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Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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[ - ] Best mascara? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.02.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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Subtle day mascara: Shu Uemera (also use their lash curler). Night-time: Dior Show. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:53 PM Flag
[ - ] having #2 next week. Almost 5 yo ds is regressing (crying every night, playing with baby toys, getting in bed with us, googoo gaggaing). This too shall pass right? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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treat her like a baby. coddle her, and pamper her. when the baby comes, treat her just like the baby, have her wear a bib, put her down for multiple naps, she'll snap ut of it real fast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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that's hysterical. will do [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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don't know if you are still reading. the idea came form, children, the challenge, by rudolf dreikurs. be serious about it, not to mock her. she will very soon realize that she would prefer to be older. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:58 PM Flag
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we are in a similar situation except dc is almost 4. He's doing some of the same things, especially the baby talking. I spoke to someone at our preschool today and was told that her dc did the same. I guess its normal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:53 PM Flag
[ - ] How long does your 3 yo nap each day? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Preschool/Kids 06.02.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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2-3 hrs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:03 PM Flag
[ - ] i'm fixated. if your dc is playing in someone's house and wants the toy the other kid is playing, is it ok to ask for it? is it just a park thing b/c it's a stranger? or is it the asking that is not ok? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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Apparently, if you are in NYC, your kid should just wait patiently. In the rest of the civilized world, you can ask for a turn. Even on the playground. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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if your child lacks the creativity and inititative to play with a 2nd toy at someone's house, you should leave. Two children will fight the entire playdate over just one toy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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I thought part of the point was to teach sharing? If child #1 can't learn to share a toy, good luck in school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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i believe this ia a giant miscommunication. at 2 years old, on a playdate, sharing is allowing a different child to come to your house and play with your toys..which is challenging enough. if that 2nd child wants to play with teh ONE toy your child is playing with, that will quickly become sticky. And please dont tell me your two year old will hand over the ONE toy they are currently playing with. Sharing means many things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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Who said 2 yo? OP just said a playdate. At what age do you think it's appropriate to share, or are you opposed to sharing generally? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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I am simply opposed to folks who do not live in NYC posting on NYC topics. Its exhausting. Signing off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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This was a General Topics posting, so bite me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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oh, of course. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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omg [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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the point is that they don't have to fight. you ask for the next turn and then wait for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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If the other child is playing with a toy, tell your child to find a different toy to play with. my goodness, sharing is not a natural instinct and teaching your child to find a new activity is a lesson in itself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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how many dc do you have and what age? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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exactly. age is critical here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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HUGE difference between a public resource and someone's private home/toys. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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b/c it's a stranger or b/c it doesn't belong to anyone? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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because it is a SHARED COMMUNITY, PUBLIC RESOURCE. and it is the courteous thing to be aware of the needs of others in a community setting. that's what helps us all not kill each other in high population density settings like NYC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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so you are saying that it's ok or it's not ok to ask? or are you saying that people should be aware but it's not ok to ask.? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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I didn't see the original post, but on the playground or in my house you share. You can play with a toy, but if you have had it for a while and someone else wants to play with, they should ask politely and you should let them have a turn. is this not how the world functions (at least theoretically?) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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what does it mean to ask nicely and do they have to give it if someone asks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Seeking excellent OB/Gyn. I live in Prospect Height Brooklyn but can travel. I prefer a women. I went to midwives when I had DD 3 years ago. I want to go to OB now for check up etc., 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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no one can help me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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Thomasina Ellison. 718*222*0393 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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anyone else? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:48 PM Flag
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Scott Postell. I think he's on PPW, and he has midwives in his practice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:50 PM Flag
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trying one last time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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Z? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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no z [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Park Ave. Women's Clinic - Leipzig, Leiter, Moss - 860-2600 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:47 PM Flag
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Ooh Downtown Women OBGYN..Catherine Goodstein. I have sent 6 people there and ALL love it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:48 PM Flag
[ - ] Any WW moms on?? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:42 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you do while baby is in the carrier? Pre-baby we'd read a story in bed to get dc down for a nap. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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Aieee. I did it again. Meant for napping post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:42 PM Flag
