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[ - ] Have a recipe that calls for grape leaves (not stuffed)went to Fairway and Zabars. Any suggestions NYC cooks? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:41 AM Flag
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op: I meant to say Fairway and Zabars didn't have any just stuffed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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Fairway does have them. You have to ask around to find them, but they're with "ethnic" foods. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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maybe Kalustyan's? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:29 PM Flag
[ - ] Any tips for traveling with a 14mo on a plane? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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Don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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I don't have a choice. We're moving. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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Don't carry on too much - lugging stuff around the airport is a major pain. Diaper supplies + a few new toys and books in the diaper bag and any food in a separate bag. Have any bottles of milk ready to pull out to show to the security personnel. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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lots of stickers, mini magnadoodle, lots of snacks, and most importantly a dvd player [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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^^My 14 mo eats stickers. A DVD player's only really useful if DB watches TV at home--at least that's been my experience. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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I have to fly next week w/my 14 mo. She's never played with stickers so don't know how that would work and she doesn't watch tv so I agree with you. I'm bringing flip up books which she loves, lots of cheerios and I know there will be walking up and down the aisle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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the fact that she's never had stickers is perfect...she will be enthralled by them. trust me. puppets are good too (bath puppets pack flat) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:15 PM Flag
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do not rely on walking up and down the plane. The last few small planes we travelled on kept the seat belt sign on all the way. If it is a long flight why not try a dvd [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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benedryl [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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If you possibly can, bring a portable dvd player or a computer that will play videos. it might keep them occupied for a few minutes. Definitely bring a change of clothes and extra diapers and tons of snacks and prepare yourself for a really long time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 08:37 PM Flag
[ - ] i am told you can't digest cantaloupe if eaten w/ other foods. does anyone know about this? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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Yes. And it takes SEVEN YEARS for a piece of gum to digest in your stomach. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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never ever heard of this, my granfather always ate it with bread, and then took a siesta right after [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:59 AM Flag
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you will digest your cantaloupe, what is the other alternante, to throw it up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 02:32 PM Flag
[ - ] I am horrified by the obesssion of this board with "cheating" parents. Has it always been a topic of discussion or is it obession du jour? I am pretty new to schools as my dd is only 3. I do live in a 'crummy" zone and will probably send dd to private if she gets in. If she doesn't I will use someone else's address. I think it is equally 'immoral" to excpect me to send my dd to a school that offers substandard education while I pay the same taxes as the rest of you. In additon, reporting someone to authorities is equally immoral! Would you ever tell your children to denouce people? 74 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 07.04.08, 11:36 AM Flag
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If your public school is substandard, it is your obligation as a taxpaying parent to IMPROVE it, not try to do an end-run AROUND it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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and how many did you improve? I have no idea how to improve a school and it might be impossible to do even if I tried! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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You organize the other neighborhood parents into what's called a P.T.A. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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oh, pls stop with this nonsense already. It must be so easy to say to go and improve a school. Isn't it? Besides, this is not the answer to the questions I posted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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Stop with YOUR nonsense already. You want a ready-made solution tailored to your wants, and it's not happening. Get over it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:52 AM Flag
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np: You are naive. One parent or a small group cannot change a school. My zone school is on the failing schools list. The principal was dismissed for drunk driving and they had no administrative structure for that year and have not recovered fully from that and were substandard to start with. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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So move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 04:11 PM Flag
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NP: It's people like you who have destroyed this city. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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^^^ YOU move. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 07:59 PM Flag
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Ick-the facile, if you can't afford to live in a decent zone you shouldn't be here, suck it up and move squad is back. Lying sucks, judging people also sucks. Buying into the bs that you should need to be paying massive taxes, rent or mtg, in order for your kids to get a decent public education, is simply ignorant, delusional and falsely entitled. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 01:05 PM Flag
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BS. It should not be the parents responsibility to fix the schools. The city should be making all schools equally strong. (I do disagree about using someone else's address, though. I think it's cheating.) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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So what? Call it what you will. If you lived in that zone, you'd do the same or even worse -- prep your kids for the SB & ERBs! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 07:55 PM Flag
