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[ - ] Weird post, but, we have to go visit FIL for the weekend and I can't stand him for many reasons but one is he is a lonely and horny pervert and his subtle leering repulses me. He wants to take us to the community pool in his town and I seriously don't want to wear a bathing suit around him. I have an average body and I'm generally very uncomfortable and self conscious about myself in a bathing suit anyway but the idea of wearing one around him is gross. I generally try to be as unsexy and modest as possible in his presence. Would it be really Amish-like of me just to wear a sundress and say I'm not a big fan of being poolside? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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do what makes you comfortable but this weekend it will be hot. Maybe put your feet in the pool to cool off [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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Why can't your DH make up an excuse for you guys not to swim? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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He lives in bumf*ck Pennsylvania. There's nothing else to do there and he thinks the kids will like it which they may and I otherwise they would be bored out of their skulls, so I wouldn't want to take that away from them because I'm feeling a bit prudish. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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I bought a "schmatte" - basically a coverall/short sundress thing - at Bloomingdales for $80 to cover my swimsuit while I sit around. It does the trick. Just ignore FIL. Or have DH say something to him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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I love the word schmatte! I am planning on wearing a shorter dress so I can dip my feet in the pool. Just don't even want to put on a bathing suit. Like I said, it's not my favorite thing to do even under different circumstances. I'm not overweight, just have always felt uncomfortable in bathing suits. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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are you concerned about him leering at the children as well? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know the earliest someone carrying multiples may be put on bed rest? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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my sis was put on bed rest at 24 wks but she had preterm labor and an incomp. cervix [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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I know someone that was put on at 19weeks. It really depends on your situation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:37 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone have experience with Allison Boester, Wenhui Jin, Jane Kauffman or Susan Loeb-Zeitlan at Cornell 72nd street? Desperate to find an new OB so any feedback on this office would be great! 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.17.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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Dr Jin is my ob/gyn and I have been very happy with her (and the rest of the practice although I dn'). I was on db #2 when I saw Dr Jin so didn't need too much support from her. When I did have problems both with the pg and billing etc she was incredibly helpful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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Dr Jin delivered my second baby. (She wasn't my OB, though) I really liked her. I thought she was really smart and efficient and supportive in the delivery room. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:03 AM Flag
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How is the support staff? Trying to get someone to answer the phone and talk to me like a human being at my current gyn is a nightmare so I want to make sure I have a really responsive office for my ob. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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I really don't know b/c my OB is in another practice altogether. Jin and her team just share the delivery room coverage at the hospital. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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I was OR. No probs phoning the practice. The woman on the front desk comes across as a bit rude but she is actually fine just ignore her rudeness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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One other question on these guys - I'll be in the higher-risk category and want a lot of tests. Are these guys the type to be open to it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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lol. I was low risk and felt tested to death! I'm not american and find the healthcare here over the top thorough! I'm pretty sure you would feel in good hands with this practice. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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I had some complications, and I found that ALOT was overlooked by Dr. Boester because she is, in fact, so laid back. I'm not saying she's a bad doctor, but you have to educated yourself on every topic thoroughly & you have to be your own advocate with her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.17.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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Dr. Boester was recommended to me by my OB friends who used to practive in NYC or who still do but not in private/group practice, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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I used the office, and had a very positive expereince [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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Dr. Boester has been my doctor for a year now. She delivered my baby 8 months ago - I loved my experience with her during delivery - she did my c-section. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.06.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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I had Dr. Boester and thought she was mediocre. Decent personality, and laid back but I was lucky to have someone else covering when I went into the hospital and had the most amazing delivery by Dr. Hockstein(who no longer takes insurance). The staff is responsive on the phone--never had a problem with that. I can not believe how grimy their offices are! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.17.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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Also, FYI Boester is on maternity leave now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 09.17.08, 01:12 PM Flag
[ - ] FYI: STRIDE RITE store in Manhattan moved..to 87th adn 3rd. Just got their email 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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Thanks Spamela. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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np: get out. I appreciate info like this. I'm planning on schlepping up there next week for school shoes. Now I know where to go [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:49 AM Flag
[ - ] ideas on a romantic destination for an anniversary? 3 days in august, within 2/3 hours of nyc by either car or plane. our 2.5 year old might or might not come. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.17.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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without dc then go to PR or DR for a nice beach weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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that's longer than 3 hours [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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ok it's 3.5 yrs but it's a short quick great trip [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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np: i agree. go to the Punta Cana Resort & Club in the DR. Close to airport so travel time is as short as possible. Great basic all inclusive resort. We were pleased with the rooms, service, food, beach, and affordability. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:06 AM Flag
