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[ - ] Name Poll: Fionn 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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Fiona is nice. Is that what you meant? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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pronounced fee-ohn or fee-ahn? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:20 AM Flag
[ - ] I really want to get the class lists from Anderson. Most of dc's friends from preschool are away on vacation and this would be a great time to get together with some new classmates and hopefully make some friends. Anyone else waiting for class list from your dc school? I know there will be flamers, but I think setting up playdates now is a GREAT idea to get them ready for September. 59 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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We are waiting for the A class list as well. Maybe we can set something up for August : ) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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np; Are you the EE mom from below? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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I think this post is absolutely FAKE!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 12:03 PM Flag
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np: We are also waiting for the A lists. I think playdates are a good idea. There is even a mom with a dd who I met at the "picnic" who I think seemed to get along with my dd and I plan to shoot her an email when I get the list. Nevertheless, fwiw, there are so many Anderson haters on here these days that these kind of posts will generate snarky responses. If you try to schedule play dates when you get the list with people nearby, or others, I'd think you'd get a nice response. Nevertheless, there's probably no rush as a lot of people are busy in the summer with various activities, vacations, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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. . . and they only reason I think this is more important for a school like A is that a lot of these kids will know nobody the first day they arrive. IN local schools, a child often knows at least one person prior to arrival at the school. I think seeing a familiar face will make the whole K process a little less scary - even if my dd never plays with that summer play date kid again. After the summer, the playdate scheduling is 100% up to dd. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:26 AM Flag
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so, the kids won't know anyone -- it's really not a big deal at all -- they'll all be in the same boat. i would use the summer months to stay connected with dc's friends from preschool, which will give your dc assurances that even though her friends are going to different schools, they can still see their old friends. btw, i am a current anderson parent. all the kids managed to make friends with their classmates the first week or two of school -- which is what happens at most schools, even neighborhood ones. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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Honestly, if my kid doesn't know anyone, she will totally survive. If she knows a kid or two before school, I think it would be great. Also, meeting a new kid or two who will be in your new K class in no way replaces the endless playdates with old friends. I'm not sure what the debate is exactly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:51 AM Flag
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my dc is not school age and I have no intention of sending her to Anderson one day but why are you posting this on UB other than to announce your dc is going there? Obviously, you're not going to get the list from here. Why not just call the school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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op: I knew that as soon as I put Anderson in my post i would get remarks like this. But, as you see, someone else who has a dc going there in Sept is on here too and has said she wants to set something up. You never know who you will "meet" on UB, that is why I put the school name in my post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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yet this is an anonymous forum - better to take the issue to the parent coordinator directly and ask if she can set up a yahoo group and invite the parents to join... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 04:45 PM Flag
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np: What, is your dc not "smart" enough to get into A, or are you to much of a snobby bitch to even consider publics? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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Everyone at the school is on vacation now, you are not getting the list until close to start of the new school year. Find some other friends to play with. Odds are most of the kids going into A are in camp or on vacation now too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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NP: Isn;t there summer school now? People will be at the school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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I don't think so, pretty sure the school is empty. Except the cafeteria, I think they still serve school lunch there as part of the city program. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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or: Good to know. i thought all publics had summer school. My dc is not quite yet 2 yo, so i am new to this all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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Who the f*ck cares??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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ITA - It's unnecessary, other schools you just show up the first day and deal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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op: Yes, I understand that and that would be OK too, but I just thought it would be nice for dc to play with other kids this summer. I did not say it was necessary, just that it would be nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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don't micromanage how your kid makes new friends. Just go out and spend some time at the playground, the pool, the park, B&N, etc. etc. It's not like there are no other kids in her age but her future classmates at Anderson. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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op: We do all of that. DS has a lot of friends and makes new ones at the playground a lot. I am not saying A kids are his only choice of friends. Wow, I knew there would be flaming, but this is ridiculous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:33 AM Flag
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no, you are ridiculous, sorry. So your kid is not bored. Why the need to hook up with future A kids? I don't get it. There is an odd vibe to this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:35 AM Flag
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OP should have exchanged some numbers at the orientation and called those moms if she was really dying for A playmates. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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witch [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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Stop with the nonsense already. NOBODY but you cares. Really. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:24 AM Flag
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np: you sound jealous and bitter. If OP had put PS 87 or PS 6 or PS 199 or another public school would you be so angry with her? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:26 AM Flag
