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Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

[ - ] Anyone know how much labor should be to install a new kitchen in NYC? 10K, 20K, 30K? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:20 AM Flag

depends on the size of the kitchen and the scope of the work. we just did a gut reno of a tiny galley kitchen and labor was about $19k. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 06:13 AM Flag

[ - ] i saw satc yesterday and loved it, did anyone on here love it? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:18 AM Flag

i loved it! even if it was bad- it would be good for me. i had my beefs with the movie (as any real fan would), but overall SO good. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:20 AM Flag

I thought it was awful. Stuffed with product placements and ridiculously overlong, overwrought, and sappy. It had its funny and delicious moments, but they were way overshadowed by the bad parts. That ABSURD and boring Jennifer Hudson sub-storyline?!? Ugh. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:26 AM Flag

[ - ] we have been "leaving caution to the wind" (AKA unprotected sex whenever we want) for 2 months now. No pg and we want to try now. What should we do? #1 happened by the method I just mentioned so new to all this. Thank you for your advice. BTW I am 32 and ds is 4 yo. 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:17 AM Flag

If you REALLY want to get pregnant, forget winging it. Get an ovulation kit and make sure to do it when you're ovulation. I'm 37 and got pregnant after two cycles. Meanwhile dh and I have always used the classic "pull out" method and never got pregnant. Just a thought... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:26 AM Flag

[ - ] gloria steinem on GMA she looks so fabulous 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:15 AM Flag

[ - ] Need suggestions for what to do with 4yo ds son today. Daddy has to work and mama is 8 mo prego. Any ideas? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:11 AM Flag

closer to 4 or 5? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:21 AM Flag

just turned 4 [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:25 AM Flag

Kung Fu Panda? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:23 AM Flag

[ - ] how do I find my daughter a T-ball or soccer team? She's almost 7. We live in the East Village. 0 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 04:51 AM Flag

[ - ] I have had one ds, 2 mcs at 9 weeks and am 11 wks preg. I am showing a lot. I am petite and it's pretty obvious...I'm trying not to tell anyone until week 12, but it's pretty darn obvious no matter what I wear...my good friends are being polite and not saying anything but I think they are like "you are preggers!! yay! " in their head. Should I still wait it out a week before I tell? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 04:22 AM Flag

if it makes you feel better. Obviously, there's no science to this. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 04:35 AM Flag

i've had 3 miscarriages as well. i waited to tell people too, but you're so close to 12wks that if you want to, go ahead. all my miscarriages were 9wks and earlier, and my OB says that by 12wks you're chances of miscarrying are as low as they will be for the remainder of the pregnancy. congrats and good luck! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 06:52 AM Flag

[ - ] Anyone know if the man-made beach in Ridgewood, NJ is public or private? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 04:12 AM Flag

i think you have to live in ridgewood [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 05:15 AM Flag

I also think you need to belong. I recall tags or something like that. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 06:09 AM Flag

[ - ] my dd (2 yo) does not fall asleep until 8:30 or so usually. We put her down between 6:30 and 7:00. She is awake by 6:00 am daily. She doesn't nap really well (maybe 1 or 1.5 hours at mid-day). This is so different than my first! She isn't angry about spending the time alone in bed. Is it fair to her? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:16 AM Flag

No, if she's content in the bed, then it's fine. Think about how much we all love to just relax in bed. If she has some stuffed animals or a mobile to keep her occupied, even better. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:17 AM Flag

[ - ] would you give your husband the address of an old affair you had if he asked for it? I wouldn't - told my husband I wouldn't be a part of it. Was this wrong? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:16 AM Flag

I wouldn't. There shouldn't be any need for it. If the affair is really over and if you are both committed to working things out together, then it should be done with. Maybe he is not quite as over it as he says? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:17 AM Flag

Oh, he's definitely not over it. I'm even hoping we can work this out in the end. But I definitely don't feel that giving the address proves anything or helps anyone. It's only going to lead to trouble and I feel nothing for this guy. Only my husband. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:18 AM Flag

sounds like more time in counseling is needed. did you ever go? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:19 AM Flag

I've asked but he's not there yet. Still fuming and honestly, I don't think counseling would help us yet. I think he needs a little time. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:20 AM Flag

counseling can create an environment for productive discussion and can give you both tools to communicate honestly and safely. it's not telling him how to get over it, but it keeps the discussion safe, respectful and productive. so sorry. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:22 AM Flag

this is what I've tried to tell him, but he is just giving me trouble about it. I go to a therapist and believe it in wholeheartedly. Maybe that's why he won't go. Feels he's giving into me too easily. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:24 AM Flag

[ - ] Do you ever feel like people feel bad for your becuase you have 2 boys? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:05 AM Flag

i see this question a lot here - is this one poster? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:24 AM Flag

Yes, I think everyone thinks women want girls and they secretly feel bad just because they think you secretly feel bad. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 03:14 AM Flag

I have a 4 year old son, am 3 months pregnant and am secretly hoping for another boy though I would be perfectly happy with a healthy girl. I just love being a mother to my sweet gentle funny son so I was hoping for another. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 04:16 AM Flag

[ - ] How long did it take you to conceive your first child? We're going on six months soon, which I realize isn't all that long, but we're under 30 and I think we both were hoping it would have happened in the first six months of trying. I'll probably pick up an OPK this cycle so I can figure out if we're timing it right, but until that happens I wouldn't mind hearing some reassurance. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 01:53 AM Flag

have you read taking charge of your fertility? if not you should, and chart, and use opks. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:27 AM Flag

One of my friends thought her first 2 babies were 2 weeks early. Then, her dh was going away for several weeks. She got pg before her left - on day 5! Point is, she was ovulating 9 days earlier than she thought. OPK might be the whole solution! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.08.08, 02:39 AM Flag