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05.21.08, 18:41 PM General Topics
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i am in my 40s and never married. I feel pretty sure that I never will. I dont even date anymore.This makes me so sad, but I dont think its possible for me to find a partner without seriously compromising and I just cant do that. Anyone else feel this way? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:41 PM Flag
 

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My best friend. 43 and just about stopped dating altogether [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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marriage is a compromise. some people do not like that concept and thats OK [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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what an understatement [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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do you have dc? if so that will make it harder [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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trying on my own [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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If you're happy the way you are - don't change a thing. If you want to be in a relationship, you may need to "compromise" - you'd be amazed how insignificant some things are in the long term! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More ]
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at this point i would hav to compromise on being attracted to the man. thats not possible [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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how about younger men? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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I'm sorry - 40 is the 30. ;0 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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not in NYC. I may as well be 60. the only men who want to date me are OLD [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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so do activities that are not OLD. join a cycling club. try kayaking. take a class. Go date a lot. Someone will stand out. And make sure to give him a chance. No man can compete with your interior "checklist". [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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i have dated my head off for the past several years. there is no one left to date. Now I am trying to get pregnant. I cant imagine any man wanting to get involved with me right now [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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Go for an old guy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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ive tried. but he has to be viable. i cant be with a man I dont want to kiss [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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I was like that in my 20s. I was single and not "into" dating. It wasn't even as though I had such an exciting or fulfilling life -- I just couldn't be bothered. I met DH in my 30s (and I did start actively dating b/c I wanted DC and wasn't in a position to start a family on my own) and things changed -- but I can relate to something in your post. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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time to change yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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why should she change herself? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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my friend is going thru this (he's in his late 30s). I think that you'll have to compromise if you want to be married or in a relationship. that's the way it is [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.21.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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