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np: But it never is one of those moms. It's always Anderson moms, thinking every single moment of their child's life needs to be maximized. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:27 AM Flag
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ITDA. I see posting from other Moms that are similar and they rarely get flamed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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Well, I'll roll my eyes at them when I see it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:31 AM Flag
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mom's of 5yos? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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no, because parents at those schools are never going to be like OP. Class lists? For goodness sakes! Enjoy your summer and forget about anything school related for another two months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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op: We are enjoying the summer. All I want to do is try to get ds together with some new kids. I really do not see what the problem is. I am not thinking about school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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The places you go to with your child does not have any kids in his age? Do you really have to setup play dates over the summer? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:33 AM Flag
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It's just soooo boring. Isn't there anything else??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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I'll probably be flamed too - but I am at the opposite end of the spectrum. Parents need to butt out of childrens social lives. Leave them alone to find their way. Playdates over the summer with future classmates are ridiculous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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Thanks. ITA. The kid is now old enough to find her own friends. No need for a parent to butt in and set things up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:31 AM Flag
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Do you know what a minority we are in? I was amazed at the intensity of the moms trying to jockey social position for their dc. It was a frenzy - and so incredibly foreign to my sensibilities. I talked to my mom - it just wasn't like this when we grew up - you threw your child in a pile of kids and let them find their own friends. You didn't have to manipulate it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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Are you the one who keeps posting about this?!? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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op: No, I have not posted this before. Was there another one? See, I am not the only mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:35 AM Flag
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and they are all incoming Anderson moms [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:35 AM Flag
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np: Well, maybe we can all get together and let our kids play at the playground together. There is nothing wrong with the OP trying to meet other incoming A parents and dc. Maybe she just wants her son to have some kind of familiarity walking into a new school in Sept. Leave her alone. Hey OP, we should meet up. I wish there were a way to exchange info without all of the UB flamers seeing it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:38 AM Flag
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I'm the OR, also an incoming A parent, and I suspect OP is fake. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:39 AM Flag
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LOL, that's not helping your cause. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:36 AM Flag
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Posts like these are just setting all the A parents up to be flamed and ridiculed. It's getting really annoying. Can't you just wait like the rest of us? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:37 AM Flag
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"get them ready for September"? What do you have to do to get your child ready for September? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:34 AM Flag
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op: Just so he does not walk into a new school, with new teachers and no familiar faces. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:36 AM Flag
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Doesn't Anderson do some kind of welcome/orientation kind of thing? That should be enough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:40 AM Flag
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They had it, OP should have gotten some numbers there. Of course that would have been too much work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:53 AM Flag
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Compare them to the other incoming dcs! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:36 AM Flag
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live and let live. different people different approaches to life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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we got our dc's class list last year really early. dc did one playdate over the summer, then the week before school, everyone was freaking out and dc had calls from like 8 kids to do something. they will spend sooooooooooooo much time tog next year, don't even worry about it-there really is no need [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:52 AM Flag
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np: OK - 8 calls is pretty extreme. As another new A parent, I figured I'd call up a kid from down the block and schedule something for the week before school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:57 AM Flag
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i think that is what or is saying-everyone called someone from down the block before school started. it just sounds like a lot of people got nervous after they got back from vacation or whatever [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:18 PM Flag
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If everyone calls one person then it's statistically pretty hard for one person to have received 8 calls. Something tells me a lot of people were making a lot of calls. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:32 PM Flag
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when did you get the class list? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 12:00 PM Flag
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IT IS ILLEGAL FOR THEM TO GIVE OUT THE INFORMATION! PARENTS HAVE TO GIVE PERMISSION FOR THEIR INFO TO BE RELEASED, WHICH WON'T HAPPEN UNTIL SCHOOL BEGINS.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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We all signed a bunch of papers at orientation. We probably signed something that said our contact information can be released, but I honestly don't remember. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:31 PM Flag
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Damn, 54 responses on this one? wow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:25 PM Flag
