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[ - ] it just doesn't feel like july 4th 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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it's not. it's july 3rd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:15 PM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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I KWYM. My kids just finished school last week. Seems like 4th of July was always the middle of the summer, not the beginning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:31 PM Flag
[ - ] i've been bitten by the "get rid of clutter" bug and i want to buy a 2 drawer filing cabinet. dh is going to think it's a waste of money and i'm already annoyed about the argument we are bound to have. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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people are always getting rid of those on freecycle or craigslist. If money's an issue get used. They are so useful though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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i've been looking on craigslist but i didn't think of checking freecycle. good idea. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:16 PM Flag
[ - ] What should I name Kendra and Hollies new sister? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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Siena [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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Chloe [ Reply | More ]
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Bridget [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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i think thats great, thanks!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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Instead of High School Musical stuff, just buy them the Girls Next Door. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 08:08 AM Flag
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marina [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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Madisyn [ Reply | More ]
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caroline [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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Hollies...is there more than one of them? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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this is a joke.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 08:05 AM Flag
[ - ] what's a good birthday present for a 4 yo girl? The only things I know she's into are curious george & the color pink. tia 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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Polly Pockets [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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webkinz are good, anything Curious George - puzzles, dolls etc. Books are fun too [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:09 PM Flag
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Glitter Princesses (in the Polly Pockets kind of thing), if your budget is on the high side (like over $50) you can do a bitty baby or something from American Girl. DVDs of Little Einsteins, Max & Ruby, Disney Princesses or Backyardigans are good. We are also very much into board games like Chutes & Ladders, Hi Ho Cherry-O and Candy Land. I Spy Bingo is a big deal in our house too. Spin art is also fun (if the parents don't mind a little mess). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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I always think books are best [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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All great suggestions--thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:20 PM Flag
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how about art supplies? washable markers with twist off cpas, coloring books and stickers. stamp pad set. I always goft arts and craft stuff to boys and girls and it is always appreciated. some parents hate those polly pocket things or really girly things. I saw a cute curious geoge lunhc box somewhere - fill it with stuff. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:26 PM Flag
[ - ] A friend of mine and I started a business. Is it appropriate (provided we agree) for us both to carry the title of "President?" For instance, "President and CEO" would be one of us, and "President and COO" would be the other? Thanks. We're trying to take this seriously so when we are networking it doesn't come across as unprofessional. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:01 PM Flag
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How about co-pres and co-CEO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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can't have 2 presidents, sorry. one can be chairman, the other president. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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NP: You obviously don't work in IB. There are co-presidents all over the place [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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obviously not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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So if we were to both carry that title, we would have to call it "co" president? that sounds awkward to me. (I'm not in IB either, maybe if I saw it and heard it regularly it wouldn't sound odd.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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I've seen co-pres and co-CEO a lot and it doesn't sound odd at all. Another options is to just call yourselves partners. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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thank you for this information. I guess that Chairman would go with CEO and President with COO or does that not matter? I understand the difference in responsibility between the two c-titles but not necessarily between a chairman and president. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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chairman usually refers to chairman of the board and typically is paired with the CEO title; President is typically the hands-on manager and is paired with the COO moniker. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Been with potential dh for 4 years, engaged for 6 months. Our sexual relationship is quite weak and we're talking about going to couples therapy over other disagreements. Other than that he's the stereotypically perfect guy. Should I be marry a man with whom I need couseling a year before the wedding date? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:58 PM Flag
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only you can answer that but not a good sign. Maybe the therapy will help you resolve the issues and decide one wayp or another [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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Do you like him enough to spend the rest of your life with him? Has your sex always been weak? What are your other disagreements? why are you marrying him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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i'll admit sex was never a 10. I am marrying him because i love him and i feel like i can't live without him. but how important is sex? i mean i feel like it's semi-important now because i'm 25 but will i care later when i have kids and he's an amazing father? my gut feeling is not good. but i don't want to pass up an amazing guy over stupid things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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NP: what if he's not an amazing father? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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I feel a little worried for you when I read that you're only 25. Sex is pretty important. Less important, in my opinion, when you get into your late 30s and early 40s (where I am now). I would definitely broach this issue with a therapist. If you want to be with him as badly as you say, it may be worth the work! But i would certainly work at it, and feel fortunate and hopeful if he's willing to work on it as well. Have you ever had great sex with someone? IN other words, might this have less to do with him than you (and absolutely no judgment there. just hoping that it's not just him.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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i have had much better sex with other men. but never the emotional/mental connection. i just feel like i get so much attention from other men, but hardly any attention from him anymore. tons of emotional attention, but no real sexual attention. he says he's "too stressed" over work and other things. but he's been this way for years. i love being in a committed relationship, but i sort of need to be paid attention to. isn't that what your 20's are for? or is that me being selfish and stupid? i'm scared that if i leave him i'll hurt him and end up with regrets. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:18 PM Flag
