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[ - ] how would you feel? for the past three years, dh and I have rented a summer house for a week. this year, the week happened to contain my birthday. on the way up, dh asked, "what would you like to do for your birthday?" I said, "I want lobster!" So we did that. But he never gave me a present, and never said anything about giving me a present. He did give me a card on the day, and he did get me a cake. I'm afraid to ask about it, because I'm afraid he'll be insulted that I expected something more than a card and a cake, even though historically, a card and a cake was in addition to a present. I don't want to sound greedy, but i was a little insulted. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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How long have you been together? Did you give him a present for his bday or just celebrate with cake? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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we've been together 5 years this year, and we've never not given each other presents. the only difference is that we were on vacation this time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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Why can't you just say something? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:39 PM Flag
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made he thought the lobster was the present [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:39 PM Flag
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That's what I'm thinking. How old are you? What this a "milestone" bday? My dh and I are pretty low key about bday gifts now that we have moved into our late 30s. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:41 PM Flag
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op: i don't know. i never have a problem opening my mouth about anything. i don't know why this is causing such a problem for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:41 PM Flag
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just tell him how you feel. I would tell me husband in a second. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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You got lobster, a card, cake and time with family. Do you need more? [ Reply | More
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[ - ] What should my ideal weight be at 5'4"? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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[ - ] apparently, i'm more insecure than i thought. i'm a kmart and payless dresser. my sils are designer clothing trendy dressers. i don't usually care that much but we have my inlaws anniversary coming up next weekend and we are having a brunch. should i go out and buy something for myself and dcs or should we just go in our regular clothing? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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just wear your own clothes-I wouldn't by something just to "keep up" with SILs. Besides, people often really can't tell the difference between designer clothes and discount. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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Hmmm-to not being able to tell; I can. BUT it doesn't really matter if it looks great and suits someone. There is no substitute for some better, fallback items to mix into your whole closet. I did leave out a femme suit- to break up and pull together when needed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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Go to Filene's Basement... I have gotten some great dresses there - brand names for great prices. I honestly think they fit better than cheaper dresses..... check it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:14 PM Flag
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if it looks nice, who cares. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:43 PM Flag
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I'm not sure if this is really about them-or you. Think about it; If it's really you, then believe me, Spend some time w/yourself at a Daffy's, Loehmann's, Century 21 or Filene's. Try on some things that look good and make you feel good. Set a goal for budget and number of pieces. I really believe it's a good investment to cover your wardrobe options w/several good items for each season. Quality pices tend to have better fit and longevity and will serve you well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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As an example, try for a good dressy/casual dress, a great pant, a staple, finished denim(skirt or pant), a seasonally appropriate jacket or other topper e.g. Cardigan, pullover, wrap. Add a good low or flat shoe/sandal + 1 dressier for Spring/Summer- the same+a great boot for Fall/Winter. You can get a lot of wear mixing finer pieces w/everyday ones. Do this for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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op: i thinks it's about family dynamics. not sure if that makes it about them or about me. i have good work clothing. and good dressy/special occasion clothing. everything else is very sloppy. it's these brunch type parties that always are a problem for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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So then, go to H&M and get some cheap and cheerful stuff, while it's still warm out. Dresses are the best way to be casual and pulled together, so focus on those and skirts that are easy and not too structured. If it's trendy you're after, H&M is about as much as you should pay for short-living looks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 06:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Going thru the lottery next year for ps41/3. Does anyone have an idea of how many people who really wanted 41 (non sib) ended up NOT getting it and had to go to 3? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.27.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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I know tons that were in the lottery this year and dont know anyone who wanted 41 who didn't get it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:23 PM Flag
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THANK YOU! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:47 PM Flag
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I do but both are good so don't sweat it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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how many do you know who did not get their first choice? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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I just know one who wanted 41 and ended up at 3. I also know several who chose 3 for their other children after their first went to 41. You are lucky to be in the district, your child will be fine at either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:08 PM Flag
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yeah, I am a ps 41 parent and I understand that you are anxious, but really only one or two families are turned away every year, usually because they miss the deadline [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Looking for a beach vacation in August. Any advice on where I can find avail so late? Everything I am looking at is booked. 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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you could try chatham or harwich port on the cape. we just got back and had ourselves a blast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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Can you swim? What did you do there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:40 PM Flag
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where are you looking? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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vobro, craigslist [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:53 PM Flag
