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[ - ] I have done some research on the ERB (WPPSI). To take the test for PreK admission, you need to be 3 1/2, and they give you the same subtests they give to the older kids. This makes no sense to me, because my friend, who is a psychologist, says the WPPSI subtests are supposed to be different for kids under 4. Pls. explain how they can give 3 1/2 yos a test designed for older kids. Pls. only answer this if you know what you are talking about. tia 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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from what I heard (my dd took it at 4yr old) the test for prek admission is diff. They psychologist giving the test will ask things the 3 yr old should know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:02 AM Flag
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I have not seen the test that the ERB testers do administer but our preschool director told me that it was the exact same test as for 4 year olds but graded differently. DC also took it before 4 and was not able to finish it (gave up after 40 mns). This process is crazy. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:03 AM Flag
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Don't know if it is the same test but my dcs took it at both age 3 & 4 & did better at age 3. The admissions director said this was normal because it is graded on a nationwide scale & most kids do not go to preschool at age 2 so those who do are "ahead of the curve". By the time they take it at age 4 it has balanced out somewhat and they are not longer so "advanced". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:08 AM Flag
[ - ] So bday party question: if a guest came w/out a gift, do you still send a thank you for coming to help me celebrate card? Or do you just ignore it b/c the card might make them feel strange? (i saw send the card b/c we are glad they were here, dh says it looks strange and to not send). Thoughts? 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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op: lol, say not saw! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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send the card and thank them for being there [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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^^btw I did this. My dd was writing out thank you cards and a boy from her class didn't bring a gift. I said to just say thanks for coming [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:58 AM Flag
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Send a thanx [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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send card then to everyone who came- [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:58 AM Flag
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i'd send the card [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:58 AM Flag
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what kind of people dont bring a gift to a b-day party [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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that's a whole other issue. she shouldn't sink to their level. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:00 AM Flag
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op: not entirely sure and we're friends w/them so I don't know if they just totally spaced out and forgot to bring it or what. DD has enough crap anyway, so it's really not a big deal, I just wasn't sure how to handle the card situation. b/c we were so happy she could join us and help us celebrate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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I've forgotten to bring the present before, bt I always made sure to tell the mom I was sorry I flaked and left it at home. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:03 AM Flag
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op: Thanks everyone, that is what I thought! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
[ - ] moms of 12 week olds....how much (if FF) and how often does your dc eat? when is your last feeding at night? and how long of a strech will he/she sleep at night? thanks. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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my dds are already in school but my dd was eating every 3 hrs with FF. At 8wks was sleeping all night (12 hrs) so her last bottle was at 6pm. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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about 6 bottles a day of about 5-6 oz (DD was hungry) -- she'd eat every 3 hours. we'd put her down at 7 or 8 and she'd sleep till about 6am... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
[ - ] invited friends to pool club with us -- just wondering do I pay their guest fees or do they? It is $20 for an adult and $10 per child....do I split or pay whole fee? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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if you invited them, offer to pay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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ita [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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ita... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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you invited...you pay [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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you pay... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know a good place for dance lessons (tap/ballet) for 4 boy year old on the East Side. Preferably murray hill or Midtown East but anywhere east is good. Anyone else want to put their boy in dance classes or am I totally strange. TIA> 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.02.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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you aren't weird. My dd classmate (2 boys) were taking dance at a chelsea spot. I don't know the name but if my son wanted to take dance class, I would sign him up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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I'm sure most of dd's male classmates were in dance class at 4... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:19 AM Flag
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Is he requesting dance lessons? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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try Broadway Dance Center, on 57th Street [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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My 3 year old ds goes to BAE. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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American Ballet Theatre, approx. 19 & Broadway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 02:06 PM Flag
[ - ] how much to pay college student for babysitting occasionally in the evening (in brooklyn if it matters)? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 06.02.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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$15.00 an hour [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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I pay our college student $12 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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what a bargain. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:16 AM Flag
[ - ] 3 yo ds is an insane early bird. This morning he graced us at 4:55am. Bedtime is 7:30 (used to be 7 but we pushed it later hoping he would sleep later) and usually he's beyond exhausted and falls right to sleep. We can't get him to sleep past 5am. Any ideas? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.02.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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still naps? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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yes, though we've experimented with getting rid of it. the problem is we end up giving in after a few days because he's so dog tired from waking at 5 and not napping! do you think it would help to stop the nap? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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it will take 1-2 weeks, but yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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thanks. maybe i should just try it and not give in to the nap this time. will be a bit painful but i suppose i could move his bedtime earlier temporarily until he adjusts... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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np: Maybe you could shorten it and then phase it out rather than going colf turkey [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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that's an idea. thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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my early risers still get up early no matter how late they go to bed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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so do you put them down early or late? i always think if he'd gone to bed earlier at least he'd be getting more hours of sleep... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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My dds goes down at 6:30 and she gets up usually at 6am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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that sounds like a great schedule. do they nap? how old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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it's a phase that will pass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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it's been almost a year. when is it going to pass?! maybe when he's 4? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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It didn't say it would pass quickly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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it didnt for us, dd is 5 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:55 AM Flag
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try adding naps back in. My kids do this when they are overtired... sleep begets sleep. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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i know this is true which is why i always had an early bedtime for him (even though my friends thought it was nuts). maybe i should start by moving the bedtime back to 6:45 or 7 and let him nap when he seems to need it? and see what happens? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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My nieces were like this. They are still very early risers. I think SIL got a big digital clock and put it in their room and told them they could play in the room but not leave until the clock read 6:00. It worked for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:05 AM Flag
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thanks - we did that actually. worked for a few months but he refuses to stay in his bed now. i know that's a disclipline issue that we could probably tackle but his baby brother is now in the same room and i would rather he not stay there from 5 to 6 making noise and wake the baby too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:11 AM Flag
