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[ - ] tomorrow is dh's snip. yay! 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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you gotta wait like 2 weeks before he shoots out all his rounds right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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np: 6 months before you can go without other BC. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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adult circumcision? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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It's really the best. Our sex life is so much better after the vasectomy. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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np: how come? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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^^^pun unintended lol! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:25 PM Flag
[ - ] what's everyone doing this weekend? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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No idea. DH is away and I didn't set anything up, more fool I. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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nada [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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hey, me too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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Camping. Long time circle of friends tradition. Last time with no kids...by this time next year, 4 of the couples involved will have children in tow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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how fun! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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It really is! Will be interesting though. The liquor bill will certainly be less, and a bunch of pregnant ladies shuffling their seats to try and stay out of the campfire smoke plume, which invariably is directly in someones face. Only concerned with ticks, since we can't used DEET based bug sprays [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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nothing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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rehearsal dinner and then the wedding - cousin [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:26 PM Flag
[ - ] what kinds of purees do you make for db? i am just starting to make some and want some ideas for some not so usual choices like apples, pears, bananas, etc. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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sweet potatoes, butternut squash (db's all time fave), peas, carrots, potatoes, baked plums [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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You should really buy jarred or frozen carrots. Nitrate levels can be too high in homemade. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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what about those baby carrots, the little ones? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:34 PM Flag
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By the time we got past single foods and started mixes we started mashing exactly what we ate, leaving out obvious hot spices until later. Depends on age. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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red lentil [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:35 PM Flag
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In additon to OR's list (but I didn't do carrots), I did parsnips, broccoli, cauliflower, and beets. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:35 PM Flag
[ - ] What do nannies normally do for lunch? Should I provide something for her? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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mine used to just get her own lunch or not eat. i of course told her to help herself but she never did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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mine goes thru the dumpster behind our building. She doesn't seem to mind [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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ha [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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yeah I caught her in the fridge once, she still limps a little. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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mine is steadily eating me out of house and home [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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you gotta crack the whip on that shit! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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stop buyinf stuff she likes. would that help? or does she like everything [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:38 PM Flag
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let her eat cake! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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let her eat my foot in her ass! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:40 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:49 PM Flag
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My nanny is welcome to whatever we have in the house or if she buys lunch for my dc outside, I want her to also buy herself lunch if she is hungry with the money we leave for that. She often brings her own lunch with her and even shares it with my dc. I had a nanny in the past who ate everything we had and would also take a coke "to go" when she left for the day, even if it was the last one in the fridge. Much prefer the new nanny. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:46 PM Flag
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i would feel weird just helping myself to employer's food. even when i was a babysitter i wouldn't eat when the kids ate [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:49 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone's toddlers have itchy legs for no apparant reason? what do you put on them? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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the best lotion we have found for the kids is unscented neutrogena in the pump bottle. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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could be diaper allergy. My kid had one. Aquaphor is great as is Cetaphil. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
[ - ] I'm not on the NY Schools board, because I figured it's just a lot of angst about private school admissions. Is it? Are there worthy discussions on it? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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Right now, it's all about the G&T public schools. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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yes, very [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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Very worthy or very admissions angsty. I mean, I feel for people going through it, but it's boring to listen to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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What kind of discussions do you want? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
[ - ] OK...Just found out that my ex and the b&tch he married instead of me cannot get pregnant. She has been going through IVF.... 24 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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time to move on [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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and he still would rather be with her than you? rough [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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Why are you so angry. You are only hurting yourself and your children. Move on and try to be more positive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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i always feel bad for my friends who have dh's that have previous relationships that bore children. you are the kind of woman they talk about. move on and give your children a better life. imagine what this woman must have to say about what a gem you are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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karma is the bitch here. watch out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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Do you have kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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He cheated on me with her when I was pg and them married her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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sounds like my dh, except he didn't marry her, he stayed with me and 8 years later, I wish he had. Move on. Really. He did you a favor. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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So weird that you are making it all about her. Shouldn't this be about your ex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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ex has kids with me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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Right. So be pissed with your ex. He's the one who chose her instead of you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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give her a break. I think most women here would feel the same if they were in her shoes - they probably just wouldn't say it out loud. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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We might feel this way, but it would still be putting our anger in the wrong place. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:24 PM Flag