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Berkshires, Montauk, Newport RI [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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Two years ago we went to Quebec City over Labor Day and stayed in a fabulous boutique hotel (Conde Nast Traveler and Travel & Leisure list several of them) and ate in some really nice restaurants. It was a great 3 day getaway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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np: We did Quebec City for our 5 year anniversary when I was pregnant. Didn't bring any children. We stayed in a great boutique hotel, too and had a really great time. Quick trip, affordable... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:05 AM Flag
[ - ] help -finding adjustment hard -- our nanny was amazing from 4mos to 3 y/o for DS #1. But we had #2 and she's spending all her time so far ignoring #1 and rocking #2 when she cld put him down in his crib -- suggestions? I have to go back to work and I'm worried for #1. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.17.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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talk with her about including #1 more, and making sure he isn't ignored - if she's so fantastic she will adjust. Remember that a new baby is probably exciting for her too. Also, she might be more of an "infant" nanny, in which case you might need to look for a new one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:35 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD? On doctors (many) recommendations, I terminated my pregnancy at 29w. It was and is horrible, but I am at peace with my decision. My child was to born in a vegetative state, probably blind and deaf to boot. No hope of any recovery. Through my priest (he does not know I terminated), was linked with a support group, who sent to me a wonderful, beautiful mom who I really can connect with. Am really, really scared to tell her what really happened for fear she will condemn me. But I feel I owe her the truth, especially given why we are together and that we have shared the most personal information and feelings. Advice? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.17.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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if she is such a wonderful person she will not condemn you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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np. she might based on religious principles etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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I would keep that to myself. It's no ones business. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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np. I agree. The reason you are finding each other a support is because you have both suffered a loss. The details surrounding the loss do not make those feelings less valid. It really is ok not to share all the details. I am sorry you have been through this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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how do we know this other mom suffered a loss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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np: because OP met her through a support group [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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i don't know. i have always felt flattered when people trusted me enough to share their deepest secrets. however, if she lost a child as well, she may not be supportive of your decision to terminate. do you think you have a good intuition when it comes to people? i've learned that mine is not so keen. i'm sorry you've been through this and i would hate for you to lose the support of this person. but i guess if she isn't still supportive then maybe she's not who you need? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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np. This is good advice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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is she catholic? i am a cradle catholic and while i have some very good friends at my church, they are not the ones i would confide in about an abortion. i realize that others may wrongly assume i would disapprove simply b/c i'm catholic but it's still not a chance i would, personally, take. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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ittta. Signed Bad girl Catholic here who believes in choice, gay marriage, sex before marriage, ect [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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Thanks everyone. I'm still on the fence. One moment I feel like I'm betraying us by not sharing and do in my gut feel I can share, the other I feel like maybe we need more time together before I can make a decision. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 09:03 AM Flag
[ - ] anyones dh affected by these collapsing banks workwise and can't even come up for air. this entire week dh has been pulling all nighters and literally hasn't said one word to me. i am not in a biz like this, so i cant really understand that. anyone? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.17.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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Yea. It's been the worst 3 days on Wall Street in 25 years. My dh is a nervous wreck. His favorite retort, "Don't you pick up a paper?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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but why? what is going on exactly? dh isn't in market but it a builder and developer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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We're going into a major recession, people can't get mortgages and sorry to say, the housing market is tanking. People won't be building homes or buying them at least for the next 9 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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he is in commercial developement and yes that will effect him to. just seems so odd. never saw him like this. and he is traveling for biz and freaking out that all of this is going on in NY, but has no time to talk, so unlike him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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I'm sure he is focused on work due to the problems. Give him space to sort himself out and he will talk when he feels able. I think this is a typical way men deal with stress (my dh anyway). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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ok. it would be easier if he weren't traveling. it makes me think he is up to no good, but i guess you are right [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:03 AM Flag
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normally, I would agree that he may be up to no good, but right now I imagine that he is just desperately trying to keep his job [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:12 AM Flag
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np ita - GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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That is no excuse to leave your family in the dust, though. There should ALWAYS be an hour or two that he should invest in his family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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sometimes that isn't possible. if it is only occasional, don't make a big deal about it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:17 AM Flag
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np: you say that, but i have a truly devoted dh who spends more time with his kids than most dads, but when work is crazy he literally doesn't have a single hour to spare for us. and he gets so depressed about it but in this climate keeping his job is key. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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there are extreme circumstances that warrant it, and I imagine this is one. He also probably doesn't want to worry her too much, and it's all he's thinking about, so he probably thinks it's better to be silent. Op doesn't seem to understand how bad this could be, which suggests that he's trying not to share. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:20 AM Flag
