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[ - ] Moms w/ twins four and older--how is their relationship in a scale of 1 to 10. 10 being fantastic. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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I have 7yo b/g twins. I'd say 9. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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5 yr old twins: 9 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:48 PM Flag
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12yo b/b twins 7-8. They're starting to drift apart and want to spend more time withtheir individual friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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^^^I also have 5yo b/g twins and they're still so in love with each other that the rest of the world doesn't exist. 9 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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four y/o g/g twins. 9. They are great pals. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on having a third dc if your first two are twins... 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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Have a few friends in that situation. Tey said it was pretty easy. How old are the twins? (I have twins, but after #1, diff order...). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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I have twins and never went for the third...for many many reasons. I think if you really want a third, go for it. It will be easier than twins! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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why didn't you want a third? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:47 PM Flag
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maybe she didn't want a third AND a fourth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:48 PM Flag
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I had my twins when I was older (38) and by the time I felt ready to have another I was too old (for me). Also, my dh is gone all the time. I am basically a single parent and didn't think I could handle it. Plus my two take up so much of my time, just didn't want to go for a third. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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a third after twins was soooo easy as a newborn. Now that they are older it is very chaotic and wild in my house. Much more mellow when i have only 2 kids at home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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chaotic in a good way? what is age difference and sex? was it fun having singleton after twins? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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I'm a twin and I always wished that my parents had more kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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why? pls tell! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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My sister and I are very close, but I always wished for another sibling (older or younger). It seems nice to have siblings that are different ages, too. I thought it would be fun to be a big sister. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:59 PM Flag
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^being a twin was and is the greatest though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 07:00 PM Flag
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interesting. (though i probably can't produce an older sib!) are you fraternal? have you always been close? do you think a younger sibling would have felt left out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 07:01 PM Flag
[ - ] Thought on having a third dc? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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glad I did it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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I prefer man-on-man defense to zone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
[ - ] totally MYOB..but co-worker had to get artificially inseminated and she is married. She is morbidly obese..does that have anything to do with it? Not IVF 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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maybe, maybe not [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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op--In other words MYOB, right? I know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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No, I meant that literally. Being obese can drop fertility b/c it messes with estrogen. On the flip side, some women gain b/c of PCOS- the gain is a side effect of the fert issue. But it could be totally unrelated. But yes, MYOB ;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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but artificial insemination is for fertility issues? isn't that for absent fathers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:47 PM Flag
[ - ] i am in my 40s and never married. I feel pretty sure that I never will. I dont even date anymore.This makes me so sad, but I dont think its possible for me to find a partner without seriously compromising and I just cant do that. Anyone else feel this way? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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My best friend. 43 and just about stopped dating altogether [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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marriage is a compromise. some people do not like that concept and thats OK [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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what an understatement [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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do you have dc? if so that will make it harder [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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trying on my own [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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If you're happy the way you are - don't change a thing. If you want to be in a relationship, you may need to "compromise" - you'd be amazed how insignificant some things are in the long term! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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at this point i would hav to compromise on being attracted to the man. thats not possible [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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how about younger men? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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I'm sorry - 40 is the 30. ;0 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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not in NYC. I may as well be 60. the only men who want to date me are OLD [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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so do activities that are not OLD. join a cycling club. try kayaking. take a class. Go date a lot. Someone will stand out. And make sure to give him a chance. No man can compete with your interior "checklist". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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i have dated my head off for the past several years. there is no one left to date. Now I am trying to get pregnant. I cant imagine any man wanting to get involved with me right now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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Go for an old guy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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ive tried. but he has to be viable. i cant be with a man I dont want to kiss [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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I was like that in my 20s. I was single and not "into" dating. It wasn't even as though I had such an exciting or fulfilling life -- I just couldn't be bothered. I met DH in my 30s (and I did start actively dating b/c I wanted DC and wasn't in a position to start a family on my own) and things changed -- but I can relate to something in your post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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time to change yourself [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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why should she change herself? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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my friend is going thru this (he's in his late 30s). I think that you'll have to compromise if you want to be married or in a relationship. that's the way it is [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
