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[ - ] Where can I find a cute bicycle basket for a girl's bike in Manhattan? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 07.28.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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[ - ] can a kid get coxsackie more than once? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:00 AM Flag
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yes. mine did - but so far not twice in one season. he got it last summmr and this summre worsse [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:43 AM Flag
[ - ] Sleep help! 12 week old DD can only sleep swaddled, but she keeps busting out of the miracle blanket and wakes herself up!! She was sleeping so well until last week and now is up every few hours. Any advice / suggestions. We haven't been swaddling her legs for weeks as she does not like that. Thank you! 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:59 AM Flag
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get the "happiest Baby on the Block" dvd. It changed our life at this age and our kid didn't like swaddling either. i recommend it to everyone now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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she is a very happy baby i just feel like I am stuck in this weird place where she gets out of the swaddle and then wakes herself up and struggles to go back to sleep. she falls asleep by herself for naps, nighttime, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:04 AM Flag
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no, no... I don't mean she's not a happy baby...it's just a very helpful way to get the baby to fall into a deep, not-waking up kind of sleep... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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ok thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:18 AM Flag
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np: i second the happiest baby on the block recommendation - it's about sleeping and soothing issues. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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np: i loved HB too, but this db is older and already past that 4th trimester phase. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:11 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:14 AM Flag
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could be a 3 month growth spurt. she may be hungrier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:02 AM Flag
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Try a bigger swaddle blanket--we started using the large cotton muslin ones by Aden + Anais (wrapped tightly!) Our 4 month old can't wiggle out of them because it is wrapped completely around him. We also wait to swaddle him when he is very groggy so he won't protest. Without the swaddle, he sleeps for three hours tops. With the swaddle, he sleeps from 9 pm to 6 am. Couldn't live without them! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:25 AM Flag
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thanks. i have that blanket and tried it yesterday - i think part of it is that she does not like her feet swaddle and that loosens the rest. also, she has started to try and roll over. I will try again. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:49 AM Flag
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If she can roll over, swaddle with one or both arms out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:13 AM Flag
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i should say until last week she was sleeping 8-10 hours at night and now has been waking 2 times or so [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:50 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 29 wks and preparing for my baby shower - would appreciate some on the ground recommendations. Breast Pump (single, dual, manual)? Strollers (Bugaboo or bust)? Car Seats? Anything other advice? Just to cover the basics and I'm assuming everything else will come naturally and as and when we realize what we/baby needs :) 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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Ask a couple of your friends who recently had dbs for copies of their registries... that helped me out a lot. We opted for the Snap and Go and then Mac Quest for our dd and the Graco Safeseat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:05 AM Flag
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I just had my baby shower last month (still a few weeks to go!) and I actually took a different route. I decided it was too personal to register for breast pump stuff and that dh and I would buy our own stroller (Bug)and big things. We registered for some other "bigger" stuff (Pack-n-play, Graco snugride etc.) that we got, but I told most people to buy clothes, books and little stuff and dh and I would focus on the big purchases. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:06 AM Flag
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Carseat: Graco Snugride is lighter and less expensive than others. Goes to 22 lbs, while others may have higher weight limits. We like the Snugride. Didn't get the Bug (the fact that it doesn't really fold was a problem for us). Maclaren makes a carseat frame now, which is lighter and folds easier than Snap N go or Kolcraft. I rented a hospital grade pump. Register for Bjorn Active carrier, Bjorn Babysitter bouncy seat, pack N play, useful baby clothes. Go to buybuybaby and look at various gear -- they're very helpful there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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I liked the Graco Snugride. Other good registry items: a snap n go or Kolcraft stroller frame, a bjorn carrier, a swing and/or bouncy seat, a playmat (with the dangling toys above -- what are they called?), an exersaucer. A lot of people will also just pick out a cute outfit or some books or some keepsake like a silver spoon. We didnt put very large items (bug, furniture) on our registry. People like to buy one fun thing that's just from them -- think $25 to $50 items. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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Definitely get a double pump. I like Ameda Purely Yours. Medela Pump in Style is also popular. The Graco Snugride carseat gets high safety ratings and fits most strollers. I like the Peg Perego Pliko P3 stroller because the height is adjustable. I recommend pushing a stroller around the store to make sure you like it. I also couldn't have lived without a bouncer (with a toy bar) and a playmat. DB liked those as a newborn and it gave me a chance to put him down and shower. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:59 AM Flag
[ - ] WWYD -- our nanny is great, kids love her, etc. We think our almost 2 yo DD is showing signs of readiness to potty train and she has pooped and peed in the potty for the nanny a few times. I tried to get her to sit on it yesterday and she had a hysterical fit. I asked her older sister if she does that for the nanny and she said that she does sometimes, but the nanny makes her sit and she ends up going in the potty. I don't really feel comfortable with that. What do you think? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:50 AM Flag