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Just type "anderson" into whatever you post and you'll get a lot of replies ;-) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Okay, so this really sucks. My friend joined my gym, which I was initially very happy about. I envisioned motivating me to go to the gym more and having someone to talk to and get lunch afterwards. She is driving me crazy instead. Totally disrupting my work out to the point that I don't even want to go. I can't go any other time (has to be when dc's are in camp). WWYD? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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I'd put on my ipod and tell her i need to concentrate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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Unfortunately it's been a month already of talking. She would know I don't have to concentrate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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Find bigger things to worry about and then just take my ipod and distance myself...really reread your post. Silly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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What's the problem? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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If you are not a single mom - get out of bed early & go at 5:30/6 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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this is my last option, but thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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I would get an ipod and make a big deal out of deciding that you need to focus more on your exercise - then pop in the ear pieces and ignore her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
[ - ] any mds on or anyone with medical billing experience? dh had a biopsy done. he only had one spot - as far as he knew. got the bill and we were charged for two separate biopsies. called about it and was told the op report said the dr. made two incisions. so, he got to charge $634 for each one. ludicrous, imo. we have insurance but are still responsible for $223/incision - in addition to everything else. sigh. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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When you called, did you talk to the doctor? doctor's office? The key is how it has been coded- the insurance pays their portion based on that. It's possible that it's been coded incorrectly. And if it hasn't, you can express your dismay to the doctor I suppose, so that he's more clear in future when talking to patients about what's involved. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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i talked to the billing person at the hospital. not sure if talking to the dr. would make a difference. but dh has another procedure w/same dr. tomorrow so i guess i need all this cleared up today. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:24 AM Flag
[ - ] My dh stays up late almost every night, supposedly working until 2-3 am. He can't understand why I get annoyed about it. Would it annoy you? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.10.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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Well, is he really working? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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not always. But usually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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I would only be annoyed if he was not working and said he was. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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at home, or at teh office? if he's at home, adn he stil gets up an does what he supposed to in the morning, i woudlnt care. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:57 AM Flag
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He is probably looking at porn -- that is what my DH does. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:08 AM Flag
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or playing fantasy baseball! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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Is he at home? If so, can you see him actually doing work? In any case, its a bit strange in my opinion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:59 AM Flag
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my dh does this, totally annoys me. i told him he can't sleep in room with me if he comes in after 12, and he needs to limit it to 2-3 x/wk. he agreed, so long as I cut back on ub. he plays computer games and does fantasy baseball. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:00 AM Flag
[ - ] is there a beauty supply store near Union Square? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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ricky's on 8th street [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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^^ and sephora on the north side of union square [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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Thanks, but I really need the cheesy kind - for hairspray. Sephora is too $$$$ for the product I need. thanks anyway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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go to Duane Reade [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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not super near, but there's a Ricki's on 6th, around 12th maybe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:56 AM Flag
[ - ] what am i missing while packing for my two DSs and myself to visit my family for two months in europe? each boy: 6 short sleeved t's, 2 long sleeved, 3 shorts, 2 sweat pants, 1 nice pants, swim trunks, 1 sweater, 1 fleece sweatshirt, hat? tia 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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if you're going to be walking a lot, you need lots of comfortable socks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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what about sunscreen, motrin, thermometer any other medicines, undergarmets,sun hats? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:52 AM Flag
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^^sorry, already packed medicines, shoes and undergarments. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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Wow, I pack more than that when we go away for a long weekend! But then, I'm a horrible overpacker. I have much admiration for people who can pack lightly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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some sort of sandal or beach shoes, pajamas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:20 AM Flag
[ - ] My DH and I have hit a rough patch. We definitely need to talk to someone, and going to a social worker just wasn't solving anything. I think we need a psychiatrist who does couples counseling. Does anyone have any suggestions -- would prefer a man. And they must take United Healthcare. Even if you make a suggestion but aren't sure about the insurance it would be much appreciated. Thanks so much. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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i don't understand - you need medication for couples counseling? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:52 AM Flag
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Not sure, it's possible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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what you want is a psychologist, a psychiatrist usually doesn't do counseling, they just prescribe meds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:26 AM Flag
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They don't all do it, but some do. I have gotten a couple of names but would prefer to go to someone that comes recommended....even if it's by strangers! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:39 AM Flag
[ - ] I need some hair conditioner for 4 y/o dd. Besides California Baby what brands do you like? Looking for a natural smell. tia 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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burts bees [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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We use Cozy Cuts conditioner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:56 AM Flag
