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[ - ] Ipod theft mom here (for the backstory, search "Ipod"). Had the two mothers and one of the perpetrators down to my apt. for a little chat. One kid flatly denied it, then contradicted herself. It was very uncomfortable. The other kid is being "spoken to" (read: ripped a new one) by her mother tonight. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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yikes I guess I need to be more careful when guest are over [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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Or choose your guests more carefully. Sigh. We had those kids over ALL the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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I am sad about the aprents, kids will sometimes be kids but the parents need to discipline not encourage this behavior (read original post) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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One of the mothers (the mother of the kid who contradicted herself) seemed like she was trying to say her daughter would NEVER do such a thing (never mind that the IPod was at her house charging). I'm going to let the mothers hash this out between themselves on this one, get the stories straight. All I needed to know was that the second kid had the IPod in her possession, which has been confirmed. I hope she doesn't throw it away out of fear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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Didn't you have the serial numbers to compare? So the Ipod that one of the kids has is confirmed to be yours? Oh that is so sad... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:34 PM Flag
[ - ] what are the *essentials* that i'll need at the hospital when i go to deliver db? (NYU medical center in case it makes a difference.) tia. 52 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.18.08, 06:15 PM Flag
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bring your own pillow, shower shoes (although they might not let you wear them) pj's you can walk around in, maybe a robe, toiletries, your own towel, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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Bo NOT bring your own towel..that's what the hospital charges your insurance 5K a night for! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:20 PM Flag
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but the towels stink [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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Bring flip flops. With No 1 I fouhd my feet swelled up after birth, adn I couldnt fit my shoes or slippers on.. Didnt happen with No o2, but flipflops are a good bet. Otherwise, nothing. You need nothing, really. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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I actually had flip flop slippers... very comfy from the gap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:31 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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I took some luna bars and gatorade and was so glad that I had it. I gave birth at midnight and was so hungry by the time I got to my room at 2am and even more so when in the morning when breakfast was given. I'd add some lansinoh cream if you are planning on breast feeding. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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Bring tons of food. Lots of fruit, esp. Given how tender you are down below, you don't want to be constipated in any way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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agree with food and drink. those were the most important things. It was so good to have them when I wanted things to eat. That being said, it could even be essential. I went to l&d in the middle of the night and never got breakfast or lunch the next day, because I wasn't there to put in an order. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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I agree too with bring food and drink. The rest is nice, but hospital will give you stuff that's good enough if you really need something - the one thing you won't be able to get is food and drink (other than crap from vending machines) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:03 PM Flag
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A good pillow, stretchy shoes in case your feet swell more, book, ipod. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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velour pants, PJ's, big T-shirts, snacks (granola bars etc.)bottle water, tooth paste, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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from op: thanks for the replies. what did you wear home from the hospital? that's where i'm getting stuck, trying to pack this bag. how many pairs of underwear etc. did you bring to the hospital. is one set of pajamas ((or nightgown?) enough? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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I thought that I would fit into my regular clothes no problem, boy was I shocked!!! I wore maternity jeans and a black top but changed into sweats as soon as I got home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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I wore maternity jeans for 12 weeks after because I'd had a c-section and my belly was too tender for normal pants. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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I wore yoga pants home. wore them on the way in, so I was fairly certain theyd fit [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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np: but if your water breaks before you go to hospital and you're leaking, you might want somehting fresh to change into. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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jeans are the worst thing to wear home - so stiff and uncomfortable (i had a vag birth). bring sweats, a big t-shirt and some kind of loose-fitting shoe to wear home, and don't forget something to tie up your hair if it's long. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:44 PM Flag
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I wore the same thing home I wore in. I did not wear underwear in the hospital (but left after 24 hours) and wore their gowns. You bleed and didn't want to deal with that on my own clothes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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Agreed (about not wanting to bleed on my own clothes!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 03:06 PM Flag
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I wore the hospital disposables(underwear). Stick in a nice pair to go home. I wore a skirt and tank top home. (August). Dd was in a onesie. I would take two pairs of stretchy comfy pants and some simple tops (2). (To be blunt, you have some bleeding after birth and want to have some extra just in case. Stick with the hospital underwear for that reason too..) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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np: I think disposble underwear is awsome! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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Don't even bother with the "nice" ones. You'll be blobbing all over for weeks. Grandma panties and huge maxis and/or Depends are the way to fly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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I guess to me, in that mind set, grandma panties are nice. Something cotton... But come again, I probably wore the disposables home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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I also used the hospital disposable underwear and they were great but ran out pretty fast. Since my DH is on the thin side, I also borrowed some of his old boxer shorts (I think they're Hanes/jockey). They are made of the same material as tighty whiteys but have the long legs and are very comfortable. They were great for my C-section scar since the waist band was much higher than women's bikini underwear. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:27 PM Flag
