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[ - ] Friend took ambulance to hospital last night - they told her she was having a panic attack and gave her benadryl then sent her home. She crying and doesn't know what to do today. Obviously cna't get in to see a therapist or psychiatrist today - don't know where she should go....any suggestions? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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can the ER give her a referral? They must have some sort of system set up for emergency cases [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:25 AM Flag
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She could call her GP. He might be able to help or get her into a specialist faster than if she calls on her own. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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if she is really unable to function she should go to the emergency room where i psych will evaluate her and may even discharge her home with meds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:27 AM Flag
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that happened for me. She'll have to be really honest with them about how bad she feels. Really, really tell them "I feel like I'm going crazy" or can't sleep, or can't function etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:57 AM Flag
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^^^also could work if she just calls GP and tells them what is going on and tells them that she feels like she needs something to get her through. They'll prbably give her Klonopin. Its very fas acting for panic attack and prety safe if you are not someone who abuses substances. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:59 AM Flag
[ - ] I hate pediatricians. They freak us out and make us paranoid that our children are not developing right. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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mine doesn't. He is very reasonable. Maybe you need a new doc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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not mine. love her. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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really? Your peds dont ask how many words dc are saying? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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first OR of course they ask those questions. But that doesn't throw me into a panic! DCs develop at their own rate but within basic guidelines usually. They are just trying to make sure everything is ok. If it's not, wouldn't you want to know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:24 AM Flag
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sure she asks, but she never commented on it. one of my kids is adhd and she didn't encourage a diagnosis until he was 5 or 6, and never suggested a course of treatment, rather just gave us information and support, letting us lead the way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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Actually I've almost never heard this to be the cause. They are often cautious to the extreme, often miss developmental issues (because they are not specialists in development like a Developmental Pediatrician is) and they are taught to calm parents at all costs. If your Ped is telling you that something may be going on with your child, please listen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:24 AM Flag
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^^case. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:24 AM Flag
[ - ] How old is dc and how many hours of tv does he or she watch a day? Me, 4 yr old , 2 hours. Too much? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:20 AM Flag
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11 and 8 about 1/2 hr a day. when they were little I bet they watched 2 hours a day, at least. they just aren't into tv (or even the computer) now. whatever. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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I am soooo jealous of you right now...np [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:31 AM Flag
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well we are supposed to be a media free family but that doesnt really work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:31 AM Flag
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6 and 8 and about 2 hours a week. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:32 AM Flag
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4 yo watches maybe an hour (if rainy day), but usually less (one program). 8 mo, none, although I have the TV on in the a.m. I've DONE 2 hrs but don't feel good about it, fwiw [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:34 AM Flag
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Mine is three and about the same. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:34 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 34 yo, my mom, her sister (maternal aunt), my dad's sister (paternal aunt) have all been diagnosed with breast cancer in the past 5 years. My grandfather (maternal) dies of colon cancer. Am I doomed to get breast cancer? Should i think about getting a mammogram soon? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:20 AM Flag
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wow. I'm sorry. I would talk to your doc about it but they very well may want you to get diagnostic tests earlier than normal. Hope you avoid it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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OP: Well, the good news is, so far they all seems to be doing well (except for my grandpa). Mom is technically in remission! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:22 AM Flag
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that's great. Def something to ask your doc about though and maybe even find someone who specializes in cancer prevention. GL to you and your family [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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i think you really need to go to a breast center and get genetic testing. do you have sisters? are they ok? you should definitely start mammograms or ultrasounds (because mammos may not be effective in younger women) at 35 the latest. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:22 AM Flag
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OP: I have an older sister, she's 39 and so far okay. Any recs of places to go in NYC? I have United insurance. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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i don't know for sure--i know that beth israel and hackensack are big breast places. the name dr. axelrod in beth israel rings a bell. also memorial sloan is always there too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:24 AM Flag
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^^^^oh, and I'm still nursing (almost done) so I think i have to wait a bit after that, right? I've been pregnant and nursing for the past 3 years and I just realized now I'm 34 and have to deal with this somehow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:24 AM Flag
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probably, but i would still make an appt now--genetic testing has nothing to do with nursing. but it might affect imaging. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:25 AM Flag
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i would not do the genetic testing unless you are prepared to take action based on the result. but definitely talk to your dr about a mammogram and ultrasound. usually high risk women start at 35 instead of 40 anyway, you're just about due. good luck to you! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:06 AM Flag
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colon cancer runs in my family so I had a colonoscopy in my early 30s and they found 3 polyps and one was advanced percancerous so if you are at risk get checked! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:42 AM Flag
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omg yes you're overdue - call today! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:09 AM Flag
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I'm sorry. My mom just went through a breast cancer diagnosis: surgery, port for chemo. And, now has found out that it has spread to her bones, lymphnodes, liver, and lungs. It's so hard and scary. I would ask for a Rx to get a mammo from your GYN. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:11 AM Flag
[ - ] what is THE nyc downtown private? 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 05.22.08, 05:19 AM Flag
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a matter of opinion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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city and country [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:21 AM Flag
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what about grace church? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:22 AM Flag
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what did I tell you, OP? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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Friends [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:28 AM Flag
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St Anns [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 06:04 AM Flag
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there no such thing -- many schools are very popular. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 07:11 AM Flag
[ - ] I keep checking just special needs, and I'm getting chat from all other areas- toddler, general, preschool, etc. How can you get it to show you just one area of interest like the old board did? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:16 AM Flag
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check special needs and then hit "save as default" at the bottom right of the your settings box. That should do it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:17 AM Flag
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nope that didn't work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:29 AM Flag
