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[ - ] what are your ~21-mo's favorite toys? 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.20.08, 10:33 AM Flag
[ - ] 5th month in a row that I've failed to conceive, despite getting very strong readings on the OPK and having intercourse for the 4 days after. Not time to see a doctor yet, but wondering what could be going on. Any thoughts? 18 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:21 AM Flag
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did you have dc sperm checked? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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sorry, dh [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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OP: No, but that is a good thought. He has a physical coming up, so perhaps he can discuss that with his doctor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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Good idea. It's easy. He goes into a room and they have some videos and magazines if he needs them and gives a sample and they check it. So much easier to start there than with you. Can't remember the name of the place we went to but I can find it or your dh's doc can surely recommend somewhere. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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And these things will help - don't let dh get in hot tubs or hot baths. Wear boxers not tighty whities. Sleep naked. Stop alcohol and caffeine if he can, don't take long drives - or use a laptop on his lap for long periods of time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:28 AM Flag
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have you and dh had kids already? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:29 AM Flag
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OP: No, we are trying for our first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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are you getting regular periods? were you on the pill? i'd agree with the above poster about having dh checked. i'd also suggest you speak to your gyn just to get some more ideas. good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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OP: I was on the pill for years with 29-day cycles. Then I went off the pill for 2 months before TTC, and had 35-day cycles. But my cycle has returned to 29 days since we started TTC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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how old are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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OP: 31. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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Ok, then this is what I suggest. Assuming you want two children. have dh checked asap. Make an appointment with an RE for a month from now (it will take that month and then a couple more months for testing and results to come back - and then you are looking at ttc for seven/eight months. Don't wait. You and your eggs are not getting younger. Hopefully, you will be pregnant before you go to RE - but make the appointment anyway. At 31 - 32 when db is born, ttc second after a year or two puts you at 34 - 35. You don't really have all the time in the world. It only gets harder after 35. Good luck! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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OP: Can you recommend an RE, in case I decide to take your advice? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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Where do you live? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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OP: UES, but moving to LI (Nassau County) in the fall/winter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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eek. I would just ask my ob for a rec (if you don't want them to know) then call this office Life Steps OB/Gyn at 212-860-4800 and say, my friend uses you guys and suggested I call to find out which RE's you recommend. She didn't need one, but I do if you would be so kind. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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OP: Whew, thanks. I haven't been sweating the delay at all, but now I am sweating it big time (but feel a little better now that I can take some steps). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:47 AM Flag
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At 5 months trying and 31 years old, you shouldn't be worried. You have plenty of time, even if you want more than one child. Typical wait time for seeing an RE is 12 months of trying at your age. I'm 36 and having my first. It took over a year, and I'm still confident that we'll have more than one if we choose to. The semen analysis is a good idea, but you sound very healthy. It's very normal for it to take more than 5 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:26 PM Flag
[ - ] help this fashion ignoramus. i need a watch and i'm thinking of buying one on overstock. don't want to spend more than $50. is a leather band ok or is that nerdy? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:03 AM Flag
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ick, have not seen a leather band in AGES. Try also ebay, cool watches. Right now loving my Skagen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 11:05 AM Flag
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ok. so no leather band. can you please look at these links and let me know which is best? (i have no taste at all). http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Geneva-Platinum-Womens-Metal-Link-with-Leather-Watch/2920885/product.html? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Helbros-By-Jules-Jurgensen-Womens-Fashion-Watch/2873177/product.html? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Geneva-Platinum-Marcasite-Womens-Antique-Watch/2564162/product.html? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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^^^here were the other three i was considering but i'm guessing they are really horrible. http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Timex-Womens-Easy-Read-DuoTone-Classic-Watch/3196637/product.html? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Dufonte-by-Lucien-Piccard-Womens-White-Dial-Watch/1663963/product.html? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Reliance-by-Croton-Womens-Casual-Quartz-Watch/3190675/product.html? thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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I am not so good with the pic thingies but one that is closer to 50 versus less is better.Catalog #: 11088498 is really pretty..seiko is nice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:18 PM Flag
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thanks very much. i wanted to order it today so i'm happy to get a second opinion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:20 PM Flag
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But no leather band, and omg, not any of those leather and metal band combos, right? Please? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:24 PM Flag
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lol. ok. no leather band. but does this count as a leather and metal combo? http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Geneva-Platinum-Womens-Metal-Link-with-Leather-Watch/2920885/product.html If it does, i think i'm going to go with the marcasite. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:29 PM Flag