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If you're having a c-section, bring raisins!! Hospital food is SO constipating and they won't let you go home until you can poop. Let me tell you, I was WAY more scared of that first poop than of the operation itself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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i gave birth at nyu..just to warn you, it's gross. def bring your own toiletries. you have communal showers in the hallway, so may also want robe or dh's old big shirt to walk halls in. phone charger, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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will they let you use your phone? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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yes, they do now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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glad to know this. thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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yes and if you share a room (i only got private room second nite) you are so lonely..especially if first kid cause you feel so alone and lost. you need that phone, even if to text or email with your dh or bff late at nite when you cant use room phone cause they turn it off and/or out of respect to your roommate.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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so good to know this. thanks! anything else to know about nyu? i'm due next week btw...does it ever get cold with the a/c in rooms? would i need anything like a cardigan or something? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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thanks. : ) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:48 PM Flag
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You are so funny..def some hormones cranking through you post aprtum!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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going home outfit for baby, shampoo, soap, toothbrush, toothpaste, flip flops or socks, phone charger, camera, lip balm (lips can get pretty dry in that environment), LOTS to read. Enjoy the quiet time to yourself coz that's the most you'll get for years to come. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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Bring Depends! (you'll want them when you get out too, assuming a vaginal birth), and granny panties. I would also bring first aid ice packs, paper towels, and my own surgical gloves (or condoms) to put ice in for a sore cooch. Also, I was induced (w/ cervidil, a cervical ripener, but kicked me into labor, so I didn't end up needing pitocin to start), and was *so* happy to have my walkman w/ calming cd's, my snoogle pillow, a few pictures (copied onto copy paper) w/ scotch tape to put up on the wall, and an aromatherapy spray -- I don't do this at home, but it was great to "own" the space and keep myself focussed within for the nighttime hours before my contractions kicked in. I also ended up laboring on an exercise ball provided by the hospital (I'd bring one if I thought I might use one at all), and can't imagine it any other way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:11 PM Flag
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Good god - you are only there for a few days! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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wow, some of these posters sound so high maintenance. pillow? aromatherapy? the nurse admitting the first time mom after me looked at her 3 matching luggage bags and asked "for your next child you'll have just one bag, right?" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:21 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:27 PM Flag
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ha, ha, if you met me, you'd know I'm *so* not high maintenance (lucky if I've had a shower in 3 days). diy, more like, I don't expect much, so if there's something *I* can do to make myself feel comfortable during a what is a very intense time in an unfamiliar place (where you are pretty much a number), it makes sense to me to do it. I'd bring all I mention above in a heartbeat for a second baby, and gatorade, probably not much else. Being able to focus inward, remain calm, and "claim the space" in preparation for what turned out to be a very fast, intense labor was a godsend. Really nothing "high maintenance" about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:11 PM Flag
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oh, yeah, the stuff for caring for the vajay is what I *wished* I'd had, so I guess I'd bring more the second time, not less. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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EARPLUGS! Sometimes with your extended family in the room, sleeping/resting can be difficult. I asked for them while in labor but by the time they showed up, baby was here! :-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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There are two essentials you MUST bring to the hospital: some cash and your insurance card. Everything else is optional. You won't need anything while in labor and during the birth. Let DH go home then and fetch you things you want once you are in recovery, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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The maxi pads they gave me after the birth were about 1.5" thick, so I was very glad I had brought my own pads - I used the Always Ultra Thins with Overnight Protection (or something like this). It was the highest level of protection but were very thin... a HUGE improvement from those hospital pads! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:35 AM Flag
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you need to bring your vagina, that is about it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:05 PM Flag
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VAGINA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 04:53 PM Flag
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chapstick [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 04:54 PM Flag
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Boppy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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Wouldn't call this an essential, but we brought along an iPod with small speakers and it was pretty calming for me during the labor and also gave me and DH something to listen to since I didn't feel like talking much. I wouldn't bother with slippers, you'll get socks from the hospital. Definitely bring your own pillow if you have problems sleeping on other pillows. Do you need to pre-register or bring along free parking passes? Remember to bring those too. I had my DH run home and get the Boppy, but it's not necessary immediately. Nursing bra, camera, car seat (or have DH get it later), ~two outfits for baby (the hospital should have diapers) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.22.08, 04:01 PM Flag
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Gave birth at Columbia twice. Just needed my spouse and my strength. Everything else was there. Birth is a flat fee. No charge per pad or pill nonsense as referenced above. A couple of hours after baby emerged spouse went out to get me a pastrami on rye. That was not available in the hospital at 2am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.23.08, 10:01 PM Flag
