• Filter the conversation
 

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

[ - ] Basic Brio train set or basic Thomas one for 23 mo ds? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
Toddler 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
»
I love [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:35 AM Flag
»
Brio and then get a few Thomas trains. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:35 AM Flag
»
We got our boy a brio. There are tons of add on features (bridges, station, and people). I'd prefer he not be "into" a label (like Thomas) but just enjoy the toy. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:41 AM Flag
[ - ] what are you secretly a sanctimommy about? for me, it's women who don't even try to breastfeed their babies. 205 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:33 AM Flag
»
ita - though not so secretly. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
»
People who let their kids stay up late and do not make sure they are getting enough sleep [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:46 AM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:14 PM Flag
»
What about people who let their kids stay up late, but the kid sleeps late. I wonder about this. I think it is fine when they are young, but when they begin school I wonder how it works. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:02 AM Flag
»
NP: I don't think that really works. Children are diurnal -- they mostly sleep on the same schedule. Remember Wee Willie Winkie? Are all the children asleep in bed, for now it's eight-o-clock? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:11 PM Flag
»
But if a kid sleeps on a 10 to 9 or 8 rather than 8 to 7 or 6 is it doing any harm? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:20 PM Flag
»
same. I really find it to be incredibly selfish to not breast feed. If there is no medical (physical or psychological) reason then it should be a no brainer. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:46 PM Flag
»
i had a psychological reason -- lack of interest in doing it. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:17 PM Flag
»
Ditto. OP would hate me [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:34 PM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:09 AM Flag
»
That has got to be the stupidest comment I have ever heard on UB. Breastfeeding has nothing to do with being a good parent. Obviously if you think you are doing a disservice to your child by not breastfeeding then you should try hard to do it. But I just don't believe that it makes that much of a difference, I was never BF and am quite healthy and then I have cousins who were for a long time and they have a million allergies and other stuff. BF isn't for everyone [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 02:08 PM Flag
»
it's up there! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:43 PM Flag
»
of course it has to do w/ being a good mother - lack of interest in doing it suggests you have some sort of maternal deficiency. Why bother? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:04 PM Flag
»
That is a sick comment. Really. Get a grip. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:26 PM Flag
»
why is it sick? breastfeeding is basic care and if a woman admits to having no interest in it... well, you can follow [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:05 PM Flag
»
You just sound very selfish and immature. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:15 PM Flag
»
i dont think breastfeeding is for all moms -- i did not -- did not try -- dont regret it at all. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:29 PM Flag
»
what do you mean it is not 'for' all moms. That is like saying, seat belts are not 'for' everyone. Why would you not give your baby immunities to diseases, protect them from allergies & asthma, and give their brain a boost? Just because it is not 'for' you. Very, very selfish. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:05 PM Flag
»
As someone who EBF two babies, I agree that bf is not for all moms. But you didn't even try, so you don't know. That's OP's point, and ITA. You're like my 5 yo who won't try a new food. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:12 PM Flag
»
Ok. I will bite. What do you mean it was not for you? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:17 PM Flag
»
That is what I say in public but in private I think it is very wrong to not breast feed. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:16 PM Flag
»
I just assume they aren't well educated, which is totally sancti. To be honest, I probably also assume they are republicans. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:52 AM Flag
»
Do you assume republicans aren't well educated? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:06 AM Flag
»
no, but I live in the South and often observe a sort of antipathy to issues like breastfeeding, suv driving, recycling.... uninsured children, poverty...among the repubs. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:11 AM Flag
»
I live in the south too, and am a Republican, and while I agree with you regarding suv driving, recycling, and even uninsured kids, I disagree with you regarding breastfeeding - I think it's done here as much as anywhere. I think our culture in the US is to hide it and make it almost embarrassing, instead of the norm, though. Not just in the south, but everywhere. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:39 AM Flag
»
Interesting perspective. Thanks. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:38 AM Flag
»
You do realize that repubs give a lot more money to charity than dems (as a % of their wealth/income). [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:15 PM Flag
»
that doesn't make up for the fact that rebulicans would deny women choice and deny gay men and women the right to marry whomever they please. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:19 PM Flag
»
I think the type of charity matters. If someone is donating to anti-abortion or anti-gay groups, it's still considered "charity." [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:50 AM Flag
»
lol. i am a republican and i bf'ed DD until she was almost 2. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 12:01 PM Flag
»
if this counts, people whose kids dont sleep through the night until they are 2 or 3. as if they had no control over it. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:35 AM Flag
»
This is ME! I write frequently on this board about how these sleep issues are all mom (and dad) - induced. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:37 AM Flag
