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Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

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[ - ] there seems to be about 3 people on this board right now, am I right??? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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check in... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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here... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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present [ Reply | More
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here [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:04 PM Flag
[ - ] Until what age can db fit in the swing? DB almost 2 mths and have not opened it yet, thinking I might just return it. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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some kids are not swing kids, i would try out a friends and then decide. if your kid likes it they can stay in it for up to one year. it can be a true lifesaver. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:59 PM Flag
[ - ] all that is discussed on this board now are schools and how smart everyone's kids are. I really don't believe that there a this many G&T kids around, am I the only one that feels this way????? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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The whole idea of gifted and talented kindergarteners is pretty ridiculous. At that age, no matter how "gifted," it's all about socializing anyway. Academics don't become an issue much before third grade. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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It's about segregation! It's about not socializing with the "riff-raff". Gifted and Talented in early childhood should be abolished! Then schools would improve when all children are integrated into the same classrooms! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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doubt it. The middle and upper middle class will not send their dc to a failing school. They will either move or go private in NYC. The g&t program gets (and their time and money) in the system and tries to turn around schools one at a time and it works. PS6, PS116 - PS11 soon to be added to the list. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:51 PM Flag
[ - ] What do you do with your newborn (1 mth) when your not feeding, changing, burping. I can only "play" for so long. OK to leave in crib or bouncy seat alot if they seem content and quiet? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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you can definately leave in crib/bouncy/swing on their own. enjoy the time now b/c it doesn't last long. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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op: i feel a little guilty, like i'm lazy for not stimulating him and it will impact his development. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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don't be crazy, they need the time to just hang out. and remember, the kid is only 1 month, everything is stimulating and new. i did this with my first child and he is great playing on his own and i think that is very important. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:55 PM Flag
[ - ] I have a 2.5 yo and 6.5 yo. I am interviewing for a job that will pay about $125K-$150K a year - with enormous room for growth with a global org. The job will require I leave my home @ 7:30 AM and commute for an hour and leave office @ 5:30 Pm and commute back to just barely wash kids and off to bed. Right now we need the money - but frankly the job is also such a stretch for me - - I have been out of the work force for about 5years and although I could of this job it would be a lot of stress and a lot of "personal stretching." I am 38...and also have a mixed feeling about my marriage. On one hand I feel like I need to really go for it (and will probably get it) b/c future w/dh is shaky...on the other hand, I really do not want the stress, exhaustion and misery of missing my children's lives. What the hell do I do? 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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Any way to work in some flex time or telecommuting? Make it part of the negotiations. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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op-they'll never go for it..they also want me to travel to west coast at least 1-2x a month for 2-4 day trips. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Other option: shorten your commute in some way. But also, those 1-2 trips a month to the west coast are going to practically cost you a week each time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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op-i would have to move to shorten commute. so not do-able? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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you should do it esp. if you are shaky with your dh. make sure you get a great nanny that you trust. One of your dc is already in school and the other one will be in preschool soon but it's not every day that a company takes a chance on someone who was out of the workforce for 5 years! even if you do it for a year, you will have something on the resume and can look for something else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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op-that's what i am thinking...but also worried that it will be a big stretch...scared i am not qualified...all the self doubt stuff. i have all the vision for the job and passion and there are certain details of the job i just dont have...scared i will take it and lose it and will feel like sh** [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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It sounds like you are going to go for it. It WILL be stressful, but also rewarding. It will be a hard transition for your kids, but they'll be OK. You should have a long talk with DH, though. A new job, big career transition AND a divorce would be really awful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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You should also talk with DH about who is going to take care of DC if one of them is sick or if nanny calls in sick, etc. Some workplaces have emergency day care, but that won't work if DC is sick. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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op-good idea - thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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wow, it's great you have the option to come back to an interesting job. It's an awsome opportunity, try it and see how it goes. what field are you in? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:51 PM Flag
