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06.03.08, 10:30 AM General Topics
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in-laws gave us 30 thousand for a down payment (it was very nice and we are very grateful) but the mother-in-law is telling everyone they bought out apt for us [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:30 AM Flag
 

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and? they kind of did. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:32 AM Flag
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so? they gave you the means to buy it. w/o them- no purchase, right? get over yourself [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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yes, we could have, didnt use their money in the end [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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so you gave it back to her? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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no, they said to put it, in ds college account [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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what a horrible woman. tries to help w/ dp, instead winds up paying for college. poor you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:46 AM Flag
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np you dont sound very smart, bc none of that sounds true [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:48 AM Flag
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if someone gave me 30K for ds college, I'd let them say they built our house with their bare hands. who the fuck cares what IL's friends think? You accepted a huge gift. Give it back if you dont like what she is saying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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wait--- so they DID NOT give you $30k? you just contradicted your OP. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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reading between the lines: you pocketed the $30K earmarked gift, didn't tell her that you did it, now you're annoyed with her? I think you have some kind of guilt projection thing going on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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you dont read well between the lines, read above [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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That would make me kind of crazy too. As if you didn't lift a finger! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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you should have stopped at the grateful and nice part. that's all that's appropriate to feel here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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ditto!!!!!!!!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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DH and I worked very hard to buy the apt, and i will take some credit [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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that would annoy me. giving someone part of a down payment vs paying for an entire apt is a totally different thing [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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op thank you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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who is she telling? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.03.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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