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05.29.08, 17:29 PM General Topics
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Anyone know what happens if I change the locks of my home (owned jointly with DH) so he cannot get in? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
 

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General Topics 05.29.08, 05:30 PM Flag
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the police will come and ask you why you did it. without a restraining order you will have to let him in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:31 PM Flag
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ok thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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my mom did this to my dad, I still remember how traumatizing it was [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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It sounds passive aggressive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:34 PM Flag
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what was the story behind it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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Why'd you lock him out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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I called Dh at 7:30 tonight asking why he was not home for the one night this week he promised to be home to see the kids. He gave a lame excuse and I hung up on him. He came charging in the house a few minutes later and was enraged (veins popping, etc.) screaming and cursing to me about how I am never to hang up on him again; he will not tolerate that, etc. -- lots of F bombs. This all happened in front of my oldest dd (7). I brought her into the bathroom with me (only door that locks). She was sobbing and terrified. I don't know how to procede. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:37 PM Flag
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See a lawyer first thing tomorrow. That is unacceptable and he obviously has some serious issues. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:38 PM Flag
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I don't mean to sound pathetic but is that really out of line? Its happened several times before and I am just not clear on what is normal anger and what is not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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That is out of line. Getting angry is one thing; behaving like a complete infant jerk is another. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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That is completely out of line, especially if he scared dd to the point where you had to lock yourselves in a bedroom. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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Let me make it simple: That is not normal. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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np. sounds like you did not handle the call well but the way he reacted was out of order. Doesn't sound like you communicate very well at the moment. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:42 PM Flag
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totally out of line, esp. because in front of dc [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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not normal. very scary. see a divorce lawyer if for no other reason than to discuss your options and ask questions like the above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:54 PM Flag
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way out of line. he needs anger management help. there is no excuse for that kind of behavior, esp. in front of DCs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:04 PM Flag
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It's way beyond normal. Normal angry parents don't frighten their children, and you should never have to lock yourself or kid in bathroom. It's his issue and you need to protect yourself and dd. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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file a police report. if this moves to restraining order behavior, you might as well have a record from the beginning [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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np: sit down with him tomorrow and talk about it. locking him out of the house will only continue a downward spiral. doesn't sound like this is a regular thing for him, so maybe he had a really stressful day or something (not that it is okay, but we are all human) - make sure he apologizes to DD and explains to her why his behavior was totally inappropriate. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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