[ - ] the shape of my but just changed...like it is more squared off or something :( 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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the shape of your hesitation or your butt? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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butttttt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it possible for a 4 mongh old to be on a schedule or does it have to wait a few months? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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mine was at 4 mo. it was a somewhat flexible one though. based on getting in three naps. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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what time do naps happen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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at that age - 2 hrs after they wake up from the last one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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roughly 9-10, 12:30-1:30 and 4-5. bedtime around 7pm, up at 6:30am with about 2 wakings in there. he wasalways a short napper. most dc get a longer nap in there somewhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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dd is on roughly that same schedule...I guess I am not doing so bad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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that sounds pretty good for a 4mo! Just remember that this "schedule" will probably change in a month or 2 when db drops third nap, and then naps also might become a little longer. Also, it could change as db learns new skills (i.e. rolling over, sitting up, etc...) which always throws them off, imo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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Isn't a continual change until about 1 year old....this is soo hard. it is hard getting up for work... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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it's a good time to start. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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Both of mine were closer to 5 mos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.25.14, 08:54 PM Flag
[ - ] I wish I could go back to my life from 10 years ago and change one little thing...oh well, will have to live with decision I made 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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what is it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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I was engaged to dh and I don't regret that but I had an opportunity for a fling and now after 10 years I wish I had done it.....I just hate having the what if [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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why, you think the fling could have been the love of your life? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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no it would just eliminate the what ifs, plus i've been with dh for 16 years [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:47 PM Flag
[ - ] Any cute little lovey dovey things you do for your dh, like leaving little notes, etc. I'm looking for creative ideas. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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I put goofy love notes on the napkin with his lunch and sometimes I put his clothes in the dryer while he's in the shower so they're warm when he puts them on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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oh that second one is so sweet! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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You women are so corny!!! what does DH do for you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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Mine just brought me a huge bouquet of flowers this morning after he dropped ds off at school before he went to work. That was sweet and made my day! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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come on, no ideas? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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read 'why men love bitches'... don't coddle your man... let him leave you notes! that is so HS! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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Ita, Im a bitch and my dh loves me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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no, nothin'. Sometimes I rub lotion on his back for him, bu that's about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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My dh would not find a note in his lunch cute. Not the lovey dovey cutsie type [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 09:13 AM Flag
[ - ] DH never wanted kids. I did. He gave in. DD is 13 months old. This morning he says, "I think we should have two more." And he was serious. I'm totally okay with having one and do NOT want any more. But I feel like I need to at least consider it... right? Ugh. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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give yourself some time. 13 months is tough [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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OP: I'll be 35 tomorrow... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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so? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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same situation here. Dh wants another and we have a four year old and a one year old. I am not sure if I can handle three with no help and a tight budget. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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There's no rush, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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awww. that's so sweet that he's totally come around. give ourselves time to figure out the rest of it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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OMG, I was you. dh was on the fence and after dd was born he wanted more I'm pregnant with #2..but due to other issues we will stop but he said today wish we could go for one more after this. Glad I didn't walk out on him and that we got through it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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why were u going to walk out on him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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i would love to have 3 kids. have another one. don't deny your child a sibling [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Mac users-- what's your favorite web browser? (I just converted from PC!) 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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safari [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