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I have tried to improve my child's school. I have devoted many many hours and much hard work to make it better. Other parents come up and thank me for my efforts. But I don't think there's much that parents can do. We can't hire teachers, give teachers pointers, change curriculum, hire or choose professional development. Parents can't do anything but raise money - if they have it - to get asst teachers and some extra perks. But assistant teachers and extra perks are not the essence of a good education. You need a strong leader, you need good teachers, you need a coherent and effective curriculum. Parents can not have any impact on any of those three things. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 09:24 PM Flag
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Well said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 11:57 AM Flag
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I am not categorically against cheating, but I think it is rotten at school that is overcrowded & zoned kids can't even get a spot, like 234 & 321 starting next year if the DOE sticks with their plan. To me, this begs the question of whether we should do away w/ zoned schools & just do lotteries within districts. I live in Bklyn, where we have way more districts than Manhattan, FYI. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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Why would you not get into your zoned school if you live there? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:51 AM Flag
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np--PS 234 and PS 89 in lower Manhattan have both placed some zoned kids on a waiting list for kindergarten this fall. (K is not mandatory in NY state.) They definitely are both crowded schools, but I think the principals may want to instigate some action by the powers that be to deal with overcrowding as well. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:23 PM Flag
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^^^ Both principals have said they would prefer half-day K to turning kids away. Half-day K would also give them a year to come up with other solutions. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:27 PM Flag
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np: I would LOVE if it if there were half day K. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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I feel hald-day K is in many ways preferable to a full-day [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:34 AM Flag
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But 234 and 89 are overcrowded because the neighborhoods have been built up with no thought given to more schools. it's not cheaters crowding those schools. it's poor city planning. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:14 PM Flag
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I agree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:18 PM Flag
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Yes, that would be absolutely fair and moral when lotteries would decide the schools. I am sure if that were the case, there would not be any crappy schools as a result. I might move to a different zone and register my dd to an already overcrowded zone. The school will be even more overcrowded but you will not have a scapegoat --the out of zone- to blame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:54 AM Flag
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Wasn't there a lottery for all Manhattan District 1 schools this year? Can anyone report how it turned out? I wonder if this was a trial run for other, larger districts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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District 3 has held a lottery for unfilled seats for years. BUT that is not the same thing. A lottery for all of D2 with no zoned schools is not a vialbe option. D2 covers a huge area. You would have people in Tribeca sending their dc to a school on the UES with a lottery. It simply is not a good option. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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District 2 is too big. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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np: This lottery is a huge failure considering the purpose of it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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D6 is huge, full of failing schools, no g&ts and lowest rung clingers for any left-over d3lottery seats(which is over anyway.D2 is huge but has several excellent options. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 01:14 PM Flag
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ITA, but thankfully we were never in a situation where it came to that for our dcs -got into a good "choice" public elementary years ago. I think concept of "denouncing" is horrific - it is up to every person and his/her conscience to do what is right and best for his/her dcs. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:20 PM Flag
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I think it will be very difficult in future to use someone elses address. One document has to now come from the state or government. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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It's very easy to get a driver's license with another address. When we moved, I just gave them our new address. The license is mailed to the new address though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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NP: The DOE is using new procedures now, as of June 2008. They require 2 proofs of address, and there are new rules about investigating claims of address falsification. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:29 AM Flag
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a driver's license is not allowed as proof of residence at our school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 01:02 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.04.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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No, this is my first post insipred by a post on a board comparing out of zone kids to thieves. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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I plan on getting dd in an out of zone school. I teach in another district and can't afford to have a nanny or have someone else do drop off and pick up, so I hope to get her in the ps across the street from my school. Most of our teachers do the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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Horrified? Get a life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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And you have one? What are you doing on this board then? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 07:57 PM Flag
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I'll be completely honest, we cheated to get our 2dcs into their school, we're now out to the assistant principal, who couldn't care less and I am content that, since our dcs placed into G&T in the school, they're bringing as much value tot he school as they are receiving from it, and even possibly more. I feel no guilt at all about it, mostly b/c I know, from my mom being a BOE teacher for 35 years, that we could have gotten the exact same result simply be being squeaky wheels. And when our 2yo DS is ready for pre-K, I'll do the same exact thing- and push for a full-day placement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 09:54 PM Flag
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good for you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 01:12 AM Flag
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^^^ adding, isn't it only the first dc you had to cheat in? aren't they all in now no problem? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 01:13 AM Flag
