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[ - ] MRI showed herniated disks from car accident - anyone BTDT? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:18 AM Flag
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I have herniated disc. Depends on the degree of herniation but many times PT can help. I had PT 3 times a week for 3-6 mo and it helped a lot. You need a good Dr. Are you in NYC? I can rec [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] 11 month old woke up with a dry diaper this am. Could something be wrong? this has never happened. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:14 AM Flag
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are you sure it's completely dry? Maybe just the diaper absorbed a little amt of urine? Is your dc sick? when is the last time he/she had something to drink? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:16 AM Flag
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she had a bottle at 2 in the morning. I guess there could have been a tiny amount of urine, she is not sick, is acting fine [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:18 AM Flag
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yes I found this happened with Pampers brand a few times. I had to really check and smell it because it seemed like no urine at all [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Crap..my mom is supposed to watch my dcs from starting tomorrow for the weekend. She has been up all night with Diarrhea. PLEASE DON'T LET HER GET SICK..PLEASE LET IT BE SOMETHING THAT SHE ATE. I need this weekend away so badly. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:06 AM Flag
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You can still go away, your Mom can watch her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:07 AM Flag
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op: I sure hope so. The reason I'm worried is my mom is immuno compromised. Whenver she gets a little something that isn't anything to you or me, she gets it worse and it turns into a big thing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:08 AM Flag
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Your mother is a person too. I'm sure she's none too happy about being sick. Perspective please. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:18 AM Flag
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op; listen I don't want her to be sick..read my post where I said I hope she isn't getting sick and hope it was something she ate. I haven't been away from my kids in 3 yrs. I don't ask to leave them overnight with her because I have perspective and don't think of myself over her. She offered since it's a special weekend. Believe me I will cancel this weekend if I have to but just hoping I don't have to [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:20 AM Flag
[ - ] toy kitchen recs- there is little tikes and PBK who else makes a nice one? trying to see what all is out there before we buy 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:49 AM Flag
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I love our STEP 2 kitchen. Have had it for 6 yrs and still great [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:53 AM Flag
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love ours from PBK but it did get pricey [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:56 AM Flag
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but the PBK one doesn't make noise right? it looks gorgeous though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:00 AM Flag
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skip anything that makes noise or requires batteries....it really isn't necessary and add nothing make playing better with a toy kitchen. We loved our Step 2.....one without noises or lights. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:51 AM Flag
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thanks. Just checked out their site. really nice [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:00 AM Flag
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yw and Step 2 is really well built. Also my kids are clutzy like me so the sturdy plastic (instead of wood) really saved them from a few injuries [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:04 AM Flag
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My dd has the Melissa & Doug one. It's really cute looks retro. FAO Schwartz carries it & sometimes they have free shipping [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Toy kitchen recs? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:49 AM Flag
[ - ] 10 mo threw up his bottle this AM and did the same yesterday AM. fine the rest of the day. any thoughts? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:48 AM Flag
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so wierd. mine has done this too. are you sure it is not spit up? as in he's so hungry he over eats and has to spit up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:53 AM Flag
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oh, it's the 3-waver! and he's not eating too fast, i don't think. he eats plays, eats, plays etc. he's in a fine mood so i guess i shouldn't read into it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:23 AM Flag
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eating too fast? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:56 AM Flag
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is he coughing? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:01 AM Flag
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not really [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:22 AM Flag
[ - ] Can anyone log into this site without having to reset their password everytime? Regardless of what computer I use I keep having to reset my password to get on. Its driving me frigging nuts... 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Site Feedback 05.29.08, 03:40 AM Flag
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don't have to reset password- but must log in everytime, even if it is within a session and I just flip to another window shortly. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:57 AM Flag
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I actually don't have to re-log-in all day...as long as my computer is on, even if I flip page. The old UB had become realyy annoying and I had to log in every 20 minutes or so if I had been inactive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:34 AM Flag
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>>> same for me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:09 PM Flag
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youbemom.com [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:44 AM Flag
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I can't even get in there....they are more screwed up than here....They seem to have my email registered laready, but have never sent me an access email, so I can't log in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:47 AM Flag
[ - ] i was gonna use my free pass to the gym just to see if i like it. %yodd has 5th disease and staying home. Ped said if no fever not contagious. Should i take her and use their babysitting services or keep her home?. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:38 AM Flag
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keep her home. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:43 AM Flag
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are you kidding? um, no she should not go. Why aren't you sending her to school then, if the fever is gone? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:57 AM Flag
[ - ] Does it make sense to take out loans to send dcs to private school? 20 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
NY Schools 05.29.08, 03:35 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:37 AM Flag
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no. Try to get FA and if not then don't go into debt over it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:54 AM Flag
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No, especially not for grade school. You can provide enrichemnt yourself or through afterschool activities. An exception might be a special needs child. I would consider a loan for high school private, but only if other options were untenable. Also many good boarding schools have large endowments for financial aid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:44 AM Flag