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eek! OMG eww! Nice plain stainless steel, or twotone metal if you must..but * faints* That is gross. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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really? what are the chances that it's you and not me who has bad taste? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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^^^seriously. please choose between these two. http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Helbros-By-Jules-Jurgensen-Womens-Fashion-Watch/2873177/product.html http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Timex-Womens-Easy-Read-DuoTone-Classic-Watch/3196637/product.html [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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you claimed to be a fashion ignoramus, not me! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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If you must, the Timex. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 01:29 PM Flag
[ - ] dh is on the phone wiht his dad. first time they've talked in a very very long time. his dad is an ass. but he's still his dad. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:02 AM Flag
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how long is a long time? was it your dh's choice not to speak to him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:10 AM Flag
[ - ] any non-wealthy moms on today? i'm not sending dcs to camp anymore and i'd love to treat myself with some of the money i'm saving. any ideas? not a spa-type thing. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:51 AM Flag
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lol, nice try [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:19 AM Flag
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what do you mean? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:28 AM Flag
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yeah, i always do pedicure, but since you said "not spa..." if you can get someone to watch dcs, take yourself out to dinner and a movie *alone.* bring a good book to dinner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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i'm thinking of going out in the evenings by myself. i'm not sure if i'll be too tired but i think it'll be nice and refresing. and pleasant. i like that idea. thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:29 AM Flag
[ - ] Have 2 kids at Anderson (both Elem). IF we were to move out of the City - where to go? Jersey? CT, Westchester? Would like to stay close to City as possible, but give the kids a home, yard, etc. Both are great, social and bright kids. would love comments re: transition (socially), taxes, schools, commute (we both work, telecommute a lot, travel a lot for work). tia. 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 07.20.08, 09:50 AM Flag
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sorry, i have no idea. but i'm trying to at least respond to some posts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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What does Anderson have to do with anything? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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just that it's a good school, and a hard decision to leave, considering kids are happy and receiving a great education - and I'm wondering if it's worth giving them a new/different growing up experience with grass and trees. Plus the work load at A. is very, very heavy and it's a bit stressful. Just looking to enjoy my kids more. I'm seeing such a big diff. in the summer in their personalities and want to have more of that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:07 AM Flag
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Make the move. School and life will be less stressful, happier. Workload will only get bigger in MS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:13 AM Flag
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my dcs are also at anderson, and do not seem streesed by the workload. One is in MS, btw. But I think if you want a different QOL generally, go for it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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Scarsdale has some of the best schools and it's close to the city. Not sure of your budget..it's $$$$ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 11:54 AM Flag
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np: personally, I would opt for bronxville instead. or riverdale. then you could stay at anderson. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 01:01 PM Flag
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Bronxville is not within the 5 boroughs so you could not stay. Riverdale, yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 01:02 PM Flag
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You could stay, but you'd have to pay tuition to the city. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 05:39 PM Flag
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I've never heard of that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:17 PM Flag
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np: it is true. I heard Marcie Shaw say that to someone. Some people try to fake a New York address that live in Jersey or wherever so they dont; have to pay tuition. i had no idea about that either. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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wow i never heard of that either. anderson doesn't let people attend who do not live in the City. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 09:42 AM Flag
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Not to get in intially, but if you move out of town while your child is already enrolled in a NYC public school, you have the option of continuing to attend, but you have to pay tuition to the city (not the school). Our friends moved to Westchester while kid was at Delta and kid even went on to Bx Science for a year before switching to local Westchester HS. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.24.08, 05:57 AM Flag
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If you work, you're not going to enjoy your kids more in the burbs because of the added commute time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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^^^If you want to enjoy your kids more, I would say don't travel "a lot" for work anymore. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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What about Greenwich, CT? We live in city but thinking about moving there. Great public school, more space, but expensive. We are looking for the homes around $3-3.5 million(4 bedroom+). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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ouch. we could sell our apt in the CIty for about 2M. would like to buy in the burbs well under that (should be possible now, distress sales should be plenty) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 09:43 AM Flag
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this sounds soooo fake. another fake anderson post, I am afraid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 05:33 PM Flag
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and what makes you think it's fake? The word "Anderson" in the post? WTF? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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mother of 2 anderson kids trying to pick a burb where she can spend $3-3.5 million, and wondering about giving up the school for a backyard? BWAHAHA! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:28 PM Flag
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lol! I was thinking the same thing. someone is on a rampage! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:24 PM Flag