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check out site59.com. we used them for a last minute vacation a few years ago and it was very nice and less expensive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:48 PM Flag
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Check my link; We took this off the Cape May, N.J. rental market but are putting it back on for the last 3wks of August and some of Sept-when it is gorgeous and quieter. http://www.simonecolina.com/quad/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:06 PM Flag
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You posted before, it seems like an okay deal. Why do you think noone is biting? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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Cape May is 3 hrs away, so a weekend is a bit short and I've let people know. Additionally, there seem to be a lot more LI, Mass, Maine seekers on this url. Cape May is still a bit free of a mass ny emigration and a lot of people don't know how special it is. Honestly, we've turned some away, as we realized they were groups of older teens; What can I say?? btw-it's I've reduced it to $1300./wk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 09:50 PM Flag
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but I saw you posted $1200 on craigslist a while back [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:25 PM Flag
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I once went to Kennebunkport, Maine in August. It was great- not too hot, lots of great lobster & an Cape Cod feel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:07 PM Flag
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Avalon, NJ. 3 hour drive from city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:23 PM Flag
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how long? there are plenty of hamptons houses that are open still... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:25 PM Flag
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at least a week, maybe two. How do I find them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 07:55 PM Flag
[ - ] About to get first car tomorrow and need to get a car seat for 16 month old. Can anyone recommend one they use for their own child? thank you 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.27.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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we have this one - my dd thinks the print is hysterical - we don't call it a carseat, but the cowseathttp://www.amazon.com/Britax-Roundabout-Convertible-Seat-Cowmooflage/dp/B000WJI5V0/ref=pd_bbs_5?ie=UTF8&s=baby-products&qid=1217192619&sr=8-5 [ Reply | More
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OP: thanks for the link, I will check it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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britax decatholan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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OP; thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Britax Roundabout-it received top marks from Consumer Reports and we're very satisfied with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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ditto. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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ooh what kind of car are you getting?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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we have a britax marathon-they may not sell it anymore but got it when my first dc was a db. it is great-large though, but has held up well. we also use it when we travel-it has these detachable wheels which you can buy separately (gogokidz maybe?). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:28 PM Flag
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we actually went with the graco one that grows with your child. eventually becomes just a booster. it saved us from having to purchase again and db loves it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:41 PM Flag
[ - ] I would like to buy a doll for 2 yo DD. I don't want one that talks or that has funky features. Just a basic doll that she can take outside and carry around and drop in the dirt and the water etc. Any recommendations? I searched Amazon but am overwhelmed by the options. TIA 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.27.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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pottery barn kids has some cute dolls (they are fabric dolls) they may still have the little babies, but they also have older girl dolls (also fabric) - they really are adorable. dd carries baby around and i feel good that the thing isn't made of plastic [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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i got my dd a cabbage patch for 2 yr b-day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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There are french dolls - I forget the name that are bathtime babies so they can go in the dirt, the water, on the slide, etc. Unfortunately we lost ours at the park since it was so versatile. The PBK ones are really sweet toys, but I don't think they are washable? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 04:38 PM Flag
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The Corelle dolls are nice and come in all sizes and colors [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 05:20 PM Flag
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Get a cheap plastic doll at Toys R Us that's small enough that her hands fit around the belly. If she likes it after a few weeks then go back on your own and buy a backup for when it gets lost (and it will) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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Look at Magic Cabin dolls. You can also make one 'with' her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 09:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Please help me choose a stroller: Infant through toddler, every day sturdy stroller that folds easily. With #1 I had the Inglesina Zippy but it hurt my back. Yes, the Quinny and Bugaboo and nicer strollers are better on my back but they don't fold well. I want to put it away in my closet at night. Ideas? TIA. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.27.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Maclaren has always worked very well for us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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i wouldn't use one infant-through toddler. i guess it does depend on your lifestyle and habits but i'd use the snap and go, then something light like a combi, and then switch to an umbrella stroller after age 2. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:21 PM Flag
[ - ] do you give your nanny an annual raise? how much? tia. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.27.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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10% if she does a good job [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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are you kidding? i need to work for you (and I am not looking for a job as a nanny) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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no. i fire them every year and then rehire someone at the same pay. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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I really hope you're kidding. If not, poor dc.... you suck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:46 PM Flag
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partly joking. for various reasons, we haven't had a nanny for more than a year. i think we've gone through seven or eight nannies. (i can think of seven but i suspect i'm forgetting someone). [ Reply | More
