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Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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[ - ] Can we talk about kids and eating? I have an 8yo and 5yo who eat, but prefers veggies and fruit to meat and my 5yo eats limited varieties of fruits, veg, and meat. It makes it hard when we go to family gatherings because they won't try casseroles or other new foods. What would you do? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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I would stress about it. Let them serve themselves if it's buffet style. Self-serve or not, they should be polite. But they are in the charge or how much they eat and of what. If you feel very stressed, get Ellyn Satter's book Child of Mine about feeding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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^^sorry, meant "wouldn't stress about it." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:07 PM Flag
[ - ] friends coming over tonight, bringing a pizza. we'll provide drinks and dessert. is that enough for a meal? pizza's kind of a meal in itself but we don't want to seem stingy. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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Salad too pls. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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I like to have salad too so I can pretend I'm being healthy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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salad it is! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone from Baltimore on here 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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I lived there for 3 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Any recommendations on good breastfeeding books? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.01.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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So That's What They're For by Janet Tamaro and Mama Knows Breast by Andi Silverman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:19 PM Flag
[ - ] Are you allowed to swim in a pool while recovering from childbirth? Considering renting a house w/a pool for a week while on maternity leave, then someone mentioned you can't submerge for 6 weeks pp..... anyone know? TIA 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.01.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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That is true, we had an event at the beach when db was about 5 weeks old, I called the OB to see if I could swim and she said no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:57 PM Flag
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true though i had a c-section. couldn't get it wet for 6 weeks post-partum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:59 PM Flag
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I don't think so. Besides infection risk, you'd have the bleeding to worry about. I don't think tampons are okay either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:00 PM Flag
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I never heard this, though common sense is no pools while bleeding since you aren't supposed to wear tampons post-partum. I'd think if your bleeding has stopped it'd be ok to do whatever you want. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:00 PM Flag
[ - ] did you bank your baby's cord blood? why or why not? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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We are going to this time around, didn't for 3.4mo ds. OB's have mixed views. One sold me on it though when she said she wished she banked her 6yo son's blood for the future. We're doing it since the science is advancing SO rapidly, and more and more diseases are being identified which can be treated this way. Also, I like that it's potentially useable for the entire family. Basically another insurance policy. The dr's did say that if we're going to do it, do it w/a major player -- CBR or Viacord. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:57 PM Flag
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yes, basically because we thought the cost was negligible when weighed against the possibility of being in a situation where we might have used it and thinking "I wish we had done that" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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OR: also, forgot to mention, I felt that it could be most useful in 10, 20, 30 years, and by then the no. of diseases it would cover would probably be SO many more, the way the research is expanding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Any idea where I can get an inexpensive bike for a five year old in Manhattan? TIA 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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craigslist or target [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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toys r us [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Tritto. Skip the bike shops. TRU sells good kids bikes for $50. Signed, cyclist mom [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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See if there are any bike shops in your neighborhood which sell used bikes. The price difference is not so huge and a used name brand bike is infinitely better (and a good bit safer) than a bike put together by some guy making $7/hr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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What are some good bike shops in Manhattan? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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My cyclist friends swear by Bicycle Habitat (http://bicyclehabitat.com/) but the truth is you don't need a high end shop. Find a neighborhood shop and give that guy your money. The high end shops are making their money on $5,000+ bikes. An inexpensive kids bike is not making their day. And the local guy is going to be there for you when you need your brakes adjusted, or your flat tire fixed. (If anyone in Brooklyn is reading this, "The Bike Shop" on Union Street, between Columbia and the BQE is a great shop for this kind of stuff.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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janes exchange usually has some [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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come get the one we're selling on craigslist if you want a really girly one. $10 really - get it out of my house. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 04:20 PM Flag
[ - ] how many oz. of cow's milk should 1yo be getting? also, do you give bottle first think in a.m. or just before naps and bed? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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We give him 4 oz in a bottle first thing, during the day he gets 3 sippy cups for morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack - varies between 4-8 oz, and then he gets a bottle of 8 oz before bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:20 PM Flag
[ - ] any madonna sightings? is she really divorcing? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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who cares? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:01 PM Flag
[ - ] What is a typical feeding schedule for an 8 week old. Every 2 hours? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.01.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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On demand. Most eat every 2-3 hours. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:41 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone else's 2yo still use a bottle? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.01.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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Nope. I cut her off at 18 mos and she barely noticed. Bottles are bad for their teeth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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I know, my now 2yo was almost off them until his baby brother arrived. Now, he seems addicted. He drinks from a cup just fine, but he still begs for several bottles throughout the day and for the first time wants one to sleep (I brush his teeth after he finishes while we read books and he sleeps with the empty one). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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Seems ok for now since it's in response to new baby at home. Once things settle down again, it'll be easier to get rid of the bottles. Cold turkey is painful, but quick and easy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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Thanks, that is what I originally thought but it has been 7months and it seems to be getting worse. I know he is using it for "stress" due to changes and I am ok with that- I was just wondering how long to let it go on. Part of me says 'my god he is only 2 let the kid have a bottle' but the other part of me can't help but listen to all the "advice" in the baby books about taking them away at 1yr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Why are you asking? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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yes, Tom Cruise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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my 3 yo does [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:13 PM Flag
