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[ - ] has anyone bought a bag from mz wallace? are they decent quality? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:33 PM Flag
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i have a bunch from there. they are good quality-can hold a fair amt of wt. look nice too. i had a problem with one bag once-had used it a while, typical wear and tear, and the strap broke. they replaced it with a new one. what is also nice is that they don't make a million of each bag, so you won't have a bag that looks like everyone else's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:38 PM Flag
[ - ] what should i buy my sis for her 37th bday? will spend up to $150. frivolous and fun suggestions plse!! tia. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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spa certificate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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necklace [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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pole dancing lessons! bellydance lessons! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:55 PM Flag
[ - ] how do you know when you are ovulating? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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either by cm, opk or temp charting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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take an ovulation test [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
[ - ] I need a double stroller, one that the infant carrier can go into. For an infant and 3 year old. Money not an issue. What do you recommend? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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off topic, but your 3 yo will probably be wanting to walk more and more and that dbl stroller will become unnecessary. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:38 PM Flag
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i agree. he wants to walk now but he takes off. He is the kid who needs a leash!!! so in the times i need to put him in a stroller, what do i get? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:40 PM Flag
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sorry, can't help you. I got a buggy board, dd really enjoys riding that. dbl stroller is heavier than adding a buggy board. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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bob duallie [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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is that related to the BOB line. I have the revolution single and love it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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yeah, same brand [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:45 PM Flag
[ - ] Booked a trip to WDW and leave next Monday! DH and I are taking DD who will soon be two... no flaming please, I need advice- we bought DD a seat on plane... must we bring the car seat or can she sit in seat on her own? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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bring a car seat for your sanity [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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why? our dc is taking his first plane trip in aug. & i'm concerned he'll just be annoyed to be in the car seat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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nah, it confines them when all they want to do is bounce all over the plane. bring a dvd player, ear phones, books, toys. trust me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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ok... so car seat is an OPTION and not a requirement? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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no, its must be a requirement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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I am so confused.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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^^^sorry i misunderstood that question. check with the carrier [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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it's familiar, it's more comfortable, and trust me, it's worth it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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Depends on the child. Mine HATED it and would have screamed the entire flight, so, for my sanity and for the sanity of my fellow passengers we checked it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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I guess this is the more sane response. My dd would fall asleep as soon as she was strapped into her car seat...often before takeoff. But if you kid hates his seat, then that would be a no-go [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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i wouldn't bring a carseat, it's a bulky piece of luggage. dvd player, w/new dvds, new books, new toys, MUST. and snax. can you try to time it so dd ends up snoozing thru the flight? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:47 PM Flag
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your DD will be more comfortable if you take the carseat and is more likely to sleep (and is used to being strapped in). not such a big deal to get it to the gate IMO-- can hang it off the stroller handles and gate check the stroller at the gate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:42 AM Flag
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check intercot.com for tons of tips and have a great time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 06:30 AM Flag
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if you bought a seat, bring the car seat, definitely. she'll be more comfortable and more likely to sleep. and realize it's gonna be hot as a motherf*cker there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 07:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Which name do you prefer - Margot Sara or Abigail Molly? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:25 PM Flag
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abigail molly [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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Abigail Sara [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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Margot Sara!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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They are all pretty names on their own, but I don't think the name pairs flow very well especially Margot Sara. See http://www.namenerds.com/uucn/advice/rhythm.html [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 07:06 PM Flag
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how many syllables in the last name? the rhythm determines everything. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:40 AM Flag
[ - ] After I had my son I was very weepy for about 2 weeks. Im due in Oct w/ DS #2 and was very weepy in the beginning of my pregnancy and Im worried that I'll be very depressed or the weepiness will be worse after #2. Has anyone had a similar situation? And what can I expect? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:25 PM Flag
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I'm pregnant with my first and am "high risk" for ppd. I've been working with someone who specializes in PPD and she has a book about dealing with ppd with your second pregnancy. Postpartumstress.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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OP: What makes someone high risk? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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i have a history of depression, and was diagnosed a year ago as "bipolar 2" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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my midwife told me that you have extra fluid after giving birth and you will get rid of it one of three ways, cry it out, pee it out or sweat it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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OP: I have never had history of depression [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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crying and depression are not at all related. I have no history of depresion. I did cry out the extra fluid. One has nothing to do with the other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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two weeks? sounds normal to me. I was a wreck for a few months after #1 -- it was soooo different with #2 (though I had worried about it of course) -- was so happy with her, that when she was 3 weeks old I told dh I was so happy we should have another (i was clearly a bit delirious, but at least it was in a good way). So - every baby is different, hard to know how you will react with each one. hope it goes well for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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good to hear! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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i *sobbed* around when my milk was coming in, i think there's some kind of hormone rush. begged dh not to go back to work and leave me home alone (not my proudest moment). but w/#2 it was much much better, so might be for you, too. i cried some, but had more perspective. it never felt like depression though, just weepiness. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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op, it didnt feel like depression either. just cried at everything. it just makes me so nervous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:39 PM Flag
