ovulating earlier than normal so for the last 3 years we were just missing the egg by a few days. Go figure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.16.09, 06:35 PM Flag
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I'm 37 and TTC - I'm not giving up, so why should you?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.16.09, 06:41 PM Flag
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My advice (40 yr old and 14 weeks preg. with 1st!!) - go out and buy pre-seed...look it up on the website. I read about it on this site and was literally pregnant the very next month. Don't worry...you are young and you have options. If nothing else works...call Dr. Spandorfer at Cornell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 02.16.09, 06:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I have packed all of my DH's things and moved them to the apartment I rented for him. I also prepared the letter and restraining order that someone will give him with the keys when he arrives home. When he gets to the new place he will find the divorce papers. Tomorrow I will move my lover into my house. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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is there a rim shot after this ? it is a joke, right ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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no, i am serious....I have decided I wanted a new husband and thought this would make it easier for DH to process [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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Do you live in Port Charles? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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lololol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:04 PM Flag
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:) I had to think on the name for a long time. Couldn't remember it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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^^^I also will tell my children over dinner that I divorcing their father because of his "pattern of unusual household behavior and tomorrow they will meet their new father and that they can see their regular father on alternate weekends and the 4th Tuesday of the month." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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was dh abusive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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well he snored....but really no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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are you kidding me? how cold [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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it's fake. she's bored. it's 4:00. the crazies come out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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I didn't want a whole scene and I don't want a long drawn out divorce trial. I figured this way he can move on with his life and enjoy being a carefree bachelor. I even got him a Match.com and JDate subscription to help him out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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You're not even funny. You're boring. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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Should you really do this to him so soon after the scare this morning with the car on your lawn? I mean the man has been through enough... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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Lovers get so boring once they move in. Especially once you have to do their laundry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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Oh I've told him that he will do his own laundry and that the house belongs to me and that once we marry he is only a guest in my house and that if he treats me badly he will be out immediatly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
[ - ] can't wait until the private ongoing mayhem starts again! glad to be on the other side.... and i promise to be nothing but helpful to those running the gauntlet this year. 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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I'm on the other side, too, and I think it's going to be ugly numbers game again...3100 kids took the ERB for 2400 spots last year, and I'm not convinced it's going to be any better this year. I'm going to try and be helpful, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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are you happy with the outcome for your dc? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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yes very, and very grateful (needed FA) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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same here! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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those aren't such bad odds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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they are if you consider that most people want a small fraction of those 2400 spots because they're at the known schools, and only a few years ago, schools like BWL and Trevor were calling PSDs looking for applicants, and relatively few kids were SO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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Eh that is not really true. getting into private schools has always been surrounded by panic and stress and insanity. For decades and decades. The BWL calling for dcs isn't really the case that was just nasty mommies spreading rumors about a school with a bad reputation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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Panic and stress was always there but the numbers speak for themselves. Look at the numbers. It's really diff now than 30 yrs ago. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Really isn't, but everyone wants to believe it is. There would not be panic and stress if people just walked into schools 40 years ago. More people now but more schools period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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there aren't more schools (and those that have opened get trashed here). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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yes there are. new schools opening, about 7 of them, have more than made up for increase in dcs PLUS the existing schools with exception of TT expanded class size considerably to accomodate more dcs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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what 7 new schools? I know of two--Claremont and BIS, plus Mandell's expansion. talk to the Parent's League--the publics or privates haven't added nearly enough seats to accommodate dc's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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NP: why should any of the private schools expand to make room for your average dc? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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nice...very nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:09 AM Flag
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BS--I was told this by my PSD, and heard it from friends whose PSDs said the same. It's not "nasty mommy" rumors, and all you have to do is read the papers to learn the numbers of kids in the city now, and the lack of both private and public school spots. Get your head out from under that rock... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Look above. There are 7 more schools and all existing school with the exception of 4 have expanded all their class size to deal with more dcs. Schools want to make a profit and they want to capitalize on more people in the city. Don't talk to me about your idiotic PSD who tells you what she wants you to believe so you don't bang on her door when your dc doesn't get in anywhere. She doesn't want you to blame her, she wants you to blame numbers and the system. get your newbie head out from under that rock, you were not here over the last 40 years to see how things have - not - changed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Above where? You haven't listed 7 schools (I listed three), and the rest of the schools haven't expanded class sizes enough--again, talk to the Parent's League and read the papers. And btw, my dc wasn't SO, and I grew up here. Sounds to me like you forgot to take your meds this a.m. Your arguments run counter to conventional wisdom, so see ya...done wasting my time with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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Yes they have. I've heard about the obsessing that used to happen - it was about WHICH school. Now, it's any any any school that people are begging for. That's totally new. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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not at all. dcs getting into more than one or two schools even 40 years ago was rare. So tired of telling people who were not even IN nyc what it was really like. I don't pretend to have qualified opinions on the town you grew up in or the school you went to. God people, just stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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You're clueless and ill-informed, but I guess that's to be expected here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 06:49 AM Flag
