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Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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[ - ] i just realized that the wiggles' song "can you point your fingers and do the twist" is actually "hold on to your dreams" . 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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that ads some interest to the wiggles i guess. i hate them [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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np; they don't sing for you but for the kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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really? i don't mind them. i don't love them, but i really don't mind them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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I don't either. and Dd dances around like a maniac, which cracks me up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:07 AM Flag
[ - ] i'm a mess today. weepy. sad. depressed. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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sorry to hear. anything prompt it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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oh sad. i can tell from your cadence even. what's going on? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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thanks for asking. i think i'm hormonal. i just got my first period after a late miscarriage so i'm having mixed feelings. glad i got my period so we can start moving on, so sad that i'm not pregnant anymore. combined with dcs ending their school year which is makign me very nostalgic. my good friend is in the hospital although things are lookign better. just everything is making me sad. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:54 AM Flag
[ - ] parochial school mom here. is it just the posters on UB or is everyone in the public school system trying to get into G&T? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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most want it. there was a really interesting article yesterday though about how many kids just test right out of it,http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/19/nyregion/19gifted.html?hp [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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and as a result isn't as diverse as hoped [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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thanks, i'll read it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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it does seem like that. i think it's b/c even being zoned for a school doesn't guarantee spots for pre-k. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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pre-K and G&T are two different things. there is a supply/demand issue with public pre-K, there simply aren't enough seats for all the DCs whose families want them. G&T starts at Kindergarten and it's more about getting DCs into better schools than the ones they are zoned to attend. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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Some people want G&T because they really (legitmately or not) believe their child is special. Others want it because they think (legitimately or not) their zone school isn't so good. I don't think so much of the G&T program. My DD qualified a couple years ago, and I chose a good zone school over it. But it would have been better than a crummy zone school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:38 AM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know what the situation is with G&T admissions after K - are there spots available in the later years, or is it far fewer. Wondering if we opt out how easy/hard it is to opt back in after K. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 06.19.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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Probably very hard for citywides. Regarding your district programs, it really depends what district you're in and how popular the programs are. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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my dd got into nest for 1st grade. I think the DOE will test 1st graders next year but then that's it until middle school [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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I think after that it is up to the school/teacher to recommend a g&t placement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 10:01 AM Flag
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It's almost impossible to opt back in after first grade. They generally do not create new seats in a G&T class, they simply fill seats that open up when a DC leaves the program, so if no one moves or changes schools in a given year, there are no open seats to fill. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:33 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone deliver at Mt. Sinai? Trying to choose between there and SLR... 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 06.19.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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Go with SLR. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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Why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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Staff is very good. It's a low key kind of place. I had a good experience there. Have heard that Mt Sinai is more traditional/conservative. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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I delivered at SLR twice, a csection and a vbac, positive both times. agree on the low key vibe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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I only know one person that delivered at Mt. Sinai and she had a horrible experience. That said, she's a big-time complainer in general. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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Have you taken tours of both? that might help. FWIW, I delivered at the SLR birthing center and loved it--but no experience with the general l&d floor. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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I delivered at Mt. Sinai - it's pretty cramped, dingy and in general not nice. That said - the medical care itself is among the best in the city and if your friend is high risk in any way it's a good choice. There's also a new(ish) floor that is supposed to be nicer but I didn't get on it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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SLR has a lower C-section rate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 08.02.08, 08:53 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone applied for financial aid at your dc's private school? did it bother you to have your financial information known to them? i'd like to get financial aid but it's awkward for me b/c i know the office staff socially. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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we get aid but I don't care if they know my financial information. Not all of the staff knows and if they do, they do. We aren't doing anything wrong. We are hard working ppl but unfort. don't make enough to afford full tuition [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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ita - I would go ahead and apply [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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op: i'm definitely going to apply b/c if we can get it it's just ridiculous not to ask. but i'm not so comfortable having them know all my information. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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or: this is exactly how my dad felt and why he never tried to get me or my sibs into better schools. When I had dc and told him that I would be applying for aid, he said aren't you embarrassed? I said of what? I will be paying for tuition but just a reduced rate. I have nothing to be embarrassed about and this will be 100% better than our failing public option [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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op: i agree with you. i don't have a problem asking for the tuition reduction. (although i do wonder where to draw the line between asking for a reduction vs. saving money. but that's a separate issue). my bigger issue is that they ask for detailed financial information...salary, savings, expenses, etc. It's not information that i'd feel comfortable giving to anyone. I realize they will use discretion, but i just don't feel that comfortable with it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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it can be hard to realize this info is out there for ppl to know but in the long run (IMO)it's worth it and I appreciate how much info they ask for. This really separates the ppl who need it and those who are trying to scam aid and don't need it. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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thanks. off to fill out the form :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 07:06 AM Flag
[ - ] when did you start showing with #2? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:40 AM Flag
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I'm 8 weeks now and my stomach is looking awful, some of my pants are tight. I've gained 2 pounds! It sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:43 AM Flag
[ - ] i had the oddest dream. obama was talking and apparenty he worked at tri-state hyundai dealers and he was giving a speech and saying why you should vote for him and then he concluded by saying "and if you have any questions, call me at tri-state hyundai. i'll be glad to answer your questions personally". 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:37 AM Flag
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that's great. maybe you were watching tv before bed. but it's sort of comedy funny, like it might actually be an amusing campaign ad. though not really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:47 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone know free activites for toddlers in midtown, other than park/zoo and borders free class? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:31 AM Flag
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Madison Square Park concerts on Tues/Thurs, plus the playground there has activities for kids daily. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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a lot of libraries have story times. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:47 AM Flag
[ - ] Does this site move at all ? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:32 AM Flag
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only if you jiggle your monitor [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:35 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:36 AM Flag
[ - ] Ran out of skim milk for my cereal this morning so used dd's whole milk. Its a whole new experience!! (no pun intended) But I must go back tomorrow, the yummy fat will add up. :o) 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:28 AM Flag
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i only use whole milk but i actually prefer skim in my cereal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:38 AM Flag
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It was just so rich and thick. I have been using whole in my coffee since dd started on milk, but the cereal was so different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:40 AM Flag
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yeah. it's a really different taste. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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This is why I split the difference. I get organic valley 1%...for some reason it is super creamy tasting but less fat. Life is too short for skim milk. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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i love that. try cream sometime. that's living [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:47 AM Flag
[ - ] When TTC, on what day did you start having intercourse ? Did you have a boy or girl ? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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just have some sex will ya [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:27 AM Flag
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who do you have ? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:28 AM Flag
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started having sex four days b4 expected ovulation then again two days later (1 day b4 ov) and had a girl. I think I got pg the first time. It does sound a bit too planned when looking back, but when you want it to happen, (and hopefully quick) you plan! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:31 AM Flag
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Lots all the time 2ds. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:32 AM Flag
[ - ] happy in marraige ? percetage you are. im 10 percent 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:24 AM Flag
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i see you're on both sites [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:25 AM Flag
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it takes one to kow one :-) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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90% of the time I'm happy, 10% I'm not. Good % overall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:26 AM Flag
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happy or satisfied? i'm 100% satisfied. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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90% happy -- and the 10% unhappy is about nitpicky things (for the most part!). DH and I are well-suited for each other (interests, experiences, priorities, etc.). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:33 AM Flag
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100% happy even when times are tough. I'd rather have tough times with dh than ever be without him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:35 AM Flag
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90% 10% sometimes turns to 70/30. so you at 10%, what's going on. is it fixable issues? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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100%. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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when we ARE happy? we're very very happy. But when we're unhappy it's horrid. I'd say we're unhappy 65% of the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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50% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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10% would suck, are you looking to get out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.19.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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