[ - ] need a middle name for Ari or Asher (still deciding between the two). We are trying to pick a middle name that starts with M or F. tia. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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Both would go well with Michael. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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prefer Asher. Marcus? Malcolm? Michael? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Poll: What's your favorite position during sex, and what's your dh's? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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Me on top, variety. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:24 PM Flag
[ - ] the lice post has my head itching...!!!! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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Sorry!! signed OP of lice post. (Mine, too, by the way.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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Me too! This always happens when someone mentions lice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
[ - ] any jersey shore moms on? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:18 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone use Dr. Daniel Stein - RE at Rooselvelt Continuum? Please tell me you thoughts...dealing w/PCOS & secondary infertility. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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yes--just started with him after leaving another fertility spec. So far I like him... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 08.06.08, 08:34 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone gone to Hair Fairies in New York? How much in total did it cost per kid (or adult!) to get the complete de-lousing? Also, they claim that it's reimbursible by health insurance, but I'm skeptical. 47 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.20.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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I went to them, my insurance did not accept claim and we paid over 1K when all was said and done. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:05 PM Flag
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ARGH!!! That is what I'm fearing. DD and I have what look to be nits right now. I would do it myself but I know people who have done that and missed tons of nits, only to have the cycle repeat over and over. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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OK, this is what you do if you don't have much money. You take dd to hair fairies or licenders. You watch very, very careful at what they do. Then you go get rid (or buy their shampoo) and do yourself. You also have to comb out dd - but its free and once you've seen it done, its not as hard as you think. But, don't use rid on dd - pay up for the other stuff for her and for one expert comb out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:09 PM Flag
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Great advice! Thanks for that. I'll prob. buy their shampoo and have dh do the comb-out on me with a good lice comb. Can't do the rid as I am nursing my infant, who I hope to high heaven does not also have lice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:12 PM Flag
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doubt your newborn does - BUT, BE VERY CAREFUL - someone might suggest lavendar - and on my bottles it says can cause respitory distress and/or stop breathing in children under 3 - so I would not let it get anywhere near db. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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thank you!! I know tea tree and rosemary are also recommended. I would not use essential oils on my db. I wonder if hair fairies stuff has lavender, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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all of the places have some type of oil so that they won't climb back in and lay eggs (its too slippery to attach) - but olive oil will do and is most likely safe for db. I would check with ped however. Just say, we are going to put olive oil on our hair for a few days (not baby) but is this ok? I'm sure it will be fine. I would stay away from the other oils with newborn [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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good plan. I'm gonna call ped. from the Hair Fairies place if they see nits on db (he's coming with us). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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Good luck!! and so sorry. This too shall pass [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:31 PM Flag
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True, true. I just keep thinking.."it's not serious, just a nuisance." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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Tea tree oil and lavender have been associated with breast growth in male children: http://www.nih.gov/news/pr/jan2007/niehs-31.htm (np) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 03:19 AM Flag
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Your dh needs to be checked too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:25 PM Flag
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yeah. He's meeting us there. He keeps calling the place "Hairy Fairies". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:28 PM Flag
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tell him not to worry, the body lice are a different beast :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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did it work? How many family members did that 1K cover? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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yes it works. two children and one adult. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:11 PM Flag
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Do you have lice? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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see above. looks like it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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There is a much cheaper nit picker in brooklyn. What is her name? Damn. Anyone? google nitpicker brooklyn ny and see if her name comes up. She's great and cheap [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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op here: really? she's that much cheaper? My friend recommended Abigail rosenfeld but said her family paid $500 when it was all said and done. From comment above, though, it looks like it is a lot cheaper than the HF's. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:15 PM Flag
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It IS abigail Rosenfeld!!!. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:20 PM Flag
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Abby Rosenfeld is amazing - we had use Licenders in the past. Abby is much cheaper - process was also much more painless. We paid $1,200 for Licenders and it was like $350 or so for Abby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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I endorse Mrs. Rosenfeld, too. She was great. And my dc was the only one in the class to get rid of lice on the first try. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.10, 03:49 AM Flag
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I remember there was a "Talk of the Town" piece in the New Yorker about her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 07:35 AM Flag