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Had my second dc at Columbia and HATED it. Awful nurses and terrible care. Had a c/s (great OB, thank God) and had to go without pain meds as nurses wouldn't respond to my calls. And after the surgery at midnight, I lay in recovery area for FIVE HOURS--because they couldn't find anyone to move me. Eventually, they made my dh help push me (and they were terribly rude about it). Wouldn't let my newborn out of nursery until "shift change", so I went 7 hours without seeing her after 45 minutes or so in recovery. Called the nursery sobbing hysterically, demanding my baby, but it didn't matter (after that, I didn't let her go until they insisted on taking her for PKU and ped check-up) Went entire shifts without seeing anyone. FILTHY private room. TV didn't work. Phone didn't work properly (could only receive calls after they finally fixed it). Dh was home with #1, so couldn't advocate for me. Would only recommend Columbia to my very worst enemy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.04.08, 03:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Be completely honest, what will you feel when your little girl tells you she wants to be a stay-at-home mom when she grows up. 54 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Preschool/Kids 07.18.08, 06:15 PM Flag
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Thrilled for her and my grandchildren, anxious that she has to put her life in the hands of a husband to support and care for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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i agree. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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yep , i agree. i am doing it now and while i love it , it is a little wierd/stressful because of that. i hate having to depend on someone financially [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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well said - ita. and i'd remind her that no matter how great her dh is, she should always have something to fall back on, that it is up to her to take care of herself and any dc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:49 PM Flag
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GREAT because I am a STAHM mom myself and my mom was and so forth, I think it's great for moms to be home, but I also respect working moms and w/ the economy lately I am considering working part-time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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no different than when she tells me she wants to be a daddy when she grows up - they are children. It means nothing (and neither does staying at home with young children or working btw.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:18 PM Flag
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I'd hope she had gone to college and could support herself on her own first. I think it is very unrealistic to think someone is always going to take care of you. That said, I think it's great that you did you did your job as a parent so well that she wants to be just like you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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Like who? I would be SO sad. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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sad? Why on earth? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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I was raised to take care of myself, and I want her to do the same. Divorce is over 50% so why would I want her to be financially dependent on a husband she may or may not find, and whom she more thanlikely will get a divorce from. Thats why. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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FYI - very few women can afford full-time daycare on their salaries. Its elitist to suggest that you can have children and work full time with 1-2-3 kids in day care and have enough left over to support a family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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I was also raised to take care of myself. I worked since I was 16. When I finally got married at 35, I made sure I found someone who was trustworthy and wanted the same things I did. I now SAH, even though its a stretch financially because it's what we want for our family. I can't imagine being sad about a situation like that. I want my DD to do whatever makes her happy and fullfilled. I would much rather she plan and wait and find the right person and do what she wants than have her slaving away at some stupid job just in case she gets a divorce someday. You are very pessimistic [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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Well, besides divorce, husbands die too, sorry to be pessimistic, but no one plans on getting divorced, no one thinks their husband is not trustworthy when they get married and have kids, and no one has a crystal ball. It seems very naive to think you are taken care of,but that's why a lot of women live below the poverty level when they get divorced or have a sudden death of their husband. hen have to have the GOV help them out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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I really dislike that attitude. I am not being "taken care of". We take care of each other. We have life insurance for sudden death. I worked before and I can (and will) do it again when dd is in school. I think it is really sad that a choice that your kid would make - a responsible one I mean, not like she is saying she wants to star in porn flicks! - would make you SO sad. I find that odd. Some of us don't have careers. Some of us want to stay home with our own children. What's the big deal? It makes some of us happy. I would not be upset if DD chose to work or SAH. I don't get why this bothers you so much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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ita. who cares if she works or stays at home. hopefully she's smart she'll do what she and her husband feel is best for their specific situation. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:58 PM Flag
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I posted above you, I never said it would make me sad, that was someone else, I just said I THOUGHT it was naive, that's all. Sad no, you make your own choices, I have to work, so I will, I would love to stay home for the baby years, it's just not my reality. No big deal, it seems like it bothers you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:01 PM Flag
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well someone in this thread said it would make her sad. I think it's silly. People plan for a career. Hopefully they also plan to SAH. I'm assuming we aren't talking about someone marrying at 18 the first guy who looks at them and popping out 4 or 5 kids. We are discussing SAH as an option that, IMHO is equally valid to working. I don't think it's naive. I think it's something you work towards and hopefully ar able to do. We are struggling right now because it's what we both wanted. That's not ideal but it's ok. We will be ok in a few years when I go back to work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:14 PM Flag
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Hopefully her husband will have an isurance policy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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I would never want to make life choices based on fear. Realistic review of the situation including risks and benefits, yes. Fear of the worst case scenario, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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I'd like to say "GREAT" but I would cringe, honestly, sorry. I would never want her to be in a situation where she is dependant on someone else's income. Now, if she is wealthy, for what ever reason on her own, then great, stay home and raise your child! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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honestly, if she is wealthy on her own (prob because of a thriving career) she would be able to afford a nanny and continue to work. most avrage income womens salary's cannot afford reliable day care so it makes sense to stay home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:02 PM Flag