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If you don't feel comfortable, tell nanny to lay off for a few months until DD is ready. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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I think that you are the parent and you should tell your nanny that you are not comfortable with making her sit on the potty,. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:15 AM Flag
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Nanny seems to know more about potty training than you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:18 AM Flag
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Nanny have more experience with potty training than you SHAME on you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:03 AM Flag
[ - ] The PA at our ped's office is condescending and doesn't listen to anything we say at our appointments. I notice this, then my mother went with me to an appointment and commented on it, then dh commented on it so I don't think I'm being oversensitive. I want to say something but don't know to whom I would complain and I also am somehow worried that the office will flag out chart and consider us complainers or something. What would you do? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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I just request that we see anyone but the Dr. I dislike. The office staff totally get it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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it's the physican's assistant who sees us first, weighs dd, and then communicates our issues to the dr. i don't even know if there's another one in the office. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:53 AM Flag
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So you aren't happy with their personality? Because it doesn't sound like ti effects the ultimate treatment you receive by the Dr. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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uh, no. i'm unhappy that she doesn't listen to our issues and speaks to us as though we are dumb. it might not affect the treatment, but it could given that the PA communicates our issues to the dr before we see the doctor. it certainly affects our experience there and would be pretty maddening if dd were really ill. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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Chnage practices so I saw a doctor instead of a PA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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we see the pa first, then the doctor [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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I understood. Our practice has no nurse or PAs. the doctor weighs kids, take emergency calls, gives vaccines, etc. It is nice, more opportunity to talk about development and concerns. i don't need a PA to convey and prep the doctor first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:03 AM Flag
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there are lots of peds in the practice so i would just not go back to that ped. you don't get to pick your PA and we always get the same one. i think if I ask not to get that PA the person taking the appointment i likely to be friends with her as opposed to a doctor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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sounds like you need to explore other ped's office in your area [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:20 AM Flag
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Dr.'s wife here. When the attending physician (the doctor) comes in, have a discussion with him or her about the PA. Explain exactly what behavior has made you uncomfortable. Be very calm, and specific, so you sound reliable. The attending is the boss and should not be losing business b/c of the PA, if he/she doesn't know about the behavior. Explain that it makes you so uncomfortable that you've considered going elsewhere. They aren't going to "flag" your chart, ESPECIALLY if you seem like nice, reasonable people. Dr.'s don't like patients who act like they are the only people who matter, who demand ridiculous things, etc., but they obviously want to hear from patients with legitimate concerns about their staff. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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the pa remains in the room during the appointment and her attitude is much better once the doctor is there. i find it impossible to believe that they haven't gotten complaints about this woman. we certainly aren't demanding anything and don't think we are the only people who matter . . . i don't think anyone in any profession appreciates those traits ;() [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:48 AM Flag
[ - ] dh is mad at me about something for several weeks now - long story. Now he doesn't hug me or hold my hand as he used to all the time... yesterday we went to the movies and I was cold and he would not put his arm around me. He's not being mean - just being untouchy - except when he wants to have sex - then he's a little rough about it. WWYD - I feel horrible about this - is this being passive-aggressive? 13 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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what made him so angry for so long ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:54 AM Flag
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wanted to move to be closer to his family - I wanted to stay put as kids older and entrenched in school - and I have elderly mom - no sibs here. And, place he wanted to move very $$ and it would have been a major downsizing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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well that is a major issue. it doesn't sound like an issue that either or you should have been able to put their foot down about though. i think your discussion with him about it is not over. is it worth ending your marriage over? that might sound extreme but this sounds pretty unhealthy and your marriage should come first, before all of that imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:00 AM Flag
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the problem is that it's not a compromise situation - its' an either he gets his way or I do... and I need to be here for Mom and kids would be very unhappy and I could not deal with that - plus money situation is a big thing too... he is not thinking out - looking for his immediate gratification - it's kind of a whim [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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well i agree with poster below that dh needs to feel that his side is being heard, in short. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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^^ i didn't say there is necessarily a compromise. i meant that i think it's not healthy for either of you to say this is how it will be end of discussion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:28 AM Flag