[ - ] If we want to get financial aid for a tt private school, what is the maximum houselhold income to qualify? 25 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.24.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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parents league says to apply if you make less than 150 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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not sure of the max, but we receive aid, 2 dcs, just under 200k. didnt receive aid until second dc started in school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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no problem. fwiw, there is a TON of false info regarding fa on this board (well the old ub board... you know what i mean.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:04 PM Flag
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Is 300K too much? don't most of the parents whose kids go to tt private make sooo much more? in the millions? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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ouch [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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too much. sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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some make in the millions, but some don't. you wont qualify for fa at 300k. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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NP, if I am a sahm, is that a mark against us when applying for FA? tia [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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not a mark against you, but they will count your potential income as part of your actual income... i think they tack on 50k for sahm [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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You seriously think that a quarter of a MILLION dollars qualifies you for FA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:04 PM Flag
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In what world do you think would you have a shot on FA with that HHI? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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the entitled world [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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I suddenly feel very poor...people making $300K think they need financial aid? Wow. I wonder how the rest of us manage to eat, buy clothes, and pay rent on our pitiful salaries...look, if I can live just fine on $85K without private school, you should be able to pay for private school and still be bringing home over three times what I do. Adjust your expectations of necessities. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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300k, but I have 4 kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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You choose to live in Manhattan, have four kids on that income, and then feel entitled to FA? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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np - i understand your frustration, but the truth is that she would probably qualify for fa. it has to go to someone, and families who really, really need it aren't families who apply to privates [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:15 PM Flag
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I know...it's still infuriating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:17 PM Flag
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on the other hand, it will be harder for dc to be accepted if fa is requested. much easier to get placed if tuition isn't an issue. so, imho, the dc who actually get in with fa are really, really wanted by the school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:23 PM Flag
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Please wake up and realize that 300K with 4 kids, is still plenty rich. THe "necessities" of your lifestyle are probably unattainable luxuries for most of us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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people who make 300k want financial aid so that they can maintain their lifestyle and not have to make any sacrifices. this is the group that gets hit for tuition. not at all defending or, but under 200k gets fa, those with tons of income dont feel the tuition payment that much... the 300k families are the ones who need to give up vacations, summer homes, etc (sob) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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what a shame. an outrage! No matter where you draw the line there will always be a handful of families that will be at an disadvantage (if you can call it a disadvantage in the first place). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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oh i have no sympathy, just sayin' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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Depends on the school. TTs have more money. $200k mostly. Give or take. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:18 PM Flag
[ - ] Would you punish a h.s. child if they failed a class?? What would it be? WOuld you transfer a child who wasn't putting in the effort? We pay tuition.. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Assuming that they were capable of passing, I would definitely punish, my question is didn't you know that he was doing badly before? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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that's too little information for anyone to even try to answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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If he/she choose to treat school like a vacation, make sure vacation is like work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:55 PM Flag
[ - ] My friend who happens to live across the street from me has two small DS's...my neighbor next door to me happens to be very close to my DC and does a lot for them. My friend spent an afternoon with my neighbor and now has her DS's calling her "Aunt". I think this is so strange, when people make their DC call people in their lives "Aunt" "Uncle" when in fact, they are not. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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eh. i'm an only, so the only aunts my kids get on my side are my friends. who spend more time with them than most relatives do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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Friends and neighbors are two different things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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well, you said "people in their lives." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:57 PM Flag
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judgemental much? It's a cultural thing... Don't you have anything else to worry about? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:58 PM Flag
[ - ] I am making signs for my babysitter to post at the playground etc. Trying to figure out with WORD how to create a sing with the pull away tabs on the bottom, any advice... tia 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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op:create a sign [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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Insert a text box, type your info and then rotate the text box. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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or do it in a table [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:39 PM Flag
[ - ] i want to prep dc for erbs. where/how do i start? what sort of workbooks or games should i get? where can i buy such things? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Preschool/Kids 06.24.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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if your dc needs prep than they don't belong in the school you might actually get them into by prepping for a higher score. Let the chips fall where they may and don't push your dc. Let your dc be who your dc is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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Read to her as much as you can, try mazes, puzzles, connect the dots and see what she likes. The BrainQuest games are fun. Nothing wrong with prepping, because, guess what, once they're "prepped" they're ready for the school they apply for? ERB doesn't test actual intelligence, it tests whether your child is ready to learn at the level the schools offer. If she can be prepped, she can learn, it's that simple. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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If this was true than dc's would test better the older they are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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it's adjusted for age, so no, it's how much you've accumulated in the same time as someone else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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are there any sample books or prep tests for erb's? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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The erb is the Wechsler Test of Primary and Preschool INTELLIGENCE. IQ test. Playdate and school report will confirm (or refute) prepping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 07:19 PM Flag
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I actually find the ERB fascinating as a test of incidental learning. Basically, schools that are selective are looking for kids who are easy to teach, and then they proceed to shower them with resources. Who wants a kid who is hard to teach, no matter how smart they are? It's a very interesting system. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:59 PM Flag