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Don't stay with him because you're afraid of hurting him. you're so young. you can love someone who is still not the one for you to spend your life with. the fact that he's denying the chronic nature of his (lack of) sexuality is sort of troubling. I'd say if he's willing to work on that issue and you're willing to see if things can be addressed, then do so. Unfortunately, no one but you can answer whether or not sacrificing a decent sex life is worth it. I don't think he needs to be the best lover that you've ever had, but he certainly needs to be ready to learn how to improve. Most of all, and did i say this already: you are young! There's no rush! He needs to show you what you need and be willing to work on your sex life. check out the gottman books. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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Could you imagine the rest of your life being like the last 4 years? If so then go ahead. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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what do you mean, it's weak? not satisfactory or not frequent? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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both. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:19 PM Flag
[ - ] DS is college aged and was diagnosed as dyslexic at 16. How do adults cope with this. There are all sorts of accommodations in high school and college but I'm worried about the obstacles he'll face as an adult. He goes to Upenn and while he loves the challenges his cum has been impacted. When he interviews for a job should he mention his disability? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Special Needs 07.03.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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Don't mention the disability. The problem is that employers only have to provide "reasonable accommodation" for his disability. He won't be given additional time to complete assignments, or his own office instead of a loud cube. Can someone at the college's office for disabled students help him identify what accommodation he will need and what some of the most accommodating employers are? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:36 PM Flag
[ - ] am I the only one here who loves their husband? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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no. I do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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I do I do!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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OMG, no, I love my husband so much. Known each other 7 years and 5 years married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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I do very much [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:58 PM Flag
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oh yeah. We're celebrating our 31st year this month. We think we've traveled together through time and at this point I suppose it's true. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:00 PM Flag
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I love mine. Married almost 13 years. He's wonderful. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:07 PM Flag
[ - ] At what temperature do you give dc medicine for fever? 2 yr. old is at 101. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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102+ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:00 PM Flag
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I'd give tylenol for that, especially to help him/her sleep, and motrin for anything over 102. 101 is pretty high, it could keep going up. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:25 PM Flag
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i never take temperature. i give tylenol or motrin if i see the fever is affecting them. like if they are lethargic or uncomfortable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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ita. if they are not feeling well, why wouldn't you give them medicine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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because a fever is not an illness, it's the sign of the body's immune system functioning, burning off a virus or infection. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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you give dc medicine for fever now, to keep it down. you don't want the child to spike a fever. unlikely that this would happen, but when temps rise rapidly dc's can have febrile seizures. they're not serious, but scary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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you don't think 101 is a temperature spike? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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no, a spike meaning it rises quickly. i think 101 is high yes and op should give tylenol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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usually over 101. but i would give now. It's 10:00 at night, you want him to get a good night's rest [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 07:03 PM Flag
[ - ] trying to get rid of 20lbs - anyone use diet pills - REMovyl, Orvo or Hoodia - I am dieting and exercising but I need a boost - any recommendatoins? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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I had some years ago and I can't remember the name. Drives me nuts b/c they really worked. Metaboslim or something. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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search under your sink and see if you can find an old package [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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crack. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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that would do it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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I use Alli. Lost 10 lbs and now I'm 136 at 5"9'. Jokes aside it works and it changes your life/eating habits. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:01 PM Flag
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tell me about the side effects... were you careful with your fat intake? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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I never eat more than 15 grams of fat at one meal. I've never had the spontaneous "treatment effects" they describe. However I have noticed that even if I don't take a pill with dinner when I go out to a restaurant the effects seem to be cumulative. I can't tolerate a lot of fat and I'll have some cramps the next morning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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how long did/will you take it? do you taper off, or go cold turkey? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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I'd like to lose another 3-4 lbs so I'll stay on it throught he summer. I've been on it since May. They say it loses effectiveness after 6 months. We originally went on it together because dh had cholesterol of 267. He received reults back today of 217 - so we're very happy! We'll stick it out a little bit more. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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wow.... that's an impressive drop in cholesterol level... how much weight did he drop? you are pretty slim at 136 for your height, i think... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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he lost 12 lbs. He is 5'9" also and weighed 184 - now 172 and his goal is about 165. I'm resonsible for his cholesterol/weight. I've done some crazy cooking(Mexican Night etc) We're reformed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:17 PM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone tried appetite suppressants/stimulants to lose weight? Does it work? Do you gain it all back if you go off? TIA 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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I am using Alli [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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Do you think it makes dieting easier for you? Are you less hungry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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np I have no idea about any of that stuff, but if you eat less, you will eventually adjust to eating less food and not feel hungry all the time. G: [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:57 PM Flag