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but it gets to the point where someone has to give in - if I had - I would mave made the best of it - if he does - he can't be mad at me forever [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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i would talk to a third-party who is neutral to get it all out. DH and I did and we actually went to a male psych and I think that made DH more comfortable that his side was being heard. It did us a world of good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:26 AM Flag
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op - did you end up doing what dh wanted? I struggled between doing what's right for him - and what I need to do due to other obligations - family, kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:29 AM Flag
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Ours was a diff situation, but I learned a lot. For example, there were things that I wwas doing and not doing that really upset him over time. he had never really voiced how big a deal they were and now I get it. I have worked to fix it. But I don't think it ever would have come out without the third-party. It was like a pressure valve was released and we got back in synch again. DH has sadi that he felt very comfortable talking in that "space"/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:32 AM Flag
[ - ] Suzuki violin - anyone have experience with this with a young child? Would love some btdt feedback. Thanks! (Fwiw, this is a 3 y/o who has been asking to learn to play the violin for over a year - not something being pushed by us...) 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.09.08, 07:17 AM Flag
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As a Suzuki Violin teacher I usually do not start teaching a child until they reach 4 years old. Even then, it takes a lot of dedication and attention to detail on behalf of Suzuki parents to keep the focus and motivation of a child as well as disciplined home practice. I have only two students, twin sisters, that started taking lessons with me at 2,5 years old, they keep progressing on the instrument wonderfully, but I consider that an exception. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.09.08, 08:35 AM Flag
[ - ] friend's almost 10 wo dc is not smiling. dc was born early (by two to three weeks), but ped says if not smiling within the week, could mean brain not developing. this seems a little off especially if baby was born early. worried for my friend. thoughts? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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pray for your friend and her dc. (not a holy-roller here, just saying that the positive energy you send their way can't hurt...) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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boy? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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yup. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:09 AM Flag
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My dc did not smile until 8 weeks, and then the smiles were few and far between. Because I was with her 24/7 I saw her smile, but dh didn't see her smile till 10 or 11 weeks. I think the ped is an alarmist. Not every baby is smiley. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:17 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:54 AM Flag
[ - ] I have such a crush on Don Draper. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:40 AM Flag
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he's hot... I was sort of ready for his wife to grope on the tow truck man though. what happened there ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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I know! why couldn't she just charge it? And, I noticed he left his hand prints on the car trunk when the truck driver closed it - so Don will probably find out about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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me too! discovered Mad Man was free on demand and watched all 13 shows of season 1 last week - Don Draper marathon! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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i've been trying to and have the 1st episode this season dvr'd. i'm only up to episode 5. my pre-db self would have had a marathon in 1 day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:51 AM Flag
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His long time GF is that chick from Kissing Jessica Stein and Notes from the Underbelly. Lucky gal! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Did you hear about the little girl who drowned in Coney Island on Saturday? There have been about 10 drownings in this area this summer. Last year I nearly drowned when I was sucked in by the undertow in Point Pleasant, NJ. I can't believe I'm saying this, but I really don't want my 2 yo and 4 yo going into the ocean in the North Atlantic. Something weird is going on with the riptides or something. 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:39 AM Flag
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Sadly there are many more drownings this year due to undercurrents. I'm from LI and 2 drowned in Long Beach recently. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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Was she very far out? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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Rips take adults from depths as shallow as under 3 feet; children can easily have their feet taken out from under them at even shallower depths. The riptide isn't something always easily seen from the surface but is well known and charted by locals. Some shorelines have more notorious rip-current, Coney Island and Rockaway are not beaches where I'd ever let my child swim; I never approach those waters w/out a surfboard. Long Beach too, has a pretty consistent history of this phenomenon. There are definitely things to remember, reinforce and teach. Water safety rules and practices are not a light matter. Oceans are not pools, DON'T fight the current if you are caught in the rip; let it take you and stay as calm as possible- you will be clear eventually and hopefully strong enough to swim ashore or tread until assisted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:33 AM Flag
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be freed -eventually-at which time you can hopefully swim to shore or tread/float/signal for help. Lifeguards are very aware of the ripcurrents on their watch. If you go to a beach regularly, talk to the lifeguards. Your kids should be introduced and greet them upon your arrival every time. Don't let your kids in the surf w/out you; you can hopefully tell when it's not a good time to be in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:43 AM Flag