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$25 which is aprox 4% [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 03:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I am really struggling with the decision to have a second db. We are really happy with being the three of us, but I have always wanted two kids. Can anyone give me some pros and cons? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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there are many pros: another person for your child to love and play with, another adorable baby in this difficult world, etc. etc. There are only 2 cons: kids are bloody expensive (even with the handmedowns) and you are SOOOOOO tiered at all times! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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i think it depends on what you want out of your family. i find that people with certain goals won't meet their goals if they have more kids and so they want to stop at one. (things like traveling, keeping a certain lifestyle, providing a certain type of education, etc.). if you are happy with how things are and are afraid to have more b/c of a fear of rockign the boat, i'd say go for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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if i had known then what i know now, i probably would not have had a second. the money is tight, there is no time, it is a drain on the marraige, the elder db competes for my attention. having said that, the younger db is an amazing beautiful gift, and i am glad that we have him. [ Reply | More
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np: how old are your kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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2 and 6. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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We went back and forth on this and decided to go for it. We now have ds and dd. I am so happy we decided to have the second child. They are playmates now, which makes things easier for us as parents and I am happy to know they will have each other in the future. It also makes for a vibrant household, with lots of noise, but also lots of funny conversations, experiences, etc. Of course, it will cost more to raise to kids, but I am willing to make that sacrifice because I enjoy them so much. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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We went back& forth as well and our only regret is that they're 4yrs apart which seems like too much. #2 is such a joy that we had no problems deciding to go for #3 so there'll only be a 2yr gap. [ Reply | More
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This is such a hard decision. Of course, you dither over it for a year and then end up with an oops baby - that's what happened to us. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] Which is the best baby wrap. I want something natural, pref cotton. and easy to use. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Sling or swaddle wrap? [ Reply | More
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sling [ Reply | More
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Native Carrier [ Reply | More
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[ - ] psychic mom - what will be the sex of my next baby? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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sometimes psychic mom says its a boy [ Reply | More
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thats 50% correct [ Reply | More
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[ - ] How do you wash a baseball cap? Dishwasher or washing machine? TIA! 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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dishwasher [ Reply | More
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really? are you serious? [ Reply | More
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washing machine, line dry [ Reply | More
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sink [ Reply | More
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[ - ] Al,ost 4 month old has fingers in mouth constantly. Teething or trying to find thumb? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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My 4 mo old has been eating his fingers too (and drooling, crying jags, gums look red/swollen.) I suspect it is teething. [ Reply | More
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My guess is just loving his hand. My now 7 month old did that a lot back then and it wasn't teething since he still doesn't have a tooth! I think teething is all about the drool. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] So bummed. Wanted to go to the central park zoo and the weather blows! Any ideas on what to do with my 7mo?? He is getting up from his nap soon... 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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children's museum [ Reply | More
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a 7mo old? wave a toy in front of him. [ Reply | More
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I need to get out of this house! So bored! Was thinking either park or jogging stroller, but weather not helping out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Do you think it is tack to use coupons/gift certificates when dining out. I am looking for ways to trim our budget and am thinking about using restaurant.com for when we eat out. Also, if any one in NY uses this, do you have a favorite restaurant? I don't recongnize many of them. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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op: meant tacky. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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no, i use the $99 two for one coupon for morton's steak house the other day [ Reply | More
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Did your server seem disappointed or like it was totally normal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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np: Server won't care less as long as you don't short the tip and give cash for that. I believe most gift cert and coupons exclude tips anyway. We used a gift cert last night and the server could not care less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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We use restaurant.com certificates at Accapella's all the time. No problems. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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What is more important to you: to trim the budget, or to care what some wait person thinks of you? [ Reply | More
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Waiters understand budgets. Take it from me. [ Reply | More
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[ - ] How long will it take me to become a nurse? I have a bachelors in communications from 1990 and not much science/math ability. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:09 PM Flag
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it's 2 to 4 years I think, depending on what level of degree [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:13 PM Flag
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full time? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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Do post-baccalaureate premed program at Columbia and go to med school and become a doctor instead. Also look into Physician Assistant - 2 yrs I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.27.08, 10:00 PM Flag
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don't become a "pa"---they are very much the physicians orderlies... at least R.N.'s have developed a distinct career- and make better $, better hours... Then you can become an NP and write scrips and do exactly what a physician does anyway... [ Reply | More
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