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ds used on for milk in AM & @ bedtime until he was 4 yo. dentist said as long as brush before bed and not wucking on one all day long, ti was fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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THank you. That is good to know... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:16 PM Flag
[ - ] taking 10mo db and nanny on a 4 day biz trip in a few wks.... is this worth the hassle? Last time I had to leave for 4 days I missed him terribly, but getting everyone organized is a major production. These trips are usually once every other month 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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i totally understand you missing him, but remember that the trip will be work for you and not much fun for the nanny and your db. in your home, they will be happy and the schedule will be easy. i wouldn't take them. i used to stress about these trips, too, but decided to just enjoy the trip (as much as i could) and it really helped - i went out to dinner (and didn't wipe anyone else's mouth even once!), had drinks at a cool bar i'd always wanted to visit...do something for yourself. working mom guilt is bad enough - don't make it tough on nanny or db. gl! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:24 PM Flag
[ - ] Need a fun plan midtown to play hooky with a friend (male, so no mani/pedis sadly)...starting now....Help... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.01.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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you are in NYC woman! Surely you can come up with something! WIsh I was there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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Top of the Rock - Rockefeller Center, then roof top bar of The Peninsula, 5th & 55th. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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rowing in Central Park [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:49 PM Flag
[ - ] DH doesn't want to use a condom 1 month following stopping BC pill. I'm worried of miscarriage. Am I just worrying too much? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 07.01.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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He can't use a condom for a month? I'm not sure what the reasoning is behind waiting a period of time after stopping the pill before TTC, but I have heard numerous people say it so I assume there's a reason. And if that's the case, he should either strap on the seat belt or plan to stay off the ride for a month. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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My OB says that the chances for miscarriage are higher for those who haven't waited one month after stopping BC pill. Also, he says it's difficult to track due date w/o last day of period. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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DH is too "anxious" to use condom before TTC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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Tell him to pretend he's in High School or say hello to his right hand ! That's kind of nervy when you think of all you are going to go through to have his child ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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my ob told me to go ahead and try the first month. They can always date the baby with an u/s. I know 3 people who got pregnant the first month and had perfectly fine babies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 02:42 PM Flag
[ - ] At what week of pregnancy did you start meeting with pediatricians? How many weeks is infant at first appointment? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.01.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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Didn't meet ours til we brought our baby girl to their office. If c-section, I think they want to see baby within 5 days of leaving hospital, if vaginal birth, two weeks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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we went around 37/38 weeks. we had a lot of recommendations for one person in particular and liked him when we met him, so didn't shop around. if you're going to see several, probably better to get started earlier! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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I didn't meet w/ ped prior to b/c we see the dr I went to as a child. But we took dd 2-3 days after we came home from the hospital b/c she was born at a hospital our ped doesn't work with (insurance differences). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:39 PM Flag
[ - ] my 4mo dc is NOT accepting a bottle. This is a major issue because I am due back at work soon. What do I do? Start giving solid food? I don't want her to starve! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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have other people tried giving it to her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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yes. she will accept a bottle from no one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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We're going through this right now with my almost 3 mos old. He's been refusing bottles, but I started back to work yesterday and by the end of the day, he was bottle-feeding a couple of ounces at a time. I don't think he got very much yesterday, cause he breast-fed about every 2 hours all night last night. Hoping today goes better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:38 PM Flag
[ - ] another fashion post: I predict a record number of broken ankles this season with the sky-high platform heels and wedges 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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Platforms, be they wedges, sandals, boots, etc are just plain ugly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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ITD, I love platforms, think they are great, better then the thin heels people wore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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but the platforms this season include thin heels [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 01:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone want to come island-hopping in the Caribbean with me? Thought we cd start in Cuba and work our way down. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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I don;t think we can start in Cuba. I think you have to fly somewhere else first. Unless you are constructing a boat.I'm packing right now though. See you tomorrow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:31 PM Flag
[ - ] i am so bored. fire island sucks. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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poor baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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seriously! I'm sitting here weeping for the poor girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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waaaaaaaaaaah! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 12:36 PM Flag
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