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General Topics 07.28.08, 09:59 AM Flag
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Related to this topic - be very careful if you take your children to water parks with wave pools. I was high school aged and in about chest high water in a wave pool and the waves came so fast that they hit me in the face and knocked me under. I got so disoriented that I couldn't find the bottom or top of the pool, I was sideways. I remember panicking but I found the surface and the waves kept smacking me in the face. I finally worked my way to the side of the pool and tried to get up the ladder but the waves kept knocking me down. Then I just let them push me back to the shallow end. I was shaking so much and so freaked out, but it didn't look like anyone had noticed. Please, please be careful if your children want to use the wave pool! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 08:54 AM Flag
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I love wave pools. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 09:38 AM Flag
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OMG... This is such a scary story! I would never go near water again! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 10:04 AM Flag
[ - ] How long after giving birth did you have sex? It's been 9 weeks and I really want to do it but have no idea how to initiate or what. It's been over 8 months since we had sex. 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:33 AM Flag
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lubricate and inebriate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:35 AM Flag
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in that order? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:37 AM Flag
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I think the order may be up to you ! good luck ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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i agree! i wish i had done both the first time i had sex after baby! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 01:31 PM Flag
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any particular reason why didn't have sex while pg? if you have the go from the ob, just do it. you may surprise yourself and actually enjoy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:37 AM Flag
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well dh was skeeved out by it and then i had preterm labor and couldn't anyway [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:39 AM Flag
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dh didn't want to ? why ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:41 AM Flag
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the baby was "right there" and he felt weird about it. very irritating and frustrating for me but he was sincere in feeling that way and couldn't help it. it's actually not that uncommon. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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probably not uncommon. My DH was very hot on the idea of my being pregnant, but I just wanted to sleep. Is he eager now ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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i bet you can easily fix that... sen the signals, have a cocktail or seven, and that will be that ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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How was your sex life before? DH was finished with our sex life after babies. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:42 AM Flag
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do you think he has a sex life somewhere else ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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so he's just sort of "done" ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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Yes. Kind of like his job is finished... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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meaning ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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He can go back to masturbating which is his preference. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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so then what do you do ? or are you done too ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:49 AM Flag
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Spent years crying, therapy, etc. I am resigned now as I don't think divorce is a better option. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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op? if so, it sounds like your issues go way beyond post partum sex. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:56 AM Flag
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np: i cannot imagine not thinking divorce was a better option! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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nope [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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does your dh have a health problem? is he overweight or are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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Use Astroglide warming gel, it's amazing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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we love that! we have the 3 pack, warming, flavored and original. Go Astroglide Go! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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Ugh--in the same boat. I had a c-section 3.5 months ago, but sex is still painful. If you are breastfeeding, use Replens a couple of times a week & KY during. Good luck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 07:17 AM Flag
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Waited for stitches to be out (small tear) and swelling to abate. Had sex up till day of delivery and have been having it regularly for the next 14 years. Probably averages 2x a week. Why not just initiate sex or have a discussion about desire to have sex. You initiate sex by beginning the actions that function as foreplay for you; hugging, kissing, stroking, nibbling, licking...whatever got you and him going pre- baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 12:11 PM Flag
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See a sex therapist if this has always been a problem. Can't live your whole life like this!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 12:13 PM Flag
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It's a really good sign that you're saying you "really want to do it." I would go for it! Even if he's hesitant, you're enthusiastic and you could possibly persuade him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.28.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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