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no, they ask for an address w/every kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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Good luck with #3. The DOE is cracking down hard on address falsification. I doubt you will get away with it now. Totally different ballgame these days. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:14 AM Flag
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bringing value to a school? that's what a smart dc does? and the dumb ones are, what? taking value away? you are so repugnant on so many levels. agree that the doe is cracking down and i for one hope your whole family gets kicked out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:50 PM Flag
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np: i tried really hard to improve my child's public school. worked MANY hours for the PA, volunteered, tutored some LEP kids because the principal was too lame to get them the ESL they needed, tried to fund-raise. I wound up frustrated and bitter, and -- bottom line -- my kid really suffered from being 4 years in a bad school. We fled to private, fortunately with generous FA. Agree that it's a bit much to expect parents to fix a system that is so broken, and particularly resent this when it comes from parents who live in neighborhoods i can't afford. In retrospect, i really wish I had though of lying to try for a better school. I would feel less guilty about that than I do about compromising my child's education. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 12:57 AM Flag
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How on earth is reporting on cheating an immoral act?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:07 AM Flag
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I am amazed at the OP's attitude, and the poster above who is completely unrepentant about cheating for her first 2 dcs, and plans to cheat for the 3rd. I guess honesty and playing by the rules is now a thing of the past in NYC? I find this disgusting. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:13 AM Flag
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big ditto [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:38 AM Flag
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Well said. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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It's not like your only option is to cheat or send your DD to a bad school. If your zoned school is so awful, why don't you move? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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Of course people are obsessed: it's not like this is a victimless crime. If you cheat your way into a spot, you may bump a kid who's actually entitled to that spot. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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np:or think about the lack of diversity it creates at the zone school especially when many may be doing it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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Your daughter is 3. You have time. If your zoned school is so bad, why don't you move to a zone that's better? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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OK, I see at least 4 "Why don't you just move?" posts. Am I just missing all those apartments around PS 234, 6, 199 that are the same price as the ones in Washington Heights or Bushwick? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 11:25 AM Flag
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Where does it say in the rule book that you're entitled to a large, cheap apartment and the ability to cheat your way into a school you're not zoned for? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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I have a small apartment -- that i can afford. if you have large and cheap up for grabs i'll take it. my point is that it is not so easy to move into a good district. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 11:33 AM Flag
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np Well, if you're a cheater, I hope you get caught. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 12:08 PM Flag
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Where in my post does it say i am a cheater? i am not. I live in a crappy neighborhood and work a job I don't much like to pay for private school with FA for which i am very grateful. You seem to be looking for a fight -- why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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If you are zoned for a crappy public and can't afford private then try the Catholics before you put yourself through the stressful cheating process. Catholic schools offer an excellent academic education at a fraction of the cost of private schools. Their graduation rates blow NYC public schools away, and their students consistently outperform NYC public schools on standardized tests. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:02 PM Flag
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Well, if you insist on living in a glass house, look out for the hailstorm. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:06 PM Flag
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And when they find you out -- and hopefully they will -- your dd will get yanked from her school! Ha ha ha! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:13 PM Flag
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EEEwww-you're so some wretched Steinbeck character. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 01:16 PM Flag
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I would never do it, personally, because I think it is such a horrible message to send to the child you are acting on behalf of. Basically it's "if you're not entitled to something, cheat so you can still get it". We used to live in a crummy zone, couldn't afford private or a better one in NYC, so now we live in NJ. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:17 PM Flag
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while i do other things people deem "immoral" and "cheating" i have to say that i wouldn't lie to get into a school. but i haven't been in that position yet. someone i know told me she did it and for some reason it pissed me off. i would never report her though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:29 PM Flag
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fine. you can gnash your teeth over my morals all you want as they are dragging you and your dc out of my school. because i would rat you out in a heartbeat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:33 PM Flag
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Amen!! Me too!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:39 PM Flag
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i can almost forgive this of someone who is too poor to afford a good zone. but an entitled sh&t like you who can pay for private but wants to sneak her way into a good zone? what's the matter? the mortgage payment on that brownstone in harlem too good to give up? eff you. and stay the f&ck away from my school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:35 PM Flag
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lol! totally agree. if you can afford private - go. leave a space at the good public schools to the rest of us who aren't so "fortunate." [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:39 PM Flag