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It's a tough thing to go through, and emotions can run high. People shouldn't be treating her like she's a looney. C'mon, it's a hard pill to swallow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:25 PM Flag
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I understand that, but I don't think we would be helping her not to point out that she is misdirecting her anger. It's not great for her or her kids. In fact, I think in the long run she's lucky to get rid of this jerk - she deserves better than him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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you should not gloat like that. kids, infertility and illness are off limits imo. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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alls fair in love and war [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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so which is this, I'm confused? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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both, it would seem [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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yeah, i'm with you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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no it's not. one day you will grow up and understand that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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hmm, i hear what these others are saying, but i'm going to say i understand how you feel about this person and your ex and all of that. so you're not mean or pathetic or anything for talking about it. i don't knwo your story, but i get how you'd be angry at him & her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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well that proves it you are clearly superior. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:23 PM Flag
[ - ] Annoyed at nanny = dd is sick (just a cold) but not herself. She has had her out of the house since 2 pm - how do I handle? 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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oh, i dont know...try talking/reasoning w/her maybe? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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It's a cold, not pneumonia. Nanny has DD out enjoying herself. What's the problem? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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probably out with her other nanny friends - shopping, eating. Mine used to do this until I learned I had to say to her "don't take him out today, or if you do, only for 1/2 and hour or so" I understand why you're annoyed. Very selfish of her. She's probably running errands, like mine did. Eventually I fired her. Best thing I ever did. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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you sound like a peach [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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I'm actually a great person to work for, but some of these women are just plain selfish and lazy. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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op - this woman seems sweet and loves dd but she lacks sense sometimes she told me she is at BN with another nanny and her charge who is the same age as my dd [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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OH NO!!!!! Maybe DD is actually enjoying herself and getting her mind off her cold!!!!! THE HORROR!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:30 PM Flag
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talk to her! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:33 PM Flag
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By the time DS was 2.4, only if no fever, we deemed it ok for them to take a walk, staying away from crowds and doing reasonably low key things if DS felt like it. Before that age I wigged out about going out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:52 PM Flag
[ - ] How often do you bath your 3 yo? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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daily [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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i think the question here is how often do *you*? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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most days [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
[ - ] How can he marry that ugly horrible b*tch instead of ME! 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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who? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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i guess you are a more horrible bitch? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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because you are an uglier more horrible bitch and she at least has family money [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
[ - ] does jcrew run big? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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compared to what?gap, no. lanvin, yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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lol. ok compared to say, h&m [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
[ - ] I heard there was a problem with the 5th and 7th grade ELA scores this year, but that school administrators weren't allowed to talk about it. ANyone know what's going on? 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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Toddler 05.22.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Shoot me now. My dc will never go to Hunter. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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wasn't meant to be. move on. each step along the way turns out as it should [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:54 PM Flag
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screw u I was just being dramatic, we don't have scores yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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who did you hear this from? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 05:06 PM Flag
[ - ] I heard there was a problem with the 5th and 7th grade ELA scores this year, but that school administrators aren't allowed to talk about it. Anyone hear any more about this? What's going on? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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Try the NY School board. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Oops, now I see you did cross post. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Just did -- sorry, can't get used to this board thing.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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^^^sorry, I just get confused [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I know. Me too! I always assume that a new post will go to where I currently am looking so a lot goes to General Topics. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
[ - ] Day Care: I am looking for a good day care that accepts infants (around 4 months old) in one of the following neighborhoods: Lower Manhattan near City Hall, West Soho or in Midtown. Any recommendations will be greatly appreciated! 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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i loved children's garden, i'ts in chelsea, but it's really wonderful, and especially with very little babies. the caregivers are all grandmothers, have all been there for many years, and it's a beautiful setting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Oh, if you can also give me a sense of what they charge, I would super appreciate it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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i think it was pretty normal for daycare in manhattan, maybe even lower, i think we paid 1500/month for 4 days. it might seem not as spotless and shiny as some of the others you'll see, but i really really loved it there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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NP. That is a great deal, and sounds very nice. My DD goes to a different daycare that would not be convenient to you, but in the end the #1 thing to me for daycare is that the teachers are warm and loving. I don't have personal experience, but you can also look into Trinity Daycare, Manhattan Kids Club (Union Square), CADS (children's all day school) in Midtown. Ask about teacher turnover. Put your name down if you can even if there is a waitlist. You can always find a babysitter for a few months while you wait. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 06:52 AM Flag
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lovealot preschool on the lower east side. not near city hall, but it's right off the J/M/Z Essex street stop. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Thanks! Could you tell me what they charge? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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DO NOT APPLY TO LOVEALOT. THEY ARE IN SERIOUS FINANCIAL TROUBLE. THEY ARE NOT PAYING THEIR TEACHERS ON THE BOOKS AND PAYCHECKS ARE BOUNCING! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 06:40 AM Flag
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YMCA Vanderbilt if you are only thinking about getting pregnant [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:51 PM Flag
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fed kids is supposed to be great but long wait list - [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:07 AM Flag