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I didn't want to have kids myself and then have a nanny. To do my career and actually make any money it required being available 24/7. I was lucky I could choose to sah. Not everyone has the choice. I hope my dd's have choices too. Honestly it's impossible to do it all well - something has to give. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:32 PM Flag
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happy for her that it's possible, concerned that she plan for a time when she wants to focus less on children and more on herself- keeping her options open for going back to work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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I will tell her the same thing I told my SON when he said he wanted to move to California with his 3 best friends & he would stay home & take care of the babies - that I thought that was a wonderful idea & I was so proud of him! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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wow...that's understanding, so he lives in a commune with other peoples kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Well, if you consider his best friends a commune & he said the other kids jobs were Suba diver & Baseball player but he would be "the Dad". I think that is so wonderful that he thinks the most important part of being a father is caring for & nurturing his kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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Are they his kids or his friends? Im lost? Does he work? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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He is 8 yrs old! It is a fantasy! One friend thinks he will grow up to be an ace Baseball pitcher, one thinks he will earn a living as a Scuba diver, my son choose to the Dad who would take care of everybody. He assumes he will have a baby just like the baseball player assumes he will be on a major league team. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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oh, ok, I just assumed he was college age when he said he wanted to move to California with his friends [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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Oh, I was responding to the OP's question about a "little girl" so I assumed people would get I was talking about a little boy. Sorry! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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Hmm, but just to be clear if it was reality instead of fantasy I would still think it was a great idea (except I hope he wouldn't be in a 3 way relationship) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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sounds kooky to me, but to each his own! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:20 PM Flag
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You must be a Jewish mother. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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Total WASP here - why on earth would you think otherwise? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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we are talking about SAHM's what are you talking about, is he with a woman who has kids? Is he gay and adopting children? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:10 PM Flag
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I would think it was great and hope that she plans things out well enough that she will be able to do it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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I would tell her that she also has to get an education, develop marketable career skills, and be able to support herself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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and what if she doesn't do what you say? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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That's her choice. But I will make sure she knows that I don't have the means to support her and (possibly) grandchildren. And I will explain to her that many women find themselves living in poverty when their husbands disappear and don't pay child support. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:38 PM Flag
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I hope I would have raised her better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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ITA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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OMG! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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to ba a cube martyr [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:04 PM Flag
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sort of depends on how many kids are involved. also, i'd be wondering what else is on the list of aspirations cuz sahm status should only last a couple of years per child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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bite me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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"bite me" that's the best you can do, you've stayed home too long already...get a job. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:04 PM Flag
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why would you have kids if you wanted someone else to raise them for their entire life minus a couple years??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:10 PM Flag
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I would tell dd that it's very important that she be able to support herself economically, not ever be totally financially dependent on dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:43 PM Flag
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When I was little I wanted to be a ballet dancer. Ha ha ha. I trip while standing still and learned the positions from a book I checked out of the library. Would never would happen. Didn't concern my mother a bit: neither did my desires to be an archaeologist, poet, teacher, fire fighter, corporate lawyer, or stuffed animal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 10:33 PM Flag
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I am a STAHM at the age of 21. I am enrolled in school twice a week to become a pesonal trainer (yes, I am in good shape). But I think it's important to be there for your kids. Not saying that you can [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 11:26 PM Flag
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* stay at home all the time, but how do you save money? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 11:27 PM Flag
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What makes anyone confident that they would even be able to project into the future that far ahead with any accuracy? All I want is for my kids to be happy with their life decisions. It is a privilege to be able to afford to stay at home. But it can also take a toll on a career. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 07:43 AM Flag
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I think people like the one who started this post should shampoo my crotch. WOMH, SAHM, who fucking cares? How about having enough confidence in your own choice to be able to refrain from dissing those who chose otherwise? To each their own lives and choices. Get a clue and move on--nobody fucking cares what you think of them. Bitch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 04:10 PM Flag
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You're a turd. To each their own. Have enough confidence in your own choice to not attack those who chose differently. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 04:13 PM Flag
[ - ] if we're on the topic of sleep for dcs, my 11 mo dd is waking up between 5-5:30am. at what age do they begin sleeping in (like 7)? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:15 PM Flag
