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[ - ] Dippy fashion post. So, would you carry a very nice high-end designer bag... from several seasons ago? I see some beautiful, high-quality used bags on Ebay and I'm wondering if I'll look like a fashion maverick or just a loser. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:10 PM Flag
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Loser. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:11 PM Flag
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Yeah, but what if it's cool vintage? Like early Tom Ford/Gucci? That stuff is timeless. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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No really a fashion person myself - but I think if you have to ask them you probably can't carry it off and you will look like a loser. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:17 PM Flag
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I think it sounds like a nice idea. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 10:02 PM Flag
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Oh lordy. If you like it carry it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 10:10 PM Flag
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just carry what you want. Those who would poke fun at someone for carrying a 3 yr old bag are insecure numbnuts. They aren't paying for it or carrying it. Why would you care what other think? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 04:19 AM Flag
[ - ] If you thought your DH had a mistress and knew who she was would you confront her? 51 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:54 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:55 PM Flag
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why a discussion with dh? Yes - I think I should talk to him too - but I also want to talk to the other woman [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:58 PM Flag
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you're kidding me right -- you have no relationship with the mistress -- your marriage may be in trouble -- talking to the woman will be an ugly useless confrontation that you'll regret initiating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:07 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:09 PM Flag
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Sorry to be impolite here, but you're fooling yourself. She's the symptom, not the problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:11 PM Flag
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A symptom that is further contributing to the problem [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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DH keeps showing up to sleep with her. She can't do it by herself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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But maybe if there was too much drama and it wasn't so easy she would back off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:15 PM Flag
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np: follow your gut. If you want to confront do it but you have to be prepared for nastiness from her or she may be shocked..who knows but it's not about her. It's about getting things off your chest. I know ppl don't agree with me but I disagree when ppl say the mistress isn't at fault but only the dh. They both are [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:52 AM Flag
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but that won't help in the long run. he will just try to someone or something else. The problem you need to fix is with him, not her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:01 AM Flag
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no.no.no. If she's knows he's married, she LOVES drama. Do Not Feed The Beast! Also, the last thing you need is a complaint or restraining order against YOU. I know of this happening more than once. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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np: how do you know that she isn't pushing herself on him? I know it takes 2 but he's wrong and so is she. If this lady wants to confront...I SAY DO IT [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:51 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:50 AM Flag
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np. wow, good for you. What an awful situation for you to have walked in on!! did you need therapy? I would've... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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Figure out a way to get them together (or catch them together) and confront them both at the same time. If he has to make a choice in front of her, that will likely be you -- just for that momemt -- and it will make her mad at him. Afterward, he'll probably go back to her and apologize, but you'll get some initial satisfaction at least. Been there, done that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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How would his lying in her face-again- give her momentary satisfaction???? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:09 AM Flag
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Oh no you don't; you don't need to, either. If your suspicions are correct this would only lead to an endless spiral of 3rd degree torture sessions w/yourself and (your hopefully soon to be EX) jerk. No way do you need to drag it out, if this is what's happening. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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Why on earth would you want to talk to HER? I'd sit HIS ass down and read him a little riot act. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:08 PM Flag
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He's non confrontational so when I go bolistic he says nothing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:11 PM Flag
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No, that's called being passive-agressive. You need to make him some ultimatums and deal in his currency. Otherwise you'll get nowhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:11 PM Flag
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The problem with my ultimatums is that I haven't followed through on them and he knows it. Hate to have my dcs have no father present day to day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:13 PM Flag
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Time to follow through [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:51 PM Flag
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Is it better for them to have a father who is such a poor role model? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 10:36 PM Flag
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You need to get some counseling even if he won't because you will be so much better off when you learn to set limits with everyone. It sounds like you need to improve your self respect. Your kids won't benefit from a mom who lacks self respect. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 04:47 AM Flag
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Get some counselling for yourself or both together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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He won't go. I have an appointment for the 1st time next week - but this is eating away at me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:16 PM Flag
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Then just go yourself. It will help you sort out your priorities and possibly give you some language to use when talking to dh. You must keep your own sanity, so counseling for you alone is a good thing. Keep that appt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:18 PM Flag
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I'll go - don't know what else to do at this point. I just really hope it works in some way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:21 PM Flag
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I don't think you should confront her, but if you into seeking drama, I'd focus more on trying to catch them in the act. Then you'd have the revenge of seeing them squirm and scrabble. Hee, hee, hee. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:52 PM Flag