[ - ] Two ds, both have coxsackievirus-- first symptoms yesterday (wed) and my close cousin has a saturday wedding where there will be other kids: do you think it's safe to bring ours? what about a sunday family picnic? (I called Ped to check out specifics and nurse was supposed to call back but they left for the holiday without returning call, aaargh) TIA... 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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No way [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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op-- neither one? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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Nope. And likely they'll be too sick to enjoy it anyway. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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did you check webmd? I doubt it but you could look it up and see [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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everyone has this right now, I think as long as the fever is down it's okay to be out and about [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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it's contagiousness i'm worried about. my kids are uncomfortable because of sores but no fever. i tend to not worry about these things (let ds hang out with kids who have colds, etc) but want to do right by others and am not sure what that means here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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NP: We don't have it in my house and never have and I certainly wouldn't want to be getting it. Thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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thanks all. looks like we're home for the weekend. OP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:58 PM Flag
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You can go to the wedding and leave DH to stay with the kids. Someone should put a show in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:00 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a 2 yo and a nb and have no help at all when nb first came? Please share tips on how to do this! TIA 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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co sleep! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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are you expecting or do you have your baby already? is your 2yo in camp? are finances a problem? city or suburb? does your 2yo nap? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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Mine are 21m apart and I've never had any help. I decided just to do what I needed to do to cope. The nb was actually pretty easy to fit in with the toddler. With #1 I had him on strict schedules from birth, never fed to sleep etc and with #2 he has just fitted in. Do you have any specific concerns? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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so hard...I have 2 kids never had help no family nearby, take naps if you can or lay down on couch while big kid watches a show and NB is sleeping, it gets better after teh first 3 months, get a routien down if you can that helps, join a moms group to vent, order Fresh Direct, etc. GoodLuck! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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just some suggestions. do easy meals as often as you can. every sunday i'd make a pot of pasta and some hard boiled eggs. i stocked up on yogurt, bread and sliced cheese. all these things double as a snack or a light meal. i made mornigns my busy and structured time b/c the scheduling was easier. we'd go out in the mornings after b'fast. then naps in the afternoon and playing inside in the evenings. baths after naps instead of after dinner. don't be afraid to let things slide. g ive yourself an extra 15 minutes to get outside. don't be frustrated at wasting time...the goal is to kill time until bedtime. be glad it's summer and you don't have to deal with coats. good luck. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone know a cute town not too far driving that might have a 4th of July parade (NJ, NY, or PA) an hour or less by car...I want an good ol' fashion 4th parade!!! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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Supposedly Bristol, Conn., has a good old fashioned parade [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:39 PM Flag
[ - ] has anyone spent any time in Chattanooga? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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I was just there for a wedding. Nice town. Any questions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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hotel rec? if you are only going for 2 days with a 5yo, what' worth seeing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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the aqaurium and waterfront are the big attractions. The aquarium is very very cool and there are "creeks" running through the sidewalks all around it. Not sure how to describe, but you will love it. I think the best places are the ones close to that. Most of the things to do are around there. You can walk across the bridge to the shops etc on the other side too. Don't know any specific reco's but hotels.com has maps I think. There is a shuttle/trolley thing that runs all day and til 11:00ish if you end up staying farther away. The choo choo hotel is kind of fun but too far to walk. Have a great time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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I spent a night there two years ago. Cute town [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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Alan Jackson has. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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actually I think that was the Chatahooche (River) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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np LOL! 2nd OR is correct. You damn yankees need to get your geography straight! ;-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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Thanks, Damn Yankee here! Marrying a Souhtern Man, I'm glad I made the mistake here first! The thing is, I really love country music, I can't believe I've been wrong all these years, and I had the CD and saw him in concert. Can't get the Yankee out of me! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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where is fiance from originally? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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spoken like a fellow southerner [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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;-) where are you from? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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Montgomery (where AJ went at Midnight for what its worth.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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cool. Most of DH's family went to Auburn (not too far I don't think) We are leaving for Lake Martin tomorrow where they have a house. Cool [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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Lake MArtin is beautiful. You'll have fun. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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yeah - even if it is with the IL's!! LOL! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 05:58 PM Flag
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I hear you. I have to go to Fontana NC with ILs. That is the definition of Hell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:02 PM Flag
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LMAO! Fontana is nice though. I haven't been since I was a kid but we need to take DD up there. Ok - gotta go pack! ;-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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don't do it to dd. promise. That place should be burned. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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