[ - ] dh cannot go out w/o drinking too much. He's on his way home now and slurring his words as usual. It's somehow socially acceptable (all his friends do it), but not acceptable to me. I don't know what to do but feel so sad and helpless...any advice? 51 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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Talk with him about it at a time when he's sober and not rushing to get to work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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We have talked about it ad nauseum. We sometimes threaten counseling, but not sure what that would solve or if that even makes sense. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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What do you mean "threaten" counseling? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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I guess we don't see ourselves as needing counseling in general, so it seems like a big deal to say we need counseling over this issue [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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Well clearly you both do need it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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Maybe so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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Talk to him about it when he is sober and the kids are not around - not confrontational, just ask him why he drinks, what it does for him, if he is ok with it. Let him know that you feel iuncomfortable with him driving in this state. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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He never drives (in NYC) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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are either of you children of alcoholics? This might complicate the situation. I would say that you need to understand from his point of view what the drinking is doing for him and come to some sort of peace with it. If counseling is needed, I assume it would be for him if he is an addict, but if he is, I would recommend recovery and NOT drinking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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and this would be a separate issue from the couples counseling that you feel you also may need. good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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I'm a child of a recovering alcoholic. I know dh isn't an alcoholic. What bothers me is that he doesn't know his limits. It's not like he goes kinda crazy b/c it's a big night, he just loses track and ends up drunk. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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You are having a typical acoa reaction. I flip out if there are too many wine bottles in the house and my dh is so not an alcoholic. You are reacting to him in the present and also to the painful memories you have from childhood. You should read more about being an adult child of an alcoholic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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I know this must be part of it. I also have an issue with our db (well, when he's a dc) seeing us drunk--I don't think it's ok but I've asked here before and everyone else thinks it's fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:48 PM Flag
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We are very similar. I used to be fine with occasional drinking, but once dd was born I have quit cold turkey - I think it is b/c I don't want to do to her what my mom did to me and I will go to any length to avoid her ever seeing me drunk. Typical acoa!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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Thanks for responding--it helps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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Can you recommend any reading? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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np: can you recommend a book? Is this typical? I "let" (he appeases me) dh drink only Thurs, Fri, Sat nights and only beer and wine in the house. I would freak if he drank during the week or drank hard alcohol at home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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Adult Children of Alcoholics by Janet Woititz - excellent book - dh should read as well as he needs to be aware of where your feelings come from and why you are so scared of his drinking and what it brings up for you in terms of past trauma. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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thank you...is it bizarre that I'm not even sure I can get myself to buy the book? the alcoholism has never been dealth acknowledged or dealt with. I'm actually even surprised I'm posting this... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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denial and secrecy are so much a part of it. You will come to your own truth and understanding in your own time - don't be too hard on yourself and rely on dh to help you open up about your feelings, this will heal your marriage or at the least, bring you closer together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:59 PM Flag
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ty (I'm the other poster, not the OP) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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how often does he go out and do this - once in a while big deal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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He used to do it a lot more. Now he goes out pretty infrequently but it still bothers me. Why can't he have ever have fun without getting wasted? The man is nearly 40 y.o. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:42 PM Flag
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well then It wouldn't bother me. I do the same when I go out drinking with my friends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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I guess I'm just uptight. I feel like since becoming a parent I don't like to get so drunk anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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you are really sounding like a typical adult child of an alcoholic - you have issues with the act of drinking due to the negative addictive environment you grew up in - I am the exact same way. Try to lighten up a bit on him and open up to him about these feelings. He may be a help to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:48 PM Flag
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np: i would feel the same way and i'm not a child of an alcoholic. for me, it's about maturity and acting like a role model for your children [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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crazy talk, the man is not drinking in front of his kids, he goes out and comes home while they're asleep and i'm sure is back to daddy-mode by morning [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:59 PM Flag
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that is too rigid and I am a child of an alcoholic - he can drink and have a good time as long as dw is feeling ok about it and she will once she has dealt with her feelings - or maybe she won't, in which case he is going to have to get on board about seeing a counselor to deal with her and her issues about drinking. Lesson here - don't become an alcoholic while raising children - it messes them up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 07:01 PM Flag
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np-sounds like you changed your lifestyle to an extent higher than had he, and you expect him to follow suit....that's not really fair....reading this whole tread, i don't have the impression that he is an alcoholic or is doing anything damaging to anybody [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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it feels to me like you are displacing your anger onto the drinking about other things that you are unhappy about in your marriage or life, and/or you have an issue with drinking due to having a parent who drank too much. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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Oh god I guess I need the counseling then! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:47 PM Flag