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ITTTTTTTA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:06 PM Flag
[ - ] This topic has been played out I know but need to vent. Why can't friends who are supposed to be friends be happy by fortunate things that happen to me or to others in our group? Schools, apartments, finances, Dh's and their jobs, why all the competition and will it ever end! It was never like this until we married 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.24.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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If you are encountering so much hostility I wonder if you aren't a bit smug? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Did I say I alone was encountering hostility? Some things have rattled friends and they have been unkind but mainly this is an observation of people's comments to me about the fortunes of others. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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ugh, smug AND defensive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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oh the old UB is back how comforting. you are picking a fight not smug or defensive tone here [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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I have a friend who has been weirdly competitive about our kids, and now the schools situation has only compounded it. There's nothing you can do about someone else's weirdness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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i know exactly what you mean. i have 'friends' like that too. no one's perfect. they are still good people which is why i choose to remain friends with them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:25 PM Flag
[ - ] I posted yesterday asking about being 4 weeks pregnant and spotting...Just found out that my levels went down and I lost the baby. My dh and I have been trying for a year...have been going to a RE and this was the first time we were pg. ( We actually got pg on naturally on vacation.) I am feeling very discouraged :( 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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very very sorry :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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I am so sorry for your loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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So sorry. That's really rough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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I am sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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my heart goes out to you & your dh. so sorry for your loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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I really sorry for your loss, but don't get discuraged. I had a mc with first pregnancy after trying for 8months, then waited a couple of years before trying again, and this time got pregnant right away, and now 3 years after that I have another dc. MCs are pretty common, and don't mean you won't get pregnant. Just try to relax and let nature take it's place. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:20 PM Flag
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I'm so sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:32 PM Flag
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I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Its a long, long road. You may not want unsolicited advice, but - btdt, and if it doesn't go against your sensibilies, I would have a d&c and do tissue testing. Again, I am so sorry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:47 PM Flag
[ - ] What is the earliest you would travel (fly) with a new baby? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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we did at 6 weeks with first. I wouldn't have wanted to do it much before 1 month for my own comfort. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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depends on why. deathbed visit to grandma? ASAP. vacation? probably not until 3 mos or so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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Flew to Switzerland at 3 mo. Perfectly fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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Flying while EBF is a snap. Have breastaurant, will travel. I think we did it first at about 4 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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I flew at 10 weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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I wouldn't fly before first shots--around 8 weeks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:03 PM Flag
[ - ] I just came from a childhood friend's husband's funeral, 36 years old, died a vrey painful death from bone cancer. We had been best friend's our whole lives and kind of became estranged after hre marriage and child...we got together again about two years before her DH was diagnosed with cancer, in the meantime, I had another DBm to whom she has never met. We always had an off again/on again friendship but when we were close, we were very close. I feel terribly guilty that I hadn't been there more for her while she went through hard times with her DH's illness and at Mass they actually thanked another friend of hers for standing by her side, etc. It was like a stab in my heart...what can I do now to be there??? 22 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.24.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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1. don't make it about you; 2. contact her and ask how you can help. and do that agian in a few weeks when most people will have stopped asking her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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I know...I just feel horribly guilty. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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remember that they weren't trying to insult you by thanking the other person - they were just thanking them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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I understand that...I appreciate that she had this woman in her. I just felt that I could have been a better friend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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in her life... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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just be there... that's the simple and direct answer... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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Be there for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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SEnd a letter to her explaining how much you want to be there for her in her time of pain. Copy it to others. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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copy it to others? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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I wouldn't copy it to others... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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how else will people know how generous nad nice you are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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COPY IT TO OTHERS?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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I htink she's obviously being snarky and thinking the advice is funny. I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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She sounds like an A$$ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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Without the asses here, it would be too civil and helpful. They spice it up, I suppose. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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You must be the a$$ then. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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you are a clever one. and so full of sanctimony that you are also ass-like. Have a simple uncomplicated day full of only nice people and understanding strangers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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you know, you can write the word ASS. ass ass ass. we're grownups here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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Oh please [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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my mother died young and many of her friends felt the same way. I would write a letter expressing your regret and feelings to the friend... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know where to find swim diapers for really young infants (e.g., 13 lbs)? Diapers.com has them starting at 32 lbs -- way too big for my 3 month old. Thanks. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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target [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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i found some at Duane Reade [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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amazon has some starting at 16 lbs which would likely fit, and also a lot of non-disposable options [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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