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my dh is a lawyer and is basically like that 360 days out of the year [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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Times are bad be as supportive as you can. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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Totally. DH's fund (he works there and is pretty junior, we aren't rich) goes down every day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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all right! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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OR. Huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:17 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have experience with furniture from the Door Store? I like the looks of their bedroom sets. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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basically most of their stuff is crap [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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It's not crap. For kids furniture or homes with kids, you should always shop for the B-team furniture. Door Store is perfect [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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I bought a bed for my dc there 3 years ago, and it was practically falling apart a year later. I would rather spend a bit more to get really well-made products, especially when it is what my child is sleeping on [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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so you got a lemon. You can get those even if you with high priced items. You do know that most furniture stores (cheap or expensive) sell the same furniture anyway? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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Sorry to go off topic, but I disagree. I am buying cheap antique stuff for DD's room. It holds up better, stays in style longer, and comes with a few nicks and dings. OP - I don't know, sorry. It only looks okay quality wise. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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We bought a dining set from them. It was a good experience. The furniture is great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Is anyone here GHI insured and could give me the name of a Manhattan hospital/laboratory that you used for your CVS? Thank you! Had long phone conversation with GHI representatives, they just told me to call all the hospitals and laboratories myself to find out if provider AND laboratory - that the hospital uses - participate with GHI. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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I went to Roosevelt. FWIW, I have GHI through work and they are a total PITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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doesn't their web site have a list of participating dr's and labs? Call up Dr Saltzman (he's on 90th and madison). He did my AMnio and was great. Google him for their # [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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^^meant call them to see if they take GHI [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:25 AM Flag
[ - ] Is it normal that my dutailier glider and ottoman from buybuybaby takes 8-10 wks for me to get? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.17.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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Cancel it now. Those things are ugly and will take up the whole bedroom space until you become sane and give it away to some other sucker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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np: don't listen to this person. She didn't ask you if you liked it. BTW I had one and loved it for feedings. Very comfy. It lasted 6 yrs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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OP: I am not going to cancel it. I found it to be very comfy and pple I know who have them use them all the time. I just wanted to know if it is standard to take so much time for it to come into the store. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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good for you! I got mine from an online store and it didn't take that long. I think I would look around to see if you could get it soon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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^^meant sooner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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You probably got a standard fabric and finish and there wasn't a custom order. That's the difference. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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FYI, I bought a floor sample, it was in great shape and delivered next day by BBB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:30 AM Flag
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np; this is what I would do [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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I love mine. We got it at BBB and it did take that long. We did custom pick finish and fabric though. I thought it was just like ordering upholstered furniture -- that's just how long it takes. I do recommend paying the extra for the stain treatment. We did -- ours is sage green and seems indestructible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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Thank you all. Mine is also custom which is probably why it is taking so long. I did stain proofing also. The good news is that I had a competitor coupon for 15% off and they took it which makes a difference in such a big purchase! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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note to self to order one early! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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yes, mine took 12! and fwiw, i think if you get the fully upholstered rocker with ottomon (and not the ones with the wood showing) it looks very nice and is super comfy for rocking with baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:08 AM Flag
[ - ] dh has a job interview today, and i desperately hope he gets it. is fortune teller mom on? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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I asked Magic Eight Ball, "will OP's husband get the job?" It said, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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DEFINITELY [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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and i just checked my magic eight ball and it said "all signs point to yes!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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good luck! I know how hard it is to worry about jobs in this economic climate. MY DH is looking too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I give my 5 yr old diet soda all the time. Not a lot, but a few ounces every day. Is that bad or harmless? 36 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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bad - why would you give so much artificial crap to a 5yo? especially if it is caffinated. There is no need - why do it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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Sometimes I don't want him having a second glass of juice with all of that sugar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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There is no reason to give your 5 yr old diet soda when there are so many other options. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:16 AM Flag
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What's so bad about it? The aspartame? What are the damaging effects? I don't think anyone knows... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:18 AM Flag
