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[ - ] tell me to get a grip and not care that my 5yo pronounces the 'r' sound as a 'w'. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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ST that we saw last year when DS was 4 told me that they don't try to correct that until age 8, so you have a few year [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:08 AM Flag
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ok, thanks. i figured she's really young enough for me to ignore it. but it's irritating me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:15 AM Flag
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so does mine. it doesn't really bother me. reminds me of Drew Barrymore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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i think i'm in a bad mood and looking for things to be irritated about. although it does seem like it's worse than usual lately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Thoughts on the DNC decisions about Florida and Michigan? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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I don't understand giving ALL of the uncommitted votes in Michigan to Obama, considering that other people were in the race at that point. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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i'm an obama supporter and i agree with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:15 AM Flag
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the DNC is trying to steer the nomination away from HC in whatever way they can [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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true. Kucinich would have gotten some votes there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 11:31 AM Flag
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I thought--and I could be wrong--that Kucinich was on the ballot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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I think part of it was because the other major candidates who also pulled their names were Edwards and Richardson, who have since declared their support for Obama. Had they declared their support for clinton, I doubt all of the uncommitted would have gone to Obama. Also, I read somewhere that at least Obama and Edwards asked their supporters to vote uncommitted, so if that is true, "uncommitted" was sort of voting for Obama (and Edwards, possibly Richardson). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:46 PM Flag
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I just woke up, what did they do? Seat them all with only 1/2 vote each? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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i seem to have missed the whole thing. they awarded votes to obama? and what does it mean 1/2 vote each? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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Instead of one delegate one vote, it is each delegate gets half a vote. Half-votes already exist for overseas delegates, actually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:47 PM Flag
[ - ] A BIG THANK YOU! to all the moms who responded so kindly to my 'depressed' post. your kind words and support will get me through today and carry over into other days. I wish you all the best ... enjoy the sunshine! xoxo 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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You're awesome. And you're going to be okay. Hang in there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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are you the poster who hates her life sometimes? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:06 AM Flag
[ - ] What are the ERB subtests for applying to prekindergarten, please? Are they the same as when you apply to kindergarten? I know to apply to preK you have to be 3 1/2, and I think younger kids have to take different subtests. Pls. explain. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.01.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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it is the same subtests for 3 1/2 yos, which I don't understand, because I don't see how they norm their scores because I don't think 3 1/2 yos are supposed to take the same subtests [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 09:53 AM Flag
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Why do you care about this? My child took the ERB for preK a number of years ago and, as far as I know, the subtests were the same, but normed for the younger age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 10:02 AM Flag
[ - ] i have a bump under my skin in my armpit, maybe an ingrown hair? it hurts a lot and now I see a red area - but nothing on the surface. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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Yep. Exfoliate w/ a washcloth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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Apply Tend Skin. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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usually, if it hurts it isn't anything super dangerous. the lumps and bumps that have no pain are the ones to be concerned with. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 10:44 AM Flag
[ - ] some days i really just hate my life. yes i'm lucky - yes my life is 'not that bad' as dh says. but some days i just want to run away. 32 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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What bothers you specifically? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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dh - a baby that hates to sleep and screams all the time - uncooperative dd - just all ads up. mostly i hate hate hate hearing ds cry but he will not go to sleep without screaming his head off. it's discouraging as a mother - i feel like a failure [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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How old is he? How old is DD? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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ds is 10 mos and dd is 2 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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I'm actually Life Coach mom. You sound like you might be dealing with some form of PPD, and I'd get that checked out first and foremost. The bad news is that 2 year olds ARE by nature uncooperative (they're testing boundaries and learning independence), so if you can take the Zen approach and constantly remind yourself that she's doing exactly what she's supposed to do, it might make things easier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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The good news is that this, too, shall pass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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i was on anti depressants after ds - went off them about 3 months ago. i wanted to feel like myself again. i hated the way they stifled every emotion. dd is a delight most of the time. i'm just very tired today. it's ds that really hits every nerve. And even that is only about sleeping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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It's good you have perspective. I don't mean going on antidepressants necessarily (although if all your emotions were stifled it sounds to me like you had either the wrong medicine or the wrong dosage). CIO actually does work. Have you ever read the Supernanny book? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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i haven't - you recommend it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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Yep. Look, we all feel like our so-called maternal instincts are going to help us go the distance. But it just isn't true. Back in the old days there were aunts/grandmothers/mothers/sisters living nearby (or under the same roof!) who could pitch in or at least give advice. Lacking that, it's perfectly fine (necessary!) to seek advice from professionals! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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okay - i'll check it out! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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oh and let's not forget that we are a family of 4 living on LI making way under 100k and everything is a struggle. i never finished college - the degree i have is useless to me - and i hate feeling powerless and dependent on dh. i always wanted to be a sahm - was a nanny for years - and i still find it stressful most of the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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that's really tough. can you get out for a couple of hours today? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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probably not. dh and i are fighting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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all the more reason to put some space between you. i think you should see a doctor - you seem depressed. good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:37 AM Flag
