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06.10.20, 22:42 PM General Topics
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I wish someone would’ve told me at 24 to stay away from dh. He’s such an idiot. He just shows me a video of some woman talking some conspiracy theory nonsense about coronavirus being planned. He’s already been furloughed and now my company is talking about potential furloughs so I’m scared to death about this. And this man wants to show me this video. I swear I want to just scream. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.10.20, 10:42 PM Flag
 

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Is this the first and only indication that your POVs differ, or has this been going on your whole relationship? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:21 PM Flag
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Op: I feel like the older we got, the more I noticed how different we are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:29 PM Flag
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This happens. People also change/grow (which is a good thing), but sometimes in different directions. What you both valued at 24 isn't the same at 44. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:32 PM Flag
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Op: we’ve grown apart... what I found interesting and exciting about him at 24 is annoying now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:26 AM Flag
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Has he been tipped over into some sort of mental illness by all the current stress? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:23 PM Flag
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Op: no....he’s into conspiracy theories and this is another one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:30 PM Flag
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OR: Yikes. That's no bueno. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:46 PM Flag
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well after staying cooped up with DH for 3 months now I want to split up too. I realize now he has no ambition, acts like a dick towards his staff, yells at our kids, and plays way too many video games on his phone. if he could just evaporate... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:36 PM Flag
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np. My DH also plays a lot of video games. Recently, we moved closer to parents, so we have more time to ourselves. he's taken up hobbies and is a totally different person. I now see his video game playing in a new light--it was a small way to carve time for himself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:49 PM Flag
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I feel sad for you. Maybe read some self-help/ couples books? Do some exercises to try to remember how you fell in love with him? Try to ask for space (in the same apartment) for a couple of days? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.10.20, 11:40 PM Flag
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Op: that’s what I need to recharge - some alone time. I don’t get it here in this apt. Im going nonstop all the time. Cooking in between meetings. I have an only dc and she’s literally with me the entire day. I love spending all this time with her but I need a break. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:29 AM Flag
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That would irk me. At the same time, I can't imagine who wouldn't begin to irk me in points after 15 years together, especially in high stress times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:23 AM Flag
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How old is DD? Consider a separation? Is he a good Dad? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.11.20, 12:41 AM Flag
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