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has that always been the case? Im not sure how much that will change [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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I have the same problem, someone suggested black out shades [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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HA! Never. Mine has never slept past 6:30, and usually 5:45am riser. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
[ - ] Is the Prius a good "family car"? Have 2 DC, live in the suburbs. Other car is DH's "train station" car (an ancient Honda). 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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I think it may be a little small. I have 2 dcs live in the burbs and have a golden retriever. I think it is too small for us. But I've thought of it as an alternative car. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:13 PM Flag
[ - ] When did you put your DB on a routine and how did you do it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.18.08, 06:09 PM Flag
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kind of from the beginning, but lossely at first, then it jsut developed. very consistent about bedtime from probably 6 wo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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how about the napping schedule? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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for naps I just followed 2 hour rule at first. the first nap of the day developed early on, but we got into a bad habit of needing motion or being held for naps so I had to sleep train for naps at 6 mo. now its much better [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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^^just made aschedule and stuck to it - bottles at 7, 10, 1, 4, 7, 10, then bedtime. when ds got older, bedtime got earlier and earlier, the schedule shifted, but it was till feed every 3 hours, then nap, etc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:13 PM Flag
[ - ] When did your db sleep through the whole night? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.18.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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what does "the whole night mean to you? like 10-5 am or like 12 hours? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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I guess both.... Just curious. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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my ds slept for 7-8 hours at 8 wo and 10-11 hours by 12 wo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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ditto, but was 12 hours at 12 wo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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one at 12 mos and one at 18 mos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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11 months from 7PM to 5:30AM , is that sleeping through the night? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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I think so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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Ds who's 4yo now slept through the night at 1.5yo and dd at about 7 mos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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DS 9 months (7 months adjusted). DD 5 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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"Sleeping through the night" is medically defined as 5 hours at a stretch. My DB slept through from the beginning. She added an hour a night. Crazy! Even now at age 7 she's a great sleeper. Falls asleep when her head hits the pillow and needs 11 hours a night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:32 PM Flag
[ - ] When do you let DB cry it out? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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> 6 mo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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i did 4 mo for night and 6 mo for naps [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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when you say Cry it Out does that mean the baby crying before bed or a nap? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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no - put down to sleep not crying then started crying and let cry [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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11 months and it has been heavenly ever since, I feel like a new woman! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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Never, & they all sleep happily in their own beds now [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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same here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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I would never do it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:30 PM Flag
[ - ] i posted several times the past month or two about my dh leaving me for the nanny...he recently told me that he would be up for trying to see waht it is like between us. i damn near killed him. i can't take this anymore. he is living with her and he thinks i will fall back in his trap. i dont get what he wants. 59 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.18.08, 05:59 PM Flag
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he sucks and so does the nannny [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:01 PM Flag
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C'mon we told you this was coming. Think strategically not like a girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:02 PM Flag
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66 but I am glad you wrote in, lots of people here have been wondering about you and hoping you are ok-ish [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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i truly truly appreciate you all - i took a little vacation with my kids to visit my brother in california and did a lot of soul searching [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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oh i want nothing to do with him - he plans on staying with her if i say no - she s the fool [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:09 PM Flag
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Believe me, he won't stay with her. Once the thrill of forbidden fruit expires (any day now) and the financial and practical reality of what his life will be like shacking up with a veritable teenager he will be out of there. Where he goes is up to you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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he wont be back here i promise. i am actually considering getting a new house - i [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:20 PM Flag
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^i've been slowly browsing, but i dont want to uproot the kids like that too soon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:20 PM Flag
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Objectively speaking - are you certain he is out? Is there any way you could work through this horrible betrayal...and come out on the other side together? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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i could never - he started a serious relationship before we are even divorced, too much betrayal and lack of trust at this point, i could never get back with him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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I am so not defending him believe me. But he did not have a relationship, he had a few sneaky fucks with a little girl. Just saying to call it was it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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well, it was far more than a few - and they are living together now - for my children's sake i'd rather consider it a relationship at this point rather than saying hey kid's daddy and his fuck buddy are going to pick you up today [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:53 PM Flag
