UrbanBaby

05.23.08, 08:41 AM General Topics
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I posted the other day about seeing a picture of a friend of the guy I have been dating and the friend was the guy who date raped me 11 years ago. I wanted to follow up. I saw the guy I've been dating last night and I told him the entire story. His first reaction was sheer shock over what I told him and he held me as I talked to him. He told me that his friend had complained a long time back that "some woman backed out of sex and accused him of rape after leading him on" and he found the story a bit overblown and thought his friend was making something up or not being totally truthful. As he talked he got more and more angry at the friend and told me that he didn't know how he could see this friend again that he was so angry. He then told me how much he cared for me and saw a future with me. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 05.23.08, 08:41 AM Flag

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what are you trying to say? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:42 AM Flag

I wanted to follow up to my post from the other day [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:42 AM Flag

what did he then tell you? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:43 AM Flag

He was getting more angry at his friend and he was telling me how he saw a future with me. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:44 AM Flag

That's wonderful!! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:45 AM Flag

Thank you. I was so worried to tell him last night since I do care for him too and was worried he'd take his friend's side in this. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:47 AM Flag

I love when people exceed our expectations. GL!! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:49 AM Flag

I know, I was so thrilled when it happened, I was so worried going in to it. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:53 AM Flag

sounds like she's coming back to give an update, relax. OP -- i'm glad things had a goodoutcome [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:43 AM Flag

Thank you. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:43 AM Flag

and.............watch [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 08:42 AM Flag

really happy he understood your side and glad its working out for you. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag

Thank you.....he wants to punch his friend for me [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:04 AM Flag

i am so happy for you. i was the poster who said tell him about the rape first before telling about his friend because i was worried he would take the friend's side. i am so happy for you that it worked out and he believed you immediately. he sounds like a keeper!!!! and you definitely deserve a good man after everything you've been through! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:10 AM Flag

so is he going to cut this guy out of his life forever? out him to his friends? (this gets my vote) [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:17 AM Flag

he'll have to if he and OP end up together. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:19 AM Flag

np: (post was truncated.) "...so angry. He then told me how much he cared for me and saw a future with me." [ Reply | More

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General Topics 05.23.08, 09:24 AM Flag