[ - ] Just ate a food item whose main ingerdient was cellulite. The shame spiral begins :( 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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I've become obsessed with cheesecake lately. Also strawberry shortcake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:43 PM Flag
[ - ] Ideas for august beach vacation with a 1yo and 3yo for under $3k? Would going somewhere to Bahamas be possible or is August not a good time for that? Is $3k too low? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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I saw there is a Westin hotel in St Marten having a summer sale (rooms < $200/night) so you might want to check that out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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thanks, will def. take a look! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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august is prime hurricane season. wouldn't plan on the bahamas at that time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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Bermuda? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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South Carolina [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Jersey Shore? Delaware? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Do a family all inclusive resort. Check out tripadvisor.com Try Punta Cana [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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I've heard some ClubMeds are great for families. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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Cape May New Jersey [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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I skip the Caribbean that time of year...hurricane season..easier to drive home from Jersey, if absolutely necessary. Try a condo at SeaPointe Village in Diamond Beach/Wildwood Crest NJ or a room in Cape May, NJ at Congress Hall. Both have low key kids programs, and good service as an right near the beach. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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thank you! great advice! Had heard of cape may but didn't know where to start - will check these out. thx again! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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you are welcome...both are the highest end (for families) in these respective towns. The boardwalk and waterparks in Wildwood are realy fun...go early in the evening for rides or day for water with young kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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Please check my link; a three hour drive beats the whole flying thing for getting to watch the dolphins breach and frolic in the same ocean you are. http://www.simonecolina.com/quad/ 2 weeks would be under 3k by more than gas and food $$ and it's perfect for kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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BTW that link is for a Cape May house. Sorry, forgot to mention that.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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club med - look for specials [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.13.08, 11:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Repost from this am: anyone know how the low humidity/high humidity settings work on the veggie bins in the fridge? What settings do you use for what vegetables? How do I keep lettuce from freezing, for instance? TIA. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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YES you want LOW humidity for veggies and lettuce and fruit [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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THANK YOU. Finally someone knows. Thank you again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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^^ so, do you use high humidity for things like onions? Or for what? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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NO I just keep them on Low it is the best setting for them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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Thanks again! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:13 PM Flag
[ - ] But how do you get preschooler to take a nap when you have to hold the baby? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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uh, read a story, brush his teeth, put him in the crib and say 'sleep well.' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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Wear the baby in a carrier or let the baby cry for a few minutes. I have a 2.5 yo and newborn. Sometimes newborn has to cry for a few minutes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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Sorry, meant that for the post above. Am I the only one who has this reply problem? the UI takes the down to the post section automatically. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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disagree with the premise, preschooler doesn't HAVE to nap. nor do you HAVE to hold the baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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Agreed, but shrieking baby doesn't help anyone nap. What do you suggest? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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i brought the bottle back. worked like a charm. "special" 4 oz bottle, blankie, stuffed animal on couch. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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Find something that the baby likes - swing, bouncy, crib with mobile on, etc... so that you can put him down for a few minutes at a time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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i don't make a big routine of nap time. dcs can take a book into bed if they want. i don't need any time or hands free. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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Teach your child to nap on his own before you have another baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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And a big FU to the helpful tip. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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your own fault. you are being cruel to your own kid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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Now you know why it's important to sleep train. Sorry Charlie. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:51 PM Flag
[ - ] any writers on? trying to figure out best way to find an agent 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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DH is one. He went to the bookstore and read the acknowledgments of books he liked/similar writing style/etc. to find the names of their agents. He put together a query letter and sent it to 6 agents at a time. About half each time would ask for the manuscript. When he didn't hear from any of the first three after two months, he sent a second batch, but his first choice agent from first round ended up taking him as a client. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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Thanks- this is useful. I have a group of 'like' books but hadn't thought to look inside for agent acknowledgement. Did he have the manuscript completed or just a proposal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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If it is fiction, you need complete proposal. Non-fiction can be proposal with a few sample chapters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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^^sorry, complete MANUSCRIPT for fiction [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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It's nonfiction- a biography. I have an outline with chapters and an article that is a condensed version of the book- I wonder if that is enough [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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Non-fiction is bought more on topic and the bio of the author than fiction, so it should be fine. GL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Great- that makes sense. Thanks for your insight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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