»
you obviously have never had a kid with serious sleep issues like my dd-nothing has worked, not even time. she is 4 and doesn't sleep. my other 2 dc slept through at around 6 weeks each. she is the oldest. it sucks. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:39 AM Flag
»
What is a "serious sleep issue"? Does she have insomnia? Chronic pain? Otherwise, at 4 there is simply no reason why you are still allowing this to occur. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:40 AM Flag
»
i am not "allowing" anythng. can you read? my 2 other kids are great sleepers, she is not. i tried cio to no avail for 2 months of 2 plus hours of crying...my ped told me to stop. i have had consultations with dr. ferber, dr. weisbluth, and jodi mindell. Nothing has worked. do you want to come and try since you seem to be an expert? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:45 AM Flag
»
oh, they think it might be something neurological, otherwise she is 100% healthy and great. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:48 AM Flag
»
Man you are soooo hostile! You must be a celebrity to have so many star Drs. treating your poor daughter. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:50 AM Flag
»
no, not at all. but i am hostile about it. you can get in touch with those doctors too, there is just a long waitlist. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:54 AM Flag
»
god, you are so mean. why can't you see a person in obvious distress over an issue who is moving heaven and earth for her child. no, your own desire to judge other people overwhelms your goodwill and compassion. SHAME ON YOU [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 01:45 PM Flag
»
I am in the medical field and am a bit puzzled about a neurological disorder that prevents a child from sleeping. How have you handled this so far? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:51 AM Flag
»
let me look-up the term in my files. i [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:53 AM Flag
»
^^^sorry, i'll get back to you. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:53 AM Flag
»
np: Are you a doctor or nurse? Can I ask you another question? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:56 AM Flag
»
sure [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:02 PM Flag
»
np: I feel your pain. One of my kids is a horrible sleeper too. Anyone who claims it's our fault or we could change it if we really wanted to is an ass! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:50 AM Flag
»
thank you. i always get so hostile about sleep issues. its nice to know someone is in the same boat. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:52 AM Flag
»
just ignore the person with the obvious chip on her shoulder who needs to make others feel bad. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:17 PM Flag
»
in person? seriously? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:13 PM Flag
»
the number of kids who dont sleep well is much much greater than 'serious sleep issues' whatever that means. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:42 AM Flag
»
ITA. The above posters might truly have exceptional children, but most of it is due to lazy parenting. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:13 PM Flag
»
Please reply to my post (above) about trying to get my 6mo to sleep through. I need help. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 06:56 AM Flag
»
This is INSANE. You people are INSANE. I've got great sleepers (as luck would have it) but it has little to do with ME -- a lifelong -- yes LIFELONG, AS IN MY WHOLE LIFE -- insomniac. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 01:55 PM Flag
»
Another insomniac here. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:51 AM Flag
»
omg, this is us. DD did not sleep through the night untl after 2 yo, now she does but it wass a struggle but still very eraly riser, 5am [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:40 PM Flag
»
You clearly don't have a child with pdd-nos or any spectrum dx, because sleep issues are completely common and these kids are often awake for 1-3 hours/night talking, singing, etc. They can't at all help it. It's been documented time and again. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:27 PM Flag
»
soda for toddlers [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:36 AM Flag
»
i'll let my DD take a sip of mine if I am drinking it in front of her, but i think people who give their toddlers soda in their own cup are messed up [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:38 AM Flag
»
what you do is messed up too [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:32 PM Flag
»
ITA [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:41 PM Flag
»
me too. I saw a 2 or 3 yo boy sucking on a 20 oz bottle of Mountain Dew the other day, and it kind of bothered me. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:32 PM Flag
»
I'm with you there! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:07 PM Flag
»
Might as well given them gin or pot, in my opinion. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:52 AM Flag
»
me too, but i would never say anything. you never know who can't for genuine medical reasons - medication, mastectomy [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:36 AM Flag
»
or adoption [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:15 PM Flag
»
np: i know adoptive moms who have BF [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:50 PM Flag
»
Yeah, I'm with you on the breastfeeding issue. I also agree about sleeping through the night, but would put it at 1yo. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:36 AM Flag
»
i know someone who said she wasn't going to bf when she was pg because she didnt like the idea and i thought she'd change her mind but she didn't. i thought it was very selfish of her. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:39 AM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:54 AM Flag
»
see, i can even understand that. i just don't get it when they don't even try at all! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:18 PM Flag
»
I'm not going to cut her any slack...it can be uncomfortable, but the entire newborn situation isn't exactly luxurious. I think she should've tried for at a few weeks to see if it got better. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:25 PM Flag
»
why? if she didn't want to, she didn't want to. that's it. i'm 100% sure you've done things in your life as a parent that i would find selfish, even just plain stupid, but hey, it's your kid. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:27 PM Flag