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NP. I think that was a NP offering a random suggestion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:05 AM Flag
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again, OP here. no no no. My kids (I think) would love a yard of some sort. They like school, and I would not want to move to the burbs if their education would suffer, or if they'd suffer socially. They adore their friends. I just think that the workload is a lot and combined with the fact that they would enjoy outdoor life. It's not about money; but we would have to afford a house and the taxes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 09:46 AM Flag
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actually it's not fake. OP here. I never said I wanted to spend 3-4M! well under that btw. Just a regular house; property taxes concern me a bit tho. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 09:44 AM Flag
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We have a home, yard, etc. and we live in Manhattan. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:55 PM Flag
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There are a lot of nice suburbs, but keep in mind that kids in the Millburn, Scarsdale, etc. school systems are also stressed out. If you fly for work NJ might be good b/c you can get to Newark Airport quickly. The Midtown Direct line is good. Honors at Maplewood/South Orange HS is good - your kids don't sound like they would get lost in the shuffle. You can look at South Orange, Millburn, Chatham for the vibe you like. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:07 AM Flag
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Consider a modest second home within 2 hours of new york, great getaway for the family and if you telecommute you can do it from there. I do this with my smart phone and it works well. we paid 150K for a 3 BR 2 BA house in a lake community in Sullivan County. Kids love it up there. Best of both worlds. And, you won't have to give up A. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.21.08, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] are there only two people here? i just logged on and realized i responded to a post from four hours ago. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:40 AM Flag
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yeah. it's pretty quiet here. dcs are napping. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:43 AM Flag
[ - ] how would you pronounce the name 'brina'? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:37 AM Flag
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Bree-nah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:48 AM Flag
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thanks. that's what i thought, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:59 AM Flag
[ - ] since this is an anonymous board . . . dh and i have been working really hard for years, lots of sacrifices and are finally reaping some rewards. at the same time my immediate family is having so many problems--divorce, financial difficulties, addiction. i feel guilty for our success, even tho i know we worked so hard, and feel a slight sense of resentment too. god, wish everyone was just happy. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:10 AM Flag
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i hear you. dh and i worked really hard for years, dh still does (i sah) and he is v. successful. meanwhile, my sister dropped out of college, got pg and married to a loser at 19, had a second kid, divorced and is dirt poor. i am constantly torn between feeling that i don't send her enough $$, and feeling angry that i have to send her anything to support her bad choices. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:21 AM Flag
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it goes and comes. enjoy it while you have it and don't lord it over anyone. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:34 AM Flag
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just enjoy where you are. things can never be 100 percent. be glad you're in a stable place so at least you can be a stable figure for others when they need it. and then if and when the tables turn, they can hopefully be stable for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:04 AM Flag
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I am sure you are being generous with your good fortune. Juts PLEASE try to keep in mind that while your hard work and preparation had a lot to do with your success you have also been lucky and healthy and that has just as much to do with your success. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:48 AM Flag
[ - ] whats there to do today in nyc? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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sweat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:57 AM Flag
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huh? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:59 AM Flag
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It's very hot [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Please come to my open house! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:40 AM Flag
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Where do you live? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:41 AM Flag
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UES 90th/3rd [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:09 AM Flag
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Is this FSBO mom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 10:49 AM Flag
[ - ] 3 YO dd can not pronounce the "f" sound. i.e. instead of saying "I had fun" she says "I had sun". normal? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:39 AM Flag
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Sure. My 3 yo dd couldn't pronounce the "T" sound. "Cookie" came out as "tootie". But by 4 1/2, she could pronounce her Ts. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm considering sending DS to Buckle My Shoe Preschool on 13th St. Does anyone have experience with this school? Positive or negative? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 07:55 AM Flag
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i had a neg exp at the church st location. this was a while ago, but they are pretty disorganized and mishandled a pretty serious health issue for my dc and another dc in the group. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:59 AM Flag
[ - ] How many m/cs have you had? how many dbs? In what order? How old were you? Thank you! Me: m/c at 35, 2 m/cs at 36. no dc yet. 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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DC at 33, m/c at 34, m/c (late) at 35, DC at 36. Hang in there and GL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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how late was your miscarriage? i'm the poster below you. i miscarried in early second trimester and i'm still reeling from it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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it still kind of boggles my mind that i can say one miscarriage. i had three healthy pregnancies before the miscarriage. hoping to ttc again asap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 09:31 AM Flag
[ - ] So, my 63 year old dad has a facebook account!!! 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 06:08 AM Flag
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Facebook is about reconnecting with old classmates, old friends. No age requirements. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.20.08, 08:08 AM Flag
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