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06.04.08, 06:39 AM General Topics
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My divorce with ex wasnt nasty at all. We didn't use lawyers. We just did it and figured it out. I have the kids about 85% of the time..he just sent me a message and said that if my boyfriend ever moves in he isn't paying me shit and he want the kids 5 days a week. Can he do that? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:39 AM Flag
 

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no. the most he could get is 50/50 custody. why would you have your boyfriend move in? sounds unstable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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op--I'm not sure how it sounds unstable from my post bc it's not. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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sorry--I mean for your kids. I would not want a "girlfriend" to move in wih ex-dh. Would prefer them to be married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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op--not unstable for them either. they love him. we will be together forever--we will not be getting married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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okay, but I would think dh would have some legal right to have a say in having an unmarried man living with his kids. why not just marry? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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I don't think so. He can't tell her who can live in her house-especially if this guy is not a serial killer. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:47 AM Flag
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I guess I'm wrong then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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He can say that. At that point, I would say, lawyers will need to get involved. (So you guys have no signed agreement?) [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:43 AM Flag
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op--yes..we have a signed agreement [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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then he is probably screwed. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:44 AM Flag
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Is there any reason ex would have a point on your boyfriend? I assume it must be a long term relationship if you are considering moving in with him. Are you planning on marrying him? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:45 AM Flag
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op--well he just doesnt like him. boyfriend is great. great to me. great to the the kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.04.08, 06:46 AM Flag
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he can say whatever he wants. A lawyer will be the one to make sure he doesn't get whatever he wants ! [ Reply | More ]
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