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this is about your husband, not her -- why would you have an affect on her if you arent' having one on your husband? get counselling and maybe see a lawyer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:19 AM Flag
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No, the issue is with DH. You cannot control his environment like that back off. He will stay or he will go but confronting mistress will be a sure way to keep him from coming home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:41 AM Flag
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you're damn right I would. Mind you I would confront dh too (first) but she wouldn't be left out of it. She had the balls to sleep with a married man, she needs to be prepared to deal with the wife. For all of the women who say she isn't at fault, I have to wonder if they themselves have been mistresses...because if a lady (or man) sleeps with a married person (that they know is married) they are wrong. 100% wrong and deserve to be confronted. They don't get a free pass [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:48 AM Flag
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Maybe they don't get a free pass but I think the OP is way off here. Her DH is non reactive to her confrontation so she is seeking another one. While it is always shi**y to sleep with a married man, the woman did not stand up and promise to be faithful to her, that was her husband who broke the vow. OP think that by confronting the mistress, it will make the affair end since she can't get her DH to end it apparently. That you would want to stay in that marriage is beyond sad to me.GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 04:24 AM Flag
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This response is the best one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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Heads Up! We have a stright guy with sense on this thread.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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*whoops; I meant straight, as in hetero. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 01:07 PM Flag
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The mistress is not the person who is bound to loyalty in a relationship with the wife, the DH is. The mistress is taking a turn at the wheel of fortune nothing more. It has nothing to do with her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 04:53 AM Flag
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taking a turn at the wheel of fortune? and NOTHING more? WTF? sounds like a former mistress speaking.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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no. your beef is not with her. it is with your dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:22 AM Flag
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When I was in my 20's and first went away to grad school, I got involved with a guy (we both had long distance relationships). His gf called me to confront me and while it freaked me out - I LAUGHED. I thought it was pathetic and gave me a great story to tell me friends. Only confront her if you are willing to be the butt of her jokes. She is not your problem - dh is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:23 AM Flag
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For what purpose? I don't get this at all. Deal with your dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:25 AM Flag
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If you are 'correct' then by no means initiate involvement w/ the 3rd party. There will likely already be a sense of involvement in your life-via the connection of 'partnering in crime' w/your selfish bitch of a husband. Do not foster any sense of further involvement or establish any path of discourse w/ this person under ANY circumstances. Assess the situation as best as you can for yourself and w/ your bitch husband; get a therapist(or speak w/yours) and retain counsel. It will empower others, disempower you and convolute the true situation, to cave in to a primordial urge for misplaced vengeance, which is what confronting the 3rd party amounts to. Do not create extenuating drama; it will distract from the true drama which- I'm so sorry-already exists. Most jerks(men &women) will try to align themselves w/their spouse when confronted; tht's when you can let fly. Best of Luck-I hope you're rid of him soon! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:39 AM Flag
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ITA - great advice here [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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sorry to hear about. This does suck and she does suck-BUT he sucks the hardest! So like I've already said, keep your distance from that person. If he tries to scurry back into the fold, she will likely, actively pursue him and attempt to further disrupt his life. Let her play herself out-her actions may warrant some action on your part-i.e. restraining order, kicking him out-whatever- but don't forget that he is not your friend and don't offer him any alliance to shut her out. He has HIS mess-You have Yours; remain focused on cleaning up your own act. If you have kids, start with having him get out of the home; there's bound to be damage control you need to deal with-he's too busy to be of any real use and if you can stay strong for yourself, get through the heartbreak and keep on, you WILL have renewed love, loyalty and faith-IN Yourself. Best of Luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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yourself, you will come out of this with renewed love for, loyalty to and faith in YOURSELF. It's a good time to keep faith that the truth will set you free. I hope you repost over time; this is tough. I know we're anonymous but there will be support for you here. Best of Luck. He sounds like a prick; whether he's screwing around with someone else or not, he IS screwing around with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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I hope he has way more $$$ than ethics or good sense. Vindictive yes and practical, too! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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confronting her may motivate your husband to stay away from her for a little while but before long he will be sniffing around her door again and you'll feel even worse. Your husband is a selfish jerk (passive agressive, won't go to therapy, still cheating on you). Go talk to a lawyer. Take all his money and have the last laugh. He sucks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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By the way what evidence do you have? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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Are you 100% sure he is having an affair? And 100% sure it is her? Would be horrible to be wrong about the infidelity or confront the wrong person! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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Send her an anonymous note telling her that " [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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Send her anonymous note saying that "Everyone knows her dirty secret". Tell her that you found her dirty underwear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 12:56 PM Flag
[ - ] just got home from the batman movie... amazing - must see... 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:47 PM Flag
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My dh can not wait to see this movie. We have a date this coming weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:53 PM Flag
[ - ] best place to raise a family and have a fulfilling and healthy life? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:39 PM Flag
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That totally depends on what kinds of things interest you and where you and your family feel comfortable. THe answer is different for everyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:54 PM Flag
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Well, not KJ according to NY mag. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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In the place that makes you happy. Seriously, this is such a personal question. I live in the south Bronx, work in CT, have a nice life and a happy family. I don't think everyone else would necessaraily have a happy fulfilling life in the South Bronx, but this is what works for us. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:09 PM Flag