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ditto. op should move off her (indefensible) "moral" high ground and into a good zone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:43 PM Flag
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hey, she's robin hood mom! rob from the rich and give to the...oh, right. she's rich, too. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:47 PM Flag
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sounds like she robs from the poor to me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:47 PM Flag
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OK - but in general, people in great school districts are, in fact, paying way more in property taxes than someone in bad districts. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:39 PM Flag
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Hate to break the news to you -- there really is no Santa Claus. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 12:50 PM Flag
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frightening. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 02.24.09, 01:04 PM Flag
[ - ] City pool question: 3 yo DS has a cut on his cheek. The official rules say no lesions (is a cut a lesion)? Will they let him swim? Anyone BTDT? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
New York City 07.04.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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If it's not oozing, it's fine. You might want to cover with a band aid just to be safe. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:25 AM Flag
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It's not oozing, but the rules say no bandages. What do you think? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:26 AM Flag
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Kind of a crapshoot. Depends on the moron who is checking at the gate. If you try it, make sure you have an attractive backup plan, like a fun water park. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:28 AM Flag
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That's the problem...it's kind of a hike to the pool and if we get there and DS can't go in, he'll freak out. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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Too many rules. Do you live close enough to go to Riverbank or somewhere else? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 01:47 PM Flag
[ - ] looking for a little brother's name for owen. i am thinking gavin, desmond or paul. thoughts? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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Paul [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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Gavin? Desmond? Why not just name him Imafag? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:54 AM Flag
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Wow--what a nasty and unenlightened response. Gavin and Desmond are really cool unusual names but my favorite is Gavin. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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sorry, they all suck.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:04 PM Flag
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Just telling you what your DS would be hearing on the playground every day. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:12 PM Flag
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they're all fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:17 PM Flag
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desmond has a barrow in the marketplace. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:18 PM Flag
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if had to pick would say Gavin [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 03:07 PM Flag
[ - ] 8 weeks pg and attacked my dh for sex this morning. i forgot about this part of being pg! love those hormones!!! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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At 8 weeks pg, I was too busy puking to have sex. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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no morning sickness for me this time or last time- i am lucky. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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still feel that at 33 weeks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 02:30 PM Flag
[ - ] fireworks start at 9 PM. my almost 4 yo ds really wants to see them. bedtime is usually about 7:30. i don't have a problem with him going to bed really late for this one night, but wondering if he will make it. anyone else deciding about this? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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We're skipping it with my 3 yo. We would have to travel to see them, and its not worth his having a meltdown far from home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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op: last summer he was almost 3 and we skipped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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Do it. And if he falls asleep, wake him. Fireworks are so magical to young children. Don't let him miss them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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We're letting our kids stay up to see them, but we can see them from our roof so it's easier. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:23 AM Flag
[ - ] any one know of the store in chinatown really large that sells all kinds of things you could use for crafts (not pearl pain) u can get chinese slippers etc from there too 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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in Soho now, on Broadway... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:05 AM Flag
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Pearl River [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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or yes! it was driving me crazy trying to remember [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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YES YES THANK YOU!!!!1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:07 AM Flag
[ - ] All towns in Bergen county have basically the same percentages for different religions, yet some are labeled "Waspy" and others "Jappy" -- what makes the town described as one over the other? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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Where are you getting your data? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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they are totally different. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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Ridgewood is Waspy. Fair Lawn/Glen Rock is more Jewishy (not necessarily Jappy, just as a "large" Jewish population [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 12:52 PM Flag
[ - ] looking for a crafts store in bklyn or somewhere where i can pick up an all in one craft activity for family bbq tomorrow. wanted to order from oriental trading but didn't get a chance any suggestions. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:58 AM Flag
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where in bklyn? Zelda's, Toys R Us [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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zelda's? never heard of do u have an address. Clinton Hill area or Lefferts Gardens [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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oh, far from you... there's one in Cobble Hill on Court Street...forgot the name [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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thanks i'll look it up. Do u think Pearl Paint would have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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yes -- check their site first [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:05 AM Flag