[ - ] dd wants to see high school musical 3 for birthday party in the fall. acceptable for 6-7 year olds? 56 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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so not appropriate but so many parents let them see it anyway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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have you actually seen the movie? and how old are your kids? i'm pretty picky about what my kids watch but have no problem letting my 7 y.o. watch the first two movies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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I have seen them and I find them so full of terrible stereotypes that I would like to keep my 6 & 8yo dds away from for a few more years. They don't need to be learning these things at this age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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np: I think the lessons they have in the movie like dealing with mean kids, ect isn't bad for the kids to see. I also have an 8yr old and don't mind her watching. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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I think the bad aspects outweigh those good ones, but that is just me, I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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what are the bad aspects? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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yes. I'm a stickler with movies or cartoons but thought this was ok. Also Camp Rock was liked by the entire movie including my dh. We discussed the lessons after the movie and dd got it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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lol- i just posted below you about how much i hated camp rock. really thought it was awful in every way. but like i said, we talked about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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we liked the music, kids danced..yes it was cheesy but what tween movie isn't. I did like the lesson about the mean girl since my dd has a few of them in her class or camp and this has been a recent discussion on why ppl are mean to others [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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that's good. i just thought the lead girl was awful with that fake smile the whole movie. and the fact that all the teens shimmied when they danced really bugged me. even the girl playing the acoustic guitar shimmied - you can't shimmy when you play guitar. but i'm pg and easily annoyed these days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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you know- HSM is so low on my list of offensive things. parents have to pick and choose so you get to choose whatever you want. but i'd much rather my kids watch HSM than half the crap out there. Camp Rock - that was a horrible movie where every single female looked, sang and danced alike. But even that didn't bother me b/c it gave me a chance to talk with my 7 y.o about WHY I didn't like it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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I didn't let them see Camp Rock either - no point. FWIW, yes, I do pick and choose, but I choose to show them CLASSIC musicals which they love and adore, with good stories, great music and decent role models [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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np: those are great too but don't usually have a lesson..but they are oldies but goodies [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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np - lots of lessons, and I think they teach them better than these new tacky things as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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the lessons of the 40's and 50's musicals are good but we are dealing with a new world and kids think differently unfortunately. I think if you solely use the old movies for lessons is fine as long as you elaborate to fit the new times [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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omg - does EVERYTHING have to have a lesson? can't kids just watch something for entertainment? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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seriously! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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that's great - like i said you get to choose. no need to get all sanctimommy with your CLASSIC musicals. in the end, it's not going to make that big of a difference 10 years from now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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I'm not getting sanctimommy, I was just saying that in my opinion HSM is not appropriate for 6yos [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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What classical musicals are? Other than Sound of Music (which dd loves too)? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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are you kidding? So many of them - SoM, Mary Poppins, any of the Astaire/Rogers, Easter Parade, Singing in the Rain, Oklahoma, My Fair Lady, Meet me in St Louis... do you want me to keep going? Of course my 6yo doesn't fully understand everything that is happening in them, but she loves the music, dancing, great costumes, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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Some of these are far more inappropriate for 6 yo than HSM in my opinion. So we have to agree to disagree. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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how? just wondering, I think they're all great - np [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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^^^ forgot some kids classics - Wizard of Oz and anything Shirley Temple [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:22 AM Flag
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None of these will get my kids singing and dancing like HSM does. Sound of Music comes closest but other than that, nope. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:25 AM Flag
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well, all our kids are different. My dd BEGS to watch "White Christmas" daily, even in July, because she runs around dancing to the whole thing, and does the "sisters" routine with her sister [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:27 AM Flag
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nnp: My DD was not yet 6 when she saw 1 and 2 and it was totally fine. The songs are catchy and the storylines are a bit lame and stereotypical but totally harmless. Though I am afraid a bit #3 will jump the shark, the story line has nowhere to go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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for me it isn't about the storylines which are flimsy to begin with, yes the songs are catchy (and we have the cd for #1), but I thought the stereotypes were gross and the messages young girls get from it were not appropriate. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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For my kids it was about the music. Even my 3 yo can and likes to sing and dance to it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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which were? What was wrong with the messages? I think the message of acceptance is key. The other message abotu not being pressured to be fake just so your friends could like you is important too. But that's me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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yes, totally acceptable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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let me just warn you: i took my dd and her friends to the american girl movie for her 8th bday party. i was shocked at how many mothers considered this a mother/daughter bonding experience and crashed the party - one with her 11 y .o. son. and two moms even talked to me as if i was ruining something by making it be my dd's party. so, just know if your dd's friends' moms are as crazy as my dd's were, it may not be fun for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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wow... those mothers are crazy, but I would say that HSM is much LESS of a "bonding" experience film than American Girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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or: true - but considering there has never been an AG movie in theatres before, i couldn't have been ruining any kind of tradition. it's not like i was taking the kids to the Nutcracker on Christmas Eve. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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Oh, I completely agree but I do understand that some mothers see AG as a very mother-daughter bonding thing (I'm not one of them) but HSM is a different breen altoghther. I wouldn't let my dd's go see it with you, but if they were a few years older I'd be HAPPY to have another mom take them so I won't have to go! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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HSM is for the 6-8 you crowd. If you are 10+ you are likely to be too old to like it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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Oh I remember you...I can't believe that mom still came with her son. What is wrong with these damn ppl. Did they still pressure you to get everyone tix so you all could sit together? Not like the kids were 3 yr olds [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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the woman in charge of the party ended up charging all the moms. but it was a big mess b/c i had asked one mom to come and she ended up having to pay and wouldn't let me reimburse her. plus (and i knew this would happen) while the mom ended up buying a ticket for her son, i still got charged for him for the party so the movie theatre got double $$ for him. everything just ended up being so complicated which really annoyed me. i would have rather paid for everything but it was a big mess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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sorry it turned into such a mess [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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Is this HSM coming out in theatres? #1 and #2 were just on the Disney channel. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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no on the disney ch too (from what I know) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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In that case I don't see the bonding argument at all, they will watch it on TV at a party someplace. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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HSM3 is coming out in theatres [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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the bonding argument was for the American Girl movie not HSM [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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I would not allow my child to go to that birthday party! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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I'm with you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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My dd had HSM party last year, with great attendance and everyone loved it. We did not watch the movie, but played the songs and the kids did karaoke and danced. Everyone had a blast. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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I am sure that some parents were their gritting their teeth, but allowed dc to go b/c they didn't want to make that cr*p more attractive [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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np: My dd is 7 and this past year more than half of the parties she went to had either HSM or Hannah Montana theme. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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HM is almost as bad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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I TTTTTT A with OR that these movies are so not appropriate for that age and can't believe it's so widespread. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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ITA as well [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:14 AM Flag
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What age are they appropriate in your opinion? Have you seen them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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Yes, I have. I don't think they are good at any age that would probably *want* to watch them. I guess 10-11 is fine, but the messages in them are so shallow that I'd prefer my kids never see them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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Do your kids watch any shows? I happen to think the messages are not bad compared to other stuff that is on TV for this age group. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:26 AM Flag
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My kids watch PBS shows and did watch Noggin when they were younger. Most of the Disney Channel shows are off-limits as is a lot on Nick, but they love anything about science, nature, travel, cooking, etc., so we watch a lot of discovery and food network, and lots of old classic movies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:28 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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I like it. I am always looking for new fun ways to make desserts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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I like the ice cream cupcake recipe I am going to try it this weekend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:52 AM Flag
[ - ] Dh has an opportunity in E Europe; we could save aruond 100-500K per year. Here we are eating into savings because business sucks. Problem is DCs are enrolled in great G&Ts, and we'd lose those spots and probably not be able to get back in. WWYD? Also, I'd hate to traumatize them with the move. 40 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.10.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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How long would you be in Europe, and where? There are great schools there too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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Moscow. Probably 5-7 years. I know there are great schools; DH attended some of them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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Good lord, go. What an amazing life experience for them. Plus, thinking ahead, it will make great fodder for the eventual college applications. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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I would absolutely do it. How old are your kids now? It is such a fantastic opportunity to learn a language, experience a different culture (and Moscow isn't exactly a hick town), and when you return to the US they will have no problem finding a great place wherever you end up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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Exactly & many better than NYC schools [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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how long a commitment to being in EE? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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How old are your dc's? How long would you be in Europe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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7 and 5; youngest is entering citywide K. Figure on 5-7 years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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GO GO GO! I would in a heartbeat. They will gain so much for the experience, and it will help them all-around for the rest of their lives [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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you just want our A spot, don't you? Joke. I appreciate the perspective. Don't you think that children inherently hate change, though? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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np: if it were for a year, I would say differently. but you will be fully living there for about a third of their childhoods. that is an amazing opporutnity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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Not at all. My dh and I live in France with our dcs (who are not yet schoolaged), but I think it will be a great opportunity for your kids. Change is difficult but they will have such great opportunities there and it will be wonderful. My aunt & uncle moved with their 3 kids to England when they were the ages of yours, and it was great for them, after a small period of adjustment [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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Honestly, the fact that you would ask this question shows just how distorted our perspective about school options is here in NYC ;-) Go, silly woman, go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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op: the process has messed with my head, it's true. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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I would not move to Moscow with my family now, but I grew up in Eastern Europe myself so I am biased obviously. Is DH Russian? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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He's a Russian Jew [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:00 AM Flag
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How does he feel about it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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he is similarly ambivalent. The professional side is tempting but he doesn't minimize the potential stress on the family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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and the fact that he is Jewish contributes what to this discussion? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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np: A lot of Russians are Jews. Why does it bother you that she mentioned it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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It matters if OP's family is Jewish, though I would imagine these days you can find good synagogues in Moscow. I asked if DH is from there because it will make it easier on them to live there if he is and speaks the language. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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np: Being Russian Jewish is very different from being ehtnically Russian in terms of fitting in there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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op: ding ding ding. Antisemitism is real there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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np: I'm russian and I would not go to live in Russia. Very expensive, materialistic, over the top. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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Ahhh, that explains A LOT about Brighton Beach. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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I think Russia itself is different than Brighton Beach. BB is kind of a caricature of what Soviet people thought was the good life back in the early 80s. Moscow today is actually way worse than BB b/c it takes itself very seriously. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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np: There is so much wealth in Moscow these days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:23 AM Flag
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DS's or DD's? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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The benefits of going outweigh the benefits of staying IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:23 AM Flag
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Are you really sure you are going to be able to save that much? Moscow is one of the most expensive cities in the world, and I think that there is a lot of corruption, so you may be paying more than you think you will for things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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we're trying to figure according to the real cost of living there, and then build in 12% inflation per year. Certain costs (housing, food) are about double, as far as we can tell. But you're right that we should also budget for unexpected expenses. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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I would go, but I think the posters underestimate how challenging it'll be for the kids. You're right to worry about that! I was 8 when my family moved to Germany for two years, and it was hard and scary sometimes, and very very sad to be taken out of my school and away from my friends. It's a fantastic opportunity for your kids to learn a new language and culture, but they'll need a lot of support because they'll feel like outsiders for quite a while. I'm not saying not to do it -- just don't underestimate the challenges to your kids. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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this is exactly what makes me wonder if it's really worth the trauma. Thanks for sharing your experience. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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I would visit Moscow first and then decide. As far as great places to live abroad, I think it's pretty bad actually. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:49 AM Flag
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^^^ My colleague lived there for 4 yrs, and has told me lots of stories.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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op: this is my impression, too. First world cost of living (more) with third world standards. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:09 AM Flag
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I'm an American living in Europe. Although I enjoy living here, I miss having ready access to my friends and family back in the States in a way I did not anticipate before I moved here. Living abroad can have some fantastic advantages, but there are also many costs to consider. Definitely go visit and talk to other people who have lived in Moscow before you make a decision. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:55 AM Flag
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thank you for sharing your experience. Do you have dcs, and how has it affected them? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:12 AM Flag
