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Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

[ - ] 6.5mo DB learned to roll from back to tummy about a month ago. Ever since she's been doing it in her sleep and waking herself up several times per night. Please tell me this is just a phase that will pass (quickly). 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Newborn 05.29.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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It will pass. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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It's just a phase. It'll pass...eventually. (And then it will be the obsessive trying to stand up all night.) Good luck! [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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Not only will it pass, but it will be one of the least worrisome phases in your dc's life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:51 PM Flag
[ - ] i'm looking for a fun, easy read. but i want something with realistic characters, not formulaic. nora roberts used to do it for me but a. i've read all her books and b. her more recent books just aren't that good, imo. any other authors to suggest? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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Anita Shreve. Some of her books are depressing, but the characters are great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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Michael Crais, Denise Mina & Laura Lippman are mystery writers who are good. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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Dark Tide by Andrew Gross. It was mentioned on UB and it's very absorbing but light. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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^^^also Jhumpa Lahiri. Anything she's written but her latest is a collection called Unaccustomed Earth [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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op: thanks. i will check these all out. haven't read any of them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:54 PM Flag
[ - ] What stores are popular with 14yo girls? Looking for a graduation gift for neice and want to get a gift card. 17 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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NIECE [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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ugh, eyeroll...yes I know...but do have any suggestions? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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No way.. "I before E except after C and N" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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LOL [ Reply | More ]
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np: thank you. i could not figure out what the heck this woman was talking about until you spelled it out for me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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No problem, happy to help. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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iTunes giftcard [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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How much do you want to spend? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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$75-100, still deciding [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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Middle School graduation? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:46 PM Flag
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Get a gift card to A&F or if you are in the suburbs, get a gift card to the nearest nice mall. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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sephora [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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abercrombie [ Reply | More ]
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Amex? [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:48 PM Flag
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abercrombie, forever 21 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:50 PM Flag
[ - ] op...no...will that show me who has replied? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 05.29.08, 05:38 PM Flag
[ - ] op...she is. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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biatch your doing it on purpose! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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^^ you're damnit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:37 PM Flag
[ - ] there is a real asshat on UB who can't reply to posts 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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it may not be their fault - certain browsers were not working when the new UB came up, some may not have been fixed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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Then stop replying. Jeez. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:36 PM Flag
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ITA. And props for bringing back asshat! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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op: lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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I don't think it's just one person. A lot of people are having problems. UB really shot themselves in the foot. I think I'm done here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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buh-bye [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
[ - ] Any recs for a speech therapist on the UWS (80's, 90's)? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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3.5 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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Can your nursery school recommend someone [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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Terry Garshman at 140 West End Ave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 01:54 PM Flag
[ - ] Did you use any kind of seat for the baby when you did this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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Seriously, LEARN HOW TO REPLY. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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You are beyond rude [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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Don't be a hater. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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she's done it a million times [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know what happens if I change the locks of my home (owned jointly with DH) so he cannot get in? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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the police will come and ask you why you did it. without a restraining order you will have to let him in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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ok thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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my mom did this to my dad, I still remember how traumatizing it was [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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It sounds passive aggressive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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what was the story behind it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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Why'd you lock him out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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I called Dh at 7:30 tonight asking why he was not home for the one night this week he promised to be home to see the kids. He gave a lame excuse and I hung up on him. He came charging in the house a few minutes later and was enraged (veins popping, etc.) screaming and cursing to me about how I am never to hang up on him again; he will not tolerate that, etc. -- lots of F bombs. This all happened in front of my oldest dd (7). I brought her into the bathroom with me (only door that locks). She was sobbing and terrified. I don't know how to procede. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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See a lawyer first thing tomorrow. That is unacceptable and he obviously has some serious issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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I don't mean to sound pathetic but is that really out of line? Its happened several times before and I am just not clear on what is normal anger and what is not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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That is out of line. Getting angry is one thing; behaving like a complete infant jerk is another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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That is completely out of line, especially if he scared dd to the point where you had to lock yourselves in a bedroom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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Let me make it simple: That is not normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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np. sounds like you did not handle the call well but the way he reacted was out of order. Doesn't sound like you communicate very well at the moment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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totally out of line, esp. because in front of dc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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not normal. very scary. see a divorce lawyer if for no other reason than to discuss your options and ask questions like the above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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way out of line. he needs anger management help. there is no excuse for that kind of behavior, esp. in front of DCs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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It's way beyond normal. Normal angry parents don't frighten their children, and you should never have to lock yourself or kid in bathroom. It's his issue and you need to protect yourself and dd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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file a police report. if this moves to restraining order behavior, you might as well have a record from the beginning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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np: sit down with him tomorrow and talk about it. locking him out of the house will only continue a downward spiral. doesn't sound like this is a regular thing for him, so maybe he had a really stressful day or something (not that it is okay, but we are all human) - make sure he apologizes to DD and explains to her why his behavior was totally inappropriate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:41 PM Flag
[ - ] When did you start bathing 2 DC's together? How old was the baby - and did you use any special safety gear in the tub, or just stick 'em in there? My older kid is 4 if that matters. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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Started when db stopped needing sep. little tub - maybe 7-8 months? [ Reply | More ]
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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
[ - ] my ds read at a higher grade level too in kindergarten and we had a great time basking in the glow but once he got to 2nd grade, he hated to read and we had to make him read his books that the teacher said he needed to read. He got all these bottons in kindergarten-2nd grade for higher reading and then he just stopped reading. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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I am a teacher. Usually this happens when reading becomes a "chore" for the child. The pleasure has been taken out of it for him/her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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it's two not too, and buttons not bottons [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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No..she was right. She meant "too" as in "also". My ds read at a higher grade level also... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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too is right here, and I'm sure bottons was a typo. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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Oh please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
[ - ] When you retire...You inform you job...how does the other jobs that you work at know to start sending you the checks from your 401K/pension, etc. This may sound like an odd question, but I am not from here and I am not sure of how it works in the U.S. Thank you. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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You update your contact info with the 401(k). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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Thank you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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possibly the most out-of-place post i've ever seen on ub. now we've got retirees on here? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:47 PM Flag
[ - ] 10 weeks preg with # 2 and already have a huge bump!?? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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Normal unfortunately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:36 PM Flag
[ - ] how do you tell if an egg is bad after you crack it? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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Rotten egg smell? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:27 PM Flag
[ - ] 5 wks pp and I still feel huge, how long did it take you to get down to your normal size? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Newborn 05.29.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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with my first, I got back into shape pretty fast (within first 3 mos). with my 2nd, well, she is 2 and it iwas tough. i still carry wt that I don't want. I do ww and work out with a trainer, which has helped, but it was super slow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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thanks, I guess I just need to give it time. still in my maternity jeans.. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
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Are the nut case that posted earlier today about being at the gym 6x per week? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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yeah, it can take time. now that weather is nicer, you can start walking and getting out more. are you bf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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at 5 wks pp I was still huge, too! but I lost most of the 45 lbs by 3 mos pp, and all by 4 mos. now 7 mos pp and -5 lbs to pre pg weight. Give yourself time! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:44 PM Flag
[ - ] I really hope Stephanie wins Top Chef. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 05.29.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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Antonia! Antonia! Stephanie seems like wimp. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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I like Antonia [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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I like Antonia. But I think I'd be a better judge if I actually got to eat the food they made! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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I think Antonia is very good at targeting her audience and making food to suite their needs; however, I think Stephanie has better skills. I think it will come down to them. What is the guy's name? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:28 PM Flag
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Richard. They are all really good, I think. Stephanie has already won lots of loot - the trip to Barcelona, the appliances... I think Antonia deserves to win. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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I like her and Antonia. I like Richard too though, just want a girl to win :) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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me too. if Lisa wins i am never watching another season. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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I think she should have been kicked off instead of Spike last episode. In fact, I think she should have been off instead of Dale the previous episode. They guys may be bigger jerks (though not by much), but she really screwed up the restaurant wars episode. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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I really don't understand why she didn't get kicked off. She's not mediagenic and it doesn't seem like she can cook. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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ITA. and everything she makes looks like crap! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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She has issues that she's got to work out - she's angry and really conniving. It doesn't serve her well and I am sure she has had (and will have) limited success because of it. If she were a man, then maybe it would be viewed as confidence but w/ her - just bitchiness. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
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I can't get past her greasy hair and how she's always touching it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:38 PM Flag
[ - ] op...my ds has been telling me she is a beocth but I didn't want to believe it. I may ask the principal about this. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:24 PM Flag
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Seriously, learn how to use the reply function. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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np: Yesssssss please! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:26 PM Flag
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