[ - ] WWYD? Home alone with 2 DDs and smoke alarms, which are wired rather than battery-operating, have shrieked 2x for about 10 seconds each time. I have looked everywhere...no sign of smoke or fire, and no more shrieking. Debating about whether I can go to bed or need to call someone to help!! If there was a problem, wouldn't they keep shrieking? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:30 PM Flag
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I had this last month...there is dirt or dust trapped inside one or both of the units. Did you recently have a false alarm like from cooking or a lit candle? With ours, I burnt toast and set the alarm off and some dust particles from the smoke stayed inside the plastic cover. Climb up there, screw the cover off and blow on it. Then put the cover back on and see if it's fixed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:49 PM Flag
[ - ] what is CPGS? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:07 PM Flag
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CGPS? Columbia Grammar and Prep School [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Argh. So many parents are holding back their ds so they will be the biggest and smartest. My ds with an April birthday will be one of the youngest boys in his class with kids almost a year older then he is. Even with his peers he is physically not as strong or fast. He will be the slowest boy...:-( 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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^BTW, live in suburbs and in public school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:02 PM Flag
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I don't think you have to worry with an April birthday. My ds has a mid-November b-day in NYC public. He's among the youngest and it was fine. Your April b-day kid is nearly a year older than him, and lots of kids in privates who are older are a year behind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:03 PM Flag
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^^^what I mean is that someone always is going to be the youngest, and being the youngest with an April birthday, when there will definitely be kids younger than him in the grade, isn't that big of a deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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OP- So he didn't turn 5 until he was 3 months into K? I think it really only matters in relation to the kids in his class & sports teams, not to other states, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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Right, but I'm saying that April is not going to make him the youngest -- there will definitely be boys in May and June at least, since not every parent of a summer birthday boy is going to hold them back. My ds is far more likely to be among the youngest in his grade, and it's not that big a deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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NP - I live in nyc and we don't really have sports teams in public schools like they do in suburbs. And who says you will always live in NYC? So the fact that the cutoff is completely out of whack with the vast majority of the country may very well factor in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:27 AM Flag
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they don't allow this with G&T do they? if so, i would think everyone would be getting their older dc's into the programs at the expense of the younger dc's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:34 AM Flag
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No, for the g&t programs in nyc you MUST adhere to the birthday cutoff dates, no exceptions. Well, I know of one with Hunter, but hunter is not a DOE g&T. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:36 AM Flag
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I held my dc back. I didn't do it so he would be the biggest (he's not by a long shot) or the smartest. I did it because at four years old he was simply not ready for a 7 hour academic day five days a week. If other four year old boys are, that's great. But mine was not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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People are doing that with girls too, not as much, but they are. My May dc will be one of the youngest in her class, but that is life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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I think as the schools turn K into first grade, the parents respond by holding children back. I'm not sure I agree with the reasons you beleive it is happening so frequently. Society is pushing our children too hard, too fast [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:34 AM Flag
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Sorry, but someone has to be the youngest. I always was. But it really isn't going to matter in the long run. Keep your eye on the long term goal. Parents that hold back to be biggest and smartest aren't going to win in the long run. And that attitude will do more damage. So short sighted, if that's really why they are holding back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:44 AM Flag
[ - ] cannot wait for dc to start K! just soooo thrilled. anyone else have a good outcome they would like to be excited about here? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.14.08, 07:55 PM Flag
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i can't wait for my dc to start school too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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Me. I am poster below who is so bummed that I have to keep a low profile because people are jealous/bitter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:51 PM Flag
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this is a life lesson for you -- everyone is jealous of everything they want but can't have -- be cool -- play things down -- ps you may not even like this first choice school -- I have a dc who had to change schools [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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i'm really not jealous your dc is going to nest. honest. you couldn't pay me to send dc there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 05:03 AM Flag
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is it possible for you to believe that some people would be genuinely happy for you? Or even not care? I think your assumptions are so weird that everyone is so invested in your good fortune. The more cool you are about it, the less everyone will care. By being unnaturally secretive about it, people will register that as gloating as much as they would register actual gloating. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:02 AM Flag
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I just can't imagine being excited about the 'good outcome' part...it's KINDERGARDEN! It's not like your 5 yo got into Harvard [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 09:01 PM Flag
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Not OP but sometimes it felt like getting into Harvard would be easier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 05:05 AM Flag
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I am excited and thrilled. We did get a good outcome and it was not easy. Took a lot of work and luck and we ended up at a place we never even considered initially. Feel great knowing dc will be in a great setting in September. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 05:35 AM Flag
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you must have been a cheerleader in high school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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no, quite the opposite. just glad that we got a good placement and dc does not have to to our crap zoned school. it is not easy in this environment when you are not rich, not connected and not lucky in the lottery. not too much is left and we nabbed a good spot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 09:14 AM Flag
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Itss Kindergarten - 5th grade, or for some K - 8, or K-12 (if it works out for the dc.) Plenty to be excited about! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:19 AM Flag
