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Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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[ - ] wtf. aquatics instructor where my older DD is taking swim lessons is trying to convince me that 18 month old needs lessons too...and not mommy and me classes...hmmmm... 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:12 PM Flag
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well he can't force you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:20 PM Flag
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no, but I thought it was a bit pushy and strange, no? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:21 PM Flag
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he/she is paid to market their services! what is strange? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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some people are really into aquatics for babies. I'm not sure of the reason, but I remember a cousin of mine going on and on about her 9 month-old's class and how he already knew how to hold his breath. I personally think it's odd though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:33 PM Flag
[ - ] Does anyone know how much formula a 20 lb, 6 mo should be getting? He gets 8 oz of jarred fruits/veggies but no cereal. Just wondering how much formula other 6 month olds are getting TIA 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:02 PM Flag
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32 oz a day [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:03 PM Flag
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Thanks, he's getting 36 oz right now but it has been hard to fit 6 bottles in since he is a late sleeper. I guess I should just be happy he sleeps :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:05 PM Flag
[ - ] DD has been in a toddler bed for a few months now. What's the downside of just moving her into a double mattress on the floor now, rather than waiting until she "outgrows" the toddler bed? She loves playing on her brother's double mattress. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:01 PM Flag
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none that I can think of [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:07 PM Flag
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I have a friend who did that instead of a crib! the kid turned out fine, so I imaging that it would be fine for a toddler, just make sure that everything is supper babyproofed and you dd can't wander around the house. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:11 PM Flag
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We started our dd out on full size bed on the floor. We pushed it up against the wall and got a saftey thing for the side. She has always done great but I was worried in the beginning that she might get her face stuck in between 2 pillows so I would either go for one pillow or 2 really firm ones [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:11 PM Flag
[ - ] when is the right time to move Baby #2 into shared room with 2yo? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:59 PM Flag
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we are going to do it once db #2 is consistently sleeping through the night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:03 PM Flag
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With our 2yo there is no way it would be safe to put his baby brother in with him until #2 is able to defend himself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:09 PM Flag
[ - ] Could itchy hands & feet be a sign of an allergic reaction? I'm going crazy here. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:55 PM Flag
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could be. take some benadryl and see if it goes away. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:56 PM Flag
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I took an Alavert (it is also an antihistimine)- just as good or is there something super special about benadryl? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:58 PM Flag
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that's fine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:59 PM Flag
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thx. i'm watching the clock as I wait for it to work. I asked a friend for the name of her amazing allergist. must figure this out! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:04 PM Flag
[ - ] anyone have home-purchase regret. we bought our house in january and now i keep seeing things come on the market that i like better adn i think are better value. makes me sad and also feel like a jerk for even thinking about it 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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I love our house, but I still look at all the listings on line, and I'm pretty sure we could have gotten our house for quite a bit less than we paid. But no real regrets -- I'm happy where I am. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:54 PM Flag
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there's always greener grass. settle down into what you bought, make it work, and if it's still bad after two years, move. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:54 PM Flag
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You kidding? We closed Aug 30th in NYC with a view of lower Manhattan. For a while it seemed like the stupidest decision in the history of human kind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:01 PM Flag
[ - ] My 2 yr old dd vomited with fever at 12:30 this aternoon. Has only had water since then, but feels bette & kept it down. I don't have crackers. WDYthink of pasta for dinner - plain with no sauce or cheese? How abut rasberries - her favorite fruit? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:51 PM Flag
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pasta is fine but i'd skip the berries. maybe bananas or applesauce instead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:52 PM Flag
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I wouldn't do raspberreis. Plain pasta is probably ok. Do you have white bread or rice? Or applesauce? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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I would skip the berries but pasta is fine [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:55 PM Flag
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Op- thanks everybody. I guess milk is also a no-no.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:56 PM Flag
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for sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:57 PM Flag
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If she'll drink something else - water, pedialyte, gatorade, diluted juice... great. If not, milk is better than being dehydrated. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:57 PM Flag
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anything white is ok (except milk), so yes to the pasta but no to the berries. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:58 PM Flag
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start with the pasta and if all goes well, maybe some raspberries (these are pretty acidic though, so only if she's looking much perkier). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:59 PM Flag
[ - ] So who is giving up their TT spot for G&T? Name TT and G&T. 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.17.08, 02:50 PM Flag
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Gave up decent private school for Nest. Very excited. School refunding all but non-refundable deposit. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:06 PM Flag
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Which school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:20 PM Flag
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dalton [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:42 PM Flag
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Boy or girl? Just curious because I have a df whose dc is on the WL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:45 PM Flag
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Boy or girl? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:52 PM Flag