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I'm not sure that's true anymore--2 friends of mine recently found spots for their kids there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:08 AM Flag
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Trinity Preschool. Next to Trinity Church downtown [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:10 AM Flag
[ - ] Unveiled bragging attempt: NEJM has an article about how montessori kids are 'wired' in their thinking, thus allowing them to problem solve more efficiently, retain info more accurately, etc 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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link? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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i am going to try to find a link.. i read it the old amish way [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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http://www.sciencemag.org.proxy.lib.umich.edu/cgi/content/full/313/5795/1893 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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why are you bragging? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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because i am a montessori kid, so are dcs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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ditto to that, sister! I think it is a great (but not the only) learning environment. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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i know i would not be the same person without it. i know that beyond a doubt [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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I wish! I was a Montessori kid, the only thing it seemed to wire in me is rigidity. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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Just went online to find it and it is not appearing. Do you know the issue date? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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i don't have the hardcopy anywhere near me.. i am trying to find it on our university library site as we speak.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:11 PM Flag
[ - ] Anyone on south beach? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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more or less. gest. diabetes diet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Me. Lost 35 pounds so far, 6 more to go. 7 months on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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after the first two weeks, can you eat fruit, yogurt,etc? do you stray off it much? (congrats btw!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Thanks! Yes--you add by complex carbs. I eat 3-4 servings of carbs a day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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^^^have not strayed once, but haven't felt the need. I've tailored it so I eat only what I really like. Pizza with whole wheat crust/low fat mozz/veggies. Sweet pototos with sour cream. Ceasar salads with grilled chicken. South Beach chocolate granola bars, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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you go girl. trying to get motivated here, would love to lose 30-35. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:14 PM Flag
[ - ] Is it normal for a baby to cry/scream with an ear infection? Sorry about the double post but i can't find my initial frickin post. 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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New York City 05.22.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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yes. inconsolably. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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big time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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yes, totally normal. go to ped. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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OP: i went to ped and she gave me amoxicillan. gave him a dose and more of tylenol but i've never seen him cry like this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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He is misearable and lying down is worse. I found motrin works better for ear infection pain than tylenol. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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Oh yes, it hurts so much. :( Try a warm, wet washcloth held to the ear. I've also heard about a tube sock filled with salt and microwaved until warm. As much Motrin as he'll tolerate, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:13 PM Flag
[ - ] A Chinese policewoman helped save the lives of nine babies by breast-feeding them after they were orphaned or separated from their mothers as a result of the May 12 earthquake. 10 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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wow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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that's amazing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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ew [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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the onlt thing that is disgusting here is your response. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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Cool. Those poor babies and mothers. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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She must have been EXHAUSTED. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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Ha. I remember me with one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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Most people with twins find it pretty tiring. Nine! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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did you just make that up? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:22 PM Flag
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I never read any specific accounts but I had heard similar stories related to Hurricane Katrina. That is incredible and I find it to be a very moving example of what humans are capable of. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:34 PM Flag
[ - ] I found out 2 wks ago that I have herpes simplex 2 (I hate saying genital herpes). My dh and I both went to the dr and she sort of reassured us that I could have been carrying thsi around dormant from before we were together- stress brings it out often. My marriage is in total shambles though. Dh seems to not quite believe I'm faithful (and I am), we haven't had sex since the outbreak a month ago and we barely talk. I try and try to talk but he won't. WWYD? 31 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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weren't you tested for the full battery of STDs when you were pg? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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apparently they don't always test for herpes depending on the state- I was in CT [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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i thought that was standard, because it affects the birth. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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How did you find out - specifically. Your first outbreak comes with certain symptoms you will not get otherwise [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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The one sore is on the side of my buttock. I had pain in my leg, swollen lymph node in my groin, headache, fatigue. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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yup that sounds like a first outbreak. Is your DH symptomless and/or has he been tested? He may well have given it to you as I believe it is much more likely to be dormant in the male. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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pp: isn't it part of a prenatal screening? don't they need to know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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^i'd love to get an answer from someone who knows. I guess it was just my assumption that it is part of the normal battery of tests... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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me too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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the dr said she could test him fot the antibodies but that would not necessarily show that he's infected- just that he'd been exposed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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how does he know he didn't give it to you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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I'm taking his word [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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...uh.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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np: He may not know he has it. Men typically get far fewer outbreaks and they are usually milder too [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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ITA - he could have passed it onto you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 05.22.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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ITA. He probably gave it to you and now has to act all mad. Sounds like my dh. He cheated on me repeatedly, yet now is convinced that I have/am cheating on him and is making my life living hell. [