»
So why should she wake up in the middle of the night to give her db a bottle - I'm sure she'd be more "comfortable" sleeping thru [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:49 AM Flag
»
diapers after age 3 1/2 [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:37 AM Flag
»
so NOT a reflection on the parent. One of the few things a child can control, along with eating. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:59 PM Flag
»
ITD, it all about the parents. They are lazy [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:44 PM Flag
»
ITA with this statement. The more a parent reacts to it (via diapering instead of insisting the kid poop in underwear), the more the kid will do it. The best way to respond to a kid's bad behavior is not to respond at all or as little as possible. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 09:50 PM Flag
»
women who do extend breastfeeding way in toddler/preschool age, claiming that they do it for DC when really they are doing for their comfort and inability to let go and not be the center of their child'd world. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:39 AM Flag
»
GOOD one [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:41 AM Flag
»
so, how do you feel about women who let their toddler/preschool age kid drink from a bottle or use a pacifier? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:18 PM Flag
»
Toddler being 2 yrs old? Most of the rest of the world bfs past one! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:46 AM Flag
»
I am doing extended reast feeding at 3.5 and this is so not the case. DD is almost weaned & continuing works for us but I am tired of it. We do in AM & will stop when she is ready [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:46 PM Flag
»
I bf'd both my dc past age 2 and it was most definitely not for my own comfort and needs. People who didn't bf on demand and view bfing as nutrition only just don't understand the bfing relationship. It is much easier to wean a db who has been bfing on a schedule at 12 or 13 mos b/c it has a different meaning to the mother and child. I was ready to wean my dbs way before they were willing. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:06 PM Flag
»
Parents who make threats and don't follow through, or who don't discipline in general. Actually I'm not very secret about it. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:42 AM Flag
»
ITTTTTTTA [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
»
My dh is so guilty of this. He has no clue how give them an ultimatem. I say under my breath that's an empty threat. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:59 PM Flag
»
people who don't immunize for no reason other than the hype and then put their kid in school with mine by cliaming some exemption that is a load of crap. And then say why I am upset, my kid is immunized so he isn't in danger, and refusing to see the bigger picture. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:42 AM Flag
»
I'm with you! I feel like we might be the only two though. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:50 AM Flag
»
Ditto. I love these moms who think that because they have "taught" their dc's to sleep through the night they are great. Unfortunately not all dcs are the same. I have one great sleeper and one horrible sleeper. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:59 AM Flag
»
three, at least [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 02:31 PM Flag
»
four over here [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:34 PM Flag
»
nope -- i agree too. the concept of the herd only works if the entire herd actually falls in line. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:29 PM Flag
»
i'm with you guys on that one [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:11 PM Flag
»
that bugs me too. If we werent immunizing our kids their kids would be seriously threatened. Its like they are taking advantage of all the conscientious parents out there. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:37 PM Flag
»
ITA- One of the kids at school could have a brand new non-immunized baby at home. So selfish. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:35 PM Flag
»
And they don't even see the point when there are serious outbreaks in other places & kids die. What does it take!? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:47 AM Flag
»
please don't feel this way secretly - there is no reason to kowtow to people who believe gobbledygook press releases over genuine science - if enough people speak up, you never know whose mind you might change [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:36 PM Flag
»
women who ignire sound and accepted advice and base their parenting decisions on nonsense they read on the internet. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:44 AM Flag
»
people who don't bring db home for a decent nap and schlep them around in the stroller. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:45 AM Flag
»
you see and I was going to say crib nap nuts. i think it is insane to intentionally create a situation where the child will only nap in his crib. But to each his own. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:47 AM Flag
»
mine will nap anywhere but I put her in her crib because it is calm and sweet and a lovely palce for her to sleep. she needs a break from the outside world and having to filter it out to get a nap, that is why I am against it. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:49 AM Flag
»
I think there are days that you have exceptions and days that you stick to routine and you should have far more routine days than exceptions. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 09:56 PM Flag
»
I would love to take db home for a nap, but she won't nap in her crib! Have tried all kinds of things, but she is stubborn and hates the crib during the day. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 01:21 PM Flag
»
TIA with that one. Some moms just don;t want to disturb 'their' schedule. Let's just pretend we never had a kid and go about our daily lives. Except that now I have a good reason not to work. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 06:01 PM Flag
»
attachment parents. i think they do their children a great diservice and foster a true sense of co-dependance. and I don't care how often they say that their kid is happy and independant. Whatever. Put the kid down, let him make some friends and interact with the world. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:46 AM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 01:00 PM Flag