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yes, it is an investment in the future. We will be refinancing to pay for private even with FA. That being said you still have to take care of your own needs like funding for retirement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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Are you paying for elementary, middle, high school or everything. Are you also able to fund for retirement. What are your thoughts on saving for college [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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paying for all of the above. am saving for college and retirement. will pay for K-8 with home equity loan, no plan for high school but imagine investments will be worth more by then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 07:24 PM Flag
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How much more could they be worth in 9 years? Esp with a home equity loan to pay back and tuition rising in those 9 years? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 08:55 PM Flag
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How could you get FA, be able to save for college, retirement and have investments? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:31 PM Flag
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because I have a very cheap apt. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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I think you should get to a financial planner, or just anyone who knows anything about personal finances, pronto. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 05:12 AM Flag
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Any recommendations? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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My dc are going to public for free. I guarantee they'll be getting into the same colleges as your children and be just as smart. Why do all of this??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 08:57 PM Flag
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OP: I'm afraid of public - in part because of my own bad experience in PS - and did one year of PS with my older kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:04 PM Flag
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Why are you afraid of it? I went to both and taught at both and there are very definitive pros and cons to each. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:04 PM Flag
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Got the crap beat out of me (long time ago - I'm 40). My dc got picked on everyday - dc not the toughest kid. Guess dc got that from me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:20 PM Flag
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np - Picked on how? And in kindergarten? What did the teacher(s) do about the situation? And what kind of school? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:23 PM Flag
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Begged for his lunch. I was at school one day - one kid dragged him by his tie (part of uniform). All the teacher said was there were behavioural (sp bad I know) in the class and that I needed to toughen up my kid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:33 PM Flag
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Depends on the quality of your public school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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Zoned school suck and struck out with lottery schools. Waiting for results of G&T but not that hopeful [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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I think it makes more sense to move to a decent zone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.30.08, 01:45 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm 15w pregnant with #1. Yesterday I had an USG that showed the baby was jumping and kicking like mad. Next week, I'm scheduled for an amnio. Ob/Gyn didn't seem concerned but I am. Any experience with an amnio & that kind of high foetal activity ? TIA 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
Expecting 05.29.08, 01:35 AM Flag
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yes. I have had 2 amnio's and my kids were very active. What I didn't do is eat right before the amnio (when I eat they tend to move a lot). I had my amnio just 2 wks ago and he was moving a lot..the Dr was able to do the amnio without an issue. I'm in NYC and used Dr Saltzman..he was great. GL [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:55 AM Flag
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OP:Thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 07:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Blaming Boss. I just got this new job & my jock boss keeps blaming me for everything, saying I make him look bad when my computer is slow or if he gives incorrect info to my his boss. When he falsely blames me, what kind of snappy comeback can I use? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 10:39 PM Flag
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Uh, I'd get another new job [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:17 AM Flag
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no matter what you say or how right you are, his ego won't allow himself to take blame. He won't change [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:13 AM Flag
[ - ] why does it seem that the posts here never move? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:50 PM Flag
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I was wondering that same thing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:51 PM Flag
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Everyone is on the other site [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:51 PM Flag
[ - ] I actually think I like this site better even though it seems like most everyone has defected to youbemom. It seems more NY here. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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why because nyers are so much better than the rest? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:23 PM Flag
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we just have different issues. NYC is a different place. It makes sense like minded moms would want to chat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:34 PM Flag
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lol 80 of theposter are general bs stuff not new york stuff. we aren't that special, don't kid yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:36 PM Flag
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^80% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:37 PM Flag
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Well, until you know, you will remain ignorant. But it is just different. We are faced with different issues. Don't feel bad that you aren't one of us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:40 PM Flag
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LMAO [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:42 PM Flag
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Or feel bad about your jr. high Internet speak. I can safely assume you are 16? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:44 PM Flag
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And I can safely assume you are a bored SAHM with nothing better to do than sling insults? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:46 PM Flag
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ooohhhh, internet speak! klassy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:48 PM Flag
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It's not about being special. It's that we have different issues. This is just how it is. We have different school issues, travel issues, nanny issues, cost of living issues. It's the same. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:41 PM Flag
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I agree. More broken marriages, more misplaced priorities, less time for your children. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:49 PM Flag
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LOL - long-time Oregonian poster here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:25 PM Flag
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Seems less NY to me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:42 PM Flag
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ITDA. Seems more NY over there. The vibe is definitely pre-Today Show/NY Mag article [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:46 PM Flag
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I agree with you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:48 PM Flag
[ - ] OK, what exactly is black tie optional? PM wedding UES. tia 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:05 PM Flag
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formal evening wear. for women, you can go cocktail length but keep it dressy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:13 PM Flag
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tx [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 05.28.08, 09:21 PM Flag
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