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np: you sound like you are overwhelmed - remember db's crying is NOT about you - what have you tried? How old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:33 AM Flag
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i've tried cio twice - this is my 3rd time trying. i tried last at 8 mos and he cried for 2 hrs one night and found out the next day he had a fever. i felt AWFUL. I'm trying to wean him and he will not go to sleep without nursing. i've been pg or bf for 3 yrs and i want my body back! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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don't take this the wrong way, but are you doing it correctly (by the book)? They sometimes DO cry for 2 hours, but it will usually work if you are persisent (the fever was no doubt a coincidence). I stress this b/c I had a VERY difficult db; did cio at 5.5 months, and she transformed into a MUCH easier db. I was so much more relaxed after that. I was literally nuts about her lack of sleep. The weaning thing will follow the sleeping, too, I would think. It's hard to do both at once. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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How do I know if I'm doing it right? I'm taking the next 2 weeks to really commit to it. Not leaving the house - putting him down 2x a day and he can either cry for an hour or sleep. he's already doing better at night. 2 nights in a row he slept past 5 which is amazing for him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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Are you using Ferber or Weissbluth? Just follow the guidelines strictly and don't change anything in how you respond (don't go pick up even if you get sick of the crying). B/c you're so overwhelmed tell yourself you are committing to doing it one day at a time. Yes, stay home and focus on it for the next two weeks, but maybe do everything you can to get someone else to come in and help. Will your DH agree to doing bedtime so you can go out for a coffee or drink alone? Some take to it more slowly than others. GL to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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You poor baby. That's so stressful. You may have to make an ultimatum and just carve out time for yourself. My dh and I fought almost constantly for the first 2.5 years of our son's life. Add to that the arrival of another baby and I don't know what would've happened. Having children can be astonishingly stressful on a relationship. It brings all the crap to the forefront. Also, your fluctuating hormones make it hard to "be yourself". He's also feeling stress from being a new parent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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exactly - you hit the nail on the head. THANK YOU! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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You sound like me (LC mom). I'll tell you something, therapy and the CORRECT dosage of meds made enough difference that I could feel normal again--not numb, not "joyous", just me-- and being brave enough to talk about the hard stuff with DH, made a difference. We're not "there" yet, but we're on our way. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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i wish i could do therapy but our insurance doesn't cover it and we can't afford it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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There is ALWAYS a low or no-cost option. You can do pastoral counseling (many clergy of all religions are specifically trained in this, and it doesn't necessarily have a religious bent). Most docs offer a sliding scale, and many municipal mental health facilities offer low-cost therapy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:46 AM Flag
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really? i didn't know. i'm going to look into it. i've been in therapy before and it definitely helps for me to 'purge'. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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well said, and ITA (posted above but didn't address this) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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I am somewhat in your shoes, with a travelling dh, too, and feel the same way on many days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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OP - I feel for you. I don't know what I would do if DH traveled. However I almost wonder if it would be better for our relationship! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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It's not better. In fact, he's on his way home right now from a 4 day trip (pilot), and the house is a wreck, dishes piled up, laundry to do. But, db was up all night last night and the night before, and I'm exhausted and don't want to do chores. DH will have a fit when he gets home, but I can't bring myself to care.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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oh honey - i'm so sorry. i shouldn't have said it would be better. you are right - can you get some help? family? a sitter? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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Family, no - they are judgy and make me feel worse about myself. I'm looking into a mother's helper this summer to take the edge off - hopefully that will help. Is it wrong that my 2yo has been watching Disney since 9am? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:55 AM Flag
[ - ] where can dd get wet outdoors today in nyc? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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East River, Gowanus Canal, Coney Island, you know... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:28 AM Flag
[ - ] DB is 15 months, I'd like her to start preschool in September 2009 if possible. What do I have to start doing now? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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look at victoria goldman book to figure out which schools you want/are near you, then go from there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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Toilet training. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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not all require toilet training. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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I was teasing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Just went off the pill. What are the chances I'm already pg? Feel tired, boobs sore etc. I can't believe it could be this fast. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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define "just" - you need to have had an ovulation cycle [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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OP: It's been 3 weeks since I went off. Maybe it's in my head. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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then I doubt it - but it would depend on where you were in your cycle [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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yes. happened to a g/f of ours [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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the chances depend on whether you had sex during ovulation, not that you just went off the pill ;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:36 AM Flag
[ - ] when do nyc playgrounds turn on the sprinklers? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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depends on the park, but usually by mid-June [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:20 AM Flag