»
Yeah, cos a two week old baby really needs to suck it up!! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:50 AM Flag
»
I don't think you have a real understanding of AP. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:49 PM Flag
»
I didn't breastfeed for very personal and difficult reasons and have a lot of sadness about it. People like you who are so vocal to my face and behind my back have made it so much harder and sadder for me. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:48 AM Flag
»
that's what being sanctimommy is all about. i'm sure you have a secret sanctimommy thing that someone else wouldn't be happy about. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:50 AM Flag
»
true. but still.... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:52 AM Flag
»
i was going to add that (and this may not be your issue at all) but some women don't bf because of past history of sexual abuse, it is not their fault that they absolutely just cannot do it, and they should not be punished for it, but i do understand the point of this post is the sanctimommy part.. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:13 PM Flag
»
Ignore. The UB universe is not a good sample, and most of these women are cows you would never befriend in real life. Terrible anti-woman attitudes, here. Just terrible. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 01:57 PM Flag
»
Yep. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:54 AM Flag
»
Moms on UB that talk about being a great mom and doing everything for their children, but are you really? I think you sit on here while your nany takes care of your dc. Stop acting and start doing... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:48 AM Flag
»
That's what all of us are thinking about you right now. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:23 PM Flag
»
Actually I am at work. So i am not. When i am home with dd i am never on here. So thanks for reassuring me of mu original post. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:26 AM Flag
»
Woman who raise whimps for children. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:49 AM Flag
»
??? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:05 AM Flag
»
parents that raise there children to not poop without making sure it is the right decision. Parents that call there dc prof. to raise hell that their child didnt get an A in the class, Parents who call companies to see how the interview went. give me a break people. We are raising a nation of whimps. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:28 AM Flag
»
you are not making any sense [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 10:25 AM Flag
»
Yes she is. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:58 AM Flag
»
I get it and I agree. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:17 PM Flag
»
WIMP. i agree but i don't understand the poop thing. Any eplanations? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 06:26 AM Flag
»
for me it's breastfeeding mommies who think they're better than everyone else. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:49 AM Flag
»
IIITTTAAAA!!!! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:50 AM Flag
»
but breastfeeding mommies ARE better than crapula feeders. It's just a fact. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:00 PM Flag
»
adoptive mom here says, "bite me" [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:16 PM Flag
»
you are obviously excused [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:10 AM Flag
»
LOL! ITA! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:09 PM Flag
»
parents who sleep with their children to the point where a 3 or 4 yo has never slept in his own bed. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:49 AM Flag
»
I'm with you too. I am secretly against co-sleeping. I don't care how "natural" it is. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:52 AM Flag
»
why is it natural? we aren't pack animals. Nor are we a culture that co-sleeps out of necessity becuase eveyone lives in one room "houses" with one bed. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:59 AM Flag
»
see, that's what I think, but co-sleeping folks will tell you otherwise. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 02:29 PM Flag
»
maybe it is bec we love our kids & love the fleeting babiness of them. I have 4 dcs & every one of them was sleeping alone in his/her bed by 5. With each baby I knew I had such a tiny window of opportunity of course I wanted to sleep with them [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:54 AM Flag
»
Who cares, really? Are you also offended by children who've never been spanked or have never tasted a hamburger? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 01:56 AM Flag
»
moms who are obsessed with scheduling their infants and toddlers. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:11 PM Flag
»
that is just so wrong! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:55 AM Flag
»
I'm sick of not so secret sanctimommies, who judge the rest of the world's parenting. The fact that another parent works, lets her dc's watch tv, eat junk, didn't breasfeed is none of your business. Nor does the fact that you don't work, don't own a tv only feed your kids wheat germ, etc. make you a better parent. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:20 PM Flag
»
wow sounds like many of you need to be A LOT busier. go redecorate or get some plastic surgery. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:27 PM Flag
»
No kidding. I can't believe this old, tired subject gets posted again and again and again. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:59 PM Flag
»
mine is people who judge others without understanding their situation. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 12:28 PM Flag
»
like you never are judgemental? please, it's human nature [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 02:58 PM Flag
»
As much as women look down on me for not breastfeeding, what gets me is those who do bf whipping their boobs out for all to see. I've totally seen this. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:01 PM Flag
»
nooooo way. you've seen a woman take out her breast in public??????????? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:57 PM Flag
»
((((O))))) (((((o))))) waves boobs in face [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:52 PM Flag
»