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Did you like him before? What was your marriage like? I can't believe you didn't sense something, NOT FLAMING, just asking, when you look back now, do you see signs of the affair? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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nothing that was a huge red flag - the two were always very friendly, but she was our nanny so i would hope my dh got along with her. i was totally blind to the entire affair because i was so confident in our marriage and i had no reason not to trust him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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I also remember him saying he wanted to have more kids asap and you were a bit hestitant becuase yo already have 2 and one is still a baby. Is she pregnant and did you ever confront her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:58 PM Flag
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i havent confronted her because it isnt going to change anything - especially if she is pregnant and winds up giving birth to a half-sibling for my children. i honestly think she is, but it could be my imagination in over-drive. she has been wearing lots of long flowy dresses and pulling a jennifer garner lately - but then again, that stuff is in style now. i try not to think about it until i have an answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:02 PM Flag
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I think that is a good attitude to have, I mean if you wanted to say something, obviously you have the right, but true it's not going to change anything. I'm sure she feels disgusting about herself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:14 PM Flag
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it's just so hard with the double-betrayal, i was so close to her and felt like a big sister and then for her to steal my husband - i like to think she feels incredibly guilty for doing this to my children and i [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:20 PM Flag
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well, look, she made a huge mistake and she is very young. I pray she is not pregnant. But really, I totally blame your husband, sorry, but she's a teenage nanny! Anyway, you sound like you are doing great. Have you thought about screwing his best friend, I really think you should, if he's not married! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:23 PM Flag
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i try not to blame her entirely since she is young, but it is hard to keep her out of it. i hope she isn't pregnant, but my gut tells me otherwise. his best friend is actually quite single, but i doubt he'll be getting any from me ;) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:33 PM Flag
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honestly, you should ask him straight up if she is pregnant - if you feel so strongly you are probably right. you deserve to know the truth since you are still married to him and this child will be a sibling to your kids. he owes that much to you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:38 PM Flag
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well, keep your options open and make sure to let him know when you sleep with a friend or co-worker, you will feel better, I don't care what anyone says!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:47 PM Flag
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haha - i like how you think, but i dont want any connection to him with my sexual partners ;) - that said, there is a cute single man that moved into the house behind mine, hmm lol, but really i have no plans on seeing other men for a long time. my kids are so young and i need to just focus on them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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like I said, don't rule anything out! A good lay maybe a nice pick me up! Flame Away! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:55 PM Flag
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why are you encouraging her to do something that will sabotage her strength? she must be there for her children and her own mental health right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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Get a sense of humor already. Are you that uptight you can't make light of anything? Do you really think she's going to go out and screw someone because some broad on UB recommended it? Please, lighten up, or your husband will be running to the nanny too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:24 PM Flag
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my husband would never cheat on me - we have a good marriage and we make each other quite happy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:31 PM Flag
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Yeah, ok, it's always the people who think like that. Just like your kids won't do drugs or end up in trouble...it's not up to you.You can't even be open minded enough to know you can't control what other people do. You never know how another person will react in crisis or a rut, or whatever. It would be much better to know that you do the best you can, hope for the best, and trust one another, but you never know. Just ask the poster! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:37 PM Flag
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oh please she obviously wasnt doing something right if her husband had to go to the arms of the nearest young woman - my husband is quite happy and we are in a secure and stable relationship [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:42 PM Flag
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I'm sure you are joking, that's funny, I'm glad you finally got a sense of humor! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:48 PM Flag
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what?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:55 PM Flag
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There is no way someone could be that stupid to say she wasn't doing something right and her husband ran into the arms of another woman...and then to follow it with her secure and stable relationship. Please,that is hysterical to me, no one is that clueless, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:58 PM Flag
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excuse me if i am confident in my marriage and i am being honest with the op unlike the rest of you who solely crucify her husband [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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Hey, I'm not saying their marriage was great and it was all his fault, I'm sure there were symptoms and neglect on both sides. What I am saying is to open your eyes and realize that YOU to can be cheated on. You can be confident all you want, it doesn't mean that shit won't happen to you. I hope it doesn't and I hope you're right, but [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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^^^^^....to be so ignorant of human behavior makes me think you are not a very smart person. People who have those black and white views usually get them shoved up thier ass pretty hard. With you they'd have to take the stick out first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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^^^Her husband is screwing around on her, no doubt. She'd be too stupid to ever acknowledge it. And too in denial. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:17 PM Flag