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girl [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:58 PM Flag
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wow - i'm so surprised to hear that - but i'm sure someone will be thrilled to get your spot. we will also be at nest this fall. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:02 PM Flag
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np: we will too--and we were waitlisted at Dalton. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:08 PM Flag
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I call BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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I second BS [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:53 PM Flag
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I third it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 06:45 PM Flag
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I say BS only because big tuition payment at Dalton not due yet - so nothing technically to refund and contract pretty clear at this point 100% due even if pull out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.18.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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did you do it by phone or letter? How did the conversation go? We will probably drop our non-TT private spot for Nest, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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Which school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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rather not say until we decide for sure and tell them. Not Dalton, though. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:43 PM Flag
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Okay, I thought you had decided. Coed or SS? GL and I won't give you my unsolicited advice about what I would do. I am sure that you will make the right decision. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:52 PM Flag
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Thanks. Co-ed, downtown. Feel free to give unsolicited advice. We're leaning towards Nest due to money and curriculum, but the other school is so nice and friendly tat I'll feel evil if we don't go there. We'll still hve to pay the full year, though, I think. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 05:55 PM Flag
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Honestly, don't feel guilty - they can fill the spot. That said, the only reason I personally would consider public over private is money. You know what is best for your dc and family. I am sure that your dc will thrive at either place. As cheesy as it sounds I'd make a pro/con list. How long do you have to decide? GL, again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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Thanks. We have been making a list. We have until Friday to let the G&T know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 06:07 PM Flag
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My dc is just finishing K at NEST. The NEST you hear about on UB is very different from the NEST my kid goes to every day. The kids there are great. The parents (vast majority of them) are really nice. It is a pleasure. The PTA had a picnic/fair last Friday in the courtyard. Tons of kids. A good time was had by all. And everyone was really great. The big kids are nice and gentle with the little ones. I'm (and my son is) very happy with our choice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.18.08, 07:45 AM Flag
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Anyone else give up TT spot for G&T? Let's get those waitlists moving! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 06:26 PM Flag
[ - ] DH and I are looking at going away to a Canadian resort for a week this summer. Does anyone have any recs? We have looked at Fairmont Le Chateaux Montebello, Whister, Lake Louise. We did like the idea of adding a couple of nights in Quebec. Thoughts? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:46 PM Flag
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We went to Mt. Tremblant a couple of summers ago and it was really lovely (tho I wouldn't recommend the particular place that we stayed, there are lots of hotels there and the town is really lovely). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:52 PM Flag
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How about the Banff Springs Hotel in Banff, great little town and set right in the mountains. A little pricey but totally worth it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:59 PM Flag
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we ate at this really good restaurant in Quebec City that was part of a hotel. the hotel was pretty expensive for us (the restaurant was a splurge), but not expensive by UB standards. I'll see if I can find the name. It was really nice and great location [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:58 PM Flag
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check out harrison hot springs too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:02 PM Flag
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I have been to Lake Louise, and it's so overrated. The Fairmont at Banff is nicer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:04 PM Flag
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My dh and I spent a weekend at the W in Montreal and loved it. Two years ago we went to Quebec City (great but don't stay at the Fairmont, stay at Hotel Dominion or another boutique). We went to Whistler this winter and LOVED it but wouldn't stay at the Westin again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:31 PM Flag
[ - ] Wow. This place is so slow and pretty lame now. Anyone know how many people stopped logging on after this awful change. Where did everyone go?!?!? 15 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:45 PM Flag
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It's getting better. People are drifting back. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:46 PM Flag
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are you posting interesting things or are you a lurker? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:46 PM Flag
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I used to post all the time. And of course, I'd reply as well. Now I have been on for 10 min and only seen 2 new posts and a few replies. It's like watching paint dry.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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maybe b/c it's dinner/bath time for many of us? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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I know I stopped for a while in part because of the new format and in part because I was sick to death of the political chatter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:46 PM Flag
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I miss the old UB [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:48 PM Flag
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I am op of this post. Where did everyone go? Is there any other site for us oldtimers?! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:49 PM Flag
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I'm sure you have a good idea where people went to. But to be honest if it's full of people who couldn't cope with the changes to UB then I'm suprised they can even operate a computer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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if you check out the other site, you will see that there are tons more features, plus the server is faster [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:42 PM Flag
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PLEASE STOP TRYING TO ADVERTISE THE OTHER SITE. IF WE WANTED TO GO THERE WE WOULD HAVE DONE IT BY NOW. Rant over [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:55 PM Flag
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word [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:00 PM Flag
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i think you get banned if you mention it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:01 PM Flag
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Quite rightly so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:10 PM Flag