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anyone who chooses a school for their 5 yo and is excited and thrilled because of the high school is a bit odd... it's 10+ years away. The school and/or your dc could change drastically in that time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:12 AM Flag
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Understood. But call me odd. I'm excited about the opportunities ahead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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In some ways Kindergarten is more important :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:22 AM Flag
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no, it is not [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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Harder to get into Dalton than Harvard! Rumor is 1500 applications for 90 spots (6%); Harvard acceptance rate was 7% [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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Yes--NYC admissions acceptance rate was equal to or worse than many top universities. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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I am cautiously optimistic that dc will finally be able to learn something new. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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We're excited but mostly because it is a big change in her life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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Yes! Hunter! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 08:13 AM Flag
[ - ] I recently traveled with the most brilliant mom ever. She shipped all clothing, baby gear, and toiletries to the hotel so it was waiting for her when she arrived. All the dc's outfits were organized in ziplok bags. I paid $200 to check bags and could barely carry them. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:48 PM Flag
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that is your own fault for taking so much. Just take a reasonable amount, get it laundered, and buy things at the destination [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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Two adults, 4 dc. It's not all going to fit in a carry-on! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:53 PM Flag
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assuming everyone gets a seat, everyone gets a case [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:11 PM Flag
[ - ] hello? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:45 PM Flag
[ - ] To the mothers who posted earlier that they cannot tell others where children are going to school for fear of negativity, what schools are we talking about? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.14.08, 07:45 PM Flag
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NEST for me. I tell if asked, but I feel awkward about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:49 PM Flag
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*eyeroll* [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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so did you just ask this question so that you could be a troll? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:14 PM Flag
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i'm np, actually. but i find it amusing that someone has to hide the fact their dc is going to nest. which really isn't all that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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Princeton. Other parents will try to tell me that we are wrong to skip elementary, middle, and high school. But I'm just so sure that ds will thrive at Princeton! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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Don't be ashamed, be proud!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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I hear they have great choice time there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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Oh, was dc not admitted to Harvard? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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anderson, anderson, anderson, anderson, anderson [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 08:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Poll: How soon after stopping bc did you get pg? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 07.14.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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first try w/both kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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2 mos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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first try... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 01:47 AM Flag
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1st try [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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still working on it in month 10 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 02:53 PM Flag
[ - ] Any current NEST moms on? Do they hit you up for lots of donations for school supplies and other stuff at the beginning of the year? Also, does the school provide snacks in K, or do parents have to send one in with dc? TIA! 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.14.08, 07:42 PM Flag
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snacks are sent in by you. we gave about $100 for the class fund which provided the stuff you mention, plus teachers' gifts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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Thanks! Do we just send in a daily snack for our dc, or is it a rotating think where parents get snacks for the whole class? (please say it's the former!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.14.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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O.M.F.G. GET A LIFE! Is this what you are going to obsess about the rest of the summer? Are you really having a stroke in JULY over the horrible possibility of having to pack dc a SNACK for your dc? Or is this your lame attempt at a VBA? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 05:07 AM Flag
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Not OP but chill. What is bothering you? Move on if it bothers you so much. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 05:09 AM Flag
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Whoa. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:22 AM Flag
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in my son's class last year it was the latter. Once a month or so, you provide snacks (and water) for the class. There are some guidlines. It was not a big deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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In the beginning of the year you give $100 for supplies, which includes everything for the whole year. All you have to purchase for your dc is a packpack. The PTA purchases school supplies in bulk so they negotiate with the vendors a price at a considerable discount. It also saves you the hassle of running around buying supplies. Not only does that money cover school supplies that your student uses personally but it covers things that the teacher may need along the way as the year progresses. As for snacks, each parent brings in snacks for the class once a month. The teacher makes up a calendar in the beginning of the month with everyone's day on it and sends it home with the children. As for teacher presents we all just contributed what ever amount we felt comfortable with at Christmas time and at the end of the year. There was no pressure to contribute any specific amount and it was confidential. I also suggest that any further questions be asked on the brooklynNesters@yahoogroups.com site or the Nestforum yahoo site. You will hit a larger audiance of Nest parents and avoid the hostility exhibited by some on this board when ever NEST is mentioned. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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Thanks for the very informative answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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