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I have one dc who was born here. It breaks my heart on a daily basis that he can't see my parents more often. Other than that I enjoy living here, but I would rather have my children educated in the States although we're not there yet - he's too young. I think that the posters who say "go go go" can't have experience living abroad - if they did their responses would probably be more balanced. I wouldn't say not to do it -- it might overall be the best thing for your family in the end -- just think carefully about it and don't underestimate some of the tradeoffs you might have to make. On the other hand, some families who have lived abroad will not express the same hesitations that I am. Good luck whatever you decide. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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^^^and I wouldn't really worry about losing your NYC school places [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Looking to rent an apartment. What are the nicer areas in Manhattan on the west side north of 96th street (because itdue to price)? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.10.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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. . . and the paranthetical was supposed to say that I plan to live further uptown because the true UWS is too expensive, but I push "enter" by accident. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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Go west of Broadway (WEA and Riverside). Areas east of Broadway can be a little sketchier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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Thanks! Any range in cross streets? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:48 AM Flag
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anywhere is fine, but be warned that most of the places around Columbia - 110-120 near Riverside are owned by the school, so it is hard to find apts up there, and you DON'T want to be by Morningside Park/East of Bway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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LOL, that is actually the nicer area! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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are you kidding? the park that my DH won't even walk through in daylight because it is so unsafe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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You are on crack - I lived there for 10 year and walked through it many many many times & with my dc. It was unsafe 20 years ago, not today. It is beautiful and safe park. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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well, I guess it is my husband who is on crack. He attended Columbia Law 7 years ago and won't go near that park [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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Even 7 years ago it was safe, but much more so today. Columbia security is very good about scaring people about the perils of the neighborhood, I know I worked there for years, it is mostly bunk. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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np: my friend who lives around 116th and Frederick Douglas won't walk through it with her kids, even during the day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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or - so my dh isn't the only one... ok... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:01 AM Flag
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And yet tons of families, white, black and other go there, picnic there and just hang out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:03 AM Flag
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Morningside Heigths & Harlem on the east side of morningside park, Hamilton Heights/Sugar Hill [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:51 AM Flag
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have you considered Hell's Kitchen? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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I'd consider it (especially because I work right there!), but it doesn't seem like a kid freindly area. Do you find it to be? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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If you'd consider the East Side, nice rentals went up at 100th and 1st and 102nd. They even have shuttles to the subway. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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My friends just lived there and moved to FH because they hated it. I lived on 108th and B'way and went to Columbia. West of Broadway above 96th to maybe 116 is super nice and there are tons of family friendly things to do. There isn't a ton of inventory, and I don't know how prices are these days, but it is in some ways nicer and less crowded than lower down. I visited friends near Morningside Park recently but don't like that area as much. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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Thank you very much for the feedback! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:14 AM Flag
[ - ] Are their any advantages to taking ERBs at office instead of at preschool? Opting for former for my dc but worried that it might be a mistake. Any insights & experience would be appreciated. 38 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.10.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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I would have the dc take it at the preschool since it's a familiar comfortable setting. My dd took it at the office and she was ok but other kids in the office had sep. issues because of the setting. I think it depends on the dc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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How did your dd do? My dc doesn't usually have separation problems. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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my dd did fine but there were 3-4 other kids that had issues with the seperation. I think it also had to do with the psychologist that came out. There are many different ones so you could imagine the different approaches they all have to new dc. One lady came out to a little boy who looked scared and said I'm Dr. So and so..the kid heard the name Dr and freaked out. My #2 dd will take it in her preschool this Sept [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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SEPARATION -- learn how to spell! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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Absolutely dc is less likely to rush through it at the office than at school where he/she may feel like he/she is missing out. It totally depends on the kid though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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OP: I think I worry about the school's preconceived notions of my child being shared with the tester behind closed doors. Am I just being paranoid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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I don't know, I never thought about that, but I guess it is possible & could either hurt or help depending. We took dc to the office b/c we didn't want her rushing - her teacher advised this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:56 AM Flag
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np: the kids don't rush when they take it at school. NEver heard of such a concern. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:58 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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Of course some do. Some kids love being part of the class & don;t want to miss anything that is going on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:05 AM Flag
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At dc's school the kids were excited to have their turn taking the ERB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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You do have to understand that while that may be true for the majority of children, it is not true for all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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Are we going to argue about this for the next hour? My d [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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My dc's school put a positive spin on the test taking- that it would be fun. The kids wanted to have their turn taking the test. I don't recall hearing about any dc's rushing through it so they could go back to the class activity. Of course this is not true for all, but definitely for most. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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It is just absurd that you seem to think that no children would rush through it at school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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And it is absurd that you don't think the teachers know how to put a positive spin on it so that the children don't rush through it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:13 AM Flag