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oh please you ladies are so insecure in your relationships if you feel this way - i know my husband isn't cheating on me so get over it. i am lucky enough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:21 PM Flag
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you don't know shit lady, that's the problem with you "know it alls" you live in lala land. I'd love to join that club one day! You are lucky enough that you're too stupid to ever find out what really goes on outside your bedroom. God Bless You! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:32 PM Flag
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HA! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:49 PM Flag
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That's what most women think, yet, 60% of men are having affairs, but of course it could not be your husband. That only happens to other people. WAKE UP! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:39 PM Flag
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it is so strange seeing how unaffected my dc are - granted my oldest is only six and the younger two are 3 and 2 so they don't really get it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:07 PM Flag
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Wait. I thought you said that he came home one night and she was there, but they had never spoken before that. Do you mean that they became friendly after that point? Didn't you think that was a little weird if it was after the first time they met. Or, am I confusing the story? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:03 PM Flag
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you might be confusing it a little bit - there were a couple signs at the very end right before i found out - but i was just referring to the year long affair - up until right before i knew it hadn't crossed my mind [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:08 PM Flag
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That is crazy. Before this, did you think he was the kind of person who would never do such a thing or did you always know he might be capable? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:09 PM Flag
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i've never thought he could do such a thing - never thought he could even hurt me. take away the lying and cheating and he was an all-around perfect husband and father. i just felt so lucky to have him and things were great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:13 PM Flag
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ugh. I'm so sorry for you. that really stinks. you are definitely better off without him, but it will probably take you a while to get over the betrayal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:15 PM Flag
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that's why I said to the other poster who would want her child to be a SAHM that you never know! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:17 PM Flag
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I read your previous posts and all the drama involved. You get what you put up with, he's living with the nanny and you're still asking what he wants. He wants things exactly as they are and have been, please, WAKE UP! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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trust me i havent been a fool - i have been firm with him and found strength i assure you - i just thought you ladies would enjoy hearing this one [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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Good, stay strong. He probably just figured out what his child support payments will be, that usually brings them back. "Cheaper to Keep Her" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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he is not going to stay married to me i promise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:28 PM Flag
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I think we have all been following your story and wishing for some closure for you. When my dad left my mom for a younger woman, he kept her on the hook for a long time, saying he might want to work it out, he dragged it out for over a year--he was really just trying to post-pone the expense of a divorce and probably hide assets. I am sorry to be so negative, but please continue to protect yourself and stay strong! wishing the best for you and your kids and someday you will have built a wonderful life without that creep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:08 PM Flag
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thank you so much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:15 PM Flag
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np: ditto this, my father was a stingy, cheating bastard to my mother, and he did this to her too. the things men do to save a buck never cease to amaze me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 09:39 PM Flag
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your situation is crap [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:44 PM Flag
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I just hope you have a good lawyer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:50 PM Flag
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i am very happy with my lawyer, i lucked out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:52 PM Flag
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that's good -- just keep it mature on your side of the fence and live YOUR life in a respectful way. Your kids will know the difference now and in the later years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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you need to get out there again! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:17 PM Flag
[ - ] i am about to have dc #3..im trying to prepare EVERYTHING i can, so that im as organized as possible beforehand..besides bottles, formula, diapers, wipes, creams, washes, clothes, what else do i need to do? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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Set up someone to bring you food, clean the house, & tend your kids while you stay in bed with the new baby - ideally for the first two weeks (good luck!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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this would be nice, huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:18 PM Flag
[ - ] god help me. we have fleas. we just recently had to put our cat down and we discovered at the vets that she had them. now my poor 2 1/5 yo is covered with bites. anybody been there done that? I have a 5mo as well. 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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had fleas - yes, but not with 2 kids in the house. You will probably have to bomb - can you go visit someone for the weekend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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This is a serious problem, btdt. The fleas are insidious - maybe as bad as I have heard from you guys about bedbugs. Try the obvious solutions first, hot hot washing of every known surface and fabric; have your rugs steam cleaned. Otherwise you may need the bomb. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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np don't waste your time with that. Just call a pest control compant and get rid of them. A one time application of pseticide is better than the many times it will take with the do it yourself crap. BTDT! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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omg...your vet couldn't save your kittie!! i am so sorry (i have an 18 yr old). yiou need to wash/replace your dc bedding asap, buy an air purifier, get rid of rigs - if they are throw rugs...clean, clean, clean & disinfect [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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we actually had to put our elderly cat down because the baby is highly allergic. this is just a final f-you I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:01 PM Flag