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if you go, just make the appointment for your dd. Then if you have (which you most likely do), they will do you too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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But that won't save $$ necessarily, will it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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no, not if you have it. I would go with abigail if money is a big thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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It's a medium thing for us, but right now, I just want to show up for my 11 a.m. appointment tomorrow and be done with this. I've been so stressed out this weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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you won't be done with it. Here goes. It will kill all the live lice in your head. It will do nothing to the nits (eggs) on your hair. They will do their best to come all of them out, but they will miss some. Those will hatch and will need to be killed before they reach sexual maturity. So you will have to shampoo again. They will tell you the schedule. You will also need to wash everything you have worn, all bedding and bag up all stuffed animmals and vacum all rugs and furniture. IT SUCKS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:29 PM Flag
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God, this does suck. The worst thing is that we're going away on vacation on Sat. so our vaca is going to be spent (partly) doing the lice comb-outs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:35 PM Flag
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and leaving lice where ever you sleep? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 03:22 AM Flag
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First, they are awesome. Second, it depends on your insurance - some cover it up front, some reimburse & others do nothing. We spent about $400/500, but dd hat A LOT of nits. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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thanks. good to know. I guess we can try with the insurance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:36 PM Flag
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Some people use henna to get rid of lice, btw. Read about it on Hennaforhair.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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Hey, if you live in Westchesterand you want someone closer than HairFairies or Abigail, there is a local woman who has been nitpicking for 11 years. Her name is Anna, The Lice Lady of Westchester and she is amazing. She works out of her home and is not expensive at all. Her # is 914-497-5465. She did myself and my 2 children and she was great! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.21.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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If your kids have that long, long hair that seems to be de rigeur among young girls, cut it. My girls have bobs and we've NEVER had a problem (even though one of their schools has has three outbreaks so far this school year). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.21.08, 06:30 PM Flag
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lenght of hair is not a factor. sometimes loose hair vs hair in a ponytail is a factor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.21.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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Braids tight on the head are good--pony tails that stick out are not--also proximity of hanging coats and scarves can be a way lice spread [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 03:42 AM Flag
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never [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 04:00 AM Flag
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your not having a problem has zero to do with length of hair. at our school break-out it was mostly the boys (all of whom had short hair, much shorter than bobs) who got it. you just happen to have lucked out. we have, too. i never thought it was something i was doing "right," just dumb luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.10, 03:44 AM Flag
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licebusters is also supposed to be great. havent used them privately, but my kids schools contract with them for checks and anybody with lice needs to go to them privately for clearance before they can return . everybody loves them. they have a flat fee per person so you dont have to worry abt how long it will take and how much the bill will be. i think they also guarantee it so if the lice comes back they will redo for free. you can google them if you are interested. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 12.21.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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hair fairies is great if you are in the city and have a few hours to spend... i Live in Westchester and work down town and when my sisters kids had it they live in the city,she spend about $500 it was great for her. But when my daughter got it last year we called a compnay that came out to the house. they where called head lice hero, they did not pick the lice out they used a spray and a wand that they where done in 90 minuts for my daughter, son, husband and myself. they charge was about $500 also. they two are licenced like hair fairies but the came to us..... next time i think i will just use the prodouct that this hero comapny used called lice safe.....its is only about $30 i found it on line..... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.12.09, 10:23 PM Flag
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HAHAHAHAHHAH. Are you people really paying this much to get lice taken care of? Oh man. There really IS a sucker born every minute. Wash their heads in olive oil. Comb out the nits. Wash their clothes and sheets. Call it a day. Seriously. It's lice, people. Not cancer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.12.09, 11:32 PM Flag
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I say have a day of it and dye your kids hair a new colour. Kills lice asap and easy to comb out in the end. Happy, stylish, nit free kid :D [ Reply | More
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General Topics 04.13.09, 04:45 AM Flag
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Hi guys, this is Hair Fairies here, so we do actually have a free How-to video on our website! It explains how you can use our products, but in your home. The salons are there if you need them, but so is the How-to video :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.10, 12:52 AM Flag
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We just use conditioner. Can totally do it yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.10, 03:51 AM Flag
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there are some home treatments that really work -- one involves putting something all over the hair (i will google what it is, listerine or something), blow drying till it hardens and sleeping in shower cap. may sound crazy but i know people who swear by it when we had a school lice outbreak. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.05.10, 03:45 AM Flag
[ - ] can someone recommend a nursing cover-up 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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I usually just have the baby cover me and pull my t-shirt down to cover everything else. Sometimes, if I'm with older folks, I make a show of putting a receiving blanket over db's head, but he usually pulls it off. It's mostly to let them know I'm trying to be sensitive. You really can't see anything unless you are really looking [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:06 PM Flag
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hooter hider [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:08 PM Flag
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go to bebeaulait.com - best cover ever! also try - japanese weekend for nursing tops or a brand called boob design from sweden [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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What makes these better than a shawl or blanket? They look so cumbersome, like you're wearing a pup tent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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The best cover up is a pashima [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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my cashmere sweater, ds's car blanket, scarf, whatever I happen to have works. I don't believe in carrying around more stuff when I can just convert whatever I've got on hand. With 2 kids, as if I didn't have enuf of their junk to tote around... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:41 PM Flag
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