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no, read Adult Children of Alcoholics by Janet Woititz (sp?). It is a great book. You are having very typical acoa feelings and reactions. Dh needs to be aware of this so he can be sensitive to your feelings and what appears to be rigid and overreactive behavior is stemming from your out of control feelings as a child. He should read the book, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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My 44 yo dh is the same. It makes me nuts. He also feels he has to call me from 1 or 2 AM in the cab to tell me he's coming home. Slurs and wakes me up. Grow up, dhs!!! [ Reply | More
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I'd love your dhs. Im 44 and like to still have fun. I don't drive either [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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OP: Every once in a while is fine, but once or twice a week gets old. I'm also resentful because I never go out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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you need to get out. I started doing this - dh baby sits and I go out to dinner or drinks with friends - even guy friends - or concerts. Tell him you need to get out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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I should've said OR above, sorry. In any case, I have no friends to go out with or I would. I sometimes will go to a movie on the weekend, but I don't like going to bars and restaurants alone at night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 07:01 PM Flag
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Why don't you have friends -- new to city? closed of b/c of dcs? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 12:52 AM Flag
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age is not a factor - you married this guy knowing he enjoyed drinking and doing this - you can't change people. He sounds fun - you should go out with him and get a sitter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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Usually the womenfolk are not invited. (I'm not SO lame...I do go out and like to have a drink, just don't like to get very out of control.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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np-once in a while would not bother me at all, few drinks with the guys, who cares...could be so much worse, no? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:47 PM Flag
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This is when men start cheating - women nagging them about a little drunken fun [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Oh jeez louise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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np: why does every post have to turn into a "this is why men cheat" diatribe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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because they'll use any excuse to cheat...lol...jk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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whatever ,dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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If he can't go out w/o drinking too much then he is an alcoholic, albeit a functioning one. He sounds like a binge drinker, like my dh. "Why have a couple when you can have twelve?" I've let go the illusion of having any control over this. It's all in dh's lap and up to him whether it stays the same, gets better or gets worse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 09:56 PM Flag
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ITA - it seems like alot of posters are defending him. There is nothing wrong with having a few drinks occasionally or getting buck wild occasionally, but if a person doesn't know their limits repeatedly and regularly, that is alcoholism. Full stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 03:24 AM Flag
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Yeah, "why don't you loosen up and join him for once?" is not only insulting, but besides the point. 'Wow, my husband can't stop doing crack.' 'Why don't you relax and smoke a rock with him every once in a while?' Insanity. If it always happens, then he doesn't have control over his own behavior, does he? It's sad, I know. BTDT. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 11:24 AM Flag
[ - ] Carrie Underwood lost a ton of weight - she looks great! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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She is absolutely gorgeous - not just her figure, her face is simple flawless [ Reply | More
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She always sounds great! [ Reply | More
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i think she is very dorky [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Best presents for 1 yo bday party? boy or girl-- need ideas for both! tia 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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doll stroller for both. my ds loved his [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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radio flyer walker wagon, or radio flyer scooter trike (i liked the wood one, but we got the metal one which DD still loves and she is almost 2) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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good ideas...anything cheaper though?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:39 PM Flag
[ - ] Robert Downey Jr is really looking hot lately 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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no doubt. I think tropic thunder or whatever it is called looks really funny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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OMG, not as gay.....I saw him the other day and was like who is that hotty [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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& knowing he cleaned up his life is even hotter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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he is my favorite actor [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
[ - ] College summer sitter started last week. She is working 26 hrs per week until school is out. Do I have to pay her for Memorial Day (she is not working)? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 05.21.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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no - she just started. I always gave a tip at the end of the summer for my college helper [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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i figured no pay for holidays since she is seasonal. do you agree? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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Wouldn't you just pay her for the hours she works? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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is she not working because you had a conflict, she had a conflict, or she isn't scheduled for mondays? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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not working b/c it's a holiday and i assume she has plans with her family and i am not working of course [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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i would think you just pay her for the hours she works...she isn't full time andit doesn't sound like a formal arrangement. if anything, i'd keep it in mind and try to be flexible if she wants to take a day off at some point [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.21.08, 06:40 PM Flag
[ - ] is Calhoun a top notch private in NYC? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 05.21.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 04:19 AM Flag
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Does OP live in NYC? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 04:23 AM Flag
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Calhoun is progressive so it is not a fc for many people but for families who want progressive it is considered a top choice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 04:29 AM Flag
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