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[ - ] what age is the oldest person you know who got pg naturally? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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40 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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I got pg naturally at 43.5yo...after needing ivf for my first two! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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Love to hear it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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where you trying? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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I am 40 and having problems with number 2. I have premature ovarian failure. Not good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:13 PM Flag
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have you gone to the network 54 board for high FSH? there are a lot of great people there. i also had high FSH and got PG naturally. i took 8 wheatgrass tablets a day, did acupuncture -- i was determined (and i'm not an earthy granola mommy, either!) GL to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:18 PM Flag
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I meant was the poster who did ivf for first two and then got pg at 43.5 ttc or accident? Happy about it? how old were other dc? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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I'm that poster. I was not trying. Total accident. Ended up m/c which was probably a blessing because my others were 6yo (twins) and I felt too old to have another. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:17 PM Flag
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what week did you m/c? I'm the same 4 y/o twins/ivf/ Got pg nat. by accident and m/c. Was very conflicted about the whole thing..how old are you and your twins now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:22 PM Flag
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48 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:17 PM Flag
[ - ] We are living in a material world 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:59 PM Flag
[ - ] I got flamed last night by someone on a mac 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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so? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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Because I had a hard time figuring out how to use youbemom...and ub come to think of it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:02 PM Flag
[ - ] Nobody is on this board anymore!! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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tell me about it.... no one answers my posts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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I know it's painful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:13 PM Flag
[ - ] DD is almost 10 months. she doesnt pull to stand. also doesnt GET herself into a sitting position- sits just fine. she creeps, doesnt crawl. today, i noticed when she was creeping, she does it with her body slightly off floor, but legs striaght- like a plank position. tell me there is no reason to worry yet 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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absolutely no reason to worry --- totally normal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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I would get an EI eval. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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how's her strength? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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what do you mean, hows her strength? i dont know. seems finre to mew, but what do i know? first db [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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I wouldn't worry at all. Some kids never crawl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:14 PM Flag
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what worries me the most is the fact she cant get herself to sitting. arent most kids her age doing this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:17 PM Flag
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can she bear weight on her legs? if you pull her to a standing position, can she support her weight? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:19 PM Flag
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yes. shes been standing with support since about 7 months. menaing, wiht her leapfrom table, holdiong onto exersaucer edge, so on [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:23 PM Flag
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sorry, i had to step away. if she can bear weight, i think she's fine. probably just extra cautious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Going to Disneyworld in November for first time with my 7yo dcs. 6 nights (5 full days). How many character meals should I do? We purchased the dining plan. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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I would say two. They can get a little redundant after that. If they are girls- do the princess one in Norway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.25.08, 04:22 AM Flag
[ - ] I didn't think mean people use Macs 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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I can be mean sometimes and I have a Mac. But my DH is really nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:56 PM Flag
[ - ] Is there ever a time/date stamp on posts anymore? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:50 PM Flag
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Yes -- click on options [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:39 PM Flag
[ - ] any suggestions for party favors for a 3 year olds party? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:48 PM Flag
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little book wrapped up, make a ball, a pair of sunglasses, pail and shovel, not sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:49 PM Flag
[ - ] My sister has boys 13, 11 and a girl 7. Nobody seems to get along. It this just her dc? I want a third dc but don't want all the fighting. Is it no different w/ two? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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depends on the kids... i wouldn't worry about that. there were five kids in my family and some of us got along and some of us didn't.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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funny, I have 3 boys the same exact age and they get along great - love being brothers. I think the way you parent them and the limits you set and the rules you choose not to have with boys are important [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:48 PM Flag
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ITA - my DH is one of four boys and they are like the band of brothers... they truly care about each other and get along very well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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My fav thing with our family is the dynamics between the boys. the oldest 2 were best buds from the time they were toddler until a year or two ago. now the oldest has more grown up interests and middle and youngest are having totally in cahoots most days. And then there are days like now when all three plus 2 more friends are in the basement howling with laughter playing Wii together. Love it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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that's awesome! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:53 PM Flag
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ITA. My DH and his sister are close and that (their relationship) is one of the things that I admire most about him. They "get" each other and genuinely enjoy spending time together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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are they the only two sibs in family? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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Yes (so it's a different dynamic) -- but I do think that a lot of it is personality and parenting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:21 PM Flag
[ - ] Long Branch, (beach) NJ question - any landmark I should get to when driving to the beach tomorrow? Any receommendations? tia 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:45 PM Flag
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no... park on the side of the road where the condos are for free. there is also public parking at the start of the boardwalk. there are tons of restaurants and little cute shops -- you're sure to have a good time... enjoy! (and if you get bored, drive over to point pleasant and take the kids to jenkinson's) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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OP- thank you! What's Jenkinson's? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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jenkinson's is a traditional boardwalk with games, kiddie rides, etc... there's also an aquarium there. it's a little cheesy but lots of fun! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:48 PM Flag
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OP- thank you so much. You've been really helpful! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:49 PM Flag
[ - ] i was away too. Am afraid to be back. this site is toxic. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:42 PM Flag
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OMG. ITA. I can't keep myself away from this site [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:43 PM Flag
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Go to the other site [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:46 PM Flag
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youbemom.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 09:05 PM Flag
[ - ] So I'm following up from yesterday. I'm the mom who had the affair a year 1/2 ago. Husband and I talked last night. Very emotional but I kept stressing that it was over and it wasn't about sex, but about emotional disconnect that we were having. We were both calm, thank God. I thought we got somewhere, but he still said he needed to think about giving me another chance. I told him how much I missed him and wanted him back but I wouldn't push him because he said he needs his time but he misses his life. As I was leaving to go sleep downstairs, he grabbed me, we hugged, cried, kissed and one thing led to another...yada ,yada, yada. Anyway, not that I expected everything to be fixed overnight, but today was like last night never happened. He barely spoke or looked at me. I felt terrible. Granted, I understand. But I'm so nervous. Any thoughts? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:41 PM Flag
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what was it like today? Do you live together or apart? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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Today he was so distant. Took our kids out for the day but then left tonight to go to his friends house. He's supposed to be renting an apt for 6 months starting the beginning of June. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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How old are dc? so you've been living together up until now? When did all of this happen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:06 PM Flag
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4 yr old and 4 month old. We've been living together until now. THe affair happened 1 year and a half ago. He just found out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:44 PM Flag
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Sounds like he loves you but can't process everything right now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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OK, one step at a time. I'm glad you spoke and were able to do so calmly. Give him time - sounds like he wants it to work, but he still needs time to process the whole thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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So you think this sounds positive? I'm so in love with him and I want my family back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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2 steps forward, 1 step back [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.24.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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So you had an affair because you and your dh were emotionally disconnected... Does he understand the connection between your disconnect from him and your affair? Are you two taking steps to deal with the disconnect? This dh thinks it would be wise for the two of you to explore how to be more connected. My dw and I have had similar problems (no affairs, just a disconnect) and we ended up scheduling a few quiet emotional talks each week. It helps with her sense of connection with me and that makes her happy. I end up feeling connected to her because she's more loving towards me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.26.08, 11:04 PM Flag
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