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[ - ] MIL just called and left a message complaining of the heat..all she has is a fan and can't sleep, ect. AND????? We bought her an A/C last year, set it up and what did she do?? Gave it to her asswipe son who in turn SOLD IT for cash. This wasn't the first A/C we bought her and she gave away complaining it cost too much to keep. If she thinks we are going to buy her another one, she's nuts. We are not rich at all. 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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^^^I think she keeps her apt hot just so she has an excuse to stay with us. That's ain't gonna happen [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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Oof. That sucks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:46 AM Flag
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op: yup. She's lonely but has 9 kids. Dh is the only one that calls or checks in but she's too dependent on only him. Drives me nuts [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:47 AM Flag
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What the &%$ is wrong with your MIL. Why would she give away something you gave her? Your DH needs to have a heart to heart [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:53 AM Flag
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op: because she's nuts. She does this all the time. We bought her new cookware and she didn't like it so gave it away. 2 a/c units that cost us like $500 each. Then she complains she's hot. I stopped feeling bad for her once she gave them away [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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my grandma would swelter in the heat because she didn't like the noise of the AC. drove my mom to distravction [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:04 AM Flag
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I hate the AC. only turn it on if it's above 90 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:06 AM Flag
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she hated the idea of her 95yo mom getting heatstroke because she didn't like noise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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op: well my MIL is 80 yr old, sick and needs to be in a cool apt. I don't care when she puts it on but she needed it this weekend. She's a hard head and needs to deal with it. We can't afford to be buying a $500 a/c every yr so she could just give it away. I just called DH and told him what she said. He said no way in hell will she get another A/C from us [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:08 AM Flag
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there's nothing you can do--can dh call the borther who sold it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:11 AM Flag
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op: no that brother (moocher) sold it and never gave her the money. His scam was I'll sell it and we split the sale amount. He's scum [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:12 AM Flag
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so your MIL is responsible for the recent heat wave? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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op: yes she's the one who turned up the heat [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:02 AM Flag
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np: No, she's responsible for being hot in the heatwave because she sold the AC OP bought her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:07 AM Flag
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op: yes. for 2 yrs now we have bought her new A/C's and she has given them away. We can't help her since she doesn't like our help [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:09 AM Flag
[ - ] Should I stop using at home teeth whitening trays? Just found out I am pg. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.11.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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my ob and dentist sais yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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definitely according to my OB. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:42 AM Flag
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stop. hardly worth any potential risk to the baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:59 AM Flag
[ - ] Why are ice chips listed along with dirt, laundry detergent and ashes for signs of Pica. I'm pg and eat crushed ice all day long. It's much easier for me to get my water in that way than actually drinking it (which makes me feel sick for some reason.) Friends keep telling me I have pica but eating ice all day seems much healthier than detergent or ashes, right? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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My dh is they same way, he has iron diffeciency and is slightly anemic. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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so chewing ice is a sign of anemia? i've been bad about taking my vitamins and very fatigued. going to take a prenatal right now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:40 AM Flag
[ - ] Recommendations needed for a great OBGYN who accepts United HC. I'm on the UES. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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try Shawna Hedley on E. 44st. She's great. 212-599-4400 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:50 AM Flag
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Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:56 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone have a big split between dc's? Pregnant with 3rd dc, will have a 4 and 6 yr split between other dc’s. Good or not so great? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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I'm pg with #3 too and the split will be 8yr and 4yrs. My first 2 are 4yrs apart and i LOVE that age diff [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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Does it matter now? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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That is what I was thinking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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No, I am just worried because dd's are very close and play together all the time am worried that #3 will be left out. OTOH it will be nice to have a lttle time to send with db as both dc's will be in school [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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OR: Don't be silly. #3 won't be left out. #3 will be doted on by big sisters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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we're thinking about this age difference if we have #3, and I think it sounds good- the older kids are pretty independent, and also the oldest (for us) will be in K so our childcare expenses will be reduced somewhat by that. The disadvantage that I thought about yesterday- schlepping baby to soccer games, that kind of thing, because older kids are much busier. But I guess there are many #3 babies in the world who have gotten over being schlepped everywhere [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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my 2 are 4 years apart. its been fine for us. and we'll only be payingoe college tuition at a time! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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My sisters's dds are 5 years apart. The older one completely dotes on the younger one. You are fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:15 AM Flag