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Target? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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Pizazz Toyz has lots of crafty sets. The art supply store across the way has lots of, well, art supplies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Any book recs for father-to-be? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:58 AM Flag
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Most of those books were pretty useless. Any basic childcare book is a good place to start. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:03 AM Flag
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thanks. any other gift ideas? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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What are you celebrating? DB's birth? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:06 AM Flag
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pregnancy after trying for over a year [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:07 AM Flag
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Congrats--that's not something I gave a gift for (after 3 years and IVF to get pregnant, the pregnancy was gift enough). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:09 AM Flag
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happiest baby on the block -- short & sweet with practical suggestions -- perfect for men [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Any book recs for father-to-be? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:58 AM Flag
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Penthhouse Forum [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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shut up [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 02:37 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know the words to a song for dcs that's about a green frog and he go La di da di da, I can't for the life of me remember the words 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Toddler 07.04.08, 10:50 AM Flag
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Rainbow Connection, as sung by Kermit? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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i don't know we used to sing it at db's baby class, i know you stick your tounge out to act like the frog , not very helpful am i? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:54 AM Flag
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Some day we'll find it the rainbow connection, the lover, the dreamer in me...La di di da di di da blah blah blah... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:59 AM Flag
[ - ] 5 yr old boy who is usually well behaved just spit in brownie batter we were just making. WTF 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:50 AM Flag
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sorry but lol, it was a weak moment for him, now no brownies for him, lesson learned [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone who has a dh that hates going out? My dh and I never ever go out to dinner or movie, he just can't be bothered with it, We have never done this since we had dcs, (oldes is going to be 9yo, yes 9yo) we go out with dcs on rare occasions because we sort of end up walking by a restaurant and we get hungry. I mentioned if we can go out for our anniversary this month and he as usual says he's not in the mood. I am a sahm so i never have a chance to go out and dress up a bit. Its making me depressed 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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i can't believe you put up with this for 9 yrs. dh and I go out weekly and have since our oldest was born 5 yrs ago. there are times when we keep it low key-go to gym and work out tog for example, but worth it. fortune in sitting costs, but better for me to have this expense than unhappy in marriage [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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op, ita but i really can't force dh to do this stuff, i ask on rare occasions but always the same answer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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then do something without him or talk to him about how this is important to you and go from there [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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I'll try explaining this tonight to him, thx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone who has a dh that hates going out? My dh and I never ever go out to dinner or movie, he just can't be bothered with it, We have never done this since we had dcs, (oldes is going to be 9yo, yes 9yo) we go out with dcs on rare occasions because we sort of end up walking by a restaurant and we get hungry. I mentioned if we can go out for our anniversary this month and he as usual says he's not in the mood. I am a sahm so i never have a chance to go out and dress up a bit. Its making me depressed. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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Can you book something and just tell him you are going? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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by myself? and i have to get bil to watch dcs, he is the only family we have around [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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No I meant go out with him but you do the organizing and just tell him you are going out together. Can you get a sitter for dc rather than bil if that gives you more flexibility. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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we've never gotten a sitter, and frankly i'm scared i'll end up being let down because dh will just cancel probably [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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Your ds is old enough to be fine at home with a responsible sitter and this may give you more freedom. I think if you can get your dh out once or twice and you have a good evening then he might get back into it. Why not use your anniversary as an excuse to force him to go out. Tell him how much it would mean to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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9yo is oldest, youngest is 14mo but is a good baby and will be asleep by the time we go out anyway so its not a hassle to whoever is watching them, its dh... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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mine is the same. He'll go out with his friends, but not with me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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op, dh doesn't go out with friends, he likes to stay at home play with dcs and watch tv and on the pc, period, and we aren't old btw. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 10:35 AM Flag
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Do you have friends who like to go out? I've sort of given up on DH. When I want to do something fancy, I call a mom friend and invite her out on a "date." It's fun! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.04.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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