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Yes, it took forever to get rid of them. We had the rugs steam cleaned, vacuumed 3-4x a day for awhile (put a piece of flea collar in the vacuum bag or they crawl back out), washed everything on hot. Finally sprinkled this stuff called diatomaceous earth all over the house and that worked. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:01 PM Flag
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op: what's so bad about bombing? If I bomb the house and then do a really through cleaning, will everyone be okay? (almost no rugs in the house) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:02 PM Flag
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The only bombs that work are the exterminators and you should evacuate for the week imo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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I would make sure its ok to use around the baby thats all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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op: thanks all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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Our god had fleas. Our Vet told us that one way to rid the house is just to keep using Frontlien monthly on our dog and it would eventually rid the home too. Worked.. Wonder why all the fuss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Ok I'll try again - anyone on who did NOT choose Baby Led Weaning? Why? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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because I fed him with bottles. still do : ) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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because he would have nursed until college, and I'm just not into that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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Well I am trying...but his 2 year birthday is next week. I'm down to 1 feeding though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:02 PM Flag
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I don't even know what baby led weaning is? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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Must have missed your first port - if you mean letting the baby decide when to wean, yes I did that w/all 4 of my kids & believe it or not none of them are in college & still bfing. The only year it was hard was when it became a power struggle when dd was 2 - I wanted to say when & where she had access to my boobs but we worked it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Who is your favorite James Bond? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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hands down Daniel Craig [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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They are all Fugly! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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Well, which one is the least fugliest? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:57 PM Flag
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Timothy Dalton, or Daniel Craig [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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Sean Connery [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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Diiiiitttttooooo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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Roger Moore's flicks are a bit nostalgic for me, but I agree that Daniel Craig is tops [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:16 PM Flag
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i like d. craig too but can't help thinking his ears are too big. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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hands down pierce brosnan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 06:54 PM Flag
[ - ] DH has chest pains and shortness of breath. But he refuses to go to the ER because he knows it will be crowded (especially because of the heat). Men are idiots. 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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and my cousins hubby died in March from this, he was only 47 w/ 3 yr old and 1 yr old , make him go! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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I can't force him. I've begged. I've pleaded. I've called a friend who is a doctor and had him explain why he needs to go to the ER now. But DH thinks that a heart attack is the dramatic event you see on tv. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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he shouldn't F around, make him go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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is there a doc in the box place nearby? They tend to be less crowded sometimes. He should see someone right away! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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Hmmmm. Now that I think about it...I can probably drive him to an ER that will be far less crowded in less time than it will take us to be seen here in the city. Maybe he will go for that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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His GP will have someone on call. That person can give guidance over the phone and steer him to a good ER, if necessary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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call an ambulance for him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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CALL AN AMBULANCE. Ambulance patients are immediately rushed into the ER, bypassing the waiting room. GO NOW! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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MD mom here. If they're not that sick they still wait once they get triaged. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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Another MD mom here. You must be a podiatrist. Shortness of breath and chest pains are NEVER put on any "waiting" list. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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np: still better to get checked by paramedics right away and know that nothing big is going on than to wait and get picked up by the medical examiner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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He'll get treatment right away from the paramedics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:56 PM Flag
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Does he have a doctor? He can call and talk to whomever's on call [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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He's already spoken with a friend who is a doctor and told him to go to the nearest ER (which is all of two blocks from our apartment). He's going to "sleep it off". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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Tell him he'll be dead before morning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:50 PM Flag
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Seriously just call 911. He's being a baby and needs someone to make this call for him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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Remind him how you will move on with all his money and your new husband. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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He's got to go, please. God this sounds like my DH, who has a history of heart attacks in the famly as well, father, grandfather, great grandfather, all died before 60 of heart attacks, all had previous heart attacks before the ones that killed them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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