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my SIL is pg w/ #3, #2 will be 5yo and #1 will be 8yo when the db is born. The older dcs are SOOOO excited for the baby. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Question: did anyones dh get a vasectomy (sp?)We are on our 3rd dc and don't want anymore accidents. So I suggested to dh about getting snipped. He's considering it. How was the recovery for your dh? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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easy recovery... bags of frozen lima beans on the "affected area"... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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how about sex? when could that start up again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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you're supposed to wait a week to ten days. Friend's hubby was so afraid it wouldn't "work" that he tried to handle business by himself to test things and got a blood clot ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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oh poor guy [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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I know someone who ended up pg because dh still had good swimmers 2 months later. Don't forget to use a condom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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op: holy shit. I had no idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:49 AM Flag
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yup. they say to use protection for 3 months. your dh will have to back to dr to give a sample to make sure procedure worked. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:16 AM Flag
[ - ] Venting: my husband just told me he booked 2 tix to texas in August to see his parents, for a week. Whoohoo Plano in August 5mo pg with 16mo dd in 110 degree heat with 100% humidity. So freakin excited, yeah right. I told him we were staying at a resort so we can have a pool and spa (make it a semi vaca). Not bad of me correct? 19 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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you deserve it... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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thanks, just wanted to make sure I was not being hormonal bit*$. Lets hope the in-laws don't freak. I don't think they will but I really can't read them to well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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hormonal and bitch don't go together. if you are hormonal, you cannot be a bitch. you can only be affected by hormones and if that's the case "it is beyond your control" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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np: only to a certain extent. If you figure out it's hormones, you can control some of your behavior. That said, OP is right to be pissed off. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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I just think that men have used PMS as an excuse to disparage our moods and dismiss our stuff for years, now you can use it to your advantage ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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well said. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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why, thank you... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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Haha thanks, wish dh thought that. :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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that is just fair..resort all the way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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I don't get how someone books a vacation without checking and agreeing with spouse first [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:30 AM Flag
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np: ita. If my dh did this without asking or if I did it without asking..we would be annoyed and pissed [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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not worth it to fight. I know we needed to see his parents this year, and they don't fly, I just didnt want to go to Texas in august Ugh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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I think the RESORT idea is great [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:36 AM Flag
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Me too, I am going to book it today. Thanks for the vote of confidence. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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We had to take that week off of work because dd daycare is closed, we were just trying to figure out what we wanted to do. We have both been looking for good ticket deals to fly he said he just bought them knowing I would get over it, if i was upset. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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ita do people actually do this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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did you read the rest of my posts. Obvious that they do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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shouldn't he have booked three tickets? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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why? DD will be 16mo in August. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 01:25 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm having my nuchal translucency screening today. What should I expect?! When do they usually know results?! Thx! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.11.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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The ultrasound is pretty exciting. They should be able to tell you at your appt the measurement of the nuchal fold. The bloodwork that goes with it should be back in a few days. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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Thank you! I also read a few places that they can sometimes tell the sex of the baby? What was your experience? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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We didn't find out the sex of our baby before he was born. They might be able to tell you now...they had us look away while they were measuring the femur. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:44 AM Flag
[ - ] I have a strange question. I had a miscarriage just over a month ago and took Cytotec to deal with it, which in retrospect wasn't the ideal decision because I have been bleeding ever since and my hormone levels are dropping very very slowly. Last week they were very low, so I opted not to have a D&C on the theory that it appears to be almost done. Today for the first time in a few weeks I feel very crampy, almost as though I have my period. Is it possible that I do - that the miscarriage process took so long that I actually have my period again? Obviously I will call OB, just curious if anyone has had this experience. TIA. 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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I don't have any experience to share with you. I am very sorry for your loss. I suffered two miscarriages. Best of luck if you decide to try again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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Thanks very much - this is my second as well and will definitely try again. GL to you as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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I'm a success story. Have a beautiful six year old now. My only unsolicited advice is, next time do a d&c and have tissue testing done to see if you can get any answers if God forbid, there is a next time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:34 AM Flag