bottles and pacifiers after 18 months. My DD is in a music class for 2-3 year-olds and I was shocked to see so many. Most of the bottles/pacifiers are given by nannies, so it's hard to tell if it's coming from the parents or not. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:48 PM Flag
»
I'm a sanctimommy b*ith about late bedtimes [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:29 PM Flag
»
Moms who let them selves go. You see them around. No makeup, ever. Hair in a pony tail. Always wearing unatractive comfortable clothes. I feel sorry for thier dh's. Pre baby they were pulled together but now ther are in mommy mode. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 05:57 PM Flag
»
Hey, I love my comfortable clothes, my hair off my neck, and the natural look. My DH thinks I'm totally sexy. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:07 AM Flag
»
Yeah OK [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:05 AM Flag
»
some of us look great with no makeup in jeans and a tee shirt... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 10:27 AM Flag
»
dh here: most women look better in jeans/sweats and a tee shirt [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 12:40 AM Flag
»
sorry Im not a fashion mom. I'd rather be comfortable. Im lucky Im skinny though so sweats look good on me [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:05 AM Flag
»
There is a nice middle ground somewhere. I rarely wear makeup and I like wearing my hair up, but I'm would never leave the house in sloppy clothes. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:00 AM Flag
»
That the same mommies who are rabid about breastfeeding are the exact same mommies to shove their children into daycare / nanny-care. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:02 PM Flag
»
Moms who say breast feeding didn't work out, baby won't sleep, won't nap, cranky, etc. when it is actually a result of them not slowing down their own lifestyle to help make these things work. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 06:50 PM Flag
»
ita [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:08 AM Flag
»
you're right. that is me with the bf. i regret it and it was def. a lack of knowledge on my part. but i was a formula baby and I'm fine! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:37 AM Flag
»
Moms who say I was "fed solids at 2 months/formula fed/turned forward facing at 8 months/insert other sub-optimal condition here" and I am just fine. Urrghh. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:33 AM Flag
»
Parents who let their kids act like total jerks. My do that and we leave if they don't stop. It took me a while to figure out that you have to be strict about it or they'll eat you alive. But I don't want my kids to be hated by adults. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 09:09 AM Flag
»
teacher here. I love moms like you and have no respect for moms like you describe. I might like the other moms as people, but they are not being parents. When I am in public (out to eat, on the bus, at the theater, etc.) these parents and their unruly offspring drive me nuts! It is so selfish of the parents (and harmful to otherwise potentially wonderful children) and we will all really pay the price as their children (all now soiled brats) hit their 20s. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 08:19 PM Flag
»
ITA - doing themselves, the kids and society in general a huge disservice by not laying down the rules and sticking to them. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 09:55 PM Flag
»
Since this is moving up again, I'll say it. When new moms tell me they're not breastfeeding, I secretly love them. I think it's great if they consider their own needs (also aware there might be private reasons) [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 12:33 PM Flag
»
YOU ARE MY HERO [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:15 PM Flag
»
i love to see a woman breastfeed in public, just hang it all out there, too bad public babies gotta eat and too bad america you are too prudish and ridiculous [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:15 PM Flag
»
I hate hate hate seeing suri cruise robot baby with a bottle in her hand still, how old is she now, it is riduculous [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:16 PM Flag
»
Bottle? Least of her worries. Mom and dad who frequently trot her out for the media to photograph at every given moment? Very troubling..... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 02:04 PM Flag
»
[ Removed by moderator ] [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 04:33 PM Flag
»
i knew someone who planned a c-section because she didn't want her "down there" interfered with and didn't nurse for one second. and she has a live-in nanny. but she's in her 40s and really wanted a baby. sp there's a lot of love, just none of the work or inconvience. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 05:17 PM Flag
»
good for her [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 08:06 AM Flag
»
ITA. And love the "work" and "inconvenience" part. Loving a child, raising a child, IS work. Let the martyrdom, go, ladies. It's truly bad for children. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 02:03 PM Flag
»
For me its judgemental women who believe that their way is the only way and criticize other women for the choices they make that are right for them and their child [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 07:05 PM Flag
»
People who are overly protective: Don't let their kids play in the sandbox, don't let them get dirty, fall down, climb on anything, freak out if they put their mouth on a toy, childproof everything in sight, etc. I think it just makes their kids afraid of everything and sort-of helpless. And it's annoying on playdates b/c then you feel like a reckless mother for allowing your kid to, like, pet a dog. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 05:20 PM Flag
»
breastfeeding advocates who judge women who don't bf (as opposed to women who breastfeed because they want to and who don't judge others) who then go on to feed their children junk food or "organic" out of boxes. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:49 PM Flag
»
Yeah, those of us who modestly preserve the appearance of our boob should burn in hell. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.01.08, 07:51 PM Flag
»
Wait, what? Breastfeeding women have misshapen boobs? ARe immodest? What? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 02:01 PM Flag
»
I hate when you see large children curled up in a ball sitting in a stroller. Why aren't they being made to walk? We are raising a country of lazy children. When we were kids, strollers weren't made to hold 40lbs kids, and we walked. We complained, but walked. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:44 AM Flag