[ - ] Any recommendations for kid-friendly restaurants in Times Square? Or south of there on the way to Brooklyn? I have a family of five visiting from England. Children are 6, 8, and 10. Somewhat adventurous eaters. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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Starlight diner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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Sorry. It's Ellen's Stardust Diner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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Thanks! Why that one? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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It's fun and loud. Perfect for kids. Singing waiters. Really campy. I took some out of town guests with kids there and they loved it. They also liked Carmines and John's Pizzaria. (Different out of town guests on different occassions) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Cool. Thanks. I'll see if they take reservations -- we are eight! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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Carmines. Also, lots of chain stuff around there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:41 PM Flag
[ - ] i'm still exclusively breastfeeding my 9mo. i haven't used a drop of formula. but i wonder if she's getting enough from my milk. i b/f 5 times a day. is this fine or should i supllement with something, even formula (she's allergic to cow's milk though, so it would have to be a soy one)? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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so sick of this breastfeeding issue. If she's not getting enough, supplement with formula. I have two ds. Breastfed one, not the other. Both are perfectly healthy and seemingly well adjusted. I think it is ridiculous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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Is she losing weight? What is making you concerned? At 9mo your dc should be eating a good range of solid foods (although her allergies do make things harder). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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How do you know she's allergic to cow's milk [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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she couldn't breathe after i gave her yogurt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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When I was EBF, the ped told me to supplement with a vitamin D supplement. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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^^^ Didn't clue into the 9-month issue. I agree with the above poster, DD should be eating some solids by now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:22 PM Flag
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I ebf two babies past 12 mos. She doesn't need additional formula, but you should introduce water in a soft-spout cup or just an ordinary cup. At 9 mos it will be more about learning how to drink than getting liquids. I'm assuming you are introducing "solid" foods on a normal schedule in addition to breastfeeding? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:39 PM Flag
[ - ] help please. how do you clear history on google so no one can see what you last looked for. many many thanks 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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Go to google and search 'clear search'.....You can clear your Google search history from the desktop version of Google search box, the Google Toolbar, or your browser. For instructions, please visit our Web Search Help Center. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:06 PM Flag
[ - ] what are the reputable modelling agencies for children in new york? tia 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:09 PM Flag
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ask Dinah Lohan [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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look at the major modeling companies and see if they have a children's division, ie. IMG, Ford, Wilhemenia, Next. Don't go to just anyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 01:25 PM Flag
[ - ] Poll: best pediatrician in NYC. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.19.08, 12:08 PM Flag
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whoever is convenient and doesn't make you jump through hoops for a prescription or referral. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:15 PM Flag
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ita - choose someone who takes your insurance and is close by. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:17 PM Flag
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exactly. if your child has a serious health problem, then you look for the best specialist. but as far as pediatricians...stay local and convenient. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:19 PM Flag
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You mean a pharmacist. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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You mean a TT pedatrician? One who can improve DB's chances at an Ivy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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one within walking distance with a good office staff [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:41 PM Flag
[ - ] How can I lose 15 lbs in two weeks? i have a reunion coming up and 6 mos pp and still wayyy too fat! maybe i shouldn't go..... 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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You know the answer already. You can't do it. Just go. The people who care you look heavy are people you don't care about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:34 PM Flag
[ - ] Hate iron pills. Feel nauseous every time I take them. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Expecting 07.19.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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Try taking them after you have had something to eat. GL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 11:18 AM Flag
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thnaks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 11:25 AM Flag
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not to mention the rock solid black poops. eew. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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Try Floradix, much nicer on your system [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 02:52 PM Flag
[ - ] 2yo ds fell a few hours ago and twisted his knee. I put him down for a nap thinking it would feel better when he woke up. But, he is limping and whining when he puts weight on it. Although, when he is sitting down, he will bend it and not complain. What should I do? TIA 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.19.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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Just keep an eye on him and don't let him run about too much. If it's not better tomorrow I'd call to Dr. My toddler did something similar and limped for a couple of days but only when he remembered too! I'm not suggesting your dc is faking but they will do anything for a reaction. Hope he feels better soon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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If he'll let you, ice it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.19.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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