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and then hit update my filters. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:31 AM Flag
[ - ] 16 mo says "hi daddy" and "hi mommy" - is that considered a 2 word phrase? I think it is the only one she has. Possibly "Iloveyou" but that is all strung together like one word. Wondering b/c we are going to ped today and I think she will ask about her words. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:14 AM Flag
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Just tell her that and ped will determine. She is fine for a 16 mo. Our ped wanted 3 words + mommy and daddy at 18 mos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:15 AM Flag
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You may want to look here if you have concerns: http://www.speechdelay.com/testrosemilestones1.htm#12%20MONTHS: [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:16 AM Flag
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She is talking about a 16 mo! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:16 AM Flag
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Yes, exactly. Which is why reaching milestones is so very important and which is why EARLY intervention exists should there be a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:18 AM Flag
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I understand all about early intervention. A 16 mo who is already saying 2 word phrases is not a problem. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:22 AM Flag
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OMG, see what I mean (other post) we are all freaked out and talking about early intervention for a 16mo. This is getting out of hand. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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Listen, I am not saying this child needs it but early intervention is just that intervening when a child is young and still forming their skills. I think it's very important that parents know about this. If OP thought everything were just fine why would she be so concerned? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:29 AM Flag
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np: so if my 16 mo says mama, dada, hi, and sometimes ball, but seems to understand almost everything, then we're OK? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:30 AM Flag
[ - ] Did anyone else watch "House" this week? Such a sad one-I was crying like crazy....I love the Wilson character. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:14 AM Flag
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did they kill him?!? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:19 AM Flag
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I thought last weeks was great. I literally gasped when they showed Amber on the train. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:20 AM Flag
[ - ] Moving dd to a bed this weekend. Bed will be against the wall ... just need a single bed rail, right? I know, stupid question but thought I would check. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:11 AM Flag
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how old? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:12 AM Flag
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2.10 yo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:14 AM Flag
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no, you must have a rail on both sides. god forbid she roll into the wall [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:13 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:14 AM Flag
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op -- I already said it was a stupid question. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:15 AM Flag
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Actually, there was a story on the news not too long ago about a toddler that fell down b/w the wall and the toddler bed mattress. He could not get out and suffocated. It actually is a concern. If the bed is not too high, I would put the rail beside the wall. Better for him to fall out of bed then to get trapped. Just my opinion [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:17 AM Flag
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I think you just made up ops mind. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:36 AM Flag
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I always put pillows up against the wall so dcs wouldn't get wedged between mattress and wall [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:34 AM Flag
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we put ours against the wall w/ some pillows on the floor, but dd was older (3) no rails at all [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:35 AM Flag
[ - ] My 16 mo, formerly a picky and terrible eater, has had a huge bowl of steel cut oats and blueberries, a whole grain homemade waffle, some scrambled eggs with cheese and some raspberries this morning. And she nursed too. Must be growing! 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:10 AM Flag
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wow, you cooked all of that this morning? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:13 AM Flag
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I just made the waffles and eggs (I have an older child too). The oatmeal was leftover and we microwaved it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:15 AM Flag
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np: I love how you had to tell us that the waffle was homemade. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:16 AM Flag
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I only added that because it was much bigger than a frozen waffle (believe me, we eat a LOT of frozen ones!) and I was commenting on the amount of food that went into her little belly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:17 AM Flag
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SAHMS, what do your kids do in the morning? I feel like my 3 yo can't find any way to entertain herself except to grab everything out of 16 mo's hands and otherwise harass sibling. And yes I've posted before. Do we need more toys or something? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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^^sorry, mis-post! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:26 AM Flag
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and also that it was whole grain [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:22 AM Flag
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i was just thinking that. lol. sorry op, this is typical ub lame critique. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:23 AM Flag
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ITA. There's nothing wrong with what you said, please don't apologize for it next time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:28 AM Flag
[ - ] Had my first db 12 days ago - normal pregnancy, vaginal delivery. Feeling great and been walking a little every day. Can I start power walking soon (I hate running) or do I have to wait for my 6-week checkup? Should i check with my OB no matter what first? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Newborn 05.22.08, 05:08 AM Flag
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check with OB first. You need to take it easy for a while. Getting back too soon can cause bleeding and other issues as well as put you back in bed for a while. Take it slow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:09 AM Flag
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OP: thanks. good point. I'll keep doing my daily walk with the dog or baby for a few more weeks. I definitely dont want to regress! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone know a great school for gifted 1st grader in long island - NOT LISG. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:07 AM Flag
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I feel badly for your child. Let her be a child [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:08 AM Flag
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you are being rude - you clearly have no idea what it is like for a child who is miserable because they are developmentally not at level of other kids their age. if i said my kid was delayed - you would never have sai that...she is just on other end of spectrum. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:16 AM Flag
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Unfortunately there are extremely rude and ignorant people out there and they don't reserve their ignorance only for gifted children. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:19 AM Flag
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Responses like this either indicate your ignorance or jealousy or both. NP [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:17 AM Flag
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I agree with op [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:18 AM Flag
[ - ] Has anyone switched from regular hair color to "natural" hair color? I am almost completely grey at 38 and I've been dying my hair for 10 years. I'm starting to realize that heavy dying is correlated with lymphoma and bladder cancer. I'm trying to research more natural options but the options are pretty confusing. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:03 AM Flag
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I started going natural when I realized that my natural hair color is really gorgeous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:04 AM Flag
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op - I'm not ready to be fully white at 38. I'm sure I will at some point, but not yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:06 AM Flag
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Oh I see. I know a woman in her late 30s who is fully white and beautiful. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:17 AM Flag
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I'm going to go fully white when the day comes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:19 AM Flag
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try henna [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:18 AM Flag
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