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np; if you don't know why soda (diet or reg) isn't bad then that's a problem [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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Please enlighten me about why diet soda is bad? I'm serious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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google it. I don't have time to explain to you why soda in general is bad..esp. the diet soda with chemicals [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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in my house: milk water juice water milk water juice water... If either has had juice once, I'll try and push water. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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the chemicals in the diet soda aren't good for you. Also soda in general is bad for everyone including kids. My dds are 8y and 4y, never have tried soda. It's water, milk and juice in my home. Water by far the preferred drink in our home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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Never tried soda?!? Which fairyland do you all live in? I believe they are keeping a few secrets from you js [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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no fairyland here. They have never tried soda. I don't allow it, at bday parties they don't have it..when they are with my parents they don't have it since my parents don't believe in soda..so when would they try it? In school? We pack their lunch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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what about at friends' houses, at the movies, etc? I understand not allowing it frequently, but you sound incredibly millitant, and kids tend to resent that (I grew up with a mother like you) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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nope not at friends houses or movies. It's not part of our family lifestyle. They never ask nor do they seem to resent it. Soda is the only thing that I don't allow them but they have snacks, candy, ect. They aren't missing out. For you to say you were raised by a mother like me is insulting considering you don't know me and all you know is that I don't allow Soda. So not giving my dc soda makes me a millitant? lol if you think so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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np - just wondering, if you allow candy and other "bad" things, why the ban on soda? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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they can have candy once in a while but not on a daily basis. I also don't allow sugary cereals. Soda is like taking god knows how many tablespoons full of sugar. They dont' need it. Soda is also very addicting (the caffeine). When they are older if they want to try it fine but not now. They have their entire lives to eat crap and if I can show them good habits when they are young, they will hopefully grow up healthier. BTW I'm not a big sugar eater. My parents didn't give us a lot of sugar. I'm 40yr and never had a cavity in my life. I don't hunger for sugar nor do I miss it. I rather my kids eat fruit than have soda or any other sugary processed product [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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there is uncaffeinated soda, you know that, right? I don't allow my kids to have coke, etc, but they occasionally (i.e. 3-4 times a year) have root beer, hansens, etc. They are not addicted to it, and having a small cup of soda has less sugar than a candy bar [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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that's good for you but I choose not to start something that isn't necessary. They aren't missing something important in childhood if they don't have soda? This is just our preference. DH feels the same way about it too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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your concept that letting them have soda on occasion is "starting something" is really insane. of course you're allowed to have your preferences, but you do seem millitant about this, as the other poster said. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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well that's the great thing about it..I get to raise my kids my way and you get to raise them your way. I'm sure there are things I allow them to do (like Watch TV) that many ppl would say OH NO too. I don't care if others parent differently. This is a choice we made and don't have an issue with it. I don't see anything militant about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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np: you really think that it's impossible? My kids haven't tried it either. Not something we buy in our home. I'm a sahm and they are with me all the time. Not shocking that there are kids who haven't tried it. Not like they haven't tried milk that would be shocking but soda? Not everyone gives crap to their kids just because [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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My 6 and 3.5 yo have never tried soda (with the exception of seltzer.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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or: ita..I don't consider Seltzer soda..my dd calls it fuzzy water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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mine too! One eve she asked if she could "say grace" (we don't usually) and her grace was: "Thank you for food, and for fuzzy water!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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that's too cute [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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too funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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Neither have mine (same ages). I drink bubbly water and they hate that. My dh hates anything with carbonation so he told them that soda is bubbly water with sugar and now they don't want to try it. I drink coke occassionally when we are out and they have never even asked to try it. they just assume it's gross like the bubbly water. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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PSA: Don't feed the troll. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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why not just let your dc suck on sugar out of the box [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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my dcs (4 and 6) only get "soda" at very special occasions - then it is either martinellis (sparkling cider which is just apple juice) or juice mixed with seltzer water. Otherwise it is diluted juice, milk or water [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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My ob told me not to drink soda while pg. That's how bad it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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my ob told me not to eat sushi while pg. does that make it unequivocally bad as well? what about wine? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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I don't drink soda, but I did have occasional sushi and glass of wine... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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or. Actually there are bad (as well as good) things about wine and sushi otherwise you would be able to eat/drink as much as you would like. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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give your kid what you want but soda is like crack..so not necessary but so out there. I don't touch it and neither will my kids as long as they are young [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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bad, soda has no nutritional value and artificial sweetners are not healthy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 09:53 AM Flag