[ - ] I can't stand this new format. So many times have come here and just quit in frustration trying to navigate just to post. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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Change is hard for everyone. Especially those who are getting older. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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Is there anyone here who isn't getting older? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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me...I just croaked. Goodbye, cruel world! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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nice [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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I'm 45 and I have no trouble with the new site. older is a state of mind [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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tell that to my 81yo uncle [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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older is a state of pain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:21 AM Flag
[ - ] op: thanks. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:43 AM Flag
[ - ] op: thanks. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:43 AM Flag
[ - ] I have to travel across the country for a funeral in two weeks. I'm breastfeeding and will need to pump on the plane... has anyone encountered trouble in trying to bring a pump on the plane? I was thinking with all the wires/batteries and the fact that it's an unusual item I might be prevented from bringing it...which would be a disaster!! 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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get a hand pump [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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I will, as backup. But I find it hard to letdown to a hand pump and I fear mastitis [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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had a girlfriend get stopped at security for a "rabbit" (vib) in her purse, but have never heard of a pump problem... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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np: that must have been interesting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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I would DIE [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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apparently, a man opened the carry on, was confused, showed it to other screeners to get some clarification and a woman screener got him up to date ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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ive brought my medela on planes w. no problem at all. i would not get a handpump -- youd have to spend ages in the rest room [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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sorry, i am confused. you know that you will have to go to a funeral in two weeks? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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good question... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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np: lol, you are smarter than I am! That did not even register... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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maybe she has a hit planned on someone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:04 AM Flag
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it is considerate that the death has been scheduled in advance for ease of airline ticket purchase and such [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:05 AM Flag
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maybe she meant memorial [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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^^ you're probably right [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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They might have to hand check it--so make sure it's easily accessible. The harder part might be carrying bm through security; if you're going to do that you might want to check TSA regulations & carry a printout. I've heard that screeners can be inconsistent about letting the milk through (if you're bringing it back from your trip). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:17 AM Flag
[ - ] I HATE THE FORMAT OF THIS NEW SITE!! 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:39 AM Flag
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deal with it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:40 AM Flag
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what's the big deal? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:50 AM Flag
[ - ] Any recs for a laptop? My dell just died and i refuse to buy from them again after all the problems. I would like to keep it to under a 1000 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.02.08, 06:38 AM Flag
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MacBook. I had a PC and made the switch and it was well worth it. A little over $1000, but totally worth it, in my opinion... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:42 AM Flag
[ - ] well, i finally found out why i didnt get a preK letter- evidently they didnt get my app. The DOE is so dumb- this process, while simple, clearly didnt work 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.02.08, 06:37 AM Flag
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that sucks. So now what? Do they still allow you to apply for Sept [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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Yes, if you throw a hissy fit [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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good for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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op- for preK??? there arent enough spots- there are others that wont get in- why would they let me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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Believe me, the squeaky wheel gets the grease. Stand your ground and they will cave. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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so what do i say- let me go to psXXX? i really think this process should be done online [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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No, to correct this matter you need to go to the school and speak w/ the parent coordinator [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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can i do it over the phone [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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No. Go to the school fill out the application and request a copy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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but what application is there at this point? the lottery is over, right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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Not if you never received the application. make a fuss - email Klein - demand an application! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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i filled out the application that i printed out online- DOE said they dont have my application- meaning they either didnt receive it or they lost it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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did you keep a copy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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i sure hope so, i will have to check in my mess of an apt when i get home tonight [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:58 AM Flag
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then bring it to the school personally (keep another copy) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:59 AM Flag
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And that, ladies and gentlemen, is WHY YOU SEND THESE THINGS CERTIFIED MAIL. So you have proof that you sent it. Duh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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Yes. Not receiving your application means that they are dumb...not that their was a postal problem [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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there not their go back to grammar school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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there are flaws with the process- thats my issue [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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maybe so but her child should not suffer because of "flaws" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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Seriously, how many times have you not gotten an letter bec of the post office? It has never happened to me once & I have lived my whole life in NYC. I just don't buy that excuse [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:18 AM Flag
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I agree. I have almost never had a postal problem in my life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:22 AM Flag
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op- agree- DOE is dumb- if a computer program was supposed to place kids in schools, then the whole thing should have been online and you could get a confirmation # immediately [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:24 AM Flag
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Can you honestly not understand that NOT EVERYONE HAS ACCESS TO A COMPUTER OR IS COMPUTER LITERATE? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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Then have them work with the school staff & use computer at school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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np: Why didn't you just send the application return receipt? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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My son still has not received a letter, but according to the school he is on their list. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:35 AM Flag
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what school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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282. Why are you waiting for yours? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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Didn't your application require a posted postcard, so you would know when they received it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:49 AM Flag
[ - ] what are dc's favorite books? looking to buy new books for my 2 yo. tia. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:36 AM Flag
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look at book mom post- its great [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:38 AM Flag
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jamberry... can say it by heart.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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knuffle bunny, corduroy, duck in a truck, harry the dirty dog, anything babar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.02.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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