»
i agree. but when you were a kid did you regularly walk 30 blocks? That's a mile and 1/2 [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:59 AM Flag
»
np I am pretty damn sure I walked/ran 30 blocks a day. We lived on four acres and we did nothing but play outside. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 03:21 PM Flag
»
that may be true outside of NYC but here we walk everywhere & it is just not fair make a 3 yr old walk 2 miles. Once they are 4 or 5 they can switch to a scooter but they they just can't be expected to walk as far as we need them to just to get to school, do errands, etc. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:59 AM Flag
»
i grew up in the city and i was not in a stroller past about 2 yo. my mom took the bus when we needed to go farther than i could really handle walking. at 3.6 we took away the strollere and despite a bit of complaining in the beginning, DS walks everywhere now. if it's far or he's tired we take the bus. the stroller is about parental convenience - wanting to move quickly. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:01 PM Flag
»
Crib nap nuts! be thankful if you have a dc who naps in his stroller - you are so much freer & more flexible & can both get out and enjoy the whole day. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 07:51 AM Flag
»
OMG ITA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.02.08, 08:03 AM Flag
»
I am one of those. Much harder to do stroller thing with more than one kid... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 05:55 PM Flag
»
Huh? usually you have no choice since already committed to doing activities w/older dc & can't just sit at home while db naps. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.03.08, 09:34 PM Flag
»
i am a crib nap nut and i love it [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 12:30 PM Flag
»
you're original [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 03:18 PM Flag
»
THIS POST IS 7 DAYS OLD. LET IT GO. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 03:34 PM Flag
»
Fat kids. Failure of the parents. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.04.08, 07:24 PM Flag
»
I was a fat teen. My mom stopped buying junk food, so I learned how to cook using what was in our pantry. If she bought potatoes I'd take six of them and make a gigantic platter of fried potatoes. Should she not have bought potatoes at all? After a certain point it wasn't her fault. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:04 AM Flag
»
I actually find the fixation on breastfeeding sorta creepy. Is it really all that strange that some women don't like the idea of a tiny beast suckling on their teet? Formula keeps getting better and better and perhaps one day it will nutritionally exceed natural breast milk. What will the santicmommies have to complain about then? Probably all the poor people who are too cheap and lazy to buy IQ-enhancing synthetic milk. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:07 AM Flag
»
I think it's interesting that women find BF creepy after having another human being growing inside them for 9 months. While I think that it's great the science and technology keep improving on infant formula, i think we're realized, esp in the last 10 years, that often what is natural is in fact better. All mammals nurse their young. I also think it behooves those moms who only eat organic and care about the quality of food to educate themsleves on the ingredients of infant formula because it's not so pretty. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:07 PM Flag
»
moms who won't accept that everyone experince isn't glowing and wonderful and saisies and singing birds... for some of us this is a tough thing... one we asked for and wanted, but one that beats us down a bit. I'd like moms to have a bit more compassion in general and a little more of hat "sisterhood" sentiment that I want to believe in... [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 05:14 AM Flag
»
^^ and i'd like to be a better typist too when i post [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 05:16 AM Flag
»
Nannies who spend entire day outside. Naps, bottles food why do they do that. I went to Bed Bath and Beyond on a pouring rainy day and the entire upstairs was filled with stroller and dbs napping. Why don't they like to be in your apts? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:38 AM Flag
»
because you have nannycams! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 02:00 AM Flag
»
because the nannies want to hang out with eachother, for company. they could hardly invite all their nanny friends to come to someone's apartment..... those particular nannies do not make teh comfort of their charges their first priority. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 10:47 AM Flag
»
STOP REPLYING TO THIS POST. ITS FROM 5/29! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 02:05 PM Flag
»
so what? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 05:42 PM Flag
»
its mom who work all the time and dont spend time with thier children@ [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 06:33 PM Flag
»
Don't feed your babies powder formula! i'm so sanctimommy about that, use the liquid only, do a search on WHO powder formula and you will puke about the number of pathogens that they allow in the powder, it is NOT STERILE, disgusting. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.05.08, 07:30 PM Flag
»
PLEASE STOP POSTING THIS POST [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:06 AM Flag
»
you are posting to this post when you ask others not to post to this post, why don't you just stop watching it? nothing else to do with your time? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 12:09 PM Flag
»
I take it you have not had a c-section... a different story after you have undergone major surgery. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 06.06.08, 03:11 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone elope? How'd you do it? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
in the usvi. did all the prep in advance (including applying for marriage license). once there, we got married, called our families with the good news, and flew back home. best decision ever. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I asked DH to take lie detector test to see if he cheated on me or not since we've been married. He agreed. What do you think? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