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That's wonderful, so happy it's worked out for you. I have an 18 mo as well so hopefully this is just a glitch, and I will most definitely have a d&c next time (but hopefully there will be no next time!), at least for the certainty of getting this over with. Thank you again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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it is possible and i would say likely that you have your period again. But, it is also remotely possible that your miscarriage is still not resolved completely and that is what is going on- which might mean you'd still need a d&c. This just happened to me- thought it was over, but it wasn't (i figured it out because i started having morning sickness, then did a preg. test and it was immed positive). So, def. call your ob, they shoudl do a sono problaby. good luck, and sorry. but it'll be cleared up soon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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Thanks very much. I have a sinking feeling that the miscarriage is not resolved but wanted a glimmer of hope that it's actually my period. I doubt it though. Thanks again and very sorry for your loss as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
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I don't know about Cytotec. I was given Methotrexate for a possible ectopic/failing pg. I only bled for a few days. It is possible that your cycle is out of whack and so you may be getting your period again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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The way the Cytotec is supposed to work is to make you bleed for 3-4 days, and unfortunately it just didn't work that way for me and I'm still bleeding after 5 weeks. Hopefully it's my period by now - what a nightmare. Sorry for your loss as well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:38 AM Flag
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That's no fun, but all i can say (having just been through it) is that while the d&c is unwelcome ever, and especially when it's late, but in the end it resolved my M/C and i feel like it's over now. and that is good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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That's what I'm thinking as well. Even though I've been going through this for so long so there is an argument to be made that it's almost resolved and I should just wait it out, I want it to really be over. If it's not resolved - and I'll know tomorrow - I'll just do the d&c. What a nightmare. Was so excited about dc#2. Thanks again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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Did you call your gyn when the bleeding didn't stop after a week? I hope you don't still have tissue from the pg. I've had several m/c and there was one where the beta took longer to drop but not 5 weeks. Definitely call your gyn. I hope this is resolved quickly for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:44 AM Flag
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Thank you. I did, and after 2 weeks of bleeding they did a sonogram and saw nothing, but since my hormone levels had not dropped enough I did another round of Cytotec. Last week the hormones had dropped enough that we opted to not do the d&c, but now I'm regretting it. 5 weeks is just so long. Seeing her again tomorrow. Thank you again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:47 AM Flag
[ - ] anyone there who can tell me what to give my 3mo for teething pain? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 06.11.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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mine chewed on frozen bagels... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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thats interesting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:31 AM Flag
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at night i would give a little tylonal. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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bourbon on the gums... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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3mos? A bit early for teething. Tylenol, and I think there's stuff you can spread on their gums, but I'm not sure it's OK for 3mos. Also, those teething rings that you can freeze. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:32 AM Flag
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not too early really.. mine cut his forst teeth at 4 months... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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Baby Orajel isn't rec. anymore [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:45 AM Flag
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really? why? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:24 AM Flag
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homeopathic tablets, suck on a little ice through a mesh feeding bag, bite mama's finger [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:27 AM Flag
[ - ] I just found out I am having my 2nd boy...while I am thrilled to have another boy and so excited for my 1st son I am terribly sad to think that I will probably never have a girl (we are only having 2 kids) Anyone else feel like this? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 06.11.08, 08:21 AM Flag
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well we planned on only 2 kids...but now pg with #3. This was a total accident. Never say never [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:23 AM Flag
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I still don't understand how people have accidents....what happened? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:44 AM Flag
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birth control can fail. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:00 AM Flag
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just be grateful that you can get pregnant [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:19 AM Flag
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blech - that's not a response. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:07 AM Flag
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a totally normal feeling. see how you feel after #2 is born. if after a couple years you want to try again, consider it. PGD with IVF is the only way to guarantee gender 100% though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 09:47 AM Flag
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to the person who posted "just be grateful you can get pregnant:" (i can't respond to your response for some reason.) this is incredibly insensitive. people with fertility problems do not corner the market on disappointment. what if someone said to you "just be grateful you have a husband;" or "just be grateful you can walk." i'm sorry if you're having difficulty ttc but i'm so sick of women thinking this means they are the only people allowed to be disappointed with any aspect of their lives. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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I posted almost the exact same thing four weeks ago when we found out we are having ds2 (also planning only 2 kids). I felt this unexpected, overwhelming sadness (and then guilt, of course) when the tech told us it was a boy. Four weeks later, i still feel sad sometimes, like when I see a particularly cute little girl in an adorable dress or something. Or when I think about how much calmer and less disruptive girls tend to be...but I have also grown to love my new little guy as I've felt him move. Plus, the general preference for girls I've perceived among my friends ("Oh, *another* boy! Well, now you'll have to have three!") has made me feel ultraprotective of the new baby. Anyway, you aren't alone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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op: I really appreciate your post...I already love this little guy and know I will adore him 100 times more when he is born but the sadness is real and I fell guilty feeling this way. I hope over time it will go away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 11:41 AM Flag