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yes there is a new site but you get banned if you post it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:41 PM Flag
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ALWAYS slower in the summer... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:13 PM Flag
[ - ] Please tell me your opinion. I am 5 weeks pregnant tomorrow. I have a 2 year old daughter and before her, I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. The baby didn't grow past 5. It turns out that I had low progesterone. After my miscarriage, the doctor put me on clomid and progesterone and I got pregnant with my daughter. This time around, the doctor put me on the progesterone and clomid as well. I had my progesterone checked the other day as well as my HCG levels. The doctor said my progesterone was excellent and my hcg levels were "slightly positive". I said what does that mean? He said, well you are very early. However, of course, I am freaking out. How would you interrupt what the Dr. said? I am tired and getting cramping and dizzy and sore boobs, but other than that - no crazy symptoms. With my daughter, I knew everything was ok b/c I kept throwing up. I do not have any food aversions yet or throwing up, but it's too early. Please let me know your thoughts. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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TTC 06.17.08, 02:44 PM Flag
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i think you mean interpret. and i'd say its probably fine. but natural to be worried.i'd call him and ask him flat out what he meant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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whatkind of cramping? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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GL and I know it's easy to say but try not to worry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:50 PM Flag
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You could make yourself crazy trying to figure it out. There's really nothing you can do until you get another HCG count. Is one planned? Nothing else will really give you an answer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:00 PM Flag
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you can't tell much from one hcg level. The important thing to see is if they numbers are doubling every 48-72 hours. Have them do another test to see how it is going [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Middle School Question... do Delta and/or Anderson have sibling preferences for Middle School? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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NY Schools 06.17.08, 02:43 PM Flag
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Nope. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:50 PM Flag
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thank god, you guys with siblings totally screw it up for the rest of us [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:06 PM Flag
[ - ] Size 6, 32DDD - is there any swimsuit for me? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 06.17.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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yes -- get a lands end tankini [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:31 PM Flag
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ITA. I'm a 32D and it's worked best for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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i would try victorias secret [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:32 PM Flag
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That's me....go to the bra shops....they also have swim suits....Freya, Fantasie and you can get cute bikinis [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:42 PM Flag
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there's also a british bra company called bravissimo or something like that -- do a search -- they have some great stuff that isn't old ladyish [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:53 PM Flag
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intimacy-karla colletto suits. bloomingdales also [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:03 PM Flag
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Malia Mills makes great suits. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:04 PM Flag
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I'm a 4 and 32DD and had success with Shoshanna suits. I buy the P/S D tops and there is definitely some cleavage but I feel fully covered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:32 PM Flag
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Call Linda's Bra Salon on Lex in the 60's. I bought a great suit there last summer that kept my girls high and dry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:14 PM Flag
[ - ] G&T moms - did you go into some kind of privilleged, G&T program yourselves? Was it helpful? Do you value that experience? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:29 PM Flag
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no - my school in the middle of nowhere 20+ years ago really didn't even offer anything like g/t. DH however was always in 'special classes', schools and went to special art school - he sees good and bad to it and we factored some of his experience into our choice - nest - all one school; kids won't feel different, will be challenged. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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I never did. I was a late bloomer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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^^^ Plus, as first OR said, I grew up in the country. The only thing we had was some minimal tracking and a few AP courses in high school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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yes, i attended "special school" abroad. gave me a great sense of self-assurance and kept my goals high. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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I was in a G&T program, I chose mainstream for my DS. It was not a positive experience for me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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what was wrong with G&T? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:05 PM Flag
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The crazy moms here? The program I was in was full of them. Stressed out kids, competitive even in fourth grade. We even had a case of sabotage on projects when I was in sixth grade. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:07 PM Flag
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Me, too! Academically great, but socially a nightmare. Totally incestuous being with the same kids all the time. Competitive in a very bad way. Emphasized intelligence over the many other wonderful features and talents the kids have. Skewed view of the world and skewed sense of self/priorities. Nightmare parents--too much pressure and the wrong kind. I chose mainstream for DD, want her to have a happier and more well-rounded experience than I had. I was with the same kids from K through HS and have never once talked to any of them after graduation...whereas most of the mainstream kids from my old HS are still in touch with each other. G&T is great in NYC because it gives you more options over a very crappy zoned school, but I'd take strong Gen Ed over weak G&T any day. You can supplement academically, but you can't erase the kind of stuff that goes on in G&T, as is obvious from the parents on this board! There are too many G&T parents here that I would NOT want to be on a PA with! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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We lucked out that we are in a great zoned school too. Glad I'm not the only one - being here on UB made me wonder if I was the only one who felt this way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 03:25 PM Flag
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I went to normal k-6. In 7th, I was placed in special gifted for 7/8. 9th-12th just took ap classes. Chose general ed elementary for dc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.17.08, 04:35 PM Flag
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