dont bother. youre doomed anyway. save money and spend on divorce lawyer. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
call Jerry Springer and get it done for free. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
jinx! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
it was the obvious joke [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
»
LOL! Are you going on Jerry SPringer? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
well what else would he say - getting him to actually do it is another thing [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
that's what I like to see - a nice healthy trusting relationship. Please tell me this is fake [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:32 AM Flag
»
So pathetic. If it's gotten to that point, whether he's cheated or not, obviously there is zero trust. marriage is doomed [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:36 AM Flag
»
I was diagnosed with HPV. I was negative after my 1st daughter. Now after 2nd one I am positive? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:38 AM Flag
»
you stii could have gotten it before dh, it can be dormant for years [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:44 AM Flag
»
i tested negatve before. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:45 AM Flag
»
ask your ob..i think you can test neg and still have virus in your system. no 100% sure but get clarification [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:47 AM Flag
»
It is done with a pelvic exam, and i am 99% positive it would stay dormant for that long. Does your husband have worts on his hands? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:54 AM Flag
»
^^ not stat dormant. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:55 AM Flag
»
i think you're probably difficult to be married to [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:52 AM Flag
[ - ] i have noticed in the new format that so many of the posters describe their kids as gifted talented advanced, etc. did all the parents of average kids go to youbemom? curious. (the camp post, the reading post, etc) 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:27 AM Flag
»
I go back and forth between both and think my kids are just regular. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:29 AM Flag
»
lake wobegon where all the "all the women are strong, all the men are good looking, and all the children are above average," [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
lol [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
»
a camp poster here, only 1 dd is gifted, the rest average, and I never describe them as gifted here, other than describing the camp. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:45 AM Flag
[ - ] Speed Racer for almost 6 yo? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:24 AM Flag
»
6 yo will love it--you will HATE it. bring earmuffs/eyemask [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:26 AM Flag
[ - ] Feel bad turned on t.v for my toddler who kept ruining dd's playdate now all the kids are sitting on the couch. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:23 AM Flag
»
isn't it toddler's naptime? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
No, he napped very early [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:35 AM Flag
[ - ] If you had a child with issues, mild or severe, would that prevent you from having any more? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:23 AM Flag
»
no- and it did not! It can be more challenging, but still would not have stopped at that child [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:24 AM Flag
»
How about a third? That's where I am today. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:25 AM Flag
»
i have 3. didn't realize all the issues before 3rd, but still would have 3rd [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:51 AM Flag
»
It didn't. I have a sensory kid with socialization issues and having a second helped her. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:25 AM Flag
»
OR: Same here and ITA. I can't decide if we should go for a third. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:26 AM Flag
»
i am or below. i dont know the specificity of severity of what [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
oops is your child's particular situation but i can tell you that people probably regret more not having another child than having another child just as a general comment [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
nope. i have three and one is severe ADHD and i think it would be even harder for her if she was always under our microscope [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:29 AM Flag
»
i am thankfully not in this position. but my good friend has a child with issues and had more children after that. i think it's very hard for her. she spends a lot of extra time on the child who needs extra help. i don't think she regrets having the kids after, but it's very hard for her. and i also see some behavioral issues with the younger kids. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:34 AM Flag
»
Yes it has. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:49 AM Flag
»
it stopped us from #3 (ds was not dx until after #2 was born). not so much the fear of another child with SN as much as the fear of being able to give the attn, time, energy, $ to each one that they needed. it is really still painful but logically approrpiate decision. not so much emotionally appropriate. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:33 PM Flag
»
LOOK AT THIS POST UB...it was originaly posted at 2pm but because of the way you guys sort etc you are getting someone replying at 5pm even though I am sure the poster has long since left. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:39 PM Flag
»
Actually that's how things go on the SN board. It is a much slower board. It's only because it's also x-posted to General Topics that it's noticeable. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 04:54 PM Flag
»
went on to have 2 more dcs. they are the best help for oldest dc w/ "issues". [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 03:46 PM Flag
»
It prevented us from having a second child. I knew the chances of having a second child with autism were higher (and also realized that dh's family has other men who have "issues" which meant that we have it in our genes) and I just didn't think I could handle two kids with autism. I know we're supposed to have faith and roll with the punches, but I didn't think I could handle it. I was also scared that a second child might have issues more severe than our ds. Plus, I knew that it would be hard for me to enjoy the pregnancy and the first year of the baby's life always wondering and looking out for issues. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.30.08, 01:28 PM Flag