[ - ] the home we're interested in doesn't have a certificate of occupancy. what does this mean? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.01.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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may be hard to get financing. if you are selling your current place and making a profit, may have to pay capital gains since not moving to a legal residence. if thesea ren't factors, fine. talk to a lawyer. also find out what plans are for getting a c of o. is this an apt or home? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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it's a two-family home. the seller wants it purchased "as-is". i'm not comfortable with that but we like this house a lot. are we allowed to get an inspection done before going into contract?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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of course you can get an inspection. but as someone who has bought without a c of o, i would seriously caution you against this. total pita to obtain-no wonder they are selling as is. you will likely have trouble getting financing-we had amazing credit, hugh downpayment (only had to borrow 30%) good jobs and had trouble because of c of o. it also hurts resale value-don't fall in love with house. our lawyer was doug panero of rabin and panero in white plains, and he was great, knwos his stuff here. make sure you get a really good lawyer, and seriously do not fall in love with house unless you are comfortable with other crap that goes along with getting c of o [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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thank you so much for the referral and your input. i really appreciate it. perhaps we can throw it out there - if they don't get the c of o, no deal and hope for the best... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:39 AM Flag
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NP: It's really hard not to fall in love with house (you really can!) but being practical will save you much pain in the long run. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:41 AM Flag
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OP: i hear ya and i totally appreciate the help here. There's a part of me that was saying, I want this house no matter what but after reading up on the C of O thing and the responses here, I realize this is going to be a PITA.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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You MUST get an inspection done by law. The "as is" and lack of certificate of occupancy make a red flag go up for me. I'd think very hard before doing this. At least make sure you have a great building inspector, one independently found. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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ok. yes, i am in the works of finding an inspector to take a look. at least if we know what the problems are - we can assess better...but c of o thing also bothers me - thank you for confirming my thoughts!! :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:40 AM Flag
[ - ] DD has a stubborn fever. It has been a long time. Can someone confirm for me the Motrin/Tylenol alternation again. I gave Motrin at 7:30. Fever is starting to return. I think I can now give Tylenol right? I think it is Motrin every six, Tylenol every 4. Anyone? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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Alternate every three hours. That is, noon give Motrin, 3 give Tylenol, 6 give Motrin, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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askdrsears.com medicince cabinet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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i don't know if you are still here. but you can give tylenol now. and then each one follows its own schedule. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:28 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD: I have a wedding tonight of a friend. He came to my engagement party, my wedding and my baby naming and never gave a gift. Would you still give a gift? If so, how much? 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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of course, but something cheap :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:12 AM Flag
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OP: The thing is I'd rather no gift than a cheap gift. I'd rather him not think I'm cheap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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np: buy a handmade something (vase, platter) so there's no way of knowing if it cost $50 or $250. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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Yes but I would not be particularly generous [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:12 AM Flag
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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OP: If you were writing a check, how much would either of you give? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:16 AM Flag
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$150 for a couple. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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What would a regular check be? I'm from the south and this is a very generous gift down here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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we would do 250 or 300 at least [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:02 AM Flag
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yes, but keep in mind that he may have given a gift, card fell off, etc. you don't give to get. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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I thought he forgot at the wedding, but it's the fact that it happened three times that makes me believe it's intentional. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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it wasn't intentional. he was a single guy. he just never got around to it and then forgot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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ugh, this is hard. The right thing to do is just give the proper gift, but my tendency would be to go cheaper! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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yes you give a give. two wrongs don't make a right, and gift giving is not a tit for tat game. Give the best you can afford [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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Yes - $100 gift range [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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I'd think him showing up is more important than being empty-handed. Some people really suck at gifts/manners. If he's a good friend, just forget it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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OP: Thanks for the responses. I think I am going to go off their registry with something medium ranged. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:53 AM Flag
[ - ] 2.7 YO Ds has a new bad habit of crying/whining. Started when 3 wk old sister came home from hospital. I know why he is doing it, but it drives me crazy. How to respond that is caring/understanding but also makes it stop? Any ideas? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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i tell my dd to use her big girl voice to ask for things. in terms of response to sibling, you could try offering him some "baby time" when you hold him in your arms and talk to him like a baby (not mocking). usually this is pretty satisfying and they want less than you fear. congrats, btw! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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Thanks...that's the first useful response I've gotten on the new site. I'll try it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:12 AM Flag
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no prob. gl! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:17 AM Flag
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hang in there, it takes a LONG time. You can say evenly "I can't understand you when you whine" and ignore until he uses a normal voice, but fwiw, I still have to do this w/ a 4 yo, so keep your expectations low. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:12 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm sure this has been discussed endlessly, but when you try to reply to a post, do you automatically get a new post box and have to scroll up to the post you intended to respond to? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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sometimes, but not usually. i have no idea what the diferrence is in terms of why it happens sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:07 AM Flag
[ - ] How young would you wax your dd's eyebrows? like just the unibrow part in between, not a major shaping or anything? Be serious, please. 29 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:04 AM Flag
