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06.04.08, 11:09 AM New York City
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A hot, successful single, late-30's-ish Jewish guy in NYC is a) secretly gay; b) waiting for a supermodel; c) sleeping around; d) socially inept or e) probably has a girlfriend you don't know about. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.04.08, 11:09 AM Flag
 

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c and e [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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All of the above. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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And yet we never have this poll for a hot successful single (any religion) woman... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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ditto. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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you want to date him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:10 AM Flag
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I am married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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why do you ask [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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I'm just dumbfounded by this guy. I don't get it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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who is he? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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Oh, why let me tell you his name! *snort* [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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how do you know him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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IB [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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DH was like this when we met [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:11 AM Flag
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And which of the above choices was he? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:12 AM Flag
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Kinda C.....but mainly he had a fiancee dump him 3 weeks before the wedding when he was 28 and he spent about 10 years sleeping around and a little guarded about getting engaged again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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Well then you were no rebound... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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No definatly not [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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You got lucky. =) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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DH is great....he's 44 now, I am 33 and he's a great husband and father and it worked out in the end for all of us. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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Oh so wait a minute. You left out the part where you are a hottie and was totally young when he met you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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I was 27 when we met and he was 38, we dated about 6 months before he proposed adn married 6 months after that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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...and you are a full-on hottie. Right? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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I am good looking for not a full on hottie.....we met through mutual friends at a dinner party [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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You have good friends. I had to go to all the Jewish dating events. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:19 AM Flag
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Oh I went to those too and some friends knew both of us and saw that we were both single and both would make a good match, so they invited us over and we had no clue it was a set up until we got there and saw we were the only single people there! DH walked me home and we were laughing the entire way over the set up and he kissed me in front of my building and I knew then and there that he was the one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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That is so cute! What kind of work does he do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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He is a lawyer. We had our first formal date the next night and it just went from there. The first week, we went out every night and slept together one week after we met. Abotu 2 weeks after we met, I had to get my widsom teeth out and DH brought me home and stayed with me and made my life so easy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:25 AM Flag
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Woah - that is kind of intense. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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It all took off very quickly and I have no regrets. Every year we take the original couple out to dinner on the anniversary of us meeting to thank them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:30 AM Flag
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Have you thought of setting him up? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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No, I like to pretend he's all mine. No seriously. He won't give me the time of day. But he knows I have a work crush on him. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:14 AM Flag
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Do you know if he dates at all? How about having a wokr party at home and invite him and a guest? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:15 AM Flag
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Um - this is all fantasy - you realize that, right? This is WORK. Not going to do anything stupid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:16 AM Flag
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And I am married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:17 AM Flag
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I am kidding! My guess is he's sleeping around or he has a girlfriend he doesn't want to make public at work [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:19 AM Flag
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Probably true. I would sleep around if I were him ... lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:19 AM Flag
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But - if I were the girlfriend - I would be kicking his ass around for not proposing already. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:20 AM Flag
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Depends how far along they are [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:22 AM Flag
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You think? I'd start the ass-kicking around the 3rd date. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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LOL....that's too early! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:23 AM Flag
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Oh no. Nope. You never let a good one go. Either that or play extremely hard to get. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:24 AM Flag
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You sleep wtih him on the 3rd date to make sure he doesn't dump you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:25 AM Flag
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No, no. I kept DH waiting for 3 months. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:28 AM Flag
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How old were each of you? How did DH handle it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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I was 27, he was 31 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:29 AM Flag
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How did DH handle the wait? How did you go during that time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:31 AM Flag
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How hot is he? I am single and need a hot guy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:21 AM Flag
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Honey, we ALL need a hot guy...lol. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:22 AM Flag
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f) he spends all his time on jdate doing dirty talk [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:32 AM Flag
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people do this? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 11:34 AM Flag
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YEAH BABY - GIVE IT TO ME WITH LOX! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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the ones I know I believe to be a or d [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 12:17 PM Flag
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oohh- that's bad. If it's a I think he is still in the closet. Way, way in there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Is he thin and neat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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will sleep and date around refusing to commit until he realizes that he is verging on old leacherdom. And then he'll marry whoever he is dating at the time [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:34 PM Flag
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