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09.08.19, 01:57 AM General Topics
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DH lectures me a lot. Today he spoke for 16 minutes straight about something he didn't want me to do (I timed it), without stopping. If I try to walk away, he follows me and keeps talking, saying I can't end the "conversation". Anyone else's DH like this? What to do? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 01:57 AM Flag
 

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Sounds like you're stone walling, and also being passive aggressive. You can't change others, only yourself, so I guess go to counselling and task the therapist to help yourself be assertive? kind? respectful? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 02:43 AM Flag
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just stand up for yourself. tell him that he's hurting your feelings because he doesn't respect your choices and you simply don't want to hear his lecture anymore. say everything calmly. leave the house if necessary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 03:07 AM Flag
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What was the topic. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 03:23 AM Flag
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This. That makes a big difference. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 09:21 AM Flag
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OP sounds like the same poster as this MP topic: http://www.urbanbaby.com/topics/55924940 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 01:24 PM Flag
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My dh tries to end discussions when he gets an answer he doesn’t want to hear, no matter how grounded in fact it is. Maybe your dh feels the same way. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 01:59 PM Flag
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Are you much younger than him? 10+ years [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 09.08.19, 02:48 PM Flag
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