[ - ] Friend's DD was admitted to hospital last Friday Am with crazy vomiting that they diagnosed as pancriatitis brought on by some virus. They released her Monday and she was readmitted (to a diff hospital) early yesterday morning. Hospital #2 says hospital #1 screwed up diagnosis, they aren't sure what it is yet, and DD has to undergo tons of tests today which require general anesth... Jeez... So scary... 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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how old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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almost 3 yrs... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:21 AM Flag
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she just keeps vomiting? any other symptoms? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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Sorry. i couldn't reply to your post... she seems vaguely uncomfortable, but it's the vomiting... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:26 AM Flag
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so scary. I was watching this show on Discovery called MYSTERY DIAGNOSIS. A 7yr old had nightly vomiting and the Ped. just said it was a virus. For 2 mo she kept vomiting..the ped said Acid reflux...turns out (after the mom found a specialist) she was having epileptic seizures that show up as vomiting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:20 AM Flag
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this little girl is a total love ! parents are MD's,(mom is a sahm now) but they can only do so much. They trusted the first MD's and now they're back in the hospital. if it can happen to them, what about idiots like my DH and me !? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:22 AM Flag
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you need to go with your gut. If (god forbid) your dc has an illness and you feel your Ped just didn't get it right, go for a 2nd opinion. ALways follow your mother's instinct [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:25 AM Flag
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i'm heading up there today to stay with them for a bit... they're not from the US and have no family here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:27 AM Flag
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My thoughts are with the dc. Hope she gets better soon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:29 AM Flag
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I know they are very frightened that her pancreas has been 'compromised" and that would be a disaster ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:30 AM Flag
[ - ] how does the mother of an adult behave? why are MILs of men supposed to visit only once a month for a few hours? MILs of DDs don't only talk to their adult DD briefly once a month 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:14 AM Flag
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Please work this out with a therapist. These ideas of how to interact with your child 20 years from now will surely shape your relationship now. So fix it before it's a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:15 AM Flag
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how often do you talk to you mom? why should it be different for a man vs. a woman with their mothers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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It doesn't have to be any different. I speak to my mother once a week on average. I think women who have issues with MILs get angry about the MIL calling THEM when their sons don't return calls, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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ita. i speak to my parents about once a wk or maybe less. they do not expect to talk to dh. do not ask for me to put him on the phone. mil, on the other hand, gets very hurt if i don't want to chat with her and be her buddy on a regular basis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:37 AM Flag
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Yes, my friend has a MIL that expects her to "handle" everything. Doesn't even call her son, calls my friend. Things like taking her to the doctor even though she is perfectly healthy, ordering things online for her because she refuses to use the computer they bought for her, shows up with packed bags unannounced for a week-long visit. That kind of thing. She's only in her early 60s, is married and FIL still works. I think she just has no life and wants my friend to provide one for her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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np: IMO its the same wheter its your son or your daughter, with a few specific exceptions (childbirth, for one). every parent adn child can define their adult relationship differently. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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t.h.e.r.a.p.y. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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op: why? my dad was super close to his mom. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:17 AM Flag
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because your kid is only a baby and you are already putting all of these weird and twisted expectations on him. if you foster a loving (not smothering) relationship with your son that will continue into adulthood. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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how? they should respect that their dc isn't a small dc anymore. They need to have bounderies for a son or dd. They need to give their d-IL or S-IL respect and know when to give their 2 cents [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:16 AM Flag
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actually, that is about how often i talk to my mom. my husband talsk to his mom probably once a week. they both live out of town. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:17 AM Flag
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You have some odd ideas. My DH talks to his mom once a week, they emailmore frequently. There are no hard rules for how a man's mother is supposed to behavior. stop creating problems for yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:19 AM Flag
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My grandma who had 6ds and 1 dd, says that a mother of sons raises them to be good husbands not mamas boys. She has a great relationship with all 7 children, and not one daughter in law resents her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:24 AM Flag
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your grandma is a smart woman [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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I agree. she is an amazing woman. Not only a great mother but she had quite the love affair with my gramps. They were so in love even after 50 years of marriage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:35 AM Flag
[ - ] 2 days of spotting (brn.), now on day 2 of period (red) but temp's still up. what gives?!? (dpo 14.) is there any hope whatsoever? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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Call your doctor. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:20 AM Flag
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Thanks! So weepy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.08, 08:21 AM Flag
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