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I never said that. I know that they do, that does not mean that there are not children who would still rush through it to get back to class. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:14 AM Flag
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I am not going to argue about this. The bottom line, OP, if you are there is that it is in the school's best interests to have the children score high on the ERB and the schools do a fine job of communicating the positive experience the children will have taking the test at the school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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She should talk to dc's teacher and see what she says [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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Which is why I and several others I know took our dc to the office - that is what the school advised [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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Now you don't even make sense. Are you saying that the teachers didn't make it a positive experience? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:18 AM Flag
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np: It is obvious that the teachers looked at each individual child & recommended what they think best for that child. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:02 PM Flag
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Below responder here: The teachers do not talk to the tester about the children. The tester also says nothing to the teachers after the test. Part of the rules. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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And you don't think the rules get broken if the tester has a long-standing relationship with the school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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No. I think they are pretty strict about it. ANd that the tester could lose her job if she is found out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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The school wouldn't rat on her if she has a relationship with them. Please. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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You have bigger issues if this is a concern. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:17 AM Flag
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oh get lost [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:37 AM Flag
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Very rare that a tester goes to the same school for more then a year. Testers get in and get out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.11.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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Nope, I think you're not being paranoid. If this is at all a concern you should do it at the office. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 12:00 PM Flag
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That's what I thought. Also heard that a high office score is considered a more accurate reflection of kid's abilities (as child didn't know tester and wasn't coddled with breaks or multi-session test). My dd aced test at office and did very well in ongoing process. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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I think you are better off having dc take it at school. If he is having an off day or didn't get enough sleep the night before the teachers will recognize that and have him tested another day. He will be more comfortable at school. Even if your dc has no separation issues what if there are other children at the ERB office who come out crying? Could throw him off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:55 AM Flag
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I have had 2 dcs take the ERB at preschool & 2 dcs take it at the office & I would say hands down it is better in the school. Obviously you don't know if you dc will have separation issues but if they do at the office you have no choice but to go home & scheduel for another time, & now your dc associates the test w/fear & crying. Why take that chance? In the school setting the teacher has the latitude to choose which child gets tested & in what order - if she is good, she sends off the strong kids first who come back & report how the "nice lady gave them a sticker" & after that all the kids, even the shy ones, are thrilled to go off & have their "special time". The teacher can also see if a child is coming down with a cold or is overtired & not send them for the test on that day. Overall, a no brainer, take it in the school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 12:04 PM Flag
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LOL. HARDLY a "no-brainer". If a dc loves school and is the type to rush to finish so as not to miss out on something in class, it's a much better idea to take kid to office. Also, you know the date ahead of time and can ensure a good night's sleep and good breakfast. Totally depends on the kid. Shy kids or those who could take or leave school might be better tested at school, but kids like my dc should be tested at office, imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 03:41 PM Flag
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Where were you early when one mom was claiming that it cannot possibly be that any dc could do better at the office? ITA with you, mine would have taken about five minutes if we had had him take it at the school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 04:45 PM Flag
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I think it really depends on your kid. I had my DD take it at preschool; she's shy and reticent with strangers so I thought the familiarity of the school would be good for her (she got a 99/97/98, so I guess it worked). I'm going to have my DS take it at the center; he's outgoing and not at all shy (but I am worried he'd rush at school if the class was doing something he didn't want to miss). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 04:42 PM Flag
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Mine got 99/99/99 (really) at the office. Totally depends on the kid (as you point out). Don't know that my dd would have broken 90 at school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.11.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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I don't know. Dd took it at the office and got 99. Someone asked score and location a while back and several posters posted high scores and ERB office. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 05:15 PM Flag
[ - ] Can current parents tell me about their experience at the British International School? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Preschool/Kids 07.10.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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i know a british mom who sends her ds there and she loves it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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What does she love about it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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she never gave specifics. just very happy with it. will be sending 2nd child there aswell [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:20 AM Flag
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