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when she asked for it. but not before 6th grade. how old is dd? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:04 AM Flag
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too young for anything yet but starting to get the unibrow. Luckily her bangs cover it for now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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come on. fess up. how old is she that you are worrying about this already? i mean, have you *seen* lourdes (madonna's girl)? how old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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6yo. now I am going to get flamed! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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lol. yes, probably. don't make your issue her issue, you know? she's beautiful. get pictures of frida kalo (sp?). when she is bothered - IF she is ever bothered - she will let you know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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of course. I would never say anything and she is beautiful. I just get the urge to clean it up every time I look at it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:10 AM Flag
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i hear you. i would likely feel the same. but contain that urge, woman. you don't want her to develop a complex. life's hard enough ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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true, true. I'll resist a while longer! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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ita, and Kahlo :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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or - thanks. knew i got it wrong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:12 AM Flag
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you're welcome - she's a favorite painter of mine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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see how it goes over the next year or so. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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Has she mentioned it to you? If not, no reason to make her self conscious about something that she isn't already self conscious about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:10 AM Flag
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no. I would never say anything! I doubt anyone else has either. it's not noticeable under her bangs anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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np: my dd is 2 yo and will have a major MAJOR unibrow. I'll wait until she asks for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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ita. I would probably say 13 yo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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if it's an intense uni, I'd probably give it a wax around 8...before she gets teased about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:05 AM Flag
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middle school - maybe 7th grade? Would probably let her get it waxed once and then show her how to tweeze to keep it groomed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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i would do it before then. i had upper lip hair and wish my mom had nipped that in the bud for me as soon as it showed up, which was like 5th grade? a wax doesn't hurt much and just because dd isn't talking about it doesn't mean she's not embarrassed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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based on these responses and how I was when I was little I would want to know if the child was into grooming, make up hair etc. If so make it soemthing you both do and teach her how to do it herself (tweezing in between). I was into makeup early and as long as it was approached right it would have been fine. I think 6th grade is too late. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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I would get rid of a unibrow ASAP when she got it. I had one and I was so so miserable. Never thought to even get rid of it when I was young [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:23 AM Flag
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i don't know but good friend has a 2 yo with a mean unibrow. i'd consider waxing it, but the little girl is blond with a dark obvious unibrow. it looks bad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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response above. I know dd is getting one already -she is a mini me. I will do it young. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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Honestly, I would just wax it and not even talk about it/mention it, just make it a natural part of her grooming, like washing her hair. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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ditto [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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only when she mentions she has an issue with it. then only tweeze until she's at least in junior high. unless she decides on her own that she really wants it waxed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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ugh - my 18 mo is starting to get one... that said, she is really beautiful and it suits her somehow... i had a mustache and shockingly no unibrow - was teased a lot. Mom showed me waxing around 5th grade... seems so young to me now... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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Never, that is her decision when she is older. FWIW, I have unibrow and plucking works just fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 09:23 AM Flag
[ - ] almost 6mo is a good sleeper in terms of going down for the night/naps, but lately has been waking at 4 am and won't go back down no matter what - I've tried bottles, rocking, leaving her be, etc. What to do? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:03 AM Flag
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Please someone help me!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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if she doesn [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:18 AM Flag
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sorry, if you're sure she doesn't need to eat (hunger), than CIO may be your only option. It sounds that way. You can do the Ferber checks or just let her cry herself back to sleep. It might take a few nights, but will probably work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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I may get flamed for suggesting this, but you might keep db up later. Also, 6 months is prime time for CIO. Think about it: If the baby wakes at 4 am for no other reason, she may not be tired anymore, or she may simply know that you'll get up and come in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:34 AM Flag
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she goes to bed at 7:30 and it's a struggle to keep her up that long. If we go anywhere in the car after 6:30, she's out cold in the carseat. I guess I have to cio - but she's so good at going down at night, do I have to cio for the whole thing, or can I keep rocking her down at night and cio the night wakings? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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How often does she nap? She may not be getting enough sleep during the day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:50 AM Flag
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3 naps - two shorter ones (45 mins or so) and one long (1.5-2 hours) usually the long one is at 9am and two shorter ones throughout the day. Bedtime 7:30. Awake from 4-5 am (or longer) then down until about 6 or 7. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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hmm, I would try putting down a bit earlier - maybe try 7 pm, and cio for the one waking. My 8 mo dd still goes down at 6:30 pm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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will try that tonight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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you can pick and choose what wakings you want to do cio for; you can skip it for bedtime and only do the nighttime - your choice - it will still work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.01.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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