[ - ] I want to take a vacation but my boss won't let me until end of August. I will be 30 weeks pregnant then. Am I going to be too uncomfortable to travel? Any ideas on where I should go? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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Drive somewhere that's a couple of hours away. Just a change of scenery will be enough for a break [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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he's an ass. I'm taking mine next week because I will be 26 wks by then and Aug. is too late to fly anywhere [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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I agree to take a short trip. At 30w you are uncomfortable no matter what, but do it before baby comes. Definitely! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:41 AM Flag
[ - ] My 1 yr old ds cried hysterically before EVERY nap and EVERY bedtime. We've done CIO for 2 MONTHS now. And I'm not doing it incorrectly - we've gotten to the point where we literally don't go back in after we walk out the door. (Started off with Ferber intervals, etc. and it prolonged the crying.) What gives??? Will he ever stop?? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.17.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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^^ cries, not cried. He's still doing it. As I type, actually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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You know what, he will too old to need you much sooner than you think. I had a similar experience finally gave in and when the other extreme--cosleeping. It was great to sleep with my baby and I'm glad not to have missed those years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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Are you sure you have dc on an appropriate schedule? Maybe dc is overtired when you are trying to get them to sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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np: yeah, but what's the solution if overtired? It's sleep right? SO what's recommendation there? Change schedule and CIO? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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Maybe just a change in schedule. At 1 should probably be on one nap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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What time of day would you suggest? Wakes up at 6:45. Is really only taking one nap right now (10am - 12) but will fall asleep in the stroller or the car at around 3:30. Otherwise no afternoon nap. I don't force the afternoon at all because morning is too much of a battle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:06 AM Flag
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Have a look at the Babywhisperer website there are lots of examples of typical 1yo schedules so you can see a range of what is 'normal'. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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what time does he go to bed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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between 7 and 7:30 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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I would move it earlier, try starting bedtime @ 6:30. my ds needed to go to bed that early at that age - he was so much happier when we figured it out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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News flash: CIO is not a recipe that applies to all children. For many it just doesn't work and I see that you keep escalating it. You have to stop it for now and deal with this in other ways (read the No cry sleep solutions, for example). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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I agree. 2 months is a long time (and we sleep trained, I'm not against it). But it does sound like your schedule is off, whether or not you keep trying to train [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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Here are a few suggestions--if you can, try to eliminate the afternoon nap, even if its just for half an hour in the stroller. I find it is always harder for my 13 month old at bed-time if he sleeps at all later than 2:30 or 3pm. Also, try moving bed-time earlier. You are probably already doing this, but do the EXACT same thing every night for bed-time routine--even the same stories. Does ds have a "lovey" to take to bed? Keep it in the crib at all times, only for sleeping and not as a toy around the house. We had a tough time with CIO too but it eventually worked, he just needed lots of "cues" to tell him it was bed-time. Also, I must disclose that we rock him to sleep every night, in his dark room, it only takes 5-10 minutes and I know it is not "correct" according to sleep training, but it cut down the crying dramatically. However, once we put him the crib that is it, no more rocking if he wakes up when we put him down. Once every couple of weeks he will still do about 10 minutes of crying at bed-time. A very dark room also seemed to help--I taped black cardboard over his window. I hope this helps! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:20 AM Flag
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OP: I agree - the late afternoon catnap might be his problem. It's tough to always avoid walking around or driving at all past 3 though. Especially when he doesn't wake up from his morning nap until noon. I'm thinking I need to push the morning nap later in the day, but he gets really cranky and rubs his eyes like crazy when I push it past 10. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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I'm the one who posted above about starting bedtime @ 6:30. If he's anything like my ds he will sleep longer that way and be less tired in the morning, then you can push the nap later [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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I know, I have had the same problem with the naps--i find that if I take him to the playground and keep him busy I can push the morning nap later and he [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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^^^sorry for incomplete thought...he forgets to get cranky and I can push the nap later. I know it is really hard when you are a busy mom but if you can try not to have him in the car or stroller at that danger time of 3 or 4pm that helps too. Sometimes I try to have a "quiet hour" at around that time--reading stories or nursing but no sleeping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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np: take him out in the AM and then push the nap later by 15 minutes every few days or even every week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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where was he sleeping before you tried to cio? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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In the crib, no problem! But we were putting him down with a bottle in the crib. My ped told me I had to stop that and therefore he lost his big sleep cue. We tried to keep consistent with a routine at nap and bedtime including a blanket, songs, etc. but nothing seems to work that well. I am pretty sure our schedule is off. It is so hard to keep up - it feels like as soon as we get one thing figured out, something else changes completely! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:03 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.17.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.18.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.25.08, 03:11 PM Flag
[ - ] 3 weeks bf'ing and I am still really sore, both during and b/t feedings. Normal? I'm concerned re thrush, but have no other symptoms. TIA. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.17.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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sorry but it's normal. I was in horrible pain for about 6 weeks. If it's bearable, you are ahead of the game ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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