[ - ] Question - who pays the bills in your house. I do, in ours, because i find the writing of the checks somewhat cathartic. I don't like to pay bills online, and I am not a huge fan of having the money just taken out. I forgot to pay one bill, the phone bill, and so now he wants to take over the job. He said he thought more men pay the bills - i said no, not true. So, am i right? 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:23 AM Flag
»
I pay the bills, all online. I've made mistakes before, but DH never tried to undermine me like that. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:24 AM Flag
»
I wasn't clear - he wasn't undermining as much as that was his way of saying that perhaps i had too much on my plate. And i do, but I like to do that. He can do the grocery shopping and the kids homework! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:25 AM Flag
»
I hear you now. If you enjoy it - and I do get that cleansing feeling of killing off bills. Then keep it up. I agree with you on getting $ taken out, but I love paying online. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:27 AM Flag
»
LOL - I pay all the bills in our house. Not dh's sort of thing. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:24 AM Flag
»
almost all I know, the women pay the bills! My mom did so when we grew up [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:25 AM Flag
»
ditto [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
I don't [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:31 AM Flag
»
I don;t even see the bills [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:27 AM Flag
»
I do, online. Should give it to dh for 6 mos just to see what he does with it. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:28 AM Flag
»
dh here - i pay the bills. dw wouldn't even know how much they are or who we pay [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:28 AM Flag
»
thats me...I spend most of the $$$ but I never look at the bills [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
My DH pays the bills. i'm more of an earner/spender type [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
DH does but only b/c I made him. I always did it (I'm older than he is) and I thought it would be agood for him to learn how himself. Sigh. He doesn't have a good system though and things are getting paid late. GGGRRRR [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
he does. becuase I can't be trusted to do it on time. however, regardless of what my "jobs" are, if DH wants to do them, more power to him. No matter how cathertic they may be, I can always take a bubble bath instead :) [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:32 AM Flag
[ - ] db asleep on my lap. wakes when i move. need to write than you notes, fold laundry, get coffee. stuck here with computer and tv, but nothing helpful/productive. frustrating 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:20 AM Flag
»
cool. Guilt free UBing! [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:21 AM Flag
»
Yes-0 you are being productive and helpful to DB, and yourself if you allow it. the other crap will wait- you will miss this immensely- do it as much as possible now. Too many babies are not held enough by their parents [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:23 AM Flag
»
Awww, you will look fondly back on when db was so small and able to sleep on you. So cute. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:28 AM Flag
[ - ] what's your interest rate on your mortgage? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:20 AM Flag
»
around 5.5% I think [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:22 AM Flag
»
6.125 [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:26 AM Flag
»
you really need to ask what type of mortgage. fixed, arm, term. you could have apples and oranges here. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:30 AM Flag
»
5.75%, 15 year fixed. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:32 AM Flag
»
5.25, 15 yr fixed [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:33 AM Flag
»
5.0 - 15 yr fixed [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:44 AM Flag
»
You also need to ask: jumbo? Coop, condo or single house as each of these has their own interest rates. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:42 AM Flag
[ - ] Have people seen the new press release about the new D2 school? http://schools.nyc.gov/Offices/mediarelations/NewsandSpeeches/2007-2008/20080509_foundling_school.htm 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
NY Schools 05.29.08, 11:18 AM Flag
»
Yup. I'm in the zone, so I've been following this closely. There will also be a new school funded by NYU. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:55 AM Flag
[ - ] I have been feeling so insecure lately with my friends (post baby ones) I have decided to back off and stop making any effort, only 2 have called me, guess I now know who really are my friends. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:15 AM Flag
»
you sound needy [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:17 AM Flag
»
wait a minute. you aren't making an effort but the ones who call you are your true friends? [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:20 AM Flag
»
I was feeling like if I didn't initated the call/plans they wouldn't and they didn't. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:22 AM Flag
»
but they are sitting at home thinking the same thing about you. [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:37 AM Flag
»
I think you are depressed [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:20 AM Flag
»
how long ago did you have db? Sometimes people assume you are busy with a nb and leave you alone for awhile. Don't be so passive agressive [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:21 AM Flag
[ - ] can i bake breaded eggplant (like for eggplant parm)? i've done it with chicken and it comes out okay. trying to make it a little bit healthier 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
 ]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:14 AM Flag
»
wholefoods.com has a recipe fir baked eggplant parm-- it's great, tho it takes some time (not a quick, hands off recipe) [ Reply | More
]
General Topics 05.29.08, 11:16 AM Flag
Refresh » New Post »
Select Category
close [